[QUOTE=Tomthetechy;40568249]Take them to a musical.
Halfway through leave and during the final song, burst onto the stage singing.
I AM GAAAY
I AM GAAAY
I
AM
GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYY[/QUOTE]
You have to do it in the highest pitch possible so they know you aren't joking.
[QUOTE=Fridolin;40568189]In our church we had a other guy who was gay, his complete family was banned from our church and now his family hates him....thats not so funny.[/QUOTE]
My roommate came out as gay... last week. We'd all [I]kinda[/I] suspected it as he never spoke about girls in a way that suggested any interest and the only confirmed instance of him liking any girl was in middle school (and it turned out to be a girl I started dating in highschool, I feel much less bad about that now considering).
Luckily for him though, he knows that it doesn't change a thing between us. All our friends are cool with it, I went with him to break the news to his family and things went without any problems. Frankly, I can't wait to meet his boyfriend. :v:
Honestly, your parents reaction to it will be a test of your relationship with them. Will they be willing to listen and try to accept it, or will they hide behind their faith from that which they fail to understand? I went with my roommate to his family's place as moral support, and I feel I was a decent help with it all. If you have a friend willing to play wingman, bring them along. Don't do it at a dedicated event like dinner, make it a casual conversation. as casual as possible while still conveying the importance of the topic, maybe open up with conversation about your parents being the ones to go to with anything, being able to talk about anything, things like that. Reaffirm that you are a family, unconditional love and support, want the best for you, things like that.
Also, you probably already know this, don't let their church find out under any circumstances and if they do find out, I honestly hope your parents side with you. My brother is also gay, and its already been discussed what would happen if the rest of the family found out. it was decided that if they wanted nothing to do with my brother, then we wouldn't have anything to do with them. It'd suck, it'd hurt, but its their loss ultimately.
Good luck to you, dude. I wish you the best and I honestly hope your parents take it well. Remember that theres nothing wrong at [I]all[/I] with being Gay, and don't let anyone [I]ever[/I] tell you otherwise. I'll say a prayer for you, if I ever remember to do that.
have sex with another man, film it on your phone and send it to your mother
problem solved
I remember having to tell my parents I was straight.
I don't know why, but for the longest time they thought I was gay. I still think my mother wants me to be gay.
[QUOTE=Dukov Traboski;40568295]I don't know why, but for the longest time they thought I was gay.[/QUOTE]
The cross-dressing probably didn't help.
it was one time for a costume
[QUOTE=Dukov Traboski;40568303]it was one time for a costume[/QUOTE]
That's what they all say.
more importantly how do you even know that
[QUOTE=Craptasket;40568146]kill them back[/QUOTE]
kill them so hard that they die from being killed
"mom, dad im a homo"
if they react badly say "-sapien"
Here's the long, but surefire way. Wait until you no longer financially depend on them then spray the truth like a man cannon in your starfish.
[QUOTE=Dukov Traboski;40568318]more importantly how do you even know that[/QUOTE]
He is [sp]your parents![/sp]
Dear Fridolin,
go up to them, start a conversation about a random thing, then turn the conversation to gays and waht they do and then SAY IT.
Don't worry, the death will be quick.
Yours,
-Fort
It could be a good idea to ask our [url=http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1266671]friendly neighborhood gay thread[/url] for advice on this, if you want. I think we could help you out even more there.
But personally, if they're incredibly religious, I would definitely tread carefully. If they're only moderately religious, then maybe you'd have a chance. My mother doesn't seem to mind my sexuality too much personally and she's a fairly religious person. It all depends on your parent.
[QUOTE=FortManiaK;40568354]Dear Fridolin,
go up to them, start a conversation about a random thing, then turn the conversation to gays and waht they do and then SAY IT.
Don't worry, the death will be quick.
Yours,
-Fort[/QUOTE]
'Mom what's for dinner?'
'Pasta hunny'
'Mom I'm gay'
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;40568277]My roommate came out as gay... last week. We'd all [I]kinda[/I] suspected it as he never spoke about girls in a way that suggested any interest and the only confirmed instance of him liking any girl was in middle school (and it turned out to be a girl I started dating in highschool, I feel much less bad about that now considering).
Luckily for him though, he knows that it doesn't change a thing between us. All our friends are cool with it, I went with him to break the news to his family and things went without any problems. Frankly, I can't wait to meet his boyfriend. :v:
Honestly, your parents reaction to it will be a test of your relationship with them. Will they be willing to listen and try to accept it, or will they hide behind their faith from that which they fail to understand? I went with my roommate to his family's place as moral support, and I feel I was a decent help with it all. If you have a friend willing to play wingman, bring them along. Don't do it at a dedicated event like dinner, make it a casual conversation. as casual as possible while still conveying the importance of the topic, maybe open up with conversation about your parents being the ones to go to with anything, being able to talk about anything, things like that. Reaffirm that you are a family, unconditional love and support, want the best for you, things like that.
Also, you probably already know this, don't let their church find out under any circumstances and if they do find out, I honestly hope your parents side with you. My brother is also gay, and its already been discussed what would happen if the rest of the family found out. it was decided that if they wanted nothing to do with my brother, then we wouldn't have anything to do with them. It'd suck, it'd hurt, but its their loss ultimately.
Good luck to you, dude. I wish you the best and I honestly hope your parents take it well. Remember that theres nothing wrong at [I]all[/I] with being Gay, and don't let anyone [I]ever[/I] tell you otherwise. I'll say a prayer for you, if I ever remember to do that.[/QUOTE]
best help for now. Its a good way...!
___________
but im scared anyway...my best friend is my gay friend, i think this isnt constructive...i have to choose a youth friend...
Yeah, my parents are really religious too. I had the same fears of you when I came out, but they ended up being very acceptant of it. Remember, these people are your parents. They aren't going to hate you.
[QUOTE=Impulse101;40568329]"mom, dad im a homo"
if they react badly say "-sapien"[/QUOTE][b]"You're an EVOLUTIONIST!? I would have been happier if you were gay!"[/b]
Interpretive dance with complete with props and music.
If you kill them first, then they can't kill you.
[QUOTE=Terabytez;40568387]Remember, these people are your parents. They aren't going to hate you.[/QUOTE]
To be honest, I've heard some of the worst stories about parents outright disowning their children just based on their sexuality. It's disgusting but it [i]does[/i] happen and you must be careful of it sometimes.
Dude, just man the fuck up and tell them. There really isn't an easy way to do this
just dont do what i did and leave your email open with pictures of your boyfriends cock
[QUOTE=The very best;40568463]just dont do what i did and leave your email open with pictures of your boyfriends cock[/QUOTE]
Subtle and effective... didn't have to say a thing.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;40568488]Subtle and effective... didn't have to say a thing.[/QUOTE]
You make it sound like it wasn't an accident
it worked though, i guess
[QUOTE=Fridolin;40568382]best help for now. Its a good way...!
___________
but im scared anyway...my best friend is my gay friend, i think this isnt constructive...i have to choose a youth friend...[/QUOTE]
Where do you live were people are so religious, Utah?
Hold it in, maybe it will pass.
Listen I'm probably going to give you the best advise compared to the stupid shi.. stuff.. Look your gay so I think you like men. I am not gay never had to deal with it. One thing you should remember is your parents love you and will still keep you around but will not tolerate you having other men (boys) around. (or at least I think). For your enjoyment. You should honestly In my opinion learn to love women as they have much to offer to your life experience BUT still NO (relatively speaking) parent wants their children gay.
Summary (I would hide it still till I'm old enough to do whatever the fuck I want.).
Just tell them you're gay, it's not the end of the world pal
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