The get stuff off of your chest thread. - General

Lets finally get off the SK topic, seriously. Fussy! you should punch him in the face still. [editline]15th January 2011[/editline] Or tell him to stop spitting on your friend.

[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27426905]I absolutely hate week-ends, and now it's saturday. God damn it.[/QUOTE] Sounds like you enjoy being around your friends. If you can drive, arrange for your group of friends to hang out. Maybe play some games or go check out a movie(one of those actiony ones, like Gamer).

Oh god this thread turned into a shit hole while I was gone. Don't argue with people's advice, they're just trying to help and people giving advice try to not be harsh. Everyone makes mistakes. People are opening up sensitive topics of their life try to respect that. On topic: I just went to some frat party last night and one of my really good friends is trying to get me to join said frat. I honestly have no urge to join a frat and I've made that pretty clear. But he keeps inviting me to these parties and every time he talks to me about rushing. I love him to death but I just want to have a good time with him.

I once stole lots of starbursts from my friend during a sleepover. That's been bugging me for two and a half years. Thanks, facepunch

[QUOTE=Glitch360;27426204]It's just that alot of my relatives go to church, and I have a bunch of friends there. They're all really cool people, it's just that I don't really share their beliefs. The only reason I go there, is to just hang out with them. I would hang out with them outside of church, but they live 30-40 min away from me, and I don't have my license. So what it pretty much boils down to is: go to church, be bored as fuck, but hang out with cool people afterwards, or don't go to church and be bored and alone at home[/QUOTE] dude obviously they should be brutally murdered for even having beliefs. they have to be the most RETARDED people on earth just to even consider church why would you talk to them you are obviously better than them ! /typicalFPer

[QUOTE=Teracotta;27430972]Sounds like you enjoy being around your friends. If you can drive, arrange for your group of friends to hang out. Maybe play some games or go check out a movie(one of those actiony ones, like Gamer).[/QUOTE] Thanks for the advice, but there isn't really anything to do about it. I do enjoy being around my friends, but not in my current state. I'm depressed and I worry all the time, and I actually have a really hard time being around other people right now. But in school... I don't know really, it feels slightly better in school, don't know why but that's how it is.

I don't have my drivers license yet because I have a fear of getting inside cars. I panic when I get in a car. It's also the reason why I only drive motorcycles because I feel a lot less confined. Oh ,but riding in buses and minivans is fine.

I lyke dargunz

[QUOTE=Peter Chao;27430868]Lets finally get off the SK topic, seriously. Fussy! you should punch him in the face still. [editline]15th January 2011[/editline] Or tell him to stop spitting on your friend.[/QUOTE] From what i gathered after skimming the last few pages is that you cheated on your boyfriend for 3 years then admitted it? If that's correct then you're the definition of a cunt, destroying a mans self confidence because you find it to hard to breakup with him. if I'm wrong then call me a dumbass but if I got the gist of what this is about then you're a HUGE bitch

[QUOTE=breakyourfac;27433470]From what i gathered after skimming the last few pages is that you cheated on your boyfriend for 3 years then admitted it? If that's correct then you're the definition of a cunt, destroying a mans self confidence because you find it to hard to breakup with him. if I'm wrong then call me a dumbass but if I got the gist of what this is about then you're a HUGE bitch[/QUOTE] We moved on. You're only going to start more shit. If you want to call someone out, do it somewhere else.

[QUOTE=Pascall;27433505]We moved on. You're only going to start more shit. If you want to call someone out, do it somewhere else.[/QUOTE] Sorry but she realllly got on a certain nerve, I think cheating is fucking stupid and you're a coward for just not breaking up in the first place, it turns everything in the relationship into a lie. Anyways, I got my girlfriend pregnant. We have to goto court wendsday to have a hearing on a parental waiver so we can get an abortion without the need for parental consent, maybe we can get a good chunk of it paid for too. I'm so stressed out with school, I'm behind in everything my ap world history class is kicking my ass....and I have championship for diving coming up too. Life's too fucking hectic.

Alright, here's a rant that I don't believe needs any response: I went with two of my friends, and the boyfriend of one of them to the What-a-burger, that just opened by my house, to try it. Afterwards we went back to her boyfriend's house and watched a couple hours of Bones and ate oreos. One of the episodes was about a transgender person, and boyfriend says aloud [i]"I would cut off my dick if I found out that I had just had sex with someone who used to be a dude."[/i] He then asks me if I would act similarly. I hesitated then responded with a [i]"No, probably not..."[/i] He then asks if I'm a virgin, and because I don't really feel any need to lie, I tell him that I am (mildly embarrassing considering that I'm fairly sure that he and both of the girls in the room are not, I think...). [i]"Oh, well then you wouldn't understand!"[/i] What?! What do you mean I 'wouldn't understand'? I think that after having sex one would develop a greater appreciation for one's phallus. I don't think that someone who hasn't had sex would be more inclined to have sex with transgenders. I also think that it's an incredibly illogical overreaction to amputate your penis just because you stuffed it in a whole that you hadn't intended to... Made me feel terrible because I couldn't think of any clever response until later, so I just kind of awkwardly sat there after he said that... Again, I really am not asking for help with this, as it's already happened and there's not really anything to do about it, nor was it much of a problem to begin with.

I'm fucking in love with myself

Oh and last night me and my pregnant girl were hanging out and stuff got kinda heated and we got really into it, and well......I had buttsex for the first time and honestly it wasn't THAT special, I mean it's tight and all but you can't go fast or else it hurts her reall bad, also I got a little bit of poo on my favorite white tee :frown: and yes we used KY warming lube.

Mindmuncher, I know you said you didn't want help but you have to remember, sometimes people dont really think about how harmful something they say can be. I'm sure he didn't mean it in a harmful way. :)

Last night I cutoff all contact with my best friend. I know why I did it, and I regret it but...I just can't undo it. I know that it's best if I just leave it, for the better of the guy.

My life is turning to the better now. I seem to become more popular and visible to my classmates, and I recently was at a LAN with them. We were 5 in total. Was great fun.

[QUOTE=breakyourfac;27433651]Sorry but she realllly got on a certain nerve, I think cheating is fucking stupid and you're a coward for just not breaking up in the first place, it turns everything in the relationship into a lie. Anyways, I got my girlfriend pregnant. We have to goto court wendsday to have a hearing on a parental waiver so we can get an abortion without the need for parental consent, maybe we can get a good chunk of it paid for too. I'm so stressed out with school, I'm behind in everything my ap world history class is kicking my ass....and I have championship for diving coming up too. Life's too fucking hectic.[/QUOTE] life would be a lot less hectic if you used contraception or abstinence, im very against people having sex in high school mainly bc it is 9 times out of 10 its very bad sex and you might as well wait the bit to get to college where you can find the perfect girl for you/ and people have more experience. Of course it sounds like im contradicting myself by saying dont have sex in high school that way you have sex with people in college with experience (then where did they get the experience?), but there is a lot less at risk if you have a kid in college than high school.

Sometimes i can really hate myself. I went out shopping at 6 pm, i don't like being outside on days (i'm "suffering" from Social anxiety). Having my paranoid thoughts in my head all the way down to the store, i started to sweat like always. When i arrived i took whatever supplies i needed for tonight. After purchasing everything i forgot a plastic bag. I went back and got one, but they cost money so i had to go back in line again. I thought it was a bad idea to let my supplies be at the "dropoff" alone, because anyone could steal them easily. I grabbed them and lend my plastic bag to the cashier. He asked for the receipt. At this point my sweat was all over my head and shoulders. I knew everyone was thinking i was some idiot with bad hygiene. When i gave him the receipt i was shaking like crazy. I saw him looking at my wet, sweaty hear and put a smile on his face. I put everything in my bag and left the store. The way home was better. /Sob story

[QUOTE=Cpn Crunch21;27435522]life would be a lot less hectic if you used contraception or abstinence, im very against people having sex in high school mainly bc it is 9 times out of 10 its very bad sex and you might as well wait the bit to get to college where you can find the perfect girl for you/ and people have more experience. Of course it sounds like im contradicting myself by saying dont have sex in high school that way you have sex with people in college with experience (then where did they get the experience?), but there is a lot less at risk if you have a kid in college than high school.[/QUOTE] I doubt most people find that 'perfect' girl in college though.

Ugh, I'm back in the same exact position I was in 2 years ago....

[QUOTE=Glitch360;27436206]Ugh, I'm back in the same exact position I was in 2 years ago....[/QUOTE] Explain?

Bit of advice needed. First a bit about me. So I'm 16, and go to an all boys Grammar school. I do well with school work, all As and A*s. There the good stuff ends. Firstly, my last name is also the name for an aquatic mammal, leading to constant piss taking, "arf-arf" impressions and the works. I can deal with it, it hasn't got physical, but it wears you down. Secondly, I have a hearing impairment. I think when I was about 7, I must have a had a mystery ear infection, because I lost a lot of my hearing in higher pitches, up to 90dB in places. Not only has this made my life harder, pricks have decided to use this as another point to which tease me with. I have been given NHS funded hearing aids, but they are too little too late. I didn't get them until last year, and they don't do much for me. I don't wear them at school since people don't realise I have a genuine problem, they just see a weakness in some clever guy to exploit. Only about 3 people in the year actually know the facts about the problem, and that I have hearing aids, as these are friends they have become a bit more understanding. To top it off, over the last year and a half, I have noticed my eye sight deteriorating, probably from a combination of stress, too much reading and PC. What is really pissing me off is that I know this isn't permanent (for now). After going on a cadet camp for a week, I realised that my eyesight had significantly improved, probably as I hadn't seen a book or screen the whole week. This was all reversed after 3 hours playing on a netbook on the train the next day. So this again is making my life difficult, and i am again reluctant to get glasses, one because of the reaction of other people at school, and two, because this is a reversible problem for now, and it won't be if I start relying on glasses. I've managed to get by with nobody really noticing by basically pushing the corner of my eyelid back, as it makes things clearer, when I need to. But I can't do this while shooting (at cadets) which makes my shooting embarrassingly bad, and hindering me from moving on. I now try and do some eye exercise on the bus everyday, and it seems to be having a bit of an effect but still not enough. Does anyone have any advice on this as a whole? Well there's the first part. Here's the second. About 7 months ago I did some work experience at a Veterinary practice, and there were 2 other people from different schools there. What with me going to a boy's school, and not being that good socially, my female friends numbered around 2, who I didn't see very often, and I had had a grand total of 0 girlfriends. And one of the people at the work experience was female, funny and good looking. All of us got on well and I found out this girl goes to a school near me, the same as my sister and a bunch of my other friends. We got pretty friendly, talking most of the day. Near the end of the 2 weeks I was on the verge of asking for her number/email, when she let drop she has a boyfriend of 17 she been with for a year. Me being a totally stupid socially inept idiot I ended up sulking, especially after my sister said the guy is "fugly" and my friends say they throw themselves at each other when they meet. So I never asked for her number, or any other contact info and thought I would probably never meet her again. Practically a day later I realised what an idiot I'd been throwing away someone who could have been a great friend. But 3 months later, at the 6th form open evening for my school, I bump into the said girl (girls can join my school at 6th form level). We chat for about 10 minutes, but it was awkward standing there with our parents, and I got flustered and didn't ask again. I don't know why I didn't think of it before, but I decided that maybe I should make a Facebook account and see if she's on there. I wait until I had accumulated about 50 friends, then added her. She accepts, and comments on my wall saying it's great to hear from me and stuff. We talked over the inbox for a bit, and got friendly again, but since she hardly went on facebook, conversation was slow, and she just gave me her number, no asking. As I'm aspiring to be a vet I need to do loads of work experience, so I ask her if she wants to go down to the vets on a Saturday every week to do some volunteer work. She says that's a great idea, and thanks me loads for organising it, despite the fact she doesn't want to be a vet any more, but a teacher. So we do this volunteer work every week, again talking loads, and me being as chivalrous as possible. She's still with her boyfriend and every thing, yet despite this we go out together shopping and stuff together during the Christmas holidays and text each other for over an hour almost everyday (have been texting her for about 2 hours tonight, despite seeing her today aswell). She mentions her boyfriends a bit worried, but she doesn't seem to care about this. I drop plenty of subtle hints, but she just takes them as a joke. She also tells me, that during 2 and a half of the 3 months we weren't in touch, she had been split up from her boyfriend. This involved another girl trying to go out with her boyfriend, and bad vibes from their parents. She now says that everything better than before, but the other girl is once again making moves on her boyfriend. Their relationship may break down again. But I'm asking you for help, do you think I should try and bide my time and wait for this potential breakdown , or let her know I like her before? I don't want to lose a really good friend from being too pushy, but I dont' want her to see me as a friend for so long she can't see me as anything else. Help? Thanks for reading.

[QUOTE=Revanold;27437496]Explain?[/QUOTE] My social life is withered, I talk to friends only 1-2 times a week, spend most of my time on the computer, no hobbies, lazy, don't have motivation to do anything at all

[QUOTE=Glitch360;27437790]My social life is withered, I talk to friends only 1-2 times a week, spend most of my time on the computer, no hobbies, lazy, don't have motivation to do anything at all[/QUOTE] you kinda gotta force yourself to get out more. I used to be like that until i got real friends that i liked to hang out with after school and what not. It sounds like you are just in a shitty mood and it should just blow over. Work out, it should get you going, get you pumped and motivate you a bit, 3 sets of 10 push ups should do, 2 min break inbetween sets.

God, I hate my fucking hobbies. Guns, computers, and music. Horrible combination. I told some people in a conversation that (the conversation involved zombie killing) I had guns and my dad had 6k rounds of ammo, and the first response was "Wow that's creepy". He proceeded to ask how many guns I have, and I left the room. It's not like I'm going to fucking kill anyone, hell, I've only been hunting once in my 4 years of shooting and collecting. Speaking of, I rarely go shooting, as my personal firearms are not really for shooting rather than collecting. Fuck me. Hopefully rocky horror can cheer me up. [editline]15th January 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Glitch360;27437790]My social life is withered, I talk to friends only 1-2 times a week, spend most of my time on the computer, no hobbies, lazy, don't have motivation to do anything at all[/QUOTE] I was like that too. Think of something you really want that can be obtained through being social (Connections, money, sex, ect), that's how I got to be social. I network everything, and I see who's friends with who and who their friends are. It's all a big game really. If you create a desire for being social, instead of a hatred for being anti-social, you can achieve what you want.

I'm going blind and deaf, I have a genetic disease that's most likely going to kill me before i'm 50, my "friends" never call me willingly, I always do. I have been socially backwards until I was 13, and have religion shoved down my throat, and I was beat all the time and I feel very depressed and unloved.

[QUOTE=zombiefreak;27442882]God, I hate my fucking hobbies. Guns, computers, and music. Horrible combination. I told some people in a conversation that (the conversation involved zombie killing) I had guns and my dad had 6k rounds of ammo, and the first response was "Wow that's creepy". He proceeded to ask how many guns I have, and I left the room. It's not like I'm going to fucking kill anyone, hell, I've only been hunting once in my 4 years of shooting and collecting. Speaking of, I rarely go shooting, as my personal firearms are not really for shooting rather than collecting. Fuck me. Hopefully rocky horror can cheer me up. [editline]15th January 2011[/editline] I was like that too. Think of something you really want that can be obtained through being social (Connections, money, sex, ect), that's how I got to be social. I network everything, and I see who's friends with who and who their friends are. It's all a big game really. If you create a desire for being social, instead of a hatred for being anti-social, you can achieve what you want.[/QUOTE] I got the same hobbies as you, except for music. I don't really tell anybody about them unless they ask or something. And I fucking hate how as soon as I say I like shooting guns they ask "lolo have you shot an ak-47" just because I'm Russian. Actually, people that say stuff like commie, drunk, etc. it makes me want to beat the ever loving shit out of them. I've tried being social, but it just doesn't work. I get these "periodic depressions" that happen whenever a negative thought comes into my head. And plus I get home schooled, so that doesn't help much. And neither does the fact that my English sounds funny sometimes

So, I'm pretty new to this. To be honest, I'm not even sure why I'm here, but here goes. I'm extremely annoyed by people. Not just anyone in particular, but pretty much by almost all people. So annoyed to the point that it literally makes me seethe and get angry. I complain that I have no social life, and no friends, but the truth is, I hate even putting any effort forth in trying to make friends. I have some major social anxiety, and extremely low self-esteem. Most of it, no, all of it, comes from things experienced in my past. The types of people I've had come and go in my life are not ones that anyone should have to associate with. I've been badly hurt, as I'm sure a lot of other people have in their lives too. I just wish that like some people, I could let go of my past, and move on towards my future. I think pushing myself out into the world, and trying to make friends is the only way I can get over this. The problem is, like I said, I get extremely annoyed by people. Which makes me feel badly, because who am I to pre-judge anyone without giving them a chance? I've been judged my whole life, and I know how much I dislike it. So why do I find myself completely disgusted, and irritated by anyone who speaks to me, or looks at me? This is why, in the beginning, I said I wasn't sure why I was here. I know it requires some sort of socialization, and I hate it. I need to do this though, because the only single person I can tolerate in my life, is my boyfriend. He's amazing. I'd love to spend every moment of every day around him. But I know this isn't healthy, and I don't want to suffocate him. I fear losing the only person I feel safe with, and comfortable with. The only person I can talk to, and who doesn't disgust me every time he speaks. Because honestly, I'm terrified of being alone. I don't mean being alone as in single. I mean being alone in general. I hate people, yet I so badly want to be close to them. How does this make any sense? It's very frustrating for me. I'm not even sure that I'm looking for advice in this. :\ I just wanted to get it out of my head though. Thanks for allowing me to do that.

[QUOTE=Glitch360;27443228] I got the same hobbies as you, except for music. I don't really tell anybody about them unless they ask or something. And I fucking hate how as soon as I say I like shooting guns they ask "lolo have you shot an ak-47" just because I'm Russian. Actually, people that say stuff like commie, drunk, etc. it makes me want to beat the ever loving shit out of them. I've tried being social, but it just doesn't work. I get these "periodic depressions" that happen whenever a negative thought comes into my head. And plus I get home schooled, so that doesn't help much. And neither does the fact that my English sounds funny sometimes[/QUOTE] Same here. Only my "closest friends" (aka the ones who judge the least) knew that I shot guns until last night. Even then, I just say yes and quickly try to change the conversation. Ah, that really sucks. I'm in a similar situation with you, as I get episodes of severe depression every day. The trick is to ignore it and keep yourself busy. Try to start parties with your existing friends, and then ask them to invite people to your parties and keep growing your social circle.