[QUOTE=Starlight 456;47926774]My girlfriend sent me 80, [I]EIGHTY[/I] Paul Blart meme pictures. I was gone for 10 minutes. :v:[/QUOTE]
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The mall that Mall Cop was filmed in is 30 minutes away from where I live.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;47927227]i found more electronics submerged in a bath
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Those apple products, assuming they were purchased new, cost more money put together than I will ever have at any one point in my life. Really puts things into perspective.
One last final tomorrow, and the best part is the material for this chapter is piss easy.
G'night boos, my 11 game HotS win-streak is over, rip
I don't want friends but I want a girlfriend, yeah I know it's weird but that's just my personality. I can't even meet new people because:
1) I'm not going to a college any time soon
2) The place I'll be working at is night shift and no young women work there
3) There are - zero - recreation spots to meet people within 5 kilometres of me
4) Dating sites and stuff like Tinder just don't work
So I'm stuck
[QUOTE=Radical Rebel;47927534]The mall that Mall Cop was filmed in is 30 minutes away from where I live.[/QUOTE]
take me there i must perform the sacred ritual
[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;47927557]I don't want friends but I want a girlfriend, yeah I know it's weird but that's just my personality. I can't even meet new people because:
1) I'm not going to a college any time soon
2) The place I'll be working at is night shift and no young women work there
3) There are - zero - recreation spots to meet people within 5 kilometres of me
[B]4) Dating sites and stuff like Tinder just don't work[/B]
So I'm stuck[/QUOTE]
this isn't true tho
as long as you have a good profile it can work and often does
i know lots of people who found people through a dating site (tinder not so much but that's the nature of the thing itself) my cousin met his wife through one for starters
they can work if you put the effort into them
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;47927670]this isn't true tho
as long as you have a good profile it can work and often does
i know lots of people who found people through a dating site (tinder not so much but that's the nature of the thing itself) my cousin met his wife through one for starters
they can work if you put the effort into them[/QUOTE]
Depends on your location though, won't get many results if nobody in your area uses the same site you are.
I personally have two pairs of acquaintances that met online (not even on dating sites!!) and both have been married for a while now. Knew another couple that split, but still, same circumstances. Just gotta look in the right place and be persistent.
I read Lost at Sea by the Scott Pilgrim dude and I feel significantly better with being lonely at times
[QUOTE=Ardosos;47927678]Depends on your location though, won't get many results if nobody in your area uses the same site you are.[/QUOTE]
that's true but odds are that there's at least one site that's decently popular in a given area unless there's less than 5,000 people in 100 square miles or something
[QUOTE=azure 505;47927694]I personally have two pairs of acquaintances that met online (not even on dating sites!!) and both have been married for a while now. Knew another couple that split, but still, same circumstances. Just gotta look in the right place and be persistent.[/QUOTE]
I've never been in love, but I've been infatuated with a couple girls before. One online and the other in real life. The one online stopped talking to me after I kept going through episodes (this was 2 years ago) and ended up getting a bf that lives even further away from her than I did, but the thing is hes really handsome, nice and really funny. The other girl I still talk to, but shes mentally ill and also loves 2 guys at once so she's a bit messed up.
I feel I won't be able to get a girlfriend either. I'd like to get one from (guess where) but odds are really fucking slim lol
[QUOTE=Fredrika;47927732]i dont get this ghetto meme[/QUOTE]
dam i'm sry
[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;47927710]I've never been in love, but I've been infatuated with a couple girls before. One online and the other in real life. The one online stopped talking to me after I kept going through episodes (this was 2 years ago) and ended up getting a bf that lives even further away from her than I did, but the thing is hes really handsome, nice and really funny. The other girl I still talk to, but shes mentally ill and also loves 2 guys at once so she's a bit messed up.[/QUOTE]
Personally I've only ever known one person that I've had any romantic interest in at all. Seriously doubt she feels the same way, and besides, I'm waiting until I can learn to love my shitty self before I pursue anybody else.
[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;47927710]The other girl I still talk to, but shes mentally ill and also loves 2 guys at once so she's a bit messed up.[/QUOTE]
so if you have feelings for her than you should be there for her through that
people (and i'm not specifically talking about you) have this idea that you should only be interacting with someone with the end goal of being in a relationship with them when it's kinda the opposite
if you really care about someone you should want to be there for them no matter what, then maybe if things go a certain way something blossoms but you shouldn't stop caring about someone if it doesn't look like you're gonna end up in a relationship with them, that's how shitty relationships end up starting
[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;47927710]I've never been in love, but I've been infatuated with a couple girls before. One online and the other in real life. The one online stopped talking to me after I kept going through episodes (this was 2 years ago) and ended up getting a bf that lives even further away from her than I did, [B]but the thing is hes really handsome, nice and really funny[/B]. The other girl I still talk to, but shes mentally ill and also loves 2 guys at once so she's a bit messed up.[/QUOTE]
$50 says he's not as great as you're making him out to be, and you're talking him up a lot. you shouldn't put yourself down like that
You people need to look on the brighter side of things. The most positive outlook is that while single you have all the time in the world to work on yourself.
Not saying relationships are a time sink for everyone, but I've been through several that have ended crazily enough that I'd rather stay single by choice until I finish college.
[QUOTE=azure 505;47927750]Personally I've only ever known one person that I've had any romantic interest in at all. Seriously doubt she feels the same way, and besides, I'm waiting until I can learn to love my shitty self before I pursue anybody else.[/QUOTE]
I've been slowly getting better at that though, a year ago instead of this
[QUOTE]I don't want friends but I want a girlfriend, yeah I know it's weird but that's just my personality. I can't even meet new people because:
1) I'm not going to a college any time soon
2) The place I'll be working at is night shift and no young women work there
3) There are - zero - recreation spots to meet people within 5 kilometres of me
4) Dating sites and stuff like Tinder just don't work
So I'm stuck[/QUOTE]
I would have said this
[QUOTE]I don't want friends but I want a girlfriend, yeah I know it's weird but that's just because I'm stupid. I can't even meet new people because:
1) I'm not going to a college any time soon because I'l never get in
2) I'll never get a job
3) There are - zero - recreation spots to meet people within 10000000 kilometres of me
4) Dating sites and stuff like Tinder just don't work because I'm ugly
So I'm stuck forever[/QUOTE]
Got my accounts back. God I hate the cunt fucks who steal accounts. I changed passwords on all of them to wildly different things that have no relation to me or anything about me, and I'm even migrating to a new Email. I also pre-emptively changed what Email my steam account is attatched to, as well as the password for it, becuase god knows Steam won't help for shit if that account got compromised.
tbh you really don't want to have an attitude of "i want a girlfriend". it sets you up for a lot of negative feelings VERY easily
i've only ever felt intensely strong feelings for one person in my life
i won't get into the details because it's still a bit of a fresh wound and it's kinda personal but trust me when i say it does you no good only sticking with someone because you want to be in a relationship with them
[QUOTE=TheWhiteFox1;47927793]tbh you really don't want to have an attitude of "i want a girlfriend". it sets you up for a lot of negative feelings VERY easily[/QUOTE]
This. Relationships just sorta happen. You can't say "I want a girlfriend" then head to the store and buy one or something. Work on yourself and the rest will follow.
[QUOTE=CobaltCrysis;47927708]I read Lost at Sea by the Scott Pilgrim dude and I feel significantly better with being lonely at times[/QUOTE]
Never heard of Lost at Sea but I loved Scott Pilgrim. Is this a good book
I have the fear of rejection
[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;47927710]I've never been in love, but I've been infatuated with a couple girls before. One online and the other in real life. The one online stopped talking to me after I kept going through episodes (this was 2 years ago) and ended up getting a bf that lives even further away from her than I did, but the thing is hes really handsome, nice and really funny. The other girl I still talk to, but shes mentally ill and also [B]loves 2 guys at once[/B] so she's a bit messed up.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like she is polyamorous. I knew a polyamorous couple before.
[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;47927557][B]I don't want friends but I want a girlfriend[/B], yeah I know it's weird but that's just my personality. I can't even meet new people because:
1) I'm not going to a college any time soon
2) The place I'll be working at is night shift and no young women work there
3) There are - zero - recreation spots to meet people within 5 kilometres of me
4) Dating sites and stuff like Tinder just don't work
So I'm stuck[/QUOTE]
dating sites and tinder absolutely work if you know what people are looking for; what people want to see (even if you don't match all the criteria) and if you know how the process works in general.
tinder is actually better than okc for casual things like relationships where as i feel like okc is more geared towards serious things leading up to marriage
also your S/O is supposed to be a friend
if you have a girlfriend that's not your friend that's gonna be an absolutely terrible relationship. don't immediately put a girl into the "girlfriend zone" just because you dont want it to end up being a friendship
that's like
a for sure way that you won't meet anyone lol
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