• Father Gives His Nephew An Old School Azz Whoopin For Acting Hard On Facebook On Facebook
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[QUOTE=Xolo;27287416]You guys are more ass-backwards about more things than I can count. Homophobic, pro child-beating, socialist-esque communities are great, huh?[/QUOTE] Why don't you go make a ban me.
[QUOTE=prop_dynamic;27300778]I didn't want to reply, but it seems we have a bunch of retards who don't know the first thing about parenting. Let me get you a decent parenting list: Now if you look at point 6, you might understand the point I'm making. Does it seem like the man in the video hates the kid? No he doesn't. He is doing this out of love. If you don't understand that you are a bad parent. Good day.[/QUOTE] Yeah I guess your parenting list found from google overrides the opinion of panels of psychology experts huh lmao
[QUOTE=prop_dynamic;27300778]Does it seem like the man in the video hates the kid? No he doesn't. He is doing this out of love. [/QUOTE] so i'm sorry i didn't know motive made mental illness invalid
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300800]Yeah I guess your parenting list found from google overrides the opinion of panels of psychology experts huh lmao[/QUOTE] Please do inform me if you have a peer panel review you can fap to that shows you how the kid got this way :).
Reposting this for new page in case z0nk3d uses the "didn't see it" excuse [QUOTE=z0nk3d;27300759]Because rape is way more aggravating that spanking. Spanking is a way like another to teach a kid something. Sure it's extreme and shouldn't be used lightly, yet in some specific cases, it's the only way to make yourself clear. Rape has absolutely no advantage, no purpose, no goal. It's just an act of power.[/QUOTE] OK, I say that I use rape as a tool to teach [i]my[/i] kid. They do something wrong, immediate reprimand by rough rape. Does that make it OK? [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=prop_dynamic;27300814]Please do inform me if you have a peer panel review you can fap to that shows you how the kid got this way :).[/QUOTE] What are you talking about
[QUOTE=prop_dynamic;27300814]Please do inform me if you have a peer panel review you can fap to that shows you how the kid got this way :).[/QUOTE] man you just said if he does it with love it makes it better how the fuck can you criticize us
xolo i was on page two and saw you arguing to shit and went on page six to see that you're still here how about you go away and let people believe what they want to
If I mutilate and torture my kid, as long as I still love them it's OK. Thanks for showing me the way to proper parenting, dynamic.
[QUOTE=thisispain;27300739]lol that's because we get a sneak peak via your posts or do you not believe in psycho-analysis[/QUOTE] So apparently you believe you are immune to the psycho-analysis you claim to use. The same method is perfectly usable on you, and seeing the way you are posting, I can tell several things about you : - You hate other people's opinion, especially when they have arguments to defend them. - You write with no punctuation because you feel the urge of posting fast, just like something was going to happen while you were writing. - You add a lot of empty space between each line to give your posts more consistence, highlighting a need to give yourself more importance that what you actually have. - You can't bear it when people answer you back, somewhat pushing you into being a dick and insult people, in an open or more hidden way. - You are bound to misread people's answers so you can get more time to think and ignore their arguments or opinions. - When you are out of arguments, you use absurdity.
[QUOTE=TrulliLulli;27300837]xolo i was on page two and saw you arguing to shit and went on page six to see that you're still here how about you go away[/QUOTE] How about you quit sticking your nose outta this forum's bowels
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300790]Child abuse is when a guardian beats their child. Period. The motives don't matter.[/QUOTE] thats completely wrong [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=thisispain;27300783]what caning is even worse you know what happened to caning in europe? the people who used to get caned got in power and got rid of that shit as quick as possible[/QUOTE] thats just an example
[QUOTE=z0nk3d;27300846]So apparently you believe you are immune to the psycho-analysis you claim to use. The same method is perfectly usable on you, and seeing the way you are posting, I can tell several things about you : - You hate other people's opinion, especially when they have arguments to defend them. - You write with no punctuation because you feel the urge of posting fast, just like something was going to happen while you were writing. - You add a lot of empty space between each line to give your posts more consistence, highlighting a need to give yourself more importance that what you actually have. - You can't bear it when people answer you back, somewhat pushing you into being a dick and insult people, in an open or more hidden way. - You are bound to misread people's answers so you can get more time to think and ignore their arguments or opinions.[/QUOTE] I think you're pulling that out of your ass tbh [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Matrix374;27300852]thats completely wrong [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] thats just a example[/QUOTE] Definition of child abuse as defined by the Child Welfare Society "Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker, which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse, or exploitation, or an act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm" [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] Spanking causes serious emotional harm, it falls under that category SORRY
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300847]How about you quit sticking your nose outta this forum's bowels[/QUOTE] "If I mutilate and torture my kid, as long as I still love them it's OK. Thanks for showing me the way to proper parenting, dynamic." i got spanked it didn't do me any harm it didnt mutilate me either anyways i'll leave you nerdes to argue
Have you ever been spanked during your childhood Xolo ? I did, and I believe a lot of other people here did (just like the above poster). I didn't harm me in any way, and just gave me the lesson I was supposed to learn. In my case, it was about disrespecting other people. Instead of going into the stupid speech "don't do to people what you don't want them to do to you", my father just said "If you insult someone, you will just get hurt. I will show you how you will feel", followed by a big spank right on the back on my head, stunning me for a second or two. This was enough to convince me of respecting people, because I understood you never knew what could happen to you if you didn't. Yet I never, ever, had any psychological trauma. I still love my father, I haven't killed anyone, I haven't set anything on fire, and I haven't sheltered myself in a small psychological shell or whatsoever.
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[QUOTE=Xolo;27300856]I think you're pulling that out of your ass tbh [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] Definition of child abuse as defined by the Child Welfare Society "Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker, which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse, or exploitation, or an act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm" [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] Spanking causes serious emotional harm, it falls under that category SORRY[/QUOTE] Spanking causes serious harm? REALLY??? you must be a huge wuss because if your child is a weakling who cant take a lot of pain you punish him a lil bit softer
[QUOTE=z0nk3d;27300882]Have you ever been spanked during your childhood Xolo ?[/QUOTE] Does not matter
yelling can cause emotional harm, not sure if you knew that [URL]http://www.examiner.com/early-childhood-parenting-in-riverside/more-harm-than-good-the-affects-of-yelling-at-children[/URL] referring to xolo^^
[QUOTE=Matrix374;27300889]Spanking causes serious harm? REALLY??? you must be a huge wuss because if your child is a weakling who cant take a lot of pain you punish him a lil beat softer[/QUOTE] Did you miss the ten peer-reviewed psychological papers stating spanking causes severe psychological problems or do you not have the foresight to look beyond the immediate problem (in spanking's case, pain) [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Sleepy Head;27300896]yelling can cause emotional harm, not sure if you knew that [url]http://www.examiner.com/early-childhood-parenting-in-riverside/more-harm-than-good-the-affects-of-yelling-at-children[/url][/QUOTE] Not condoning yelling at kids, either even though that's not a peer-reviewed study
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300898]Did you miss the ten peer-reviewed psychological papers stating spanking causes severe psychological problems or do you not have the foresight to look beyond the immediate problem (in spanking's case, pain) [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] Not condoning yelling at kids, either even though that's not a peer-reviewed study[/QUOTE] peer review this, peer review that. the author knows more about parenting than you do, and has professional experience with dealing with children. and how else are you to discipline a child without spanking, and now yelling? what left is there to do to punish?
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300898]Did you miss the ten peer-reviewed psychological papers stating spanking causes severe psychological problems or do you not have the foresight to look beyond the immediate problem (in spanking's case, pain) [editline]9th January 2011[/editline] Not condoning yelling at kids, either even though that's not a peer-reviewed study[/QUOTE] you do know the objective of spanking is to make sure your child does not do that in the future. And spanking causing psychological damage usually happens if your parents fail at parenting in the first place
[QUOTE=Sleepy Head;27300930]peer review this, peer review that. the author knows more about parenting than you do, and has professional experience with dealing with children. and how else are you to discipline a child without spanking, and now yelling? what left is there to do to punish?[/QUOTE] Uh, I can do an argument from authority too. The authors of all ten previously mentioned psychological papers written by psychology/child rearing doctorates, revealed by panels of 100+ psychology/child rearing doctorates know more about psychology/parenting than your one author with no sources or studies to back her up. By the way, if you really think screaming and beating your child are the only forms of discipline, your credibility is gone.
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300891]Does not matter[/QUOTE] Yes it does. If you actually've been spanked you might have a little experience about it. Also, there is a single proof spanking is not turning people into empty nutshells or serial killers. It only stopped being used frequently one century ago, or even less.
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300842]If I mutilate and torture my kid, as long as I still love them it's OK. Thanks for showing me the way to proper parenting, dynamic.[/QUOTE] Now you are just putting words in my mouth. You know what I mean, but you just do everything to make your point. If you read for once, it said [b]reasonable[/b] punishment, not torture. There is also a difference between punishing someone and torturing them. But that is not the point.
[QUOTE=Sleepy Head;27300930]peer review this, peer review that. the author knows more about parenting than you do, and has professional experience with dealing with children. and how else are you to discipline a child without spanking, and now yelling? what left is there to do to punish?[/QUOTE] You can make them stand on one leg for 10 minutes. You can make them write a page about why what they did was wrong. You can make them drink a gallon of milk. Lots of things.
[QUOTE=Matrix374;27300949]you do know the objective of spanking is to make sure your child does not do that in the future. And spanking causing psychological damage usually happens if your parents fail at parenting in the first place[/QUOTE] Spanking causes psychological damage period, regardless of circumstances, according to my sources
[QUOTE=gamefreek76;27300964]You can make them stand on one leg for 10 minutes. You can make them write a page about why what they did was wrong. You can make them drink a gallon of milk. Lots of things.[/QUOTE] i would consider a lot of those choices as abuse
[QUOTE=prop_dynamic;27300963]Now you are just putting words in my mouth. You know what I mean, but you just do everything to make your point. If you read for once, it said [b]reasonable[/b] punishment, not torture. There is also a difference between punishing someone and torturing them. But that is not the point.[/QUOTE] I'd say, since spanking causes psychological damage including anxiety and slant towards violence it's not reasonable at all
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300965]Spanking causes psychological damage period, regardless of circumstances, according to my sources[/QUOTE] Not in all cases. I turned out fine, probably.
[QUOTE=Xolo;27300965]Spanking causes psychological damage period, regardless of circumstances, according to my sources[/QUOTE] according to YOUR sources you do not have any experience in being spanked now get out :colbert:
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