Crossdressing, Transgender & Allies Discussion: New Look, Same Dysphoria - General

Because you're still the ass of a joke, repeatedly, over a long period of time. Especially since most jokes are demeaning. That "you look like a tranny" example you had is very clearly specifically targeting trans people for reasons I explained above. Even if the joke isn't directed at you, being a punchline is. not. fun.

That's perfectly alright, you are not obligated to understand it, however at the same time you may have noticed that a number of individuals are displeased with the forum's behavior, therefore would it not be a nice idea to perhaps do something that makes them less displeased if it's something that comes at no detriment to anyone?

You don't need to understand it, however I don't get what you're doing here. You keep repeating the same thing over and over and we're all clearly in disagreement. You're not getting anywhere with this topic.

Yeah, you don't have to understand why something is harmful in order to think to yourself, okay, people are upset with my actions so I'll stop doing them for now until I have the full picture.

Why is this stupid ass argument happening in this thread anyway, there's an entire thread already dedicated to it

please leave

I'm not offended, you're just talking in circles and getting nowhere, and you're displaying a clear refusal to listen.

The thing is people constantly hide behind it being a joke when they're actually being serious. And most of the time it's impossible to tell whether they're joking or not to begin with. Either way it's still inappropriate to refer to people using a slur in public. You lack social awareness because you're showing a complete lack of social awareness here. Not because you have X view. If a guy and his boyfriend came up to me and said “Please don’t say that”, I’d just apologise and move on. I wouldn’t understand their reasoning, is my point. Well lucky them. This is no different a situation though and yet you're trying to pass it off as a total nonissue.

Please stop posting. You keep ignoring my posts regardless.

In other news: hi I haven't posted in the thread before, because I was worried about posting publicly. I did post in Discord though. (even if my last visit to discord WAS a year and a half ago. sorry about that) However, I just went outside in girlmode for the first time, so at this point I'm feeling "eh, screw it".

Really feeling the absence of Winner right now. I'm really happy for you!

hahahaahhahahahahahahhaHAHAHHHHH i didnt think norway's 'official' center for trans care could get any worse but it somehow did: if you (as in, me for the last year and a half) get any medical procedures done with the help of private 'unofficial' trans care people, the 'official' people will immediately just reject you without thinking twice if you get referred to them, and even if they havent already rejected you and youre actually going through their diagnosis process but get 'unofficial' medical procedures done, the 'official' people will just drop you. just because "we cant get a proper diagnosis!!!!!", never fucking mind how it would actually make their job easier because someone getting f.e. hrt will know if it alleviates dysphoria, or if it makes them feel worse in case they actually arent trans, all before ever getting a referral to the center thats the only way for me to get even close to getting srs through the healthcare system just completely out of the question. what the actual fuck are these people

oh my god i found a sort of article written by some top staff of that 'official' center, its ridiculous. if it didnt show through how their center actually treats trans people, id think that article was satirical

This is basically what happened to me through our public care system because fuck waiting 3 years for an /initial appointment/. I'm not 100% clued up on Sweden but if I were you I would just continue privately if you have the means to do so, that is what I am doing now.

So I've been figuring FFS stuff for the last few years, and if I actually want it or not. In the last week or so, I've been scheduling and getting consults on it. And now today I finally have a surgery date set for May 1st for my FFS, I'm absolutely ecstatic

Go you! I remember looking at a quote for FFS and my wallet cried loudly from somewhere in my room. One day

whats like... the optimal time to get ffs i heard some people wait 2 years ive heard some people get it in 6 months is it better to wait or does it not matter

My doctor has suggested considering it after 2-3 years to let HRT run it's course. I've not heard of people getting it as early as 6 months but could well be different in other parts of the world. I know of someone who got FFS before starting HRT at all, although that is a really rare case.

oh i just passed 6 months on hrt :toot:

hit 1 year on HRT https://files.facepunch.com/forum/upload/215602/642b3fa8-e728-4d97-b3ad-88b20cd2a6cf/image.png

trying to find a reference for HRT is killin me T.T also congrats you two!!! that's awesome can't wait till I finally start one of these days

one of these days i'll join the cool kids club and actually get the titty skittles :c

Its fine and dandy until your genetics decide you're gonna have DD cup size at month 2. Thank goodness for big shirts and sports bras or I'd have a lot to explain

That sounds hilarious! For them to just go like *WOMP* in two months.

I don't think they're growing anymore, but it doesn't bode well for me when the family line are historically well-endowed. Maybe they'll shrink for all I know!

Someone can have my tits, I can live without 'em.

that sounds absolutely fine and dandy all the way through I have no idea what you're talking about

Do they come with batteries?

The price is definitely a scary factor, and it made me doubt getting it since I already pass okayish. But the dysphoria relief is what really pushed me to get it. I honestly can't stand my face at times. But yeah wallet crying definitely happened.

I know passing is a big deal among the brothers and sisters here (Trust me, I'd never pass in a day in my life ), but it doesn't make anyone less valid whether or not they do! I'm glad these things exist, though. Dysphoria is a beast that isn't tamed the same way for everyone :c