[QUOTE=Zufeng;50840278]People judging me as lazy person because my eyebag
Ugh[/QUOTE]
Wouldn't that work the other way around? Like if you have bags under your eyes that means you don't get enough sleep. Not that you sleep too much.
McDonalds Happy Meals now have whatever the fuck this toy is, that kids keep throwing on the floor because thats how you play with them, apparently.
The noise those things make whenever they crash the floor is INFURIATING. EVERY GODDAMN TIME I'M AT MCDONALDS, THERES A KID THROWING THAT SHIT ON THE FLOOR, MAKING HARD PLASTIC CASING NOISES.
FUCK
-snip, not going to deal with brain dead retards-
Why am I always fucking tired?
I have had bags under my eyes for the longest time now, I don't even remember when they pooped up.
No matter how well my sleeping schedule is, they are never gone. I don't hate them or anything, but people keep on whining about how I should sleep early and shit whenever they see me.
It does not piss me off, it just annoys me.
[QUOTE=Demo-the-man;50841100]when they [B]pooped[/B] up[/QUOTE]
gross
[QUOTE=hoodoo456;50839553]Misgendering someone in the first place is worse lol
Making an honest mistake and owning up to it is fine but if you refuse to respect someone's gender identity you can go fuck yourself[/QUOTE]
The latter statement is true; if someone tells you that they prefer being called one gender and you refuse, you're being an asshole.
My point, however, was that if I have just met you or just found out that you identify something other than what you physically appear as to my eyes, it might take me more time than none at all to call you by your preferred pronouns.
Case in point, one of my closest friends came out as trans 2 years into our friendship. Up to that point, I had always seen her as a dude. She had never done anything outwardly feminine, so how was I to know? When she came out to us, I still caught myself calling her by the wrong pronoun, because I had two years' worth of misgendering to unlearn. Like any sane person, she was patient with me (and the rest of the friend group), because like unlearning anything ingrained in your mind for any significant amount of time, it takes time to learn how to do it the right way.
If my friend had followed the comic, one of us would have broken the friendship off way before, because instead of understanding that learning things isn't like flipping a light switch, it takes a bit of time. And the meaner you are about it, the less of a shit I want to give.
Another thing that bothers me.
You know those Elgato capture card things?
Elgato kind of means "the cat" in spanish. I took a look at their logo to see if it was a cat...
It's not a fucking cat! What the fuck?!
Working in retail has really made me into a bitter person, I'm still a nice person but it just kills me how rude people can be when they don't get their own way. Fuck retail, I need to do something other than this worthless shit job.
Some people consider mommie dearest to be unintentionally funny because of the overacting. But for me, its too real...
[video=youtube;tUkE9qaVgmo]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUkE9qaVgmo[/video]
My mom in comparison [url]https://www.dropbox.com/s/nas40os26s0i1l8/RNC015.WAV?dl=0[/url]
[QUOTE=SoftHearted;50840460]Wouldn't that work the other way around? Like if you have bags under your eyes that means you don't get enough sleep. Not that you sleep too much.[/QUOTE]
I dont really know how i got the bags either,i only sleep very late if its holiday like friday and saturday,and yet this eyebags appear anyway
[QUOTE=Deathtrooper2;50841965]Some people consider mommie dearest to be unintentionally funny because of the overacting. But for me, its too real...
[video=youtube;tUkE9qaVgmo]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUkE9qaVgmo[/video]
My mom in comparison [url]https://www.dropbox.com/s/nas40os26s0i1l8/RNC015.WAV?dl=0[/url][/QUOTE]
People gave that movie shit, but it's a film thats disturbing in a lot of ways.
Forgive me for the wall of text, but I need to rant and get this shit off my chest.
I'm being stalked extremely, and aggressively. harassed, defamed, and threatened to be publicly shamed.
Why? Because I did nothing. I dated a severely mentally unstable, sociopath. I got into the relationship back in October 2nd. Everything seemed to be doing well, I spilled my heart out to him and told him everything I've ever done wrong. and I felt like I never trusted a person so much in my life.
That is until just a few weeks ago did I learn he 'saved' our chatlogs just in-case he needed to use them against me. Fucking saved chatlogs.
I poured my fucking heart out to that person, I treated them so well. I dropped at most a good $550 on them overall in the duration of the relationship. I was abused, neglected, and tortured. and I was too scared to do a fucking thing because I didn't want to lose him, and I was scared as fuck as to what he'd do if I left him.
Little did I know I'd find out only a few weeks ago (it still continues today)
He didn't let me make new friends or anything like that because he was too worried that I was going to cheat on him, He kept me entirely to himself. He would get jealous over me fucking picking up my kittens. He thought I was going to fucking cheat on him.
He said he trusted me countless times beforehand 'I trust you' 'I know you won't cheat on me' He had the audacity to say I was going back to my 'old self' when I said I wanted to make new friends, be able to talk to new people.
I won't hesitate that when I was younger, 14 - 16 I did a lot of bad shit with other people, I cheated, I did lots of horribly regrettable things. only did I start changing when I was dating him.
I bettered myself not for just him, but for the relationship, and myself. and god am I happy I made myself such a better person.
But he never changed. He'd get angry over the smallest things. He'd even blame me for stuff that's not my fault. only now do I notice that he wanted complete, full control over me, my actions, and who I talked to.
He wanted to assume control over my entire life. I was being manipulated, and I was only blinded by my love, my fear of him, and my broken will to do anything against him.
I remember him clearly asking me to play CS:GO with him, I was too tired to do so. He started to try to force me to play that shit with him and his friends. I kept telling him in the nicest way possible that I could play with him tomorrow. (I don't play CS:GO that often, mind you.) He gets angry. Very angry. He tells me someone's going to go offline. And guess what, someone does.
only for a minute or two. And what do I get? 'there we go' 'always ruining everything' He put the blame on me, every single time.
I can't believe just how much shit I went through, and am currently going through. I told him to change, so many times. I told him how to change, I told him so many countless times that I can't even remember off the top of my head. Only when he realizes I'm breaking up with him, that I've had enough; does he want to """"try"""" to change.
I leave him anyways. I want to remind you that I did absolutely /[I][B]NOTHING[/B][/I]/ during this entire ordeal. I did nothing but tell him I wanted nothing to do with him, and that I wanted to break up and go our separate ways. He didn't listen. He started to give me shit like 'How could you do something like this to me?' etc, etc.
I tell him to leave me alone, stop contacting me. In this timeframe I start to notice just how fucked up he had been treating me.
A few months ago I didn't talk to him that much for two days, He stops loving me. He stopped loving me just because I didn't talk that much for two days.
What does he say? 'You're boring' 'I'm going to ruin your life'
He says that shit. I go through all this shit with him, try to get him back. Obviously I'm panicking, I don't know what the hell to do.
Then on skype I say I still love him, I want him back, etc etc.
He fucking apologizes and tries to come back to me. And not once did the idea that maybe he wasn't mentally straight pass through my mind.
So back to the 'present' A few weeks ago I finally leave him. He tries his hardest to ""change"" just [B]AFTER TELLING HIM 300 TIMES BEFOREHAND DURING THE 'RELATIONSHIP'[/B] and get me back. I keep him in my list for a while, only to remove him a few days later; with a pastebin to explain why I left him.
He then believes himself the victim. Everything goes spiraling down from here.
This is where the harassment, stalking and shaming comes into play.
And hard. It comes fucking hard.
He also spirals out of control. He's apologizing and then threatening me one second after another. of course I reply to him because I'm fucking stupid and didn't think to just stop replying to him altogether.
He put my address on his profile. He then tried to get me back by saying he only did it 'because he was so angry that i had added someone i had a crush on beforehand'
I talk to him again, I know that's a dumb idea. He tried to make me promise to not date anyone else and then he'll let me go, or the other choice; give him another chance.
Then he gave me another choice, date someone if you see him dating someone else.
I chose neither, and he throws a tantrum, and I remove him.
He puts my address on his profile.
This is where stuff gets UGLY.
He made a pastebin. containing private pictures, my address, real name, and chatlogs.
What did I do to deserve this? Fucking nothing. [I]nothing.[/I]
[IMG]http://puu.sh/qsdXG/7291367d1e.png[/IMG]
He starts making multiple email accounts JUST to bypass my blocks on him.
Then this one guy in my list wants to have matching avatars with me. Okay. Sure, whatever. I don't care what my crazy ex does. Except the immense stress it brings on me.
I've had to deal with this extreme harassment/stalking for the past three weeks.
So back to the guy with the matching avatars, I get this email from my ex.
[IMG]http://puu.sh/qq3dA/1ea0e284b1.png[/IMG]
Wow. I had already made the smart decision to not contact him at ALL 4 or 6 days ago beforehand.
so I don't respond.
[IMG]http://puu.sh/qquXR/120c11cd6e.png[/IMG]
Wow. He just figured himself that he was right just because I wasn't responding. Maybe I'm not responding because you're a fucking lunatic?
So to the final email.
[IMG]http://puu.sh/qr6P9/ba4959deda.png[/IMG]
That's great. Fuck. So he's planning to put my address, real name, and that dumb pastebin he made on his profile. He's also going to spread it everywhere. Fucking fantastic. And the pastebin probably includes his own delusional thoughts about what HE thought happened, as HE saw it. And it probably has dumb warnings to 'not date me' or some shit, and that I'll cheat on you or some fucking retarded bullshit like that, etc, etc.
--
I should also probably add that he didn't let me talk to absolutely anyone at all about our problems, or how he had been treating me.
He hated it. I remember clearly what he said a few months ago. That I was 'making people hate him' and that he was angry at me for that.
So there's everything. Again, sorry for the wall of text, but I had to get off this my chest.
[QUOTE=Aya86T;50842106]Forgive me for the wall of text, but I need to rant and get this shit off my chest.
I'm being stalked extremely, and aggressively. harassed, defamed, and threatened to be publicly shamed.
Why? Because I did nothing. I dated a severely mentally unstable, sociopath. I got into the relationship back in October 2nd. Everything seemed to be doing well, I spilled my heart out to him and told him everything I've ever done wrong. and I felt like I never trusted a person so much in my life.
That is until just a few weeks ago did I learn he 'saved' our chatlogs just in-case he needed to use them against me. Fucking saved chatlogs.
I poured my fucking heart out to that person, I treated them so well. I dropped at most a good $550 on them overall in the duration of the relationship. I was abused, neglected, and tortured. and I was too scared to do a fucking thing because I didn't want to lose him, and I was scared as fuck as to what he'd do if I left him.
Little did I know I'd find out only a few weeks ago (it still continues today)
He didn't let me make new friends or anything like that because he was too worried that I was going to cheat on him, He kept me entirely to himself. He would get jealous over me fucking picking up my kittens. He thought I was going to fucking cheat on him.
He said he trusted me countless times beforehand 'I trust you' 'I know you won't cheat on me' He had the audacity to say I was going back to my 'old self' when I said I wanted to make new friends, be able to talk to new people.
I won't hesitate that when I was younger, 14 - 16 I did a lot of bad shit with other people, I cheated, I did lots of horribly regrettable things. only did I start changing when I was dating him.
I bettered myself not for just him, but for the relationship, and myself. and god am I happy I made myself such a better person.
But he never changed. He'd get angry over the smallest things. He'd even blame me for stuff that's not my fault. only now do I notice that he wanted complete, full control over me, my actions, and who I talked to.
He wanted to assume control over my entire life. I was being manipulated, and I was only blinded by my love, my fear of him, and my broken will to do anything against him.
I remember him clearly asking me to play CS:GO with him, I was too tired to do so. He started to try to force me to play that shit with him and his friends. I kept telling him in the nicest way possible that I could play with him tomorrow. (I don't play CS:GO that often, mind you.) He gets angry. Very angry. He tells me someone's going to go offline. And guess what, someone does.
only for a minute or two. And what do I get? 'there we go' 'always ruining everything' He put the blame on me, every single time.
I can't believe just how much shit I went through, and am currently going through. I told him to change, so many times. I told him how to change, I told him so many countless times that I can't even remember off the top of my head. Only when he realizes I'm breaking up with him, that I've had enough; does he want to """"try"""" to change.
I leave him anyways. I want to remind you that I did absolutely /[I][B]NOTHING[/B][/I]/ during this entire ordeal. I did nothing but tell him I wanted nothing to do with him, and that I wanted to break up and go our separate ways. He didn't listen. He started to give me shit like 'How could you do something like this to me?' etc, etc.
I tell him to leave me alone, stop contacting me. In this timeframe I start to notice just how fucked up he had been treating me.
A few months ago I didn't talk to him that much for two days, He stops loving me. He stopped loving me just because I didn't talk that much for two days.
What does he say? 'You're boring' 'I'm going to ruin your life'
He says that shit. I go through all this shit with him, try to get him back. Obviously I'm panicking, I don't know what the hell to do.
Then on skype I say I still love him, I want him back, etc etc.
He fucking apologizes and tries to come back to me. And not once did the idea that maybe he wasn't mentally straight pass through my mind.
So back to the 'present' A few weeks ago I finally leave him. He tries his hardest to ""change"" just [B]AFTER TELLING HIM 300 TIMES BEFOREHAND DURING THE 'RELATIONSHIP'[/B] and get me back. I keep him in my list for a while, only to remove him a few days later; with a pastebin to explain why I left him.
He then believes himself the victim. Everything goes spiraling down from here.
This is where the harassment, stalking and shaming comes into play.
And hard. It comes fucking hard.
He also spirals out of control. He's apologizing and then threatening me one second after another. of course I reply to him because I'm fucking stupid and didn't think to just stop replying to him altogether.
He put my address on his profile. He then tried to get me back by saying he only did it 'because he was so angry that i had added someone i had a crush on beforehand'
I talk to him again, I know that's a dumb idea. He tried to make me promise to not date anyone else and then he'll let me go, or the other choice; give him another chance.
Then he gave me another choice, date someone if you see him dating someone else.
I chose neither, and he throws a tantrum, and I remove him.
He puts my address on his profile.
This is where stuff gets UGLY.
He made a pastebin. containing private pictures, my address, real name, and chatlogs.
What did I do to deserve this? Fucking nothing. [I]nothing.[/I]
[IMG]http://puu.sh/qsdXG/7291367d1e.png[/IMG]
He starts making multiple email accounts JUST to bypass my blocks on him.
Then this one guy in my list wants to have matching avatars with me. Okay. Sure, whatever. I don't care what my crazy ex does. Except the immense stress it brings on me.
I've had to deal with this extreme harassment/stalking for the past three weeks.
So back to the guy with the matching avatars, I get this email from my ex.
[IMG]http://puu.sh/qq3dA/1ea0e284b1.png[/IMG]
Wow. I had already made the smart decision to not contact him at ALL 4 or 6 days ago beforehand.
so I don't respond.
[IMG]http://puu.sh/qquXR/120c11cd6e.png[/IMG]
Wow. He just figured himself that he was right just because I wasn't responding. Maybe I'm not responding because you're a fucking lunatic?
So to the final email.
[IMG]http://puu.sh/qr6P9/ba4959deda.png[/IMG]
That's great. Fuck. So he's planning to put my address, real name, and that dumb pastebin he made on his profile. He's also going to spread it everywhere. Fucking fantastic. And the pastebin probably includes his own delusional thoughts about what HE thought happened, as HE saw it. And it probably has dumb warnings to 'not date me' or some shit, and that I'll cheat on you or some fucking retarded bullshit like that, etc, etc.
--
I should also probably add that he didn't let me talk to absolutely anyone at all about our problems, or how he had been treating me.
He hated it. I remember clearly what he said a few months ago. That I was 'making people hate him' and that he was angry at me for that.
So there's everything. Again, sorry for the wall of text, but I had to get off this my chest.[/QUOTE]
Call the fucking cops on this fucker, get the asshole arrested for stalking at least. Fucking creepo
Jesus,your boyfriend is fucking insane
I dont know if police handle Doxxing cases,but i think you need to report it,basicly he is abusing you
[QUOTE=Deathtrooper2;50842218]Call the fucking cops on this fucker, get the asshole arrested for stalking at least. Fucking creepo[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Zufeng;50842235]Jesus,your boyfriend is fucking insane
I dont know if police handle Doxxing cases,but i think you need to report it,basicly he is abusing you[/QUOTE]
That's the thing, I don't think the police will be able to handle this.
I think they'll only take a note of it or something, but I've already made a steam support ticket on what he's being doing. I got a reply from the steam support rep
'Hello Aya,
Thank you for contacting Steam Support.
Steam Support has received your report. We’ll see if anything malicious occurred.
For privacy, we don’t disclose any punitive actions taken because of your report.
Learn what happens to trade scammers and how to avoid scams:
Title: Trade Scam FAQ
Link: [url]https://support.steampowered.com/kb_article.php?ref=3415-WAFH-6433[/url]'
He also lives in portugal, I'm not sure the police can do anything.
[editline]7th August 2016[/editline]
In fact, I wouldn't doubt it that he'd find this thread and try to fucking harass me on here. Or even publicly shame me on here.
I'm expecting to get a flood of emails from him if he finds this.
[editline]7th August 2016[/editline]
I'm not sure if you guys will be able to do anything, But it'd be a real help if you guys could report him for harassment.
[url]https://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198119984166[/url]
I don't know if this goes against the rules of FP or not though.
snip explained
[QUOTE=Demo-the-man;50841100]I have had bags under my eyes for the longest time now, I don't even remember when they pooped up.
No matter how well my sleeping schedule is, they are never gone. I don't hate them or anything, but people keep on whining about how I should sleep early and shit whenever they see me.
It does not piss me off, it just annoys me.[/QUOTE]
Apparently sleeping facing up helps reduce them, but that's uncomfortable and I don't give enough damns to force myself to do it.
so I'm at a loss at what the hell I should do. Other than just outright ignoring every single thing he tries to do to me, and ignoring every attempt he makes to contact me.
[QUOTE=Aya86T;50842106]ex boyfriend who's a worthless detriment to society[/QUOTE]
What's he saying "as soon as I get unbanned" on? It's not Steam, he was on that two hours ago. Wouldn't it make more sense to link the profile he specifically stated he's going to put the pastebin on?
[editline]a[/editline]
And also do you not have any sort of mutually assured destruction type materials like [I]his[/I] personal shit?
[QUOTE=gk99;50842431]What's he saying "as soon as I get unbanned" on? It's not Steam, he was on that two hours ago. Wouldn't it make more sense to link the profile he specifically stated he's going to put the pastebin on?[/QUOTE]
He's community banned on steam. So, he can't change any details on his profile on steam. When he gets unbanned, He'll put the pastebin and my address on his steam profile.
Sorry that my first explanation wasn't clear enough.
[editline]7th August 2016[/editline]
I only have his real name, and the country he lives in.
I also know what sort of shit he was into as well.
In a way, yes. Only a very few collection of things.
[QUOTE=Aya86T;50842434]He's community banned on steam, I linked it in my quote two posts above.
[editline]7th August 2016[/editline]
So, he can't change any details on his profile on steam. When he gets unbanned, He'll put the pastebin and my address on his steam profile.[/QUOTE]
Ah, I couldn't see that from just going to his profile. You could reply to your old ticket (if it's not closed, in that case make a new one) with that email about how he's just going to do it anyway and see what happens. If he ends up doing it anyway because they didn't do anything about it, send another one in because the proof is undeniable at that point and in any case, he's only got 14 friends and I doubt any profile passerby would care very much.
[editline]a[/editline]
And I mean, avoiding contact with him is probably the best course of action so I don't recommend replying back to mention that you could release his personal details as well unless that's the only option left.
[QUOTE=gk99;50842468]Ah, I couldn't see that from just going to his profile. You could reply to your old ticket (if it's not closed, in that case make a new one) with that email about how he's just going to do it anyway and see what happens. If he ends up doing it anyway because they didn't do anything about it, send another one in because the proof is undeniable at that point and in any case, he's only got 14 friends and I doubt any profile passerby would care very much.[/QUOTE]
Steam support ticket is only a day and a half old. They already have pictures of his emails and what he said he'd do. Just waiting on a further response from them, other than the one I quoted a few posts back.
[editline]7th August 2016[/editline]
I guess you have a point.
[QUOTE=Aya86T;50842472]Steam support ticket is only a day and a half old. They already have pictures of his emails and what he said he'd do. Just waiting on a further response from them, other than the one I quoted a few posts back.[/QUOTE]
Then I guess it's just the waiting game. He can't do shit until November anyway.
Man, he's steam profile gives me the creeps.
I started a subscription for Munchpak since it was cheaper (and more reputable) than Snackcrate, but now I can't log in to my account that I made when I subscribed
so now I'm concerned, did it not actually make my account and instead I just ordered a one-off? I'd be okay with that. On the other hand, did they make my account and I fucked up my password and for some reason they're refusing to send a password reset email to me and I'm going to get charged $10 every month with no control over it?
[editline]a[/editline]
Nope, it's definitely one-a-month because that's what the one email in my inbox says I ordered. Fucking thanks Munchpak.
[editline]a[/editline]
BUT I IMMEDIATELY GET THE SUPPORT TICKET EMAIL WHEN I HAVE TO CONTACT SUPPORT? THE FUCK?
Xenophobes who blame refugees getting into a country on "political correctness".
Listen, it's not because of fucking political correctness, it's because not taking in refugees is a stupid idea that will do nothing but help fuel terrorism.
[QUOTE=Aya86T;50842106] -stalker- [/QUOTE]
My sister had to deal with a sociopathic stalker a few years ago. He went to the same high school as we did, and would follow my sister on social media to try to know her whereabouts and her schedule. He would get angry if he didn't know where she was. He even issued veiled threats to my sister's friends when they told him to back off, warning them that the streets were dangerous at night. Our mom officially had enough when this guy showed up under a tree across the street in the rain.
My mom can be quite intimidating when she wants to be, and used this to her advantage when dealing with my sister's stalker. My sister and I left to go hang out with friends, and my mom invited the stalker in to discuss his "friendship" with my sister, and made it very clear that she did not want him in my sister's life.
This talk got the stalker to leave my sister alone, and also made sure that any anger he had was solely placed on mom, and not on my sister and me. So far, he hasn't shown up.
Since your stalker lives in Portugal, then I don't think you have to worry about him showing up across the street. What I would recommend is changing your steam URL and your steam name. And your avatar. And all of your info. If he still finds you, then you may have to just keep blocking him and ignoring him. If he posts your personal info, then only like 15 people will see it. And pretty much no one will care about the stuff he posts about you. It sucks, but there's not much else that can be done apart from reporting him for harassment and hoping for the best.
[QUOTE=Deathtrooper2;50841965]Some people consider mommie dearest to be unintentionally funny because of the overacting. But for me, its too real...
[video=youtube;tUkE9qaVgmo]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUkE9qaVgmo[/video]
My mom in comparison [url]https://www.dropbox.com/s/nas40os26s0i1l8/RNC015.WAV?dl=0[/url][/QUOTE]
You should do your chores and then move out.
[QUOTE=Aya86T;50842244]
[editline]7th August 2016[/editline]
I'm not sure if you guys will be able to do anything, But it'd be a real help if you guys could report him for harassment.
[url]https://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198119984166[/url]
I don't know if this goes against the rules of FP or not though.[/QUOTE]
Holy shit,His steam profile is very disturbing
Judging from the comment,this dude clearly has an issue.
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