The get stuff off of your chest thread. - General

[QUOTE=RearAdmiral;27452389]Networking and experience, two things I currently lack.[/QUOTE] Ah yeah, I see.

[QUOTE=Makol;27450839]A lot of my friends owe me money, luckily they're good about paying me back.[/QUOTE] lmao, don't worry, I'm broke I'm never gonna pay you back hahaha.

[QUOTE=Cpn Crunch21;27450234]sigh... i really want a gf. Just a good ol fashion connection to a girl that feels the same about me. I cant wait until i get a job and go back to school this semester, hopefully i will meet someone, i dont care how long it lasts or how serious or silly it is, just something, just someone. It may seem selfish, but i just want that feeling of being with someone, someone you care about and someone you like to make happy. sigh, my friend said i would make a great bf, (my friend i asked out), so now im stuck waiting for school to start. ugh.[/QUOTE] It's ok, man. Everyone feels that way some time. Judging by how you are in this thread you seem like a nice individual with a good head on his shoulders. I wouldn't imagine it being very hard for you to find someone. Just enjoy your break for now chill with some friends and then start your girlfriend quest when you get back. No point in dwelling on it if there's nothing you can do about it [editline]16th January 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=RearAdmiral;27451402]I'm really scared my career isn't going to turn out the way I'll want and I'll have wasted four years of my life and thousands of pounds, and then get stuck in a really mundane and dead end job. :ohdear: I'm studying how to make movies, fuck working in an office.[/QUOTE] i feel the same way about working in an office. Do what you love, man. I'm sure you'll find something you enjoy in that department just work hard and study everything to do with that field.

[QUOTE=Pascall;27453346]lmao, don't worry, I'm broke I'm never gonna pay you back hahaha.[/QUOTE] I never expected you to lol.

[QUOTE=Cpn Crunch21;27450234]sigh... i really want a gf. Just a good ol fashion connection to a girl that feels the same about me. I cant wait until i get a job and go back to school this semester, hopefully i will meet someone, i dont care how long it lasts or how serious or silly it is, just something, just someone. It may seem selfish, but i just want that feeling of being with someone, someone you care about and someone you like to make happy.[/QUOTE] You have no idea how much I empathize with that feeling. I'm perfectly confident that I would make a good boyfriend to someone, but I don't really feel like going out to find someone. When I say that, it's not because I'm lazy (I am, but that's irrelevant) so much as my unwillingness to put myself out there as much as that requires... I dislike my hesitation when I do anything. That and I think I'm going to get a shorter haircut. The hesitation I just talked about is running rampant through that plan, though.

[QUOTE=wanksta11;27421206]I have been having a really strange feeling for about 1 month now, it's like I'm not in the reality like I used to be, I used to be smarter even my memory is worse. I feel like I'm not myself anymore, it's like I don't live in the reality also. I feel like my vision has changed and all, I'm getting depressed a lot lately, I used to be optimistic and all now I can't even think about tomorrow in a good way. It's like if I'm getting locked inside me. edit: don't want to start a flame war or something but this happened some time after I stopped smoking mj[/QUOTE] I was gonna say "stop smoking weed" but this seems to be the cause of the problem hah.

[QUOTE=MindMuncher;27456906]You have no idea how much I empathize with that feeling. I'm perfectly confident that I would make a good boyfriend to someone, but I don't really feel like going out to find someone. When I say that, it's not because I'm lazy (I am, but that's irrelevant) so much as my unwillingness to put myself out there as much as that requires... I dislike my hesitation when I do anything. That and I think I'm going to get a shorter haircut. The hesitation I just talked about is running rampant through that plan, though.[/QUOTE] lol, i need a haircut to. Ive been meaning to get it for weeks, still havent gotten around to it. Me thinking about the gf thing, might have been bc it was 4am, i think about it every now and then, maybe when i get a job it will keep my mind off it. I just need something to keep me busy.

I once thought about doing suicide

One the relationship issue many people seem to have, you have to dive in. Dive in but don't be afraid to hit your head on the bottom. Be confident, like how you look. [editline]16th January 2011[/editline] I haven't had this much fun screwing with people in politics thread since the last forum I was on imploded.

My girlfriend just called to say she got her period. She has been due to get it for nearly 2 and a 1/2 weeks. *sigh of relief*

My friends keep getting basically threatened by someone who's been my enemy my whole life, by nazis, the government, and by a slew of jealous cunts, some of whom found me through awesome websites filled with unawesome people. These enemies someone else may have made think they can read minds and they CAN'T read them well enough to make any judgements that are relevant, but they are all judgy about everything anyway. It pisses me off. I have reddish brown eyes, and right now everyone's bugging off about how I must be evil because they are kind of red. I think they're lame asswipes and should stfu. But everyone who matters and has a clue loves me (and some people similar me) to bits. Totally to bits. These enemies of mine even acted like no high school degree matters in judging popular and brilliant music artists. pfft. They ain't shit.

[QUOTE=WildThang;27462242]My friends keep getting basically threatened by someone who's been my enemy my whole life, by nazis, the government, and by a slew of jealous cunts, some of whom found me through awesome websites filled with unawesome people. These enemies someone else may have made think they can read minds and they CAN'T read them well enough to make any judgements that are relevant, but they are all judgy about everything anyway. It pisses me off. I have reddish brown eyes, and right now everyone's bugging off about how I must be evil because they are kind of red. I think they're lame asswipes and should stfu. But everyone who matters and has a clue loves me and some people like me to bits. Totally to bits. These enemies of mine even acted like no high school degree matters in judging popular and brilliant music artists. pfft. They ain't shit.[/QUOTE] "Enemies" :frog:

[QUOTE=CAPSMAN!;27462369]"Enemies" :frog:[/QUOTE] Oh god this! Why do you refer to people as your 'enemies', it sounds so messed up.

[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27462403]Oh god this! Why do you refer to people as your 'enemies', it sounds so messed up.[/QUOTE] I prefer to just say that people are just peons for verbal sparring. c:

[QUOTE=Superwafflez;27461829]My girlfriend just called to say she got her period. She has been due to get it for nearly 2 and a 1/2 weeks. *sigh of relief*[/QUOTE] nice, man. Gotta love those close calls

ive got something to get off my chest, jets won! WOOOO

I keep having days when I'll listen to my so-called favourite album and thinking "well this is really... average", but go back 2 hours later or something and I think it's incredible, which is weird because I've relied on this album to get lost in when shit get's bad. Maybe I just need to be in that mood for it to be that amazing for me, or I've over listened. But this is all weird, since I'm a music student and I love to listen to anything and just pick it apart, figure out how it's made, all the sounds, the recording and stuff. I'm very tired. ramble.

[QUOTE=T-Bag-T;27466811]I keep having days when I'll listen to my so-called favourite album and thinking "well this is really... average", but go back 2 hours later or something and I think it's incredible, which is weird because I've relied on this album to get lost in when shit get's bad. Maybe I just need to be in that mood for it to be that amazing for me, or I've over listened. But this is all weird, since I'm a music student and I love to listen to anything and just pick it apart, figure out how it's made, all the sounds, the recording and stuff. I'm very tired. ramble.[/QUOTE] wow... thinking about it, i would have to say, same here. I can listen to my playlist and be like, meh, but other times ill go to it (when im feeling down) and it will be super uplifting. huh, never really thought about it like that, makes sense.

Basically I hear she likes me from my friends and she calls me and invites me places and stuff, but whenever I go to talk to her its like she's talking back just because she has to. Also my best friend hits on her all the time and I can't bring myself to tell him to lay off. Yeah.

[QUOTE= Anonymous] So we met in the August of 2010. We were very good friends after we first met. It was amazing. And so, we move into the end of the week where we first met and i understood that i was in love with her. October comes, and i finally have enough confidence to ask her out, and she says yes. That was a good day. From then on, we would constantly say love you, we would talk alot, say goodnight, all that stuff. We talked and talked and talked, and she enjoyed talking too. And so, we fastforward to now, just yesterday is when the breakup happened. I had severe pain in my chest that made me pass out from the sheer pain. First message while i was asleep: "so how do u thnk our relationships goin?" Second message while i was asleep: "U ther?" Third message while i was asleep: "Its over..." And then i woke up, plead, and it was in fact over. And i believe you cant get over someone in less than 1 week...that would mean you never actually cared about them. And infaturation is when there is an uneven balance of caring between two partners. For us, the feeling of love was intense for both of us, but she did infact give a few reasons why... For one, i was "suffocating her", our last long talk was in early december, and we barely talked at all after that. Also, she wanted to be "single, like her friends..." I believe that one was a blatant lie. And she also said its cause she "wanted space"...this was very abrupt, the night before we were talking was when she decided that she wanted to break up with me, and one of her friends did say that my girlfriend said she was "over me". And so now, an ember of hope remains in me, and i believe she might come back some time, just not now. I can be an optimist sometimes, but i am a pessimist most of the time so this is a first. Tl;DR: My girlfriend broke up with me abruptly after a healthy(mostly) relationship. Wat do? [/QUOTE] A story in the LA sub forum, that i came across... i say again, this is NOT my story. Which brings up several issues, breaking up over text is fucking pathetic (imo) and kids these days think they are in love at such a young age/early in relationships. I've been providing advice in this forum and i have to say the two things i find myself repeating is "you dont love her, get over it" and "just ask her out already." I believe love takes years to develop. Sure you can think that what you feel is "love" but it isnt until you actually start dating (im talking to all the guys who have extreme crushes on girls/ friends that are girls). I've experienced it and i can say that what you feel when you have a crush on a girl that you know/a good friend is an extreme form of attraction. This attraction is so strong it makes her seem like the most beautiful in the world to you, and you want to care for her for the rest of your life. About the issue on feeling "love" early in a relationship, i just have to say that its the same type of attraction as i said earlier. Then you might ask, "What is love then?", its something more extreme than the extreme attraction. You feel your breathe taken away as soon as the person leaves the room. You ache for them to return, and you feel your happiest even when they are just under your arm. But im sure me putting a label on what love is will spark controversy, but this is what i believe in and i hope it opens people's eyes, especially those who were in my position where they really like a girl and get crushed by rejection. On a final note, remember there is always other fish in the sea, and you will find that one that will stick with you until you die. Dont get held up by rejection and keep trying, dont dwell on one person. And one more thing... ASK HER OUT, dont beat around the bush, you arent going to get to know her on a relationship level until you formally ask her out. "Hanging out" doesnt set the right mentality.

[QUOTE=Identity;27450304]I like guns. I'm trying to save up to get my first one though. Probably going to start off with a Glock.[/QUOTE]Why a Glock?

Start with an m9 or revolver of some kind. Better imo.

I'd rather start with a rifle or shotgun of some sort, since I could get it earlier than a pistol

Speaking of money earlier. I saw[U] [url=http://cgi.ebay.com/Chinese-Scroll-Picture-4-New-Year-Tiger-/120671082380?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item1c188e978c]this[/url] [/U]on ebay and I am $3 short of getting it. Anyone have any good ways to earn money in less than 24 hours?

[QUOTE=HarryG321;25879383]Freeze it off with deodorant[/QUOTE] Then light it on fire if that dosent work... :P

[QUOTE=Cpn Crunch21;27473716]A story in the LA sub forum, that i came across... [/QUOTE] So what I said earlier is true. A lot of the stuff in here [i]does[/i] fit in Love Advice. Why did you drag that to this thread instead of just responding where it was appropriate (in LA)? I mean, I read it and all. I think your advice is sound enough, and I enjoy reading what you post, but why would you feel the need to pull that into this thread?

I fucking hate my parents. They think they know everything, and when I try to correct them, they get pissed and lecture me about that I think I know everything & shit. They're fucking idiots, I can't wait 'till I can get out of this place. My father also thinks Wikipedia is a bad source for things because anyone can access it. I've tried telling him that people go on there and correct false stuff / post true stuff, but above story applies.

[QUOTE=AgentBoomstick;27467676]Basically I hear she likes me from my friends and she calls me and invites me places and stuff, but whenever I go to talk to her its like she's talking back just because she has to. Also my best friend hits on her all the time and I can't bring myself to tell him to lay off. Yeah.[/QUOTE] shes shy and doesnt want you to know that she likes you? or your mates could just be bullshitting.

I get wet dreams off of pictures of the female user CourageDog Then I troll her so it makes the wet dreams stop

Went to see my psychologist with my parents today. She think the solution to every shit I feel is to come to her and talk about it, conversate... or atleast that's what she want me to do. No, I don't believe talking will help, it doesn't matter how much I share with other people, it simply doesn't seem to help. I told her this, but she insists. She also wants me to talk to an actual physician about medicine for the shit "to help me on the way". Medicine is not gonna be the solution and I really won't have any troubles getting to the solution, if I only knew what it was! I have agreed though and I will see a psysician to get a medical diagnosis of my mental statement and I will continue with the talks just to show that I'm not unwilling nor uncapable of going on without medicine... But it's pointless. It's a waste of time, and I'm starting to doubt if there is anything out there that can help me anymore. I'm getting closer and closer to a breaking point, but I will not let me self break. Starting a new tier of schools after summer... I don't know if I can handle it, if I was to start it now I know I wouldn't be able to do it. It's stressing me out because I have to get better so that I can handle a new school, new times, new classmates and all that stuff. Fuck this shit, it's so fucking funny.