It's probably already been said, but it's not a matter of being a "Bad Boy," it's a matter of confidence. If you can't be confident with yourself, why should she?
[QUOTE=rapperkid04;26676029]That's what I'm here for. I can expand on that infinitely if you want :v:[/QUOTE]
expanding on it will not help him change. theory only goes so far.
[editline]15th December 2010[/editline]
but good on him if it really does help.
[QUOTE=robmaister12;26707788]It's probably already been said, but it's not a matter of being a "Bad Boy," it's a matter of confidence. If you can't be confident with yourself, why should she?[/QUOTE]
how could it be a matter of confidence?
i really dont get it.
are you saying that i dont mix with people
Often they're exciting, open for adventure, fun, risk and full of self-confidence that makes you want join their fun - if you're not one of their "victims" anyway. This might sound exist, tho I think it's still due to our cultural history in this part of the world, but I've noticed many girls enjoy being led. They like being able to speak their mind and make their own decisions, but they also like the leading gentleman that designs a romantic evening for them/ the cool guy who spontaneously takes them to someplace cool and fun, parties or otherwise, depending on taste. Think about it. It's not weird for a guy to hold open doors for his girl or put her chair into the right place in a restaurant*, but if you reversed the roles it would seem weird. I think not only do many (motivated) guys want to be the knight that conquers and protects the girl, many girls also like to be protected and to be the princess that's being cared for.
I don't want to generalize, it's simply what I've observed a lot of times. Not to say all people are like that. I don't even know if they're in the majority in the Western culture, but stuff like Twilight's popularity reinforce my impression.
On the other side, [u][url="http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AllGirlsWantBadBoys"]these girls[/url][/u] rarely the type girls/young woman aim for when looking for a partner in the long run (solid, long-running relationships, marriage etc), so if you don't want to turn 180° you'll simply have to either skip the fun or find a girl that likes you how you are right now, but you might have better chances later on.
I don't like generalizing that much, so don't take anything for granted or think all people think like that. I merely stick to the theory that has the smallest holes in it.
If you want to see some more err... serious opinion on this and less of the "lol op dun get pussy u 9001 jelly mad bro" posts, I'd say take a look at the TV Tropes link above or [u][url="http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/TroperTales/AllGirlsWantBadBoys"]these Troper Tales[/url][/u].
*this sounded especially weird, I apologize for English only being my second language.
Love advice anyone?
Also, because they don't supplement to other guys. It's as simple as a pack mentality, the strongest male gets the female.
[QUOTE=Marik Bentusi;26708813]Often they're exciting, open for adventure, fun, risk and full of self-confidence that makes you want join their fun - if you're not one of their "victims" anyway. This might sound exist, tho I think it's still due to our cultural history in this part of the world, but I've noticed many girls enjoy being led. They like being able to speak their mind and make their own decisions, but they also like the leading gentleman that designs a romantic evening for them/ the cool guy who spontaneously takes them to someplace cool and fun, parties or otherwise, depending on taste. Think about it. It's not weird for a guy to hold open doors for his girl or put her chair into the right place in a restaurant*, but if you reversed the roles it would seem weird. I think not only do many (motivated) guys want to be the knight that conquers and protects the girl, many girls also like to be protected and to be the princess that's being cared for.
I don't want to generalize, it's simply what I've observed a lot of times. Not to say all people are like that. I don't even know if they're in the majority in the Western culture, but stuff like Twilight's popularity reinforce my impression.
On the other side, [u][url="http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AllGirlsWantBadBoys"]these girls[/url][/u] rarely the type girls/young woman aim for when looking for a partner in the long run (solid, long-running relationships, marriage etc), so if you don't want to turn 180° you'll simply have to either skip the fun or find a girl that likes you how you are right now, but you might have better chances later on.
I don't like generalizing that much, so don't take anything for granted or think all people think like that. I merely stick to the theory that has the smallest holes in it.
If you want to see some more err... serious opinion on this and less of the "lol op dun get pussy u 9001 jelly mad bro" posts, I'd say take a look at the TV Tropes link above or [u][url="http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/TroperTales/AllGirlsWantBadBoys"]these Troper Tales[/url][/u].
*this sounded especially weird, I apologize for English only being my second language.[/QUOTE]
i dont know.
most people in my country only have Wedding and Birthday parties
Try being an arrogant, cocky slight dickhead to a girl just for a bit while teasing her but also being thoughtful and conversational and you might see what the appeal is. "bad boys" don't necessarily act like that all the time anyway, just like how girls don't spend all their time being flirty.
[QUOTE=Matrix374;26709152]i dont know.
most people in my country only have Wedding and Birthday parties[/QUOTE]
I bet you have some sort of "exciting" equivalent tho. People here use parties as an excuse to get together and take drugs (anything from alcohol to tobacco to chemicals), there doesn't even have to be more reason than "hey, it's a weekend" to go to a party around here.
Girls prefer Badage boys
as far as im concerned the "bad boys" are usually fake ass pussies :v:
[QUOTE=Failboat;26671603]they don't[/QUOTE]
Oh yes they do.
:smug:
[QUOTE=Marik Bentusi;26709276]I bet you have some sort of "exciting" equivalent tho. People here use parties as an excuse to get together and take drugs (anything from alcohol to tobacco to chemicals), there doesn't even have to be more reason than "hey, it's a weekend" to go to a party around here.[/QUOTE]
not really
nothing exciting here.........
except if you're "normal"
you watch football the whole weekend
nut up or shut up
Not all girls prefer 'bad boys.'
The real question is:
Why are girls talking about dating when they're not even teens.
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