Shit You'd Like to Confess V3 I'm not into incest but my sister is hot - General

[QUOTE=NightmareX91;49830579]i hate saying cheesy shit like "you're cute" or "i love you" and other stuff along those lines like, i can just never say them. the furthest i'm willing to go is with "you're nice looking" and "i like you"[/QUOTE] It's not even that. I'm just not used to touching other people or being physically close to other people.

I recently befriended a turkish girl. I told myself not to get too involved with her since she's very pretty and we both like the same things, yet, we have only been talking more and now she told me she likes me [sp]and I like her, too, even though I'm not religious and sort of an extremist when it comes to my belief in why we're here[/sp]. The chemistry is real and I've been talking to her and outright hitting on her, with our convo just ending with our fav sexual desires. She's still a "pure" lady, though. But, I'd ... she's this mixture of cute and sexy you rarely come across and GOD :( [I]Why am I so stupid?[/I]

[QUOTE=LoNer1;49830938][I]Why am I so stupid?[/I][/QUOTE] I don't see the problem, you seem to be doing pretty good

I've recently started to talk to a girl. We've been talking on tinder for a couple weeks. But, I've completely lost interest in responding back. I'm doing all the talking because she only sends very short 3-5 word responses and has been taking days to respond back. I haven't even struck a true conversation yet because she adds nothing to make it a conversation. Something tells me she isn't interested or I am doing something wrong.

[QUOTE=MissingGlitch;49830975]I've recently started to talk to a girl. We've been talking on tinder for a couple weeks. But, I've completely lost interest in responding back. I'm doing all the talking because she only sends very short 3-5 word responses and has been taking days to respond back. I haven't even struck a true conversation yet because she adds nothing to make it a conversation. Something tells me she isn't interested or I am doing something wrong.[/QUOTE] If you have to force a conversation, don't bother talking to her

I don't care much for Death Grips, but I really like Guillotine

I moved to the Kentucky sticks from the city and it's a tough transition. My solution was to grow a beard. It's a respectable beard. Not the best, but pretty big and average. I feel like I live a double life, because I wear dark jeans, a red flannel, and boots and I pull off the lumberjack perfectly. But when I'm downtown, all I have to do is put a beanie on, hide the drawl, and change the boots to some vans and I'm a hipster. My wardrobe is a mess of graphic v-necks and Ford t-shirts.

[QUOTE=Zezibesh;49830959]I don't see the problem, you seem to be doing pretty good[/QUOTE] It's obviously not going to work out due to our cultural differences. She's for instance deadset on staying virgin until marriage. Not that I would be bothered by this, but things like her parents never accepting me due to me being "not turkish" and having "no name" (they prefer someone who's got a decent income / wealth / has some sort of high position to secure their daughters future etc.) above some guy who doesnt have all that. They don't mind him being near 30's when she's 18, too.

[QUOTE=LoNer1;49831104]It's obviously not going to work out due to our cultural differences. She's for instance deadset on staying virgin until marriage. Not that I would be bothered by this, but things like her parents never accepting me due to me being "not turkish" and having "no name" (they prefer someone who's got a decent income / wealth / has some sort of high position to secure their daughters future etc.) above some guy who doesnt have all that. They don't mind him being near 30's when she's 18, too.[/QUOTE] That seems like their problem, not yours. She's 18. You don't need her parents' blessing for marriage. I don't like to sound brash about it, but if she's leading you on knowing full well that she will follow her parents' wishes to a T about this whole marriage and virgin thing, then... that's her fault. She's the one with the choice to break free. She can't have it both ways, you know? Either she gives up this backwards system her parents have her in (I'm assuming she's living closeby, so she's living in a society that doesn't really jive with shit like that) and actually starts dating, or she stops trying to coax people into relationships that she won't let them be happy in. Unless I'm getting the wrong idea and she's not being romantic with you or anything. Then, well, that sucks.

[QUOTE=Snowmew;49831394]That seems like their problem, not yours. She's 18. You don't need her parents' blessing for marriage. I don't like to sound brash about it, but if she's leading you on knowing full well that she will follow her parents' wishes to a T about this whole marriage and virgin thing, then... that's her fault. She's the one with the choice to break free. She can't have it both ways, you know? Either she gives up this backwards system her parents have her in (I'm assuming she's living closeby, so she's living in a society that doesn't really jive with shit like that) and actually starts dating, or she stops trying to coax people into relationships that she won't let them be happy in. Unless I'm getting the wrong idea and she's not being romantic with you or anything. Then, well, that sucks.[/QUOTE] She is being romantic. And that's the thing, she seems like she wants to break free but she's fully dependent on her parents. They pay everything, she lives at home still and her dad is very strict and very "busy" with her life.

[QUOTE=LoNer1;49831431]She is being romantic. And that's the thing, she seems like she wants to break free but she's fully dependent on her parents. They pay everything, she lives at home still and her dad is very strict and very "busy" with her life.[/QUOTE] If you actually want to get serious with the relationship, know you're going to be taking on a big responsibility. You're probably going to be what causes her to lose faith, which in repressive ones like she's in, is overall probably a good thing. But it's not going to be easy, you're going to have to not just support her emotionally, romantically, but if she's kicked out of her house: professionally as well. I don't know if people from the Netherlands can freely travel to Turkey (I don't think so) which would make it super difficult to support her in finding jobs. It's up to what you feel comfortable with, If I was in your situation I'd probably continue and see what she does and feels comfortable with.

[QUOTE=glitchvid;49831588]If you actually want to get serious with the relationship, know you're going to be taking on a big responsibility. You're probably going to be what causes her to lose faith, which in repressive ones like she's in, is overall probably a good thing. But it's not going to be easy, you're going to have to not just support her emotionally, romantically, but if she's kicked out of her house: professionally as well. I don't know if people from the Netherlands can freely travel to Turkey (I don't think so) which would make it super difficult to support her in finding jobs. It's up to what you feel comfortable with, If I was in your situation I'd probably continue and see what she does and feels comfortable with.[/QUOTE] Yeah, we're actually discussing things at this very moment. She's actually planning on telling her parents about me, first. Then, following their reaction (we expect them to prohibit her from talking to me any more), she's going to try it once more and if they don't bend ... she's going to come live with me. My sis is going to move out anyway so a room is going to be free and my parents fully support us. They're also against the whole "you have to marry who I appoint / your own kind" idea, since they've been in the EXACT same position (my dad, being "white" and my mom being black, his parents and family opposed of their relation for the longest time. Some relatives still do so and don't contact us). It's going to be tough because she's going to school elsewhere and she's not close-by. She lives around 35km away. We'll have to do LOADS of stuff and take care of everything but I couldn't be more happy for some reason. I'm seriously serious (lol) about our relation. She also admit she might totally sway from all her ideas and such, mostly because she didn't want to disappoint her dad by saying she's not as faithful to the Islam as he is. I feel bad about it, because I keep thinking "what if it might not work out" and I begin to wonder what her future will be like, if I should intervene and such but part of me just wants her close. I guess that's the irresponsible selfish side speaking. I don't want to be too idealistic, because I have to face responsibilities daily like bills, helping my parents in the house and going to school / work myself when she can't go to school I suppose, doesnt have any work experience and will probably sit at my place for the first few weeks with her angry parents doing "whatever" to get her back. She IS an adult on paper, so she's free to do whatever. But they will probably try and get in the way as much as possible and I don't know to what lengths, which concerns me.

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I want to remove someone who added me onto steam a few months back, but I just can't bring myself to do it because according to his profile, i'm his only friend... We don't have anything in common, he just added me because he liked my workshop content...

[QUOTE=LoNer1;49831794]She also admit she might totally sway from all her ideas and such, mostly because she didn't want to disappoint her dad by saying she's not as faithful to the Islam as he is. I feel bad about it, because I keep thinking "what if it might not work out" and I begin to wonder what her future will be like, if I should intervene and such but part of me just wants her close. I guess that's the irresponsible selfish side speaking. I don't want to be too idealistic, because I have to face responsibilities daily like bills, helping my parents in the house and going to school / work myself when she can't go to school I suppose, doesnt have any work experience and will probably sit at my place for the first few weeks with her angry parents doing "whatever" to get her back. She IS an adult on paper, so she's free to do whatever. But they will probably try and get in the way as much as possible and I don't know to what lengths, which concerns me.[/QUOTE] That sounds pretty good actually. She might even be using relationships as her way out of Islam, she's very strong if this is the case. You're rightfully concerned about her family trying to chase her down. As much as it sucks, often times in cases like these people who leave the religion as completely cut off.

You want to hear my confession? I practice Vajrayana Buddhism fanatically.

I take shits so long I get to experience what its like to be paralyzed in the legs.

[QUOTE=Recurracy;49832123]I take shits so long I get to experience what its like to be paralyzed in the legs.[/QUOTE] Literally me.

[QUOTE=glitchvid;49832041]That sounds pretty good actually. She might even be using relationships as her way out of Islam, she's very strong if this is the case. You're rightfully concerned about her family trying to chase her down. As much as it sucks, often times in cases like these people who leave the religion as completely cut off.[/QUOTE] That's a concern of my own, though. Lets say we manage to break through together and her family literally proclaims her to be "dead" to them. She told me it's something that's often used when a family members put "disgrace" to their other family members and name to get "banished" from being a member of that family. What if we live together, things go well and eventually we'll move in together elsewhere only to break up. Will she have people to fall back on? I don't think her dad will ever want to hear from her again, since he's an extremely strict man. It's unthinkable, really. He's controlling her every step, but tries to cover up his "bad parenting" (my words to her, which she agrees with) by buying things for her like new phones or paying for her expenses. She doesn't know the most basic of things, either. No cooking skills, laundry is beyond her, cleaning she can do but rather not. I'll be having my hands full with her, lol. But I see it as a positive, too. I'll be the person to "get her feet on the ground", since her dad seemed to believe she would only leave the house if a fortunate 30-or-so-year-old would come pick her up in his Porsche. I'm actually HAPPY about the fact I'm the one to learn her all this. But I can't shake the thought of "what if we dont work out". Then I'll also be the one who's going to have to take responsibility, because I forcefully broke her ties with her family and broke the "hierarchy" in some sort of way, making her dad feel like I see him / their family "as a joke", like she described. Growing up is difficult. It really is no joke. I long for the times I was being taken care of. But, with all that said ... I'm not going to let her go because of a "what if". Life is too short to think way into the future, that's what my grandad left me. I'm going to enjoy us being together. It might even end in hearing her dad supporting our relationship, since I'm going to finish the highest attainable degree I can in just 3 years. We'll see where the journey takes us.

[QUOTE=Vodkavia;49832164]I'd only want to die if it meant I could fade away uneventfully. No missing person case or funeral, he's gone everyone lets not speculate on it and move on.[/QUOTE] The universe doesn't cease it's natural movements just because your consciousness can no longer experience it. Truly moving on is accepting that the cosmic arrangement of energies that made up your brain which simulated a consciousness has simply started moving towards the next spontaneous arrangement that constitutes another experience.

If i had to die of something other than old age, i'd want to go out suicide bombing an IRA pub or some other terrorist hideout. I know this is stupid but being bedridden with a terminal illness doesn't sound like much fun either, at least i'd be doing a community service

[QUOTE=LoNer1;49832184]That's a concern of my own, though. Lets say we manage to break through together and her family literally proclaims her to be "dead" to them. She told me it's something that's often used when a family members put "disgrace" to their other family members and name to get "banished" from being a member of that family. What if we live together, things go well and eventually we'll move in together elsewhere only to break up. Will she have people to fall back on? I don't think her dad will ever want to hear from her again, since he's an extremely strict man. It's unthinkable, really. He's controlling her every step, but tries to cover up his "bad parenting" (my words to her, which she agrees with) by buying things for her like new phones or paying for her expenses. She doesn't know the most basic of things, either. No cooking skills, laundry is beyond her, cleaning she can do but rather not. I'll be having my hands full with her, lol. But I see it as a positive, too. I'll be the person to "get her feet on the ground", since her dad seemed to believe she would only leave the house if a fortunate 30-or-so-year-old would come pick her up in his Porsche. I'm actually HAPPY about the fact I'm the one to learn her all this. But I can't shake the thought of "what if we dont work out". Then I'll also be the one who's going to have to take responsibility, because I forcefully broke her ties with her family and broke the "hierarchy" in some sort of way, making her dad feel like I see him / their family "as a joke", like she described. Growing up is difficult. It really is no joke. I long for the times I was being taken care of. But, with all that said ... I'm not going to let her go because of a "what if". Life is too short to think way into the future, that's what my grandad left me. I'm going to enjoy us being together. It might even end in hearing her dad supporting our relationship, since I'm going to finish the highest attainable degree I can in just 3 years. We'll see where the journey takes us.[/QUOTE] Just warning you, leaving Islam can be dangerous. Here's a website that might help [URL="https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/wiki/faq"]https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/wiki/faq[/URL]

I come up with all sorts of nicknames for fat people when talking to my brother's cat, like "Widebody" and "Chubby Chase". Good thing I can't hurt her feelings.

[QUOTE=ColdAsRice;49832620]If i had to die of something other than old age, i'd want to go out suicide bombing an IRA pub or some other terrorist hideout. I know this is stupid but being bedridden with a terminal illness doesn't sound like much fun either, at least i'd be doing a community service[/QUOTE] My mom once confessed to me that she was suicidal for quite some time and was planning on taking my dad with her. The only reason she didn't go through with it was because she was worried she'd kill herself and somehow dad would survive and raise hell with me. She says she's over it now that I'm not as much of a fuckup loser and she has things to look forward to (at the time she was on dialysis and basically subject to him psychologically torturing her because she was practically bedridden). But it is still tough to hear your own mom talk to you about how she was going to murder-suicide someone.

[QUOTE=Snowmew;49833841]My mom once confessed to me that she was suicidal for quite some time and was planning on taking my dad with her. The only reason she didn't go through with it was because she was worried she'd kill herself and somehow dad would survive and raise hell with me. She says she's over it now that I'm not as much of a fuckup loser and she has things to look forward to (at the time she was on dialysis and basically subject to him psychologically torturing her because she was practically bedridden). But it is still tough to hear your own mom talk to you about how she was going to murder-suicide someone.[/QUOTE]jesus

[QUOTE=LoNer1;49832184]That's a concern of my own, though. Lets say we manage to break through together and her family literally proclaims her to be "dead" to them. She told me it's something that's often used when a family members put "disgrace" to their other family members and name to get "banished" from being a member of that family. What if we live together, things go well and eventually we'll move in together elsewhere only to break up. Will she have people to fall back on? I don't think her dad will ever want to hear from her again, since he's an extremely strict man. It's unthinkable, really. He's controlling her every step, but tries to cover up his "bad parenting" (my words to her, which she agrees with) by buying things for her like new phones or paying for her expenses. She doesn't know the most basic of things, either. No cooking skills, laundry is beyond her, cleaning she can do but rather not. I'll be having my hands full with her, lol. But I see it as a positive, too. I'll be the person to "get her feet on the ground", since her dad seemed to believe she would only leave the house if a fortunate 30-or-so-year-old would come pick her up in his Porsche. I'm actually HAPPY about the fact I'm the one to learn her all this. But I can't shake the thought of "what if we dont work out". Then I'll also be the one who's going to have to take responsibility, because I forcefully broke her ties with her family and broke the "hierarchy" in some sort of way, making her dad feel like I see him / their family "as a joke", like she described. Growing up is difficult. It really is no joke. I long for the times I was being taken care of. But, with all that said ... I'm not going to let her go because of a "what if". Life is too short to think way into the future, that's what my grandad left me. I'm going to enjoy us being together. It might even end in hearing her dad supporting our relationship, since I'm going to finish the highest attainable degree I can in just 3 years. We'll see where the journey takes us.[/QUOTE] I suggest as you have a relationship with her, that you remind her often that she is an independent person. Let her find some of her own strength.Also, If I were in your shoes, I would help her find some other friends too (if she doesnt have any). In the unfortunate case if your relationship does not end well for whatever reason, there will be footing for her to stand on if she has issues with family. I have a friend who is a guy but enjoys a bit of cross dressing, make up, etc. However this causes a lot of problems wit his conservative parents, its not easy.

[QUOTE=FunnyStarRunner;49833814]I come up with all sorts of nicknames for fat people when talking to my brother's cat, like "Widebody" and "Chubby Chase". Good thing I can't hurt her feelings.[/QUOTE] My dad refers to fat women as hungry heffers. He's fat himself.

ok, time for some funny posts someone I am interested in confessed that they like eating dog treats, and they would make me try some too. Do I abort right now or what?

[QUOTE=da space core;49834356]ok, time for some funny posts someone I am interested in confessed that they like eating dog treats, and they would make me try some too. Do I abort right now or what?[/QUOTE] I used to eat dog food in primary school, go for it.

I ate dog food once and it was gross what is wrong with you