I was just in jail for 3 months. - General

[QUOTE=matt000024;41387669]I think your book will do quite well. A lot of us here would buy it.[/QUOTE] I would but I don't have money on my hands.

I'm having issues seeing Curry at the moment, I guess you need a state I.D. to visit people in jail. I'm writing Curry a letter right now before I go back to Crescent City in a few days and I will be giving him the mailing address in Crescent City so we can stay in contact until he gets released. I will keep this thread updated with our conversations and everything else I'm doing productive towards my probation.

Look forward to reading everything in this thread.

White, I gotta say, reading this entire thread from top to bottom has really given me a whole new perspective on life. I hope you live a great life.

[QUOTE=ThatSwordGuy;41395359]White, I gotta say, reading this entire thread from top to bottom has really given me a whole new perspective on life. I hope you live a great life.[/QUOTE] Just don't ever go to jail. Also never stay with a girl that shows warning signs like extreme jealousy, way over protective, hard drugs, crazy family, talks really badly to you or hits you. No matter what leave the bitch or you'll be in my position which isn't too much fun at the moment. Anyone feel like their coming towards a situation like mine talk to me and I'll tell you what you need to do before it's too late. Any relationship that has at least 2 of those traits I just listed is someone that needs to figure their own shit out before being in any type of relationship because their problems will soon be doubled maybe even tripled upon you.

Update on Currys case: [url]http://www.times-standard.com/news/ci_23639804/testimony-continues-curry-trial-jurors-hear-defendant-ask[/url] [url]http://www.times-standard.com/news/ci_23632103/gravesite-found-curry-case-willow-creek-murder-case[/url]

Woah, his name is actually curry. I thought it was a nickname.

His first name is Limmie his last name is Curry. Also in the picture he has dreads but in jail he shaves his head.

I read through the entire thread, word for word, this is the most touching story I have ever read. Hope you get through all of this. Is there any new updates?

Not really I sent off my letter to Curry Friday so I'm guessing he will get that around Wednesday or Thursday.

How're you today White?

I was hoping you were trolling because I didn't want to believe some chick could just scream "DOMESTIC VIOLENCE" at get a man arrested. I was really holding out for the "lolno i had all of you fooled" post a couple pages in. Still, you handled it like a champ. You took such a horrible situation and made yourself a better person because of it. Your story is inspiring and I hope that if I get screwed over like you did, I'll be able to come out of it just as well. I'm sure your story would do well, too. Everyone who sees this thread would probably buy it, I know I would. I'd try to spread the word and try to get everyone else I know to buy it, too. I, like so many others in this thread, would be willing to lend you a hand if you needed something. (I wouldn't mind reading your story drafts and proofreading them, but I'm just some random hobbyist so I understand that you probably wouldn't want to take that offer.) But still: Great job, OP.

[QUOTE=revan740;40970831]It's Innocent till proven guilty, but what I don't understand is: How would there have been no case if you were never the one to hold the knife? Weren't her fingerprints the only ones present? I feel that the answer right there would have been the end of it.[/QUOTE] Seeing as he's used it to chop up vegetables and other stuff it probably would have had his prints on it regardless.

[QUOTE=id05245;41461828]How're you today White?[/QUOTE] I'm actually leaving Eureka and going back to Crescent City in about an hour. Theirs a lot on my back right now but I'm just trying to get it all done and out of the way one task at a time. I was supposed to be enrolled in domestic violence classes 2 days after sentencing and so far I'm not and I'm still waiting on a probation officer to give me a call and give me the solid okay that my probation transfer went through with no problems. I have to get a new job and I got some pretty bad news today, I guess Joe Laroo 'the guy I met in jail' scammed me.. I chopped wood and helped him with other physically draining tasks in his yard and property for about 20 hours and he told me he isn't going to pay me. He told me to 'kick rocks white boy' in a text message today. It's just another wall trying to stop me in my goal of success so I'm just going to have to brush it off my shoulders and keep going. It does bother me a lot but theirs really nothing I can do about it seeing as it was under the table.

Wow what a dick.

[QUOTE=White;41462885]I'm actually leaving Eureka and going back to Crescent City in about an hour. Theirs a lot on my back right now but I'm just trying to get it all done and out of the way one task at a time. I was supposed to be enrolled in domestic violence classes 2 days after sentencing and so far I'm not and I'm still waiting on a probation officer to give me a call and give me the solid okay that my probation transfer went through with no problems. I have to get a new job and I got some pretty bad news today, I guess Joe Laroo 'the guy I met in jail' scammed me.. I chopped wood and helped him with other physically draining tasks in his yard and property for about 20 hours and he told me he isn't going to pay me. He told me to 'kick rocks white boy' in a text message today. It's just another wall trying to stop me in my goal of success so I'm just going to have to brush it off my shoulders and keep going. It does bother me a lot but theirs really nothing I can do about it seeing as it was under the table.[/QUOTE] Damn man. Shit, you just got played by a dude at your lowest... If that were me I would have also walked into that one. Just gotta be careful in life with people I guess... --- I just read the whole thread since you bumped this and it's been really informative,moving, and inspirational, but I must ask- Do you have any plans on seeing another woman after this whole affair? What about your college courses? You paid for the classes and you didn't get to take the finals. Can you give us an update on what happened with that? What can you say about the future of your child? I mean, she has full custody of him- and I know you want to be a part of his life... When he grows up, what do you plan to do in the future with him? Also, where are you living? I assume you had to stay away from her, after she ruined your furniture and pretty much doesn't want to see you, ever. (The whole part about the laptop thing irks me so.) What has your family done while this has taken place? Anything worth mentioning happen while you were in jail?

Sorry to hear that. Hope things work out for you.

[QUOTE=simonheros;41463055]Damn man. Shit, you just got played by a dude at your lowest... If that were me I would have also walked into that one. Just gotta be careful in life with people I guess... --- I just read the whole thread since you bumped this and it's been really informative,moving, and inspirational, but I must ask- Do you have any plans on seeing another woman after this whole affair? What about your college courses? You paid for the classes and you didn't get to take the finals. Can you give us an update on what happened with that? What can you say about the future of your child? I mean, she has full custody of him- and I know you want to be a part of his life... When he grows up, what do you plan to do in the future with him? Also, where are you living? I assume you had to stay away from her, after she ruined your furniture and pretty much doesn't want to see you, ever. (The whole part about the laptop thing irks me so.) What has your family done while this has taken place? Anything worth mentioning happen while you were in jail?[/QUOTE] I honestly have been talking to a few women since I've been out of jail and let me tell you it's pretty hard for me at the moment. I don't know why but all I want from a girl is love. Like a one night stand cuddle session for me to let out what's hurting me on the inside. I haven't cried or let out any of my feelings since I got out of jail I feel like a numb brick wall of a person. I miss being in a relationship and having someone their that would cheer me up or make me feel better about the situation. Now I'm just alone and my life is even more stressful then it was before because of all this court ordered bullshit that is supposed to 'rehabilitate me'. I don't think I'll be looking for a committed relationship anytime soon that's for sure. Maybe just some kind of friend that will just be their for me that's about it for a while. I haven't looked into school yet but it is one of my top priorities as soon as I get the time. I actually was just contacted by my ex girlfriend the other day somehow she got my number I have no idea how but she did. She was asking me if I wanted to see my son but the only way I could see my son is if it was just me and her and we would have to go out to eat. She even offered to pay for it all but I just can't be around her right now, I feel like she is going to try and pull me back in and try and attract me back with sex and love. I don't want to give her a chance to even try because I'm at a point where I might actually take her back to be honest if the opportunity was at hand. I don't want that but I'm a desperate lonely 20 year old that wants his son to have his real mom and dad. I understand that our relationship wasn't healthy and it probably never will be so I don't even want to waste my time with all that I have enough to worry about. I feel like seeing my son is going to be very difficult while I'm on probation seeing as all she has to do is call 911 and hit herself and I'll be on the bus to prison. I haven't seen my son yet and believe me it hurts me everyday it's hard to go to sleep at night because all I think about is going to sleep with him right next to me before I went to jail. I miss waking up to him rubbing on my face or hitting me and eating cereal with him. I'm getting a little carried away I just don't really talk to anyone about it I tend to keep my problems to myself. I'm living at my grandma's house in Crescent City at the moment. My family hasn't really done anything to help me other then putting money on my books while I was in jail. I've been taking care of everything myself on foot since I got out of jail such as seeing my attorney and taking care of court shit which is a lot of shit believe me. The only thing I can think of off the top of my head that I never really mentioned in this thread was this guy named Billy Badass stole jolly ranchers from me. When I told my work out instructor Mark about it he took him to the bathroom and broke his nose. I didn't even ask him for help I just told him about it because I saw Billy stealing from my bunk when he thought I was going to the bathroom.

I think you're doing the right thing by not giving her a chance. Mark seems like a nice dude. As far as the girl situation maybe try a library, in my experience they're very nice there. I do not think I would be able to view things as you have and do what you have done in terms of not reacting.

You and Curry need to start a fucking youtube channel about these stories, this is cool as fuck

[QUOTE=U.S.S.R;40946804]Your ex sounds like an indecent excuse for a human being and you must have a heart of gold. Are the beds cozy?[/QUOTE] Alot of people, esspecialy me when mad, we'd think of the best way to make worst out of the hatred with lies. I don't think that she really wanted to get him that far. But i guess it made a lesson both for them.

[QUOTE=showtek;41472868]Alot of people, esspecialy me when mad, we'd think of the best way to make worst out of the hatred with lies. I don't think that she really wanted to get him that far. But i guess it made a lesson both for them.[/QUOTE] I know she didn't want it to go as far as it did but it went that far and it was her fault 100%. I do blame her for what happened but I don't carry any negative feelings towards her over it. I know she wants to give us another chance and try and get back together but I just can't get back into that situation. I wish my son could have both of his parents but she was just not meant to be with me. We had a perfect relationship before our son was born but then she cheated on me right after he was born then everything just went downhill from their. Their might be a chance in the future for us but not anytime soon that's for sure. I don't consider myself pathetic or less of a man by thinking our relationship could possibly be re kindled in the future. I know she fucked me over and threw my life in a pile of shit but she is only 18 years old and not too bright and had a lot more stress then your average 18 year old. I haven't really gone into detail about our relationship before I went to jail maybe some of you would see what I'm saying more clearly if I told you about how it was before I was sent to jail.

that'd have a certain clarifying aspect to it. Anything interesting happen with you today White?

Not really just set up an appointment with a domestic violence program that's about it. I also sent out my fee waiver sheet to the legal office I'm hoping I can get $600 deducted from my restitution that would be nice.

So i just read through those two news things on Curry, and i can't make sense of it? So what is the outcome, they think that he killed people, and was shopping when it happened? can you simplify it please. :/ Also, hows his case looking now? And one last thing. I hope that you find a good girl friend. as in, not one to date, just one to have as a good friend, so that you can have a hug when you need it, a coffee, and a companion. I think they are the best thing to have, as long as you can handle the whole "not getting to close, whilst still being close" I've struggled with it, but its totally worth it. Hope all comes well and good for you man!

[QUOTE=Brismo;41479425]So i just read through those two news things on Curry, and i can't make sense of it? So what is the outcome, they think that he killed people, and was shopping when it happened? can you simplify it please. :/ Also, hows his case looking now? And one last thing. I hope that you find a good girl friend. as in, not one to date, just one to have as a good friend, so that you can have a hug when you need it, a coffee, and a companion. I think they are the best thing to have, as long as you can handle the whole "not getting to close, whilst still being close" I've struggled with it, but its totally worth it. Hope all comes well and good for you man![/QUOTE] The other guy Eddie David Lee is the one that spent all the stolen money. Curry had a t.v. at his apartment that matched a box that was on top of the burn pile of the body. I haven't heard back from Curry yet but his case is solid the other guy already admitted to burning the body he just claims Curry is the one who murdered him. They found two guns in Curry's apartment but the shell casings don't match the ones found in the body. They have no evidence against Curry just Eddie David Lee. I've never seen Eddie personally because he was in a different dorm than I was. I heard rumors that Eddie and Curry act the exact same way but I've also heard that Curry has a small chance of actually getting convicted for the murder and Eddie just being the person getting rid of the body won't do as much time as Curry. I just have to talk with Curry personally to really know what's going on. I have to go back to Eureka for court again to check in and show them I'm following my orders of probation anyways so I'll try and visit him in about a month.

I just found this thread and already read about 7 pages but now I have to post. White this thread is very interesting and you seem to be a nice guy. I feel sorry for what happened to you but you seem to make the best out of it. I'm very confident you will get back on track soon :) [editline]16th July 2013[/editline] Offtopic: Why is this thread in FT? Feels like it should be in GD..

[QUOTE=laenger;41484666]I just found this thread and already read about 7 pages but now I have to post. White this thread is very interesting and you seem to be a nice guy. I feel sorry for what happened to you but you seem to make the best out of it. I'm very confident you will get back on track soon :) [editline]16th July 2013[/editline] Offtopic: Why is this thread in FT? Feels like it should be in GD..[/QUOTE] I thought of that after I posted it. I just didn't know how people would react in GD. If a moderator comes by this post I would appreciate it if you could move this thread to GD.

hey white you want anything on steam?

I was actually just looking at counter strike global offensive that's pretty much the only thing on steam right now that's in my interest. Just heard of it the other day it looks pretty sweet. I use to play a lot of css so that would be awesome.