Would you treat your best friend any differently if he came out as gay? - General

Depends, if he'll end up like one of those flamboyant gays, acting all sassy and talking oddly and with a sudden taste in fashion and shit then yeah, I'll surely treat him differently. But if he'll just act like a normal guy, just that he's gay, then no.

I'd probably have lots of sex with him.

[QUOTE=ionuttzu;29873693]Depends, if he'll end up like one of those flamboyant gays, acting all sassy and talking oddly and with a sudden taste in fashion and shit then yeah, I'll surely treat him differently. But if he'll just act like a normal guy, just that he's gay, then no.[/QUOTE] So basically you're a homophobe, but if he acted like a sexually insecure heterosexual, you would be okay with it?

[QUOTE=Sanius;29873711]So basically you're a homophobe, but if he acted like a sexually insecure heterosexual, you would be okay with it?[/QUOTE] You know there are barely any gay guys that act like that right? Was just joking.

Not at all. If I had a best friend that is...

Well that depends on if your best friend also views you as his best friend, rather than some sort of gay lover or some shit. If he comes out and says it but remains the same person, then fuck no I wouldn't care. If he starts talking differently and acting really.. I guess, faggy, then yes I would judge him differently. It is not the act of coming out of the closet that would bother me, but what ensued afterward. I wouldn't want him to talk to me about he fucked guys and shit.

not really he's a cool guy

You two are horrible human beings. Just admit that you're homophobic.

[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;29873253]It's not a bloody choice :doh:[/QUOTE] Maybe not to you. Maybe not to some. Some choose to do whatever they want. Hell, some don't even have a choice.

im friends with a few gay ppl already but no

Nope. I don't care if he's gay or straight. But I am friends with his girlfriend too, so it would make things really weird.

[QUOTE=aliendrone123;29873460]I wouldn't give a shit because I'm Bi myself.[/QUOTE] Bi's are like unicorns... They don't exist.

id be fine with it, as long as he doesn't try to come onto me or something im fine.

Nope.

Of what I would call my current two best friends, one is bi anyway, and the other already acts gay in many respects so it wouldn't rock the boat very much at all

Nope. In fact, he has and I haven't treated him any differently. You're a shallow dicksuck if you do.

I wouldn't care if he's gay or not. He'd still be my best friend.

Well, honestly yes. Sure, we'll still be friends, just things will be a bit... awkard. It's not like you can shrug off his hoosexuality, even if you support gay rights. Unless you are used to being around gay people, it's hard to NOT act and treat them differently.

[QUOTE=DesumThePanda;29879477]Well, honestly yes. Sure, we'll still be friends, just things will be a bit... awkard. It's not like you can shrug off his hoosexuality, even if you support gay rights. Unless you are used to being around gay people, it's hard to NOT act and treat them differently.[/QUOTE] i'm pretty sure when straight people interact they don't talking about fucking women all the time

He's been in a relationship with a girl for like 2 years so it would be surprising to say the least

As long as he doesn't try and get in my pants I'm cool with it.

I'd ask him out.

just as long as he agreed to not ever think of me in a sexual way

[QUOTE=Doodles;29873078]So i just had this though. Let's say your best friend came out as gay. He talked to you first and he completely trust you but he will tell family and other friends in time. Would you treat him any differently because of it? Discuss!! And inb4 someone says this exact thing happened to me, no it has not. But i'm not homophobic so i probably would'nt mind. Someones sexual preferences has nothing to do with me. Though it would be awkvard sometimes.[/QUOTE] Fuck no, I care too much about all my friends to pull that stupid shit. Plus I'm not from Texas.

After the initial shock things would go back to normal pretty quickly. I might stop holding hands with him in public though

Yes, I would. It would be really awkward. He probably wouldn't be my friend.

My friend did come out gay a few months back, we just crack some jokes everynow and then.

I would.

Personally, I wouldn't give half a damn. It don't affect me, it's his (or her) choice, and anyone who denies freedom of choice is a brain-damaged neo-nazi bully. However, I would confront any queer-bashers that gave the poor sod any crap, and make them feel very bad, be it emotionally, psychologically, or if needs be physically.

If they still act the same than no. If they begin to act incredibly irritating after admitting it than I might.