WHO THE FUCK EGGED MY HOUSE A FEW MINUTES AGO? I WAS SLEEPING MOTHER FUCKERS! NEXT TIME, EGG MY HOUSE BEFORE 11PM. FUCKING AMATEURS, YOU DIDN'T EVEN USE TOILET PAPER.
Can't sleep now.
I really like a girl, and I think she likes me, we text each other constantly and have huge long conversations, and I've gone on many dates with her, but when ever I tell her that I love her, she's like ooh love like a friend, and whenever I tell her I want to be her bf, she's like "ooh but can't we be really good bffs?" :/ I fear I may have entered the friend zone
[QUOTE=Paravin;27580951]We have a horrible and very idiotic habit of doing it without a condom sometimes, because of the orgasm problem I have. If we do it with a condom, the pleasure is decreased tenfold, and I wouldn't be able to finish if I did it for a week. Without a condom I'm way too scared to do it fast since I get really close to the edge, so it's a horrible combo.[/QUOTE]
Having sex with a condom just feels like dryhumping for me :v:
[QUOTE=Pascall;27578976]I'm afraid of losing a best friend because I was being an insensitive clod. I wish I could explain things, but it's not my place to explain since it's not my situation.
Night = ruined because I'm a dickkkk[/QUOTE]
You're not a dick.
[QUOTE=Simpleboo;27580678]Got some stuff.
Starting to hate almost everyone, and it feels fucked up.
My dad passed away a while ago, and my mom in 2003;Would they be proud of me now?
What the fuck am i gonna do when i turn 18?[/QUOTE]
Are you alive? Yes, I think they'd be proud. My dad died in 2002, a week after my birthday, that's messed me up quite a bit, so I can understand some of what you're going through. I've begun to alienate myself, but soon you'll find those good friends who make life worth living. I'm at boarding school, and I spend half my time alone in my room angry with everyone. People noticed and I have fallen out with people, but you just have to learn to put these things behind you. Life is not as easy as everyone says it is, but for people in a similar situation to us, we come out stronger at the end, more capable of empathy or care than anyone else.
And don't panic about when you're 18, that happened 4 months ago for me and feel exactly the same. Whenever things get too much, distract yourself with a film or tv, they work amazingly at clearing your mind.
[QUOTE=Simski;27582628]Having sex with a condom just feels like dryhumping for me :v:[/QUOTE]
How????
[editline]22nd January 2011[/editline]
Also, I saw this in LMAO and it made me think of this thread. Here's something for all the people who are feeling suicidal in this thread:
[img]http://img15.imageshack.us/img15/1914/1295280037260.png[/img]
Yes, it's kind of a motivator. Cry some more
So it's telling people to use the depression as a motivation to do something good, to change. It's nice, but I doubt it'll help most people.
I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago. Her parents made us do it. She says she still loves me so much. She said secretly, we are still together. I was a happy person, but a bit sad we couldn't express it freely. Then one day.. she decided to get another boyfriend. I was perfectly fine with it since she lives in Illinois and I didn't want her to be lonely. Monday, she had sex with him. Broke our promise. I feel so heartbroken, facepunch.
Last night, I presented her with pictures of paper on my bed. I wrote "I love you" 1008 times to show her how much I love her. She cried over Skype but when I asked her if it was ever possible the same thing could be done for me, she said no because she already does too much for me. Again, heartbroken. She has never once gotten me a gift. I spoiled her with Valentine's Day gifts, I stayed up until midnight with her until it was her birthday (this was when I visited her), and I bought her an expensive, but beautiful dress for Christmas.
Some of you are wondering where's the back story. How long have I known her. Etc. Maybe I made a mistake somewhere and karma is kicking my ass. I don't know, facepunch. Maybe I should just end it for good. But I still love her so much. My heart wants her but does her heart want me?
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27584904]So it's telling people to use the depression as a motivation to do something good, to change. It's nice, but I doubt it'll help most people.[/QUOTE]
Eh maybe not but you never know. I liked it.
[editline]22nd January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=azndude;27585055]I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago. Her parents made us do it. She says she still loves me so much. She said secretly, we are still together. I was a happy person, but a bit sad we couldn't express it freely. Then one day.. she decided to get another boyfriend. I was perfectly fine with it since she lives in Illinois and I didn't want her to be lonely. Monday, she had sex with him. Broke our promise. I feel so heartbroken, facepunch.
Last night, I presented her with pictures of paper on my bed. I wrote "I love you" 1008 times to show her how much I love her. She cried over Skype but when I asked her if it was ever possible the same thing could be done for me, she said no because she already does too much for me. Again, heartbroken. She has never once gotten me a gift. I spoiled her with Valentine's Day gifts, I stayed up until midnight with her until it was her birthday (this was when I visited her), and I bought her an expensive, but beautiful dress for Christmas.
Some of you are wondering where's the back story. How long have I known her. Etc. Maybe I made a mistake somewhere and karma is kicking my ass. I don't know, facepunch. Maybe I should just end it for good. But I still love her so much. My heart wants her but does her heart want me?[/QUOTE]
She doesn't sound like she wants you, man. And honestly she seems kind of like a bitch. Saying shit like "she already does too much for you". That doesn't sound like love at all. It makes it sound like you're just a chore to her now. I think you need to move on, buddy. Which will probably be better for you anyway. Then you can find someone who really cares about you and maybe even lives closer
Just dropping in to say
Group therapy is probably the greatest way to get differences and issues out in the open amongst friends.
If you ever have a chance to do it, DO IT.
[QUOTE=Binsky;27585785]
She doesn't sound like she wants you, man. And honestly she seems kind of like a bitch. Saying shit like "she already does too much for you". That doesn't sound like love at all. It makes it sound like you're just a chore to her now. I think you need to move on, buddy. Which will probably be better for you anyway. Then you can find someone who really cares about you and maybe even lives closer[/QUOTE]
I don't know, Binsky. We've been together for so long. Our relationship has been through so much shit but we've somehow managed to stay together, but.. this week has been a living hell. I'm going to try to talk to her again and maybe she'll.. love me again. I'll let you know what happened later tonight.
I just want my old girlfriend back.
[QUOTE=Pascall;27585851]Just dropping in to say
Group therapy is probably the greatest way to get differences and issues out in the open amongst friends.
If you ever have a chance to do it, DO IT.[/QUOTE]
How does group therapy work exacly and what do you mean by getting differences and issues out in the open amongst friends?
[editline]22nd January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=azndude;27585972]I don't know, Binsky. We've been together for so long. Our relationship has been through so much shit but we've somehow managed to stay together, but.. this week has been a living hell. I'm going to try to talk to her again and maybe she'll.. love me again. I'll let you know what happened later tonight.
I just want my old girlfriend back.[/QUOTE]
The fact that you've given her so much and loved her so much while she doesn't seem to have given you much back and love you gives me the idea that she probably doesn't feel the way for you that you feel for her. Ask her about it? Make sure you get a straight answer.
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27586014]How does group therapy work exacly and what do you mean by getting differences and issues out in the open amongst friends?[/QUOTE]
Pretty much, just say what you have to say. Say things you aren't normally comfortable to share with your friends, just get it off your shoulders and since they're your friends so they should support you and help.
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27586014]How does group therapy work exacly and what do you mean by getting differences and issues out in the open amongst friends?[/QUOTE]
Alright well yesterday night, I got into it with a couple of my friends. We all said shit that was dumb and we started fighting. But one of us pulled us all into a Steam chat and we all said exactly what was on our minds. Then we apologized and went into the issues that some of us deal with that what we go through and we shared support with each other and swapped stories and dreams and all that gay stuff.
At the end of the night, we established that we were too good of friends to be arguing like that and we all understood each other a lot more.
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27586014]
The fact that you've given her so much and loved her so much while she doesn't seem to have given you much back and love you gives me the idea that she probably doesn't feel the way for you that you feel for her. Ask her about it? Make sure you get a straight answer.[/QUOTE]
I will try that, MrJazzy.
And thanks guys, I actually feel better knowing there are some people I can talk to.
[QUOTE=Pascall;27586053]Alright well yesterday night, I got into it with a couple of my friends. We all said shit that was dumb and we started fighting. But one of us pulled us all into a Steam chat and we all said exactly what was on our minds. Then we apologized and went into the issues that some of us deal with that what we go through and we shared support with each other and swapped stories and dreams and all that gay stuff.
At the end of the night, we established that we were too good of friends to be arguing like that and we all understood each other a lot more.[/QUOTE]
I'll take the blame for that.
Alrighty, thanks.
[editline]22nd January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=azndude;27586080]I will try that, MrJazzy.
And thanks guys, I actually feel better knowing there are some people I can talk to.[/QUOTE]
Good luck. But if the answer you get is that she doesn't love you, then stick with it and move on.
Whenever my girlfriend and I have a disagreement we always talk about it in a calm tone and if either of us are being irrational we point it out to each other kindly and explain how the other is, in fact being irrational. That's always the best way to handle an altercation
[QUOTE=Binsky;27586163]Whenever my girlfriend and I have a disagreement we always talk about it in a calm tone and if either of us are being irrational we point it out to each other kindly and explain how the other is, in fact being irrational. That's always the best way to handle an altercation[/QUOTE]
Whenever I try that with her, she's always trying to leave so she doesn't have to deal with it. It's so difficult for me to talk to her about something. But whenever she points out something bad about me, I accept it and try to fix it. Like for example, the whole writing "I love you" 1008 times. She said that she wished I expressed my love for her more so I thought this would be perfect and she did love it. But.. yeah. You know.
[QUOTE=Binsky;27586163]Whenever my girlfriend and I have a disagreement we always talk about it in a calm tone and if either of us are being irrational we point it out to each other kindly and explain how the other is, in fact being irrational. That's always the best way to handle an altercation[/QUOTE]
This is definitely the best way to do it, but both partners have to be on it. My parents had a period when they used to fight pretty much every time, and most of the times atleast one of them were drunk and it never worked out. It usually just ended up with my dad screaming at my mother who was close to crying or something like that. Went on for a few years, but they kinda stopped fightnig - as far as I know - when they became aware of my depression and so :v:
Why are people such assholes to cashiers? We can't leave the register and help you, because it's our job to be at that register. If you didn't get help before you came to the front LOOK FOR SOME HELP, don't expect me to abandon this line of 6 people just because you couldn't find sticky notes.
tldr don't be an ass hole to cashiers.
[QUOTE=azndude;27585972]I don't know, Binsky. We've been together for so long. Our relationship has been through so much shit but we've somehow managed to stay together, but.. this week has been a living hell. I'm going to try to talk to her again and maybe she'll.. love me again. I'll let you know what happened later tonight.
I just want my old girlfriend back.[/QUOTE]
It shouldn't feel like that, though. You shouldn't have to feel like you have to get her to love you again. She also shouldn't be dating someone else if she genuinely cared about you. Try to move on. My last ex and i went through hell and back. It was literally the hardest time in my life, a moment that shaped who i am today and one that haunts me everyday and yes we got through that together and yes we had dated for two and a half years but we weren't right for each other. We held drastically different beliefs, we lost our chemistry, and it just wasn't working. We're still good friends but we have both moved on and are both happier for it.
[QUOTE=slinkman;27586269]Why are people such assholes to cashiers? We can't leave the register and help you, because it's our job to be at that register. If you didn't get help before you came to the front LOOK FOR SOME HELP, don't expect me to abandon this line of 6 people just because you couldn't find sticky notes.
tldr don't be an ass hole to cashiers.[/QUOTE]
those people usually have never worked in retail. they don't understand how it works.
people like that are the reason I'm looking for a job outside of food service or retail
[QUOTE=slinkman;27586269]Why are people such assholes to cashiers? We can't leave the register and help you, because it's our job to be at that register. If you didn't get help before you came to the front LOOK FOR SOME HELP, don't expect me to abandon this line of 6 people just because you couldn't find sticky notes.
tldr don't be an ass hole to cashiers.[/QUOTE]
My older brother used to work as a cashier for a while, and he said pretty much the same thing.
[QUOTE=azndude;27586216]Whenever I try that with her, she's always trying to leave so she doesn't have to deal with it. It's so difficult for me to talk to her about something. But whenever she points out something bad about me, I accept it and try to fix it. Like for example, the whole writing "I love you" 1008 times. She said that she wished I expressed my love for her more so I thought this would be perfect and she did love it. But.. yeah. You know.[/QUOTE]
It sounds like she finds faults in you but is unwilling to look at her own faults. She has to give a little too and it sounds like you're the only one giving and that is not healthy for a relationship
[QUOTE=Binsky;27586297]It shouldn't feel like that, though. You shouldn't have to feel like you have to get her to love you again. She also shouldn't be dating someone else if she genuinely cared about you. Try to move on. My last ex and i went through hell and back. It was literally the hardest time in my life, a moment that shaped who i am today and one that haunts me everyday and yes we got through that together and yes we had dated for two and a half years but we weren't right for each other. We held drastically different beliefs, we lost our chemistry, and it just wasn't working. We're still good friends but we have both moved on and are both happier for it.[/QUOTE]
A part of me wants to stay with her but the other is saying to ditch the damn bitch. I'll think of something. I hope.
[editline]22nd January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Binsky;27586339]It sounds like she finds faults in you but is unwilling to look at her own faults. She has to give a little too and it sounds like you're the only one giving and that is not healthy for a relationship[/QUOTE]
It does, doesn't it?
I'm glad the week's over. Too much drama, someone calling another person a ''hooker'', one friend falling out with others causing some stupid stuff that dragged on all week
[QUOTE=azndude;27586383]A part of me wants to stay with her but the other is saying to ditch the damn bitch. I'll think of something. I hope.
[editline]22nd January 2011[/editline]
It does, doesn't it?[/QUOTE]
My advice is to try to move on. I'd go as far to say that she already has. You deserve someone who cares about you as much as you care about them
[editline]22nd January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=WeekendWarrior;27586420]I'm glad the week's over. Too much drama, someone calling another person a ''hooker'', one friend falling out with others causing some stupid stuff that dragged on all week[/QUOTE]
Name fits.
And yeah i know how that can be. I hope that things chill out for you
[QUOTE=Binsky;27586455]My advice is to try to move on. I'd go as far to say that she already has. You deserve someone who cares about you as much as you care about them
[/QUOTE]
That sounds amazing to me. But like I said, I'm going to try and talk to her. Maybe snap her out of it.
Well last night I said something I probably shouldn't have. I hurt a quite a few people for saying something without ever thinking. Sure they say they're over it now but I'm not, I still feel like a dick though. I wasn't thinking and never thought of their feelings. Caused a lot of shit too.
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