• My best friends ex bf offered to meet with me. What to do?
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[QUOTE=arleitiss;34714310]Okay I am back. I talked to him. We had a little walk around city, what I found out: my "best" friend been lying to me a lot. the guy is victim of her lies as well. So shits' going real not between me and that guy, but between her and me now :L[/QUOTE] Don't rush, don't be a fool. What did he said exactly, what kind of lies? Also, consider that he wants to make her look bad in your eyes as i thought he could do, but now seeing everything, most likely he's telling you the truth, cause he's a nice guy. So , what did you friend did?
You gotta remember, he could be turning you on her too.
No, I just talked to her, she admitted that she lied. Yesterday I was waiting for her in the morning, she said that shes' taking bus. So I waited at the bus stop for her all morning, was late for college. THen I called her and she said she walked to college so she was there before me. So wtf? Only today he told me that he drove her on car to college in morning after they had a talk about breaking up. Then there was lots more episodes of lies which I am truly sorry but I can't say. So she admitted all lies and apologized. The guy turned out to be alright though, we talked about PC's , 3D modelling and stuff like that, he also apologized about last time we met where he was mad at me.
[QUOTE=arleitiss;34714858]No, I just talked to her, she admitted that she lied. Yesterday I was waiting for her in the morning, she said that shes' taking bus. So I waited at the bus stop for her all morning, was late for college. THen I called her and she said she walked to college so she was there before me. So wtf? Only today he told me that he drove her on car to college in morning after they had a talk about breaking up. Then there was lots more episodes of lies which I am truly sorry but I can't say. So she admitted all lies and apologized. The guy turned out to be alright though, we talked about PC's , 3D modelling and stuff like that, he also apologized about last time we met where he was mad at me.[/QUOTE] I said you could become buds with that guy. Also, if i was you, i would not be that bitches friend anymore. Good luck buddy. You will have so much more episodes like this in your life, but don't give up, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
[QUOTE=overpain;34715047]I said you could become buds with that guy. Also, if i was you, i would not be that bitches friend anymore. Good luck buddy. You will have so much more episodes like this in your life, but don't give up, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.[/QUOTE] Well yeah, guess got a new friend. But she asked for apology lots of times, + she explained lots of stuff and started crying over phone, I asked why she's crying she said "I didn't want everything to turn out this way, I didn't mean to lie" so I guess i will forgive her, supposedly she's really sorry about the done.
[QUOTE=arleitiss;34715128]Well yeah, guess got a new friend. But she asked for apology lots of times, + she explained lots of stuff and started crying over phone, I asked why she's crying she said "I didn't want everything to turn out this way, I didn't mean to lie" so I guess i will forgive her, supposedly she's really sorry about the done.[/QUOTE] Don't. Trust me, she will continue to break your heart/ lie to you. I'm saying that from my experience. I experienced many similar situations. Otherwise later you will be very sorry. Also, for the crying part... Girls tears are their secret weapon, so they could soften our hearts. Almost all the girls uses that kind of tactic. 90 % of the tears doesn't even mean anything.
[QUOTE=overpain;34715170]Don't. Trust me, she will continue to break your heart/ lie to you. I'm saying that from my experience. I experienced many similar situations. Otherwise later you will be very sorry. Also, for the crying part... Girls tears are their secret weapon, so they could soften our hearts. Almost all the girls uses that kind of tactic. 90 % of the tears doesn't even mean anything.[/QUOTE] Thanks for the help, but I will pass on this one, we had many problems before, we've been through a lot of shit and hard parts, there's even been a moment where I told her I like/love her, there's been moments I told that I totally hate her and hope she dies from some disease (which was very bad of me to say), we always sort stuff out after either her or me apologizing to each other.But thanks :)
[QUOTE=arleitiss;34715326]Thanks for the help, but I will pass on this one, we had many problems before, we've been through a lot of shit and hard parts, there's even been a moment where I told her I like/love her, there's been moments I told that I totally hate her and hope she dies from some disease (which was very bad of me to say), we always sort stuff out after either her or me apologizing to each other.But thanks :)[/QUOTE] Congratz, you're in the friendzone, but if that is what you want, good luck.
[QUOTE=overpain;34715481]Congratz, you're in the friendzone, but if that is what you want, good luck.[/QUOTE] We are gonna see each other every day for 6 more years at least (same course in same college), may as well so.
[QUOTE=Desert Rat;34712332]God speed, arleeitiss. Remember, if you hold your hand like a C and slam your index and thumb into his throat hard enough, it can collapse his windpipe and kill him. Or you can shove your palm into his lower nose, causing it to break and force the cartilage to his brain killing him instantly. And never forget, the knees bend backwards very easily, and the solar plexus hurts like a bitch. Go get em, OP.[/QUOTE] ok calm down rambo. i don't think it's going to get that far.
Nevermind then.
[QUOTE=arleitiss;34715558]We are gonna see each other every day for 6 more years at least (same course in same college), may as well so.[/QUOTE] See, thats basicly what I was saying with my first post. Everybody can handle that situation in his own way but when you break it down: You dont need that bitch. She lied to you, and even if she is truly sorry, which i doubt, cause women like that love to play without thinking about the consequences, she will do it again. Girls like that are a waste of energy, money and love that you could possibly spend on someone that deserves it.
[QUOTE=BloodYScar;34723122]See, thats basicly what I was saying with my first post. Everybody can handle that situation in his own way but when you break it down: You dont need that bitch. She lied to you, and even if she is truly sorry, which i doubt, cause women like that love to play without thinking about the consequences, she will do it again. Girls like that are a waste of energy, money and love that you could possibly spend on someone that deserves it.[/QUOTE] I have already said it, and he refused to listen, he says it will work out. Well, good luck op.
Okay, I'm opening the books. OP gets his shit kicked, OP makes a friend, or OP kicks shit. Taking all bets.
[QUOTE=Mr Shadyface;34724135]Okay, I'm opening the books. OP gets his shit kicked, OP makes a friend, or OP kicks shit. Taking all bets.[/QUOTE] He already told what hppened, the guy is bro now and his friend lied to him.
[QUOTE=overpain;34724193]He already told what hppened, the guy is bro now and his friend lied to him.[/QUOTE] My bad. I coulda made a bit of money out of that.
I dont understand why everyones jumping to the conclusion that because she lied about being with him that shes automatically a bitch and he shouldn't associate with her. If this had been an occurrence that happened over and over even after numerous apologies, I might understand, but considering they're best friends and this is (what seems to be) a first time occurrence, theres no reason for extreme hostility. Gj OP for being the mature person
[QUOTE=Desert Rat;34725514]I dont understand why everyones jumping to the conclusion that because she lied about being with him that shes automatically a bitch and he shouldn't associate with her. If this had been an occurrence that happened over and over even after numerous apologies, I might understand, but considering they're best friends and this is (what seems to be) a first time occurrence, theres no reason for extreme hostility. Gj OP for being the mature person[/QUOTE] He said that wasn't first time.
Just tell him you're not gay
[QUOTE=Heatvision...;34726777]Just tell him you're not gay[/QUOTE] He didn't said that he wants to stick his penis in the op you know. Or we do not know it yet.
Can't be trustin bitches these days.
[QUOTE=Tw34k;34728965]Can't be trustin bitches these days.[/QUOTE] Bitches are bad.
Bros before hoes.
[QUOTE=Zoran;34729717]Bros before hoes.[/QUOTE] Pirates versus ninjas.
Everything is alright, I was ignoring her for 3 hours today in college, I was literally dead silent didnt' say a word. So she kept apologizing for 3 hours straight, even brought a chocolate for me from home lol. So it's alright now.
[QUOTE=arleitiss;34733241]Everything is alright, I was ignoring her for 3 hours today in college, I was literally dead silent didnt' say a word. So she kept apologizing for 3 hours straight, even brought a chocolate for me from home lol. So it's alright now.[/QUOTE] Who needs honesty, trust, and loyalty when you can just buy out your friends?
I'm really tired of everyone bashing you for the "friendzone". I'd much rather spend all ym time being as good a friend possible with that girl rather than wallow in self-pity. At least it means you have a nice social life. Back on-topic, this whole thread was basically everythingwentbetterthanexpected.jpg
[QUOTE=KingKombat;34733423]I'm really tired of everyone bashing you for the "friendzone". I'd much rather spend all ym time being as good a friend possible with that girl rather than wallow in self-pity. At least it means you have a nice social life. Back on-topic, this whole thread was basically everythingwentbetterthanexpected.jpg[/QUOTE] *Nice social life. **Shitty life because of his friend.
Fuck him hard.
[QUOTE=Mr.Fancy_hat;34805399]Fuck him hard.[/QUOTE] Avatar fits.
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