[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40247942]i saw 3 minutes of a person's life and now i know everything about them aint i smart?!
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I saw a women completely disregarding the safety of her child to fight another and i think they're a bad mother your right i can't judge.
What the fuck is wrong with you?
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40247942]i saw 3 minutes of a person's life and now i know everything about them aint i smart?![/QUOTE]
I saw her throwing a child into stranger's lap because she cares more about having a fight. That's the only information I got about her from that 3 minutes and the only one I'm bringing up. I don't know anything else about that person except for the fact that she cares more about a fight than about safety of her child.
I'm pretty sure that if there was 10 second long vid of a guy punching a woman you'd have all kinds of opinions about him, knowing exactly what he is and you'd get fucking furious if someone suggested it was a one time thing / mistake.
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40247994]also you said it's a crime if a woman flirts with you but doesn't fuck you so yeah you're a bad person[/QUOTE]
Nah, there was a 3 page long argument that in a specific cause that the guy was talking about, the word "fraud" could be used, although poorly. As a manner of speech, not in legal terms.
[QUOTE=T2L_Goose;40247989]You see a post by a user criticizing a mom for throwing her baby in order to engage in a fight. You then equate him to a women beater. You then call him judgmental with no basis.
Can you smell the irony yet?[/QUOTE]
i'm saying it's a stupid mindset, not that he is stupid lol
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[QUOTE=Silly Sil;40248000]I saw her throwing a child into stranger's lap because she cares more about having a fight. That's the only information I got about her from that 3 minutes and the only one I'm bringing up. I don't know anything else about that person except for the fact that she cares more about a fight than about safety of her child.[/QUOTE]
in that 3 minute video, that was the case, yep. you figured her out, great job.
[editline]11th April 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=jackattack;40247996]I saw a women completely disregarding the safety of her child to fight another and i think they're a bad mother your right i can't judge.
What the fuck is wrong with you?[/QUOTE]
I asked first
wow real straight priorities there. i feel really sorry that whatever her circumstance is drove her to make such heedless and irresponsible decisions, speaks volumes of her capabilities and/or mindset as a parent
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40248001]i'm saying it's a stupid mindset, not that he is stupid lol
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My point is that you're using the same judgmental, no basis mindset.
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40248001]in that 3 minute video, that was the case, yep. you figured her out, great job.[/QUOTE]
So because we don't see any more, you've gonna assume she never did it again right?
Wrong. You either care more about your child or about having a fight. You can't fucking mistake those priorities or ignore them, just that one time. You are delusional.
And again: I'm pretty sure that if there was 10 second long vid of a guy punching a woman you'd have all kinds of opinions about him, knowing exactly what he is and you'd get fucking furious if someone suggested it was a one time thing / mistake.
[QUOTE=Silly Sil;40248057]So because we don't see any more, you've gonna assume she never did it again right?
Wrong. You either care more about your child or about having a fight. You can't fucking mistake those priorities or ignore them, just that one time. You are delusional.
And again: I'm pretty sure that if there was 10 second long vid of a guy punching a woman you'd have all kinds of opinions about him, knowing exactly what he is and you'd get fucking furious if someone suggested it was a one time thing / mistake.[/QUOTE]
I'd say he was an asshole or whatever but not say that he doesn't deserve to ever be with a woman again.
[QUOTE=T2L_Goose;40248036]My point is that you're using the same judgmental, no basis mindset.[/QUOTE]
I'm not making a greater judgement about him as a person, I'm saying using the mindset which he is using right now in this moment and which he is continuing to use is bad
[editline]11th April 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Silly Sil;40248057]So because we don't see any more, you've gonna assume she never did it again right?
Wrong. You either care more about your child or about having a fight. You can't fucking mistake those priorities or ignore them, just that one time. You are delusional.
And again: I'm pretty sure that if there was 10 second long vid of a guy punching a woman you'd have all kinds of opinions about him, knowing exactly what he is and you'd get fucking furious if someone suggested it was a one time thing / mistake.[/QUOTE]
Look at your post. Look at what you're saying. What do you mean "wrong." Ask yourself seriously, how do you KNOW that you're right, on what basis have you come to the factual conclusion that this will happen "many more times." You can have an opinion on the matter, but realize it is informed by such little information that it is incredibly unlikely to be in any way accurate. You're even making overbearing judgements about me based on text posts on the internet.
[editline]11th April 2013[/editline]
i pray you're not for the death sentence and that you never end up on any jury
why can't we all just be friends
People have moments of weakness and no one is perfect. The reason why this begs the question of whether she's fit to be a mother or not is because it's clear she lets anger cloud her judgment, leading her to do things she's maybe not aware of. It doesn't make her a bad person, but it makes her dangerous to her own child until she gets it under control. We can't make wild speculations whether this has happened in the past or not, but since we have now seen it happen, it begs the question of whether or not the mother will let anger control her again, causing her to put her child into a dangerous situation.
What happened to the kid in the video isn't inherently dangerous. The guy caught the kid and he was fine, but what if he didn't? What if she tossed the kid a little too hard and to the right, and the kid smacked into the poll? Freak accidents happen. How many shows of character like this should be one too many?
[QUOTE=BellyButton;40248137]why can't we all just be friends[/QUOTE]
Because this is facepunch
[QUOTE=T2L_Goose;40248160]People have moments of weakness and no one is perfect. The reason why this begs the question of whether she's fit to be a mother or not is because it's clear she lets anger cloud her judgment, leading her to do things she's maybe not aware of. It doesn't make her a bad person, but it makes her dangerous to her own child until she gets it under control. We can't make wild speculations whether this has happened in the past or not, but since we have now seen it happen, it begs the question of whether or not the mother will let anger control her again, causing her to put her child into a dangerous situation.
What happened to the kid in the video isn't inherently dangerous. The guy caught the kid and he was fine, but what if he didn't? What if she tossed the kid a little too hard and to the right, and the kid smacked into the poll? Freak accidents happen. How many shows of character like this should be one too many?[/QUOTE]
my point is none of the people here are in any way fit to be or in a place where they could be the judge of that. It may beg the question but it is not one you get to answer, you have no say in the matter.
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40248202]my point is none of the people here are in any way fit to be or in a place where they could be the judge of that. It may beg the question but it is not one you get to answer, you have no say in the matter.[/QUOTE]
who fucking cares it's a video on the internet
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40248089]Look at your post. Look at what you're saying. What do you mean "wrong." [/QUOTE]
By "wrong" I mean that it's WRONG to ASSUME that she'll never do it again. It says so in my post. Read it.
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40248089]Ask yourself seriously, how do you KNOW that you're right, on what basis have you come to the factual conclusion that this will happen "many more times." You can have an opinion on the matter, but realize it is informed by such little information that it is incredibly unlikely to be in any way accurate. [/QUOTE]
"You either care more about your child or about having a fight. You can't fucking mistake those priorities or ignore them, just that one time." It says so in my post. Read it.
Also never in my post I used "many more times". Dumb assumption #4566. I said she cares more about a fight than her child.
And this information is accurate. I have video proof of that.
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40248089]You're even making overbearing judgements about me based on text posts on the internet.[/QUOTE]
Said by a guy who said I'm a bad person, that I'm disgusting, that I hate women, think they owe me sex after a date, and probably more but I don't really feel like reading all your old posts again, the stupidity of your present ones is testing my tolerance already.
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40248089]i pray you're not for the death sentence and that you never end up on any jury[/QUOTE]
I pray you'll never work in social service or else a mother who got high and put her child in a microwave would be allowed to raise her other children without supervision because "everybody makes mistakes".
hold my baby im gon beat the shit out of roadofgirl
HOLD MY BABY
[QUOTE=johnsten;40248266]who fucking cares it's a video on the internet[/QUOTE]
a friend of mine got perma'd for saying this in the past!
[editline]11th April 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Silly Sil;40248283]By "wrong" I mean that it's WRONG to ASSUME that she'll never do it again. It says so in my post. Read it.
"You either care more about your child or about having a fight. You can't fucking mistake those priorities or ignore them, just that one time." It says so in my post. Read it.
Also never in my post I used "many more times". Dumb assumption #4566. I said she cares more about a fight than her child.
And this information is accurate. I have video proof of that.
Said by a guy who said I'm a bad person, that I'm disgusting, that I hate women, think they owe me sex after a date, and probably more but I don't really feel like reading all your old posts again, the stupidity of your present ones is testing my tolerance already.
I pray you'll never work in social service or else a mother who got high and put her child in a microwave would be allowed to raise her other children without supervision because "everybody makes mistakes".[/QUOTE]
yeah those are all very reasonable statements
[QUOTE=T2L_Goose;40248311]hold my baby im gon beat the shit out of roadofgirl
HOLD MY BABY[/QUOTE]
[url=http://i.imgur.com/jj3hLgV.gif]Sure I can hold it for you.[/url]
Someone should have taken the baby so she wouldn't have to get caught in the middle of that.
And then turn her over to child protective services.
Very irresponsible of her I'd say. I wonder how the kid will feel when they grow up and if they see this video.
[QUOTE=RoadOfGirl;40248336]yeah those are all very reasonable statements[/QUOTE]
I lose, he said I'm wrong.
It's okay to throw an inanimate object in a fit of rage, my old alarm clock's life ended in many pieces for that reason alone
It's not okay to throw a child
[QUOTE=Shadaez;40246048]It wasn't even that bad, you guys are overreacting.
edit: should mention I was referring to people saying she deserves to be [i]beat[/i] for this or that she doesnt deserve to be a parent. It's one mistake that I'm sure she regrets.[/QUOTE]
I'm kind of late here but, why does it seem like every thread you go into you start shit like this? You seem to "rationalize" things in threads like this to seem different or cool. Like really, this woman just slung her child to a stranger on the bus to fight over the disrespect of her child. I can agree, I expected much more of a throw, but still.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;40248521]It's okay to throw an inanimate object in a fit of rage, my old alarm clock's life ended in many pieces for that reason alone[/QUOTE]
To be honest throwing anything is pretty much a bad idea; that's why I'm in jail.
[QUOTE=Patriarch;40248547]To be honest throwing anything is pretty much a bad idea; that's why I'm in jail.[/QUOTE]
How are you posting from jail
And yeah throwing stuff at other people's stuff generally isn't fine, throw stuff at your own stuff
Will someone please come up with a good way to enforce sterilization on people like this.
Humanity is circling the drain.
[QUOTE=Mr Uber Ostrich;40248537]I'm kind of late here but, why does it seem like every thread you go into you start shit like this? You seem to "rationalize" things in threads like this to seem different or cool. Like really, this woman just slung her child to a stranger on the bus to fight over the disrespect of her child. I can agree, I expected much more of a throw, but still.[/QUOTE]
And I hate how people assume I'm just trolling or something because I share my point of view. I do not feel the severity of the 'throw' was as bad as the reactions made me think it would have been. I did not say what she did wasn't bad. She was being a bad mother in that moment. The child is better off with a somewhat bad parent who makes mistakes like this occasionally than it would be in foster care. Having a bad mother is better than having none.
[editline]11th April 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Tw34k;40248799]Will someone please come up with a good way to enforce sterilization on people like this.
Humanity is circling the drain.[/QUOTE]
Literally supports eugenics.
She tossed her child face first at an empty seat without even looking, if that person had not caught him/her and held on to the child they could have been seriously injured.
We need Judge Dredd. He'd know what to do :wink:
[QUOTE=Shadaez;40248863]And I hate how people assume I'm just trolling or something because I share my point of view. I do not feel the severity of the 'throw' was as bad as the reactions made me think it would have been. I did not say what she did wasn't bad. She was being a bad mother in that moment. The child is better off with a somewhat bad parent who makes mistakes like this occasionally than it would be in foster care. Having a bad mother is better than having none.[/QUOTE]
Yo if you kill someone, you're a murderer and have a blatent disregard for human life. But only for a moment right?
If you throw your baby to get into a petty fight, you're only a bad parent, but only for a moment right?
If you can't draw any parallels from this, it's pretty obvious both have bad long term effects on lives.
[QUOTE=Shadaez;40247897]It warrants an investigation but this single act shouldn't disqualify her from being a mother.[/QUOTE] Yeah it should since her behavior can endanger the kids' well being, she's going to be a horrible role model for the kid when it grows up provided it doesn't end up seriously injured one day.
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