Yes I do love her. Of course, at times we might have small fights, but they work out pretty fast and then we're all "nothing happened everyones happy mmkayy yay".
My mom might be crazy as hell, chase ambulances to find crashes, and made me become a desensitized maniac, but I love her, through and through.
I love your mum OP
My mom is the greatest person on the planet to me. I love her more than anything :smile:
Yes I love both of my parents very much, also why would anyone not hug their mom if they loved them?
[QUOTE=The golden;36937611]I spent most of my early school and pre-school years crying. I got upset at basically everything and cried so much that I was soaked down to my underwear. I used to break things I held dear just so I had a reason to cry and get upset - a urge I still sometimes get in a minor form.
I remember trying to beat myself unconscious with a 3rd grade math textbook by hitting my head with it. Ended up crawling under a desk and crying until the end of the day. Yay![/QUOTE]
Let me help you with your urges.
I have a really strained relationship with my mother.
She refuses to accept that I can actually live without her and her super over protectiveness.
I tend to stay at my dads place as much as I can.
I also dislike that she got remarried and got 2 more kids after my parents divorced, but that's nothing i can say to her since she's super self destructive and often threat with suicide if something doesn't go her way.
As a conclusion I'm glad i have her still here but I avoid her since most of the stuff I do would hurt her.
I would always think I cannot live without my mother. I love her just so much, And get really sad at the thought of losing her at any point. She helps me with so much things, And never hits me or anything.
Yes, she's always there for me, and she's the most person who cares about me.
I love my mother.
my "idea" is that i also grew up without a mother and i've definitely not grown up crying a lot, breaking things just to cry and beating myself up with books.
your conclusion that that level of... distress (since i don't know what else to call it) is purely down to the fact that your mother wasn't around when you were growing up seems like utter bull to me.
plenty of people are raised by single parents these days, and just because it's usually the mother that does the raising doesn't mean that you'll grow up fine without a dad, but as soon as you take the mother out of the equation you're bound to be fucked up. that's just daft.
[QUOTE=The golden;36948733]It was just the conclusion I came to after taking psychology classes at school. We did a lot of stuff about what can happen to a child if they grow up with no mother or limited contact with their mother. It really does match up pretty well.
But hey, I'm open to ideas if you got any.[/QUOTE]
Growing up without a mother may have been a part of it... but that's very self destructive behavior that most people just don't go through. Growing up without a mother is difficult, and abandonment issues often arise, but this is a whole new level of fucked up. I assume that it you were doing these things for attention, or at least I hope so, because that would indicate that you're very desperate and were neglected by peers and/or your parents (both, not just one), and were not taught that such self disruptive behaviors were wrong. If not... well that's a whole different kettle of fish I couldn't pretend to know anything about if I tried. Get help.
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