• Ex girlfriend harassing me, what can I do?
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[QUOTE=Skidmarks;51777039] She knows because she was a furry too. [/QUOTE] Should've mentioned that in the OP and nobody would've been surprised by her acting like that.
[QUOTE=Skidmarks;51777039] She knows because she was a furry too. I don't think I could make myself unappealing to her she is literally obsessed with me at this point.[/QUOTE] Act like Pink Guy If she doesn't freak out may god have mercy on your soul
[QUOTE=Higurashi;51750351]The funny thing is the more you ignore a girl the more she is craving to get back in contact with you. I'd just tell her I've turned gay or tell her stuff that makes her lose interest Or if she actually shows up, let her in, fuck her, throw her out and if she isn't leaving call the cops.[/QUOTE] If she's this obsessed, she crazy. Meaning cry rape or find a way to get pregnant.
I've been through the same thing but not as bad to the extent she would try and track me down, simply because we never met. I will pick out one of the most hurtful lines she ever said. "I shouldn't be with you because of the [B]autism[/B]", "Simple". She basically said I was worthless to her because I'm autistic... Which imo is one of the worst things someone has ever said to me in my life. Listen dude, I'm sorry things have come to this. I think that she's fucked in the head and you don't deserve this bullshit, hoping for the best, dude.
[QUOTE=Guriosity;51777638]If she's this obsessed, she crazy. Meaning cry rape or find a way to get pregnant.[/QUOTE] stop post [editline]5th February 2017[/editline] No matter what she does, says, or threatens, do not respond to her in any way. If she shows up outside your front door, call the police. Do not engage with her in any way, shape, or form. Don't accept friend requests from people you don't know on facebook, or anywhere else. Ask your friends to do the same. She'll get bored and move on, talking to her whatsoever will give her pivot points and/or remind her that you exist.
Why does this always happen to people... Good luck OP, tell me if there is anyway we can be to help.
[QUOTE=Radical_ed;51777961]stop post [editline]5th February 2017[/editline] No matter what she does, says, or threatens, do not respond to her in any way. If she shows up outside your front door, call the police. Do not engage with her in any way, shape, or form. Don't accept friend requests from people you don't know on facebook, or anywhere else. Ask your friends to do the same. She'll get bored and move on, talking to her whatsoever will give her pivot points and/or remind her that you exist.[/QUOTE] I'm replying why sleeping with her is a bad idea. Just disengage. Seriously.
[QUOTE=GHOST!!!!;51770288]Kill her. In all seriousness though. Kill her.[/QUOTE] Where did you get this advice from in all honesty the garbage bin or something ?
[QUOTE=Skidmarks;51777039]She hasn't shown as most of you expected. I'm hoping she came to her senses after seeing her threat didn't work, but I don't know. She might suspect I'll have company for a bit or may hold off a day sort of thing and show up later or a few days down the line, since the ticket will last like over a period of 3 weeks. In any case thanks again for all your advice. But to people who are saying you don't understand the need to be scared, you wouldn't understand if you've not been in this position nor if you were me because you won't get to even see how I rationalise things as we all handle scenarios differently. I feel very pressured and worry more is all. I'm not so nervous that I have my friends here now but I was writing this before I had any company with me so I felt vulnerable at that time. The idea of someone coming half way across the world JUST to knock on my door is a very scary concept for me. She knows because she was a furry too. I don't think I could make myself unappealing to her she is literally obsessed with me at this point.[/QUOTE] But do your friends also know that you're a furry What if she came over with an assortment of dragon dildos while your friends were home
[QUOTE=RIPBILLYMAYS;51778701]But do your friends also know that you're a furry What if she came over with an assortment of dragon dildos while your friends were home[/QUOTE] That'd be fucking incredible
[QUOTE=Skidmarks;51777039]She hasn't shown as most of you expected. I'm hoping she came to her senses after seeing her threat didn't work, but I don't know. She might suspect I'll have company for a bit or may hold off a day sort of thing and show up later or a few days down the line, since the ticket will last like over a period of 3 weeks. In any case thanks again for all your advice. But to people who are saying you don't understand the need to be scared, you wouldn't understand if you've not been in this position nor if you were me because you won't get to even see how I rationalise things as we all handle scenarios differently. I feel very pressured and worry more is all. I'm not so nervous that I have my friends here now but I was writing this before I had any company with me so I felt vulnerable at that time. The idea of someone coming half way across the world JUST to knock on my door is a very scary concept for me. She knows because she was a furry too. I don't think I could make myself unappealing to her she is literally obsessed with me at this point.[/QUOTE] Or at worst - she googled your [user]name, found this thread and is using it as a way to plan her journey out...:tinfoil: [sp]In all seriousness, she probably looked back at the threats and got embarassed more than anything. People say things during the heat of the moment all the time, and mostly never actually execute what they said they'd do anyway, so hopefully that's the case here...(else you're going to have a fight and a half on your doorstep). They do say woman (stereotypically) are great at physiological torture, which this just screams of. [/sp]
[QUOTE=Skidmarks;51751974][...] I called them today and they said they cannot do anything until she attempts to get into my home without my permission or continues to wait around outside my home for an extended period of time. [...][/QUOTE] Didn't the UK somewhat recently got stricter e-harassment laws or at least guidance? I heard police was often lagging behind in terms of implementation. I suspect it's partially an issue because she's in the US, though.
No contact with op in 19hrs OP pls respond
I have never been in a situation like this but all I can say is that if she ends up in your doorstep just face her and do whatever you have to. Don't forget to dispose the body.
[QUOTE=RIPBILLYMAYS;51780194]No contact with op in 19hrs OP pls respond[/QUOTE] but he was last online here three hours ago
[QUOTE=Middle Rafale;51748457]If she shows up on your doorstep, ready to get physical, you have every right to defend yourself in the physical manner. In other words, if things get that far where she shows up at your doorstep and if she tries to hit you, knock her teeth out. However, only do this, if the Police have failed you, and other means of being to handle things in a civil way as far as the courts go or other means. But based on what is going down, she's on a plane to approach you. If your family fails to defend you, or help you out, then go down the physical route. Being Verbally Abused, is not acceptable to happen to a person.[/QUOTE] it's essentially illegal to defend yourself in the uk
[QUOTE=Plaster;51780285]but he was last online here three hours ago[/QUOTE] it was her reading the thread shes after all of us
[QUOTE=butre;51780288]it's essentially illegal to defend yourself in the uk[/QUOTE] Not really. You're fine if you apply "reasonable force" when defending yourself. "Reasonable force" is the grey area. You can't take a hammer to the attacker for example, but punching them in the face (if they threw the first punch etc) is perfectly fine as long as you don't continue to attack them when they've stopped. For example, if someone tries attacking you with a knife, you're ok to attempt to disarm them or punch their face in, but if they run away - you can't continue to attack them (and have to hope you've got enough info on them to get them found + arrested).
[QUOTE=Zenamez;51780377]Not really. You're fine if you apply "reasonable force" when defending yourself. "Reasonable force" is the grey area. You can't take a hammer to the attacker for example, but punching them in the face (if they threw the first punch etc) is perfectly fine as long as you don't continue to attack them when they've stopped. For example, if someone tries attacking you with a knife, you're ok to attempt to disarm them or punch their face in, but if they run away - you can't continue to attack them (and have to hope you've got enough info on them to get them found + arrested).[/QUOTE] "reasonable force" isnt something a court can really reliably measure though, yet they try to do it anyway. the judge wasn't there, he doesn't know what's reasonable and what isn't.
Op, you still alive?
[QUOTE=viper shtf;51780841]Op, you still alive?[/QUOTE] he's been taken to the furry sex dungeon he must navigate through a maze of dragon dildos while zootopia plays on loop on television screens throughout the maze. if he makes it to the end he must defeat his ex in fursuit wrestling before he is allowed to return to the surface
I'm still alive guys don't worry. She didn't show up yesterday nor today so I think we're probably in the clear. The ticket duration was spanned for 3 weeks, returning on like the 23rd of Feb. [QUOTE=RIPBILLYMAYS;51778701]But do your friends also know that you're a furry What if she came over with an assortment of dragon dildos while your friends were home[/QUOTE] They know, but don't particularly care, I'm not obnoxious with it and I just keep it to myself. I think the only indication they really have that I'm a furry is my Steam avatar. Anyway, if anything changes I will definitely let you guys know, my plan is basically just if my doorbell goes off or someone knocks on my door, My phone is going to be set to record and placed somewhere where it can see the door/me talking on the intercom so I have evidence if anything happens. But we all now think that she's not gonna show up. We've been having a nice chill LAN party for the time being. [t]https://i.imgur.com/uDxU3x8.jpg[/t] And hey I thought I'd put my Christmas tree up early for this December. [QUOTE=RIPBILLYMAYS;51780871]he's been taken to the furry sex dungeon he must navigate through a maze of dragon dildos while zootopia plays on loop on television screens throughout the maze. if he makes it to the end he must defeat his ex in fursuit wrestling before he is allowed to return to the surface[/QUOTE] I don't own a fursuit but I DO have a Pikachu onesie, does that count?
Sounds like you had a fun hang out with your friends, congrats. Don't date US furries next time, stay local
[QUOTE=RIPBILLYMAYS;51781070]Sounds like you had a fun hang out with your friends, congrats. Don't date US furries next time, stay local[/QUOTE] another message of wisdom from local facepuncher
[QUOTE=RIPBILLYMAYS;51780871]he's been taken to the furry sex dungeon he must navigate through a maze of dragon dildos while zootopia plays on loop on television screens throughout the maze. if he makes it to the end he must defeat his ex in fursuit wrestling before he is allowed to return to the surface[/QUOTE] I want to see this made as a HL2 mod.
[QUOTE=butre;51780439]"reasonable force" isnt something a court can really reliably measure though, yet they try to do it anyway. the judge wasn't there, he doesn't know what's reasonable and what isn't.[/QUOTE] They've got guidelines on what's reasonable and what's not. If you took a baseball bat to someone who was unarmed - that's unreasonable for example. If you kicked someone while they were down for minutes after the first assault - that's unreasonable. If you repeatedly hit an attacker with a brick you found on the side of the road, and they were armed but dropped the weapon during the initial 'defense' - that's unreasonable. Same goes for using the attacker's weapon against them to cause potentially life threatening damage (i.e stabbing them with their own knife). If you punch the attacker in the face, if they threw the first punch and did not follow up with any more punches after they've stopped - that's reasonable as you didn't continue the assault and did not cause grievous bodily harm (that would require immediate medical attention). It's not hard to figure out what's unreasonable, and what is.
Maybe she did show up, but at the wrong address or something.
[QUOTE=DEMONSKUL;51784968]Maybe she did show up, but at the wrong address or something.[/QUOTE] Maybe she got stopped at the airport for carrying a suspicious amount of dragon dildos.
[QUOTE=Dunsparce;51785452]Maybe she got stopped at the airport for carrying a suspicious amount of dragon dildos.[/QUOTE] At what number of Dragon Dildos does it become suspicious.
[QUOTE=duckmaster;51786070]At what number of Dragon Dildos does it become suspicious.[/QUOTE] 1 And that's my contribution to this thread.
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