• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VIIII: I Don't Know Good Titles
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One of my good friends confessed to having feelings for me. I've entertained the thought before but I'd prefer to stay friends for a variety of reasons. I feel bad because she seems like she isn't taking it well but she still wants to talk to me like normal.
I just spent nearly two hours making out with a girl in my car. Not once did I get an erection But, on coming home, I discover my boxers are loaded with pre-cum. What gives? Is this the dreaded erectile dysfunction? I'm only in my twenties, please help
I'm gonna assume you haven't had sex before, so basically, I wouldn't worry about this too much. Everyone's member can get a little nervous. If it becomes a consistent issue that you can't get it up when having sex, talk to your doctor about it.
Wow Rude Completely true, mind
Well, otherwise your post would've probably started out with "I haven't been able to get it up even though I've been having sex with super models since I was 15". Also, this is Facepunch, after all.
Had a toxic experience with someone back in January. We had different worldviews among other things, and our consensus later on as friends was that I needed someone closer to a Christian background because I my church upbringing. Yeah well I found someone awesome five months later, Christian, into the same things I like, we met at a coffee shop and talked for two hours, set up a date for later. I thought it went great, and then she ghosted me. It's very demoralizing to continually run into people who seem to be in the goldilocks-zone of what you're looking for, but not matching on the other end. Ghosting feels a lot worse than someone just telling you they'd rather not go out again,.especially when they made it clear they thought you were cool.
this is for the good times baby
Me again (scroll up a few posts) So me and that girl are back at it and have done a bit more than making out over the last few days, but still... not able to get hard around her, or when making out, or even when she's touching me I've told her that I'm just anxious and that it'll go away with time but I can tell she's self-conscious that I'm not all that attracted to her. It looks like the situation is getting better; we were making out earlier and I nearly got a boner (semi) but as soon as she touched me it went. Annoyingly, now she's gone home, I was reminiscing about her being here and I got rock fucking hard. Grr Any tips for getting over this? Here's what I'm considering: I've stopped masturbating When we're together, I'll touch it until I'm hard, then let her touch me Need more help really.
The more you think about it, the tougher it'll probably be Try more stimulation First one is kinda hard to work on just by yourself, but second one has practical solutions - assuming that "touching" just means, well, that, try something with more stimulation, e.g. a handjob, blowjob, whatever. Might not feel super sexy to not be rock hard the moment she looks at your dick, but if you can get it up with some help and get stuff going, chances are it'll help your nerves the next time. Keep in mind that it's not anyone's fault (maybe tell her that you got hard just thinking about her right afterwards, compliment her in general, show that you appreciate her body when you're getting it on (go down on her or whatever you feel like)) - there's nothing wrong with you or your hardware, there's nothing wrong with her, it's "just" nerves.
I can understand losing a boner after 20m but how is this possible? Is it only because you knew you weren't going to fuck? I think you have some sort of performance anxiety or perhaps you're thinking too much about it. There something else that may be at play. I suggest you get your testosterone levels checked & clean up your diet if it's shit. There's libido related supplements out there too, and of course exercise does wonders.
Reposting from the other thread because I don't know which is most relevant: So uuuh anyone here have experience regarding Tinder hookups? Or like, hookups in general? Never had any before, and tonight I managed to chat up a girl who was looking for fun and she ended up offering me a foursome with another couple tomorrow evening. She'll give me the details tomorrow because it's late and we went to sleep, but I'm not sure what just happened. I just told her that rather than choose between a museum and Netflix like her description offered, we could combine both and make art. How do these kind of encounters usually work? Do I just show up and we get on with it? Are there risks, and if so what precautions should I take? To say that I'm nervous would be an understatement...
Titty fucking is fun. I dont know why girls gotta act like its a weird thing, i like having my dick mashed between 2 big jugs. Thoughts?
I imagine any pleasure from it is derived from your own enjoyment. I love it too, but I've not been able to convince my girlfriend to try it after last time, 3 years ago when she got some cum in her hair and had to spend the afternoon at a family bbq.
I know I'm late as SHIT, and you probably already figured this out, but I had very similar issues back when my first relationship started. It improved over time. Things like performance anxiety and not being fully comfortable with that person subconsciously are the main factors IMO. I went to my gyno a week after trying to do it without any success and we didn't find any physical problems, but you should check up just in case. Either way, a professional will clear up a lot of doubts you might have so that the only thing you have to fight is the mental game.
Has anyone here had successful polyamory relationships? Aka having two girlfriends or two boyfriends in which all parties are in a consensual relationship.
It's like a handjob except I actually probably couldn't do it better myself. 10/10.
I have a friend who does it. The key is trust and communication, because the common issue is that one person will feel more left out. I personally wouldn't recommend since they seem so unstable, but if you and all parties involved are very mature, It could work.
Used to do it with an ex of mine with her lying on her back. Shit was cash. Not as good as a BJ IMO but finishing while completely wrapped in tits is the next best thing.
have you been in the amazon position before?
I looked it up and I can't help but feel if I did that I'd be more inclined to fart during.
Bought an engagement ring today. Gonna propose to my girlfriend of 9 years in late September. Pretty excited.
So I grabbed some drinks the other night with this girl I've been talking to on tinder, we talked for like 2 hours straight and it seemed like it we were hitting it off, but friday I asked her out again and I haven't got a response yet. What was weird though is I told her we should hang out again when she's free and she gave me the time she usually gets out of work, but then didn't respond when I suggested a specific day. Should I just forget about her? Only reason I'm currently unsure is before i got her number it would take her a couple of days to respond usually but then a couple days later she asked me to hang out the same night she gave me her number, a few days after i suggested we grab a drink.
Could be that she dipped out, but it could also be a busted phone or lost SIM card, no internet, whatever honestly. If you have only the number to contact her with, all you can do is wait and hope at this point
The best course of action right now is to put her out of mind, appreciate the fun you had but prepare to move on. That way if she ghosts you it's no big deal, but if she gets back to you eventually (some people make a point to wait to respond for some reason) then it's a happy surprise.
i have no idea what to sayd
When meeting girls through Tinder you have to be prepared to them being more inclined to flake than if you were already acquaintances before or met IRL. Sometimes they end up getting disinterested for no particular reason and there's nothing you could have done to prevent it, it's better just to move on and look for other people.
Tonight I met with my Egyptian friend and we met some people from Couchsurfing. We spent an hour together and then I chaperoned her to the bus stop On my end there's some feeling, so my question is how would one gauge if there is interest in the other person?
Nothing to it, really. Did she mention anything about hanging out again? Analyze how motivated she seems when you ask the question of seeing each other again and going out.
Oof, your situation reminded me of the dumb shit I worried myself into I've actually been avoiding any sexual encounters for over a year and a half due to an embarassingly bad performance (or lack thereof) I mean, it was quite clearly caused by being near blackout drunk, but still, I'm dwelling on it so much I don't even get spontaneous erections anymore aside from physical stimulation How does one get out of this self-made hole?
Avoid traditional sex until you've overcome the mental barrier. Most women prefer head anyway AFAIK. Nothing seems wrong if you can get it on from physical stimulation.
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