[QUOTE=Darkslicer;42849206]Confidence. Confidence is so amazing it's just impossible to explain. People, especially girls look differently at you, they act differently and it feels great. I am in this class consisting of 17 girls and 4 guys for 1 year now, nobody expect 1 girl really paid attention to me. After I started showing my talents and being "I dont give a fuck" everyone in the class is more open and closer to me. I showed this girl my full cover (instrumentally and acapella) of mad world by gary jules and she's totally amazed and kinda dreamy about me now because I am like her favorite rockstar :v:
I managed to hide all my talents and personality and just weeks ago I started to not give a fuck and be confident, this seriously changed my life and people all want my attention.
The mad world cover if somebody wants to hear it, I made the outro rock-alike even:
[media]http://soundcloud.com/caynug/caynug-mad-world-full-cover[/media]
happy![/QUOTE]
How do i motivate myself to be confident?
I got a half-day today and now it's time to marathon Retsupurae and eat Wendy's!
[QUOTE=pansarkurt;42851943]How do i motivate myself to be confident?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=geogzm;42850561]coach me on that confidence yo[/QUOTE]
I can't really tell what would work for you but what worked for me is this:
I've always been the melancholic musician guy, being silent and quiet and thinking nobody gives a shit about me anyways. In reality, being like that makes you vanish from peoples eyes in some way, it makes you forgetable easily. What I did is think, think alot about who I really am and what I am able to do that is "unnormal" and what really makes me special. Make a list, write down things that you think make you special or different then think about those things, try to make yourself happy at first and don't hide it! Wear it on your face, you might be scared that you will look arrogant to other people but that is certainly no problem maybe to people with superiority complexes or such.
Go out of your comfort zone, if you feel scared to say yes or to do something dont think twice simply say yes because that will reward you with so much awesome feelings that boost your motivation and confidence by alot. (just last week I got dragged to a stripclub, 4 bars/restaraunts, even a foursome everything on the same night) if I would have said "no I dont want to drink tonight" I wouldnt have had any of that action.
Can you play an instrument? Can you program or anything?
Even a person with alot of talent like me can be not confident and be depressive. I play 5 instruments since over 8 years, I sing, I beatbox, I speak 3 languages I have a band, I compose solo artist music and I do almost everything right in my life from work to social contacts and yet I felt like shit all the time till I managed to get myself into this state:[B]"I don't give a fuck"[/B] you know what rhymes with that? [B]"cause when I do I get stuck"[/B]
<3
[QUOTE=Darkslicer;42852987]I can't really tell what would work for you but what worked for me is this:
I've always been the melancholic musician guy, being silent and quiet and thinking nobody gives a shit about me anyways. In reality, being like that makes you vanish from peoples eyes in some way, it makes you forgetable easily. What I did is think, think alot about who I really am and what I am able to do that is "unnormal" and what really makes me special. Make a list, write down things that you think make you special or different then think about those things, try to make yourself happy at first and don't hide it! Wear it on your face, you might be scared that you will look arrogant to other people but that is certainly no problem maybe to people with superiority complexes or such.
Go out of your comfort zone, if you feel scared to say yes or to do something dont think twice simply say yes because that will reward you with so much awesome feelings that boost your motivation and confidence by alot. (just last week I got dragged to a stripclub, 4 bars/restaraunts, even a foursome everything on the same night) if I would have said "no I dont want to drink tonight" I wouldnt have had any of that action.
Can you play an instrument? Can you program or anything?
Even a person with alot of talent like me can be not confident and be depressive. I play 5 instruments since over 8 years, I sing, I beatbox, I speak 3 languages I have a band, I compose solo artist music and I do almost everything right in my life from work to social contacts and yet I felt like shit all the time till I managed to get myself into this state:[B]"I don't give a fuck"[/B] you know what rhymes with that? [B]"cause when I do I get stuck"[/B]
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I can play the guitar, produce music virtually, write stories, write lyrics, map (lol) and a few other little things. But I don't know how to use these to start conversations. Or when it's even appropriate to start casual conversation about that kind of thing.
[QUOTE=geogzm;42853294]I can play the guitar, produce music virtually, write stories, write lyrics, map (lol) and a few other little things. But I don't know how to use these to start conversations. Or when it's even appropriate to start casual conversation about that kind of thing.[/QUOTE]
It's not easy at all that's true but you can always somehow take advantage of that talent in some way.
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elias toufexis
kevan brighting
iration
and now filthy frank
who's next
[QUOTE=geogzm;42854160]who's next[/QUOTE]
me.
When shit like this happens
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Sitting in my dorm being cold (my thermostat is messed up) when I realized that I have two boxes of Mexican hot cocoa. Hot chocolate when I am cold always makes me happy.
[QUOTE=imptastick;42854374]Sitting in my dorm being cold (my thermostat is messed up) when I realized that I have two boxes of Mexican hot cocoa. Hot chocolate when I am cold always makes me happy.[/QUOTE]
my envy is intense
[QUOTE=Darkslicer;42852987]I can't really tell what would work for you but what worked for me is this:
I've always been the melancholic musician guy, being silent and quiet and thinking nobody gives a shit about me anyways. In reality, being like that makes you vanish from peoples eyes in some way, it makes you forgetable easily. What I did is think, think alot about who I really am and what I am able to do that is "unnormal" and what really makes me special. Make a list, write down things that you think make you special or different then think about those things, try to make yourself happy at first and don't hide it! Wear it on your face, you might be scared that you will look arrogant to other people but that is certainly no problem maybe to people with superiority complexes or such.
Go out of your comfort zone, if you feel scared to say yes or to do something dont think twice simply say yes because that will reward you with so much awesome feelings that boost your motivation and confidence by alot. (just last week I got dragged to a stripclub, 4 bars/restaraunts, even a foursome everything on the same night) if I would have said "no I dont want to drink tonight" I wouldnt have had any of that action.
Can you play an instrument? Can you program or anything?
Even a person with alot of talent like me can be not confident and be depressive. I play 5 instruments since over 8 years, I sing, I beatbox, I speak 3 languages I have a band, I compose solo artist music and I do almost everything right in my life from work to social contacts and yet I felt like shit all the time till I managed to get myself into this state:[B]"I don't give a fuck"[/B] you know what rhymes with that? [B]"cause when I do I get stuck"[/B]
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Thank you man, thank you.
Seeing Darkslicer being this happy makes me happy.
We may not have been speaking for such a long time, but you are talented and thank fuck that you've realized that fully now. :D
You know how in old photographs no one looks happy because they took so long to take that you wouldn't be able to hold a smile?
I saw a couple in some old photographs. They were an immigrant couple that had come to America in recent years and was getting their picture taken. One of the pictures fit the above, both people looking very stern. But the second one their faces were smudged because they'd had a laughing fit while waiting.
I'm just really happy to see that they had fun with it, since there were a few where their faces had gotten smudged.
I found a Crown Vic for almost 2 Grand in another town and my parents are thinking of checking it out for me :)
[QUOTE=Minimole;42857325]I found a Crown Vic for almost 2 Grand in another town and my parents are thinking of checking it out for me :)[/QUOTE]
Post pics of exterior and interior.
[QUOTE=Mr. Zombie;42857372]Post pics of exterior and interior.[/QUOTE]
Seller doesn't have an interior pic
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[QUOTE=hunterNormandy;42856118]Im only happy when others are happy.
Idc if im not happy, other people matter more to me.
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Well, other people matter more than me.
[QUOTE=Lordgeorge16;42834916]Oh my Jesus it looks so cozy and fancy.
[B]Can I move to Lebanon[/B] and spend a week at your house?[/QUOTE]
Not worth it, this country is fucking bullshit
And haha thanks, it's my first and only house, been living there since i was born, it changed a lot over time
You guys are great, thank you guys alot. I feel lovely now, the things you said to me made my day :v:
Fussy you just boosted my motivation to finish this goddamn album by a ton.
What makes me happy: 5 songs of that album are done so far with vocals.
Here guys have a song I wrote (this song goes out to everyone that does not feel appreciated by people for the awesome things you do):
[B]When:[/B]
[media]http://soundcloud.com/caynug/when-calm-version[/media]
It's a wonderful beat, very soothing, but I feel the vocals would be a bit more powerful with less echo.
That song was just something quick I wrote months ago. My album is very different, metal alike.
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Thanks :smile:
My YouTube downloader keeps downloading the subtitles, the automatically generated ones :v:
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Even though it doesn't affect us very much, Portugal is now out of recession
time to swim in my 1 cent box
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actually, it actually helps the people, so time to swim in my new golden 1 cent box
Be watching a music appreciation video.
They're talking about this woman, Marni Nixon.
I look her up out of curiosity.
I find her son's name is Andrew Gold.
"What a funny coincidence, I think the guy who made Spooky Scary Skeletons was named that, too!"
I click his name and find out he's the same guy. The euphoria I feel right now is insurmountable.
[QUOTE=DerpishCat;42861384]My YouTube downloader keeps downloading the subtitles, the automatically generated ones :v:
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MY RIBS... OH GOD.
Sometimes the auto-generated shit is just too funny.
Relembering this one memory from childhood makes me giggling-happy.
It was during my first year in school (I think), and I was in a religion class.
Teacher was talking about the history of creation ("In the X day God created Y etc. and God rested the last day).
When that was over, I asked the teacher "But when God created dinosaurs?" (I started reading books of dinosaurs during the kinderqarten times and I really was into them).
Teacher was quiet for a while, and continued as if I hadn't said anything.
And some heart-warmingly happy:
I went with Dad to help our relative to pick up potatoes from their field (And no, don't start imagining bigass field. It was quite small field, probably for the house's needs majorily). In exchange we got couple of batches of potatoes for our house.
After all that we went inside (and just in time before it started snowing heavierly) and ate there. After that, I sitted on a sofa. Our relative opened their dog's cage (Imagine a small, skinny dog with short fur that's used in hunting) and what that little dog did? It decided to hop on the sofa, lay her (I suppose it's a girl) legs on mine and rest her head on her legs and sleep.
Now THAT is heart-warming.
The homepage just wished me happy birthday
That really made my day
My car, love this thing even though its lost most of its power after 400,000 kms on the original engine doesn't leak any oil. The steering isn't straight, the AM stopped working. It started life as a 3 speed auto. That was slow and boring so my dad and I converted it to manual, still slow just less boring.
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Such a fun car to drive.
Oh holy fuck it feels so good to stop playing dota.
[B]SO GOOD.[/B]
When I can get someone to give me a back rub through several episodes of a TV series or an entire movie without needing to plead for it.
Feels soo good.
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