[QUOTE=PILLS HERE!;48729080]can i join u[/QUOTE]
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Have a sip.
[QUOTE=PILLS HERE!;48729086]n[/QUOTE]
then you would very obviously not be pan
if you're just attracted to the opposite sex than you are probably heterosexual
[QUOTE=PILLS HERE!;48729066]i like girls that look like guys too but idk what i am
probably pan???[/QUOTE]
What do you mean like tomboys or like actual masculine looking chicks
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;48729081]are you attracted to the same sex
y/n?[/QUOTE]
Having a binary response in this question is a little loaded in my opinion, no offense to you but just like in general. Like no one is 100% straight or 100% gay, so even if you like girls and then some cute guy walks by and you are like "damn" it doesn't mean you are gay, just like how a lot of gay people still think boobs are attractive.
[QUOTE=Dr._Medic;48729093]What do you mean like tomboys or like actual masculine looking chicks[/QUOTE]
is there a difference?
[QUOTE=splenda;48729087]Yea I guess but I kind of fell in the opposite camp. I never felt like a guy and was searching for a label but never found one I actually felt encompassed who I was. The way I see it, sexuality is kind of like a gradient, where no one is on the two ends but in the blobish part in the middle. What labels do is basically reduce the color bit rate of the image, giving distinct points in the gradient, just leading to more categories. My opinion is not very popular and many people say it's wrong, but it's just an opinion. It's more of just a thought that I want to expand overtime rather than a definitive thing.[/QUOTE]
well sexuality and gender are both very large spectrums. it could be possible that there isn't a definition for what you fall under, and that's cool. but that's why people are always making up new words and labels because it's just nice to have something to refer to yourself as
but people like to cheapen labels and words and pronouns just because they're "crazy" and "silly" and "abnormal" so there's no real progress being made in that regard. you could say that a lot of people should just embrace who they are and be individuals or whatever but there's always gonna be a community of people who are likeminded in certain ways and having the ability to connect to those people is something very important
guys stop with the dog talk a dog just got hit by a car a few feet away from my house
in the documentary restrepo there's a part where the american soldiers are meeting with afghan village leaders and one of the villagers is struggling to use a pouch of capri sun. hes turning it over and over in his hand, looking at the straw, until he finally figures out how to push the straw into the hole. i dont really know why but that part's always made me really sad
[QUOTE=PILLS HERE!;48729100]guys stop with the dog talk a dog just got hit by a car a few feet away from my house[/QUOTE]
This will only entice Craptasket to visit and post in this thread :T
[QUOTE=Pascall;48729099]well sexuality and gender are both very large spectrums. it could be possible that there isn't a definition for what you fall under, and that's cool. but that's why people are always making up new words and labels because it's just nice to have something to refer to yourself as
but people like to cheapen labels and words and pronouns just because they're "crazy" and "silly" and "abnormal" so there's no real progress being made in that regard. you could say that a lot of people should just embrace who they are and be individuals or whatever but there's always gonna be a community of people who are likeminded in certain ways and having the ability to connect to those people is something very important[/QUOTE]
Yea the whole community part is really nice but like in my "utopia" or whatever you would call it it would just be like a full community of just everyone supporting everyone. It's a total weird subject and hard to imagine and stuff but like its one of those crazy intellectual things I thought up probably due to being in the liberal arts college of my university.
[QUOTE=PILLS HERE!;48729098]is there a difference?[/QUOTE]
By tomboys I mean chicks that dress like guys but still look feminine. I meant girls who's face look more masculine than feminine
I don't know where I'm going with this I'm gonna go to bed before I say something stupid
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[QUOTE=Dr._Medic;48729109]By tomboys I mean chicks that dress like guys but still look feminine. I meant girls who's face look more masculine than feminine
I don't know where I'm going with this I'm gonna go to bed before I say something stupid
er[/QUOTE]
yes
u can have an aesthetic. doesn't really make you gay or whatever. just means you've ogt certain tastes and stuff
[editline]20th September 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=splenda;48729108]Yea the whole community part is really nice but like in my "utopia" or whatever you would call it it would just be like a full community of just everyone supporting everyone. It's a total weird subject and hard to imagine and stuff but like its one of those crazy intellectual things I thought up probably due to being in the liberal arts college of my university.[/QUOTE]
u dont have to point out that you're going to the liberal arts college man you can think of things without having to push the fact that it's intellectual
[QUOTE=splenda;48729096]Having a binary response in this question is a little loaded in my opinion, no offense to you but just like in general. Like no one is 100% straight or 100% gay, so even if you like girls and then some cute guy walks by and you are like "damn" it doesn't mean you are gay, just like how a lot of gay people still think boobs are attractive.[/QUOTE]
i didn't even remotely imply this ???? ? ???
he said he thinks he's probably pan
in order to actually be pan he would have to be attracted to any gender including his own ? ? ????
uc broccoli
[QUOTE=splenda;48729108]Yea the whole community part is really nice but like in my "utopia" or whatever you would call it it would just be like a full community of just everyone supporting everyone. It's a total weird subject and hard to imagine and stuff but like its one of those crazy intellectual things I thought up probably due to being in the liberal arts college of my university.[/QUOTE]
yea ppl going to engineering school aren't allowed to think creatively they get executed for it
[QUOTE=Pascall;48729116]u can have an aesthetic. doesn't really make you gay or whatever. just means you've ogt certain tastes and stuff
[editline]20th September 2015[/editline]
u dont have to point out that you're going to the liberal arts college man you can think of things without having to push the fact that it's intellectual[/QUOTE]
Yea aesthetic is a totally different thing than gender which is a total different thing than sexuality which is a total different thing than what genitalia you have. I enjoy shaving my legs and armpits and stuff and wear short jean shorts and tuck in my shirts and other shit. Doesn't mean I like boys because of it, it is just an extension of my personality and feel "normal" to me.
[editline]20th September 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;48729128]i didn't even remotely imply this ???? ? ???
he said he thinks he's probably pan
in order to actually be pan he would have to be attracted to any gender including his own ? ? ????[/QUOTE]
Again I said I'm not attacking you or anything just like in general. Sorry if I offended you I really did not mean it.
i still love you splenda <3
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;48729135]yea ppl going to engineering school aren't allowed to think creatively they get executed for it[/QUOTE]
Come on you know what I mean here. Don't skew my words to create controversy I never said that engineers are not creative I just said that I this idea was probably influenced by my choice of colleges.
here's the thing
tbh
everyone should be allowed to see the world as they see it and shouldn't be forced to define things as you define them
it works both ways
if you wanna totally remove the entire idea of gender and that makes you feel comfortable that's cool
if the world makes sense to you seeing everything as somewhere between two genders that's also cool
neither group should get upset at the other for thinking how they do
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;48729146]here's the thing
tbh
everyone should be allowed to see the world as they see it and shouldn't be forced to define things as you define them
it works both ways
if you wanna totally remove the entire idea of gender and that makes you feel comfortable that's cool
if the world makes sense to you seeing everything as somewhere between two genders that's also cool
neither group should get upset at the other for thinking how they do[/QUOTE]
I literally said it's an unresearched opinion I have been contemplating over the past few months. I have said in the past it's never going to actually be a thing, and I said that its an opinion people disagree with.
[QUOTE=splenda;48729151]I literally said it's an unresearched opinion I have been contemplating over the past few months. I have said in the past it's never going to actually be a thing, and I said that its an opinion people disagree with.[/QUOTE]
i wasn't talking directly to u
i was responding to the entire conversation
rip dog who got hit on my street
you were so young
O shit snip wrong response
when you mention your college or school it makes you sound a little pretentious imo !
but i have to deal with pseudo-intellectuals on a daily basis so i have a low tolerance for using "i'm going to school for this" as a catalyst for conversational topics
[QUOTE=splenda;48729161]You quoted me when you said that and I was the only person who was bringing up anything about different colleges. So sorry but like it's kind of easy to see how I thought that was addressed to me because otherwise it is kind of a random comment.[/QUOTE]
did u hit reply on the wrong post there wasn't a quote in the one u did
[QUOTE=PILLS HERE!;48729066]i like girls that look like guys too but idk what i am
probably pan???[/QUOTE]
Tomboys. The superior type of girl.
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;48729168]did u hit reply on the wrong post there wasn't a quote in the one u did[/QUOTE]
Yea sorry I wasn't really reading woops.
[QUOTE=splenda;48729171]Yea sorry I wasn't really reading woops.[/QUOTE]
it's cool
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