Super Friendly Social and Love Advice v10 - Don't send any TELEGRAMS. - General

Probably they found someone better, aren't that interested in you or anything. Don't worry man, just keep trying over and over again. I'm sure someone will eventually go through with you.

Yeah I am, just feels like shit when your thinking yourself " yea I made that move I wanted to for a long time " and then get ghosted

All the more reason to make such moves more often.

I had a bad period of not doing it for the past year I had massive acne outbreak( I even went on few dates with horrible acne and got ghosted aswell), so I went through Accutane treatment and my face is clear. And I have been trying, but no luck, but I won't give up lol.

If it's not too personal to ask, how was in uncovered?

Basically the tumor was (and is) partially blocking my colon, causing digestive issues. TMI version, I started having trouble passing stool, and only a little bit of material would come out along with some blood. I went to my primary care physician and he prescribed Prilosec and Laxitives. Nothing really changed, so I got a referral to a gastrointestinal specialist who scheduled a CT scan and a colonoscopy. The colonoscopy was what revealed the tumor.

Do you know why he prescribed Prilosec? What diagnosis did he suspect? I'm only a medical student, but with your symptoms, that really sounds like negligent behaviour on the part of your physician. For how long did you do that treatment before you got referred to a gastroenterologist?

It's a little fuzzy to me and I'm no medical expert but I'll do my best to relay what I remember. When I originally went to the doctor, it sounded like he suspected it was "increased acid production" combined with constipation. Or at least that's what I remember. He suggested that the bleeding could be because of hemorrhoids (which I have). When I visited, he told me to try that for two weeks and if it didn't get better he would automatically refer me to a GI. It sounded pretty reasonable to me. I originally cancelled the follow up because it got better (for like two days and it started again). I ended up calling and putting in the referral myself to save from having to go in for the follow up.

The fact that you have hemorrhoids makes it sound more reasonable, and it doesn't sound like it delayed the proper diagnosis too much. I don't wanna sit here and be too judgemental, considering I have the privilege of hindsight - I just brought it up because it sounded a bit suspect to me, and you really have a right to know. Either way, it's good that you're optimistic; surgery really can be a cure in many cases, and treatments are still getting better. As a side note, a couple of months ago I actually talked to a young patient with colorectal cancer (he had stage 4, sadly - I was just doing a check-up before surgery), and he told me that he felt better than ever before. He led an active life style (guy was fit as hell), travelled, went out with friends etc., and in general he just had a really positive attitude. He was there with his wife, and while I've no doubt that it must've been very hard for the both of them, I think it goes to show that not everything needs to stop just because cancer decides to fuck with you. I really hope everything works out for you, and your GF sounds like a great gal. Putting a ring on it might not be the worst idea, who knows. Best of luck, dude.

I think I've been shadowbanned on tinder :/ I've remade my account a few times now, most recently last night, and so far I've got zero likes. Not normal at all. Especially because my profile is definitely pretty good (at least according to people who've reviewed it) Kinda lame. Sucks because Tinder/Bumble is pretty much the only way I know to actually find dates.

You ought to remove a chunk of cells which don't know how to stop growing, and you ought to poison out of your system possible remnants. You are young, you can take it, and you will do it. And here is hoping in the near future immunotherapy becomes mainstream, T-cells are far better at killing specific cells than anything else.

Hope everyone is doing good in this thread, don't got much contribute, here's a feel good song that makes me feel good, maybe it'll make someone on here feel the funk. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KOuXGvBRmx4

Yesterday I went to a meet for this community I haven't really been involved with for over a year and had a good time catching up with people who still remembered me somehow and meeting all the new people who'd joined since Feels good to get out and be social for once

This post made genuinely me cry. Good luck my man, all the best from here.

I have no male friends besides my brothers, everyone are women and I don't understand what it's about me that gives these results. Do people think I'm homosexual or something. It's the same thing at work; all women talk to me but no men do. I'm really curious to know what causes this

Maybe try wearing clothes. On a serious note I've never heard of this before, so if you manage to find out I'm really interested. I think most guys have the opposite.

Literally me. The only guys I'm friends with happen to be gay. It's like I'm impossible to befriend unless you like dick - but none of them are interested in my dick

Would you say you look approachable? Smiling, dressed nicely, social, etc

I see myself as average except my terrible teeth so the smiling is out of the question. I do joke around and talk about emotional stuff, don't know if that's a women thing or not Maybe I've socialized with women so much my behavior has adapted to them, as if I talk like them. Difficult to say since I'm not that self-aware.

Is it bad that I feel like I need alone time when my girlfriend stays the night two nights in a row? I'm not sure I'm ready to live together.

ever since I transferred schools I’ve kind of been in the same boat, most of the people I’m friendly with are girls or gay guys. I think it’s because my major is more heavily female than male.

You can't control how you feel. Maybe you should talk to her about it if you think it might cause friction between the two of you.

I understand where you’re coming from, I definitely felt the same way in my prior relationship. I don’t think it’s that big of a problem though - if you guys lived together, you have to have your alone time. No one can stand being engaged with someone literally 24/7/365.

I've been dumped by the girl I was seeing, completely out of the blue. We haven't been seeing each other long, but we were connecting on a pretty good level. We were holding hands and kissing and such on the second date. On the third date we ended up at mine and did some pretty sexual stuff, but we did not go all the way. Then after that her tone in texts changed. Then she texted asking to meet up for lunch at the shopping centre, instead of dinner at hers as originally planned. I could tell she was about to dump me. Then she cancelled that lunch, and explained in the same text that she doesn't see me romantically and thinks it's best we "just don't see each other anymore". I'm pretty blindsided - I cannot for the life of me work out what's caused this. And I'm getting pretty self-conscious because a) the last thing we did was some sexual stuff, did I turn her off there? and b) I was ghosted by another girl earlier this year after a few dates without reason. I messaged this girl and asked for her address so I could post the books she lent me back to her, and asked if I did something wrong - she replied with an address (her work address, even though I've picked her up from her house before...) and ignored the question of what I did. Not looking for any advice here - just posting to clarify my thoughts and chronicle what happened if I ever look back at my posts. If I get an answer, I'll post an update.

I wish real people were easier to find. It's so damn hard finding people post college.

Yeheah thank God I'm in the perfect place and situation to do so! and have had trouble since I moved to Milan at the start of high school. And met nobody... I honestly don't understand this thought, as I definitely lack the foresight and experience. Why exactly? I just have had trouble with people my age and always had a better time with more mature people so I guess getting older would only help me

Hey guys, I kinda feel undeservedly smug right now. I just did the Canadian Forces Aptitude Test today, which is a test that weighs for 75% of your value as a potential candidate for the military. The test results are kept secret but afterwards a recruiter will meet with you to review your performance. Basically, after the test the recruiter told me that my results were excellent and that I'm officer material which blew me away because I kinda winged it. I'm really super fucking happy right now because that means if I can pass medical (big if, I have some medical issues and past drug usage) I'm basically guaranteed to get the trade I choose. For once in my life I alone took the initiative to try to do something that I find interesting (if only because of the new experience) and basically the most important step has been completed. To be fair I did take care to eat a good breakfast, take a shower and take a nap before going away for the test so I was physically feeling very well and calm and went with my gut for the answers. Even if it doesn't pan out, I think things are looking up? I'm probably going to get a job as a night watch security guard if I can't get in the military. We'll see.

Good luck! Here's the current thread: Military Chat & Questions Bunker

Thanks!

There's nothing negative about being "dumped" (I don't think you guys were together-together), you may have liked her but there was something about you she didn't like and that's not to say there's something wrong with you, it's all like a puzzle trying to fit together, there's a good chance it wasn't even you and something to do with her.