Very upset at the moment, havn't broke down in tears in a long time. My mum is getting rid of the dog.
Hes a manchester terrier (quite a small dog) and hes only 3 years old. I love him so much.
[QUOTE=Predator8193;27803694]Very upset at the moment, havn't broke down in tears in a long time. My mum is getting rid of the dog.
Hes a manchester terrier (quite a small dog) and hes only 3 years old. I love him so much.[/QUOTE]
Why is she getting rid of him? Is there a reason, or does she just "not want him anymore"?
[QUOTE=slayer20;27803473]I have no friends. Not joking, at all.
Ok sure, I have those kinds of friends where you can say you've hanged out with them before and they don't hate you and both of you generally get along. But that's in the past.
Recently I've attempted to ask a friend of mine out on a date. She seemed pretty excited about going, but because she's in sports it would have been a while before we could go. So almost a week later I ask her if she still wants to go, and if she doesn't to just tell me so. I said I'd understand if she didn't want to go, but she insisted that she wanted too. Fast forward another week, almost two weeks. I send her a message asking her if she's still up to it. I told her to send me a message after she's thought about it for a while. It's been long enough. She hasn't sent me anything.
I should mention that I'm out of High School, which my best friends (all 3 of them) are currently in (they are a grade lower than me) so I don't get to see them hardly at all. I figured I'd try to get them all together to go see a movie, but that would have been a hassle, so I thought I'd take my chance of asking a girl out. The only time I get to talk to my friends is when they're on Facebook or come into my work, which is hardly ever for both.
I thought things were going fine, but they weren't. She hasn't said it, but I'm almost positive she doesn't want to go anymore.
I have no friends. I have no one to hang out with. I don't have someone I can text and ask, "What's up?" and get a reply. I have nothing.
I am one of those stereotypical nerds who have a whole bunch of anime kawaii desu pictures saved onto my computer because it's the only thing that makes me happy. Minus the being fat part. I'm not fat, rather skinny.
I was told College would be fun, and I was expecting to make lots of friends there. I haven't.
I don't know who I am. I'm not happy with who I am. I'm not happy with what I do.
"Character - What you do when no one else is looking."
I am depressed.
I am lonely.
I am sad.
I want to be someone else. I have thoughts about changing who I am, but these aren't thoughts I'm 100% comfortable with sharing, but I feel as if I would be happier if I were to change completely.
I feel too old. I'm only 18.
My life sucks.[/QUOTE]
You are just like me or I am just like you.
I have no friends, besides a few friendly people I sit with at school. I just stay home, playing Xbox or browsing Facepunch.
I think I'll do better once I get a job and a car. Those are the things that attract a girl, right?
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;27803709]Why is she getting rid of him? Is there a reason, or does she just "not want him anymore"?[/QUOTE]
His name is Harry and hes been pissing everywhere recently(he never used to), apparently every day. I dont know how but this evening he pissed in my brothers bed completely (pillows, duvet, bed sheet even the mattress just soaked with his wee. My mum went ape shit started screaming/shouting at him. My brother wouldnt shut the fuck up whining that hes gunna have to sleep on the sofa with nothing but his clothes to keep him warm this just made my mum even more angry with harry. She said shes going to get my brother new bedding and as she was leaving the house she said we're getting rid of him. I could tell she was dead serious.
Just saw this go up and I thought it would be good to post it here. [url]Http://steamcommunity.com/groups/lifeadvice[/url]
[QUOTE=Predator8193;27804201]His name is Harry and hes been pissing everywhere recently(he never used to), apparently every day. I dont know how but this evening he pissed in my brothers bed completely (pillows, duvet, bed sheet even the mattress just soaked with his wee. My mum went ape shit started screaming/shouting at him. My brother wouldnt shut the fuck up whining that hes gunna have to sleep on the sofa with nothing but his clothes to keep him warm this just made my mum even more angry with harry. She said shes going to get my brother new bedding and as she was leaving the house she said we're getting rid of him. I could tell she was dead serious.[/QUOTE]
Maybe I read it wrong, but that seems like an amazing overreaction.
My cat pisses on our beds every so often and we don't get rid of it, we just make sure it doesn't happen again.
He might be sick too, try to get her to take him to the vet before she just gets rid of him.
Also how old is he? If he's only like 3 months old then he's obviously going to piss on everything.
[QUOTE=cqbcat;27803842]
I think I'll do better once I get a job and a car. Those are the things that attract a girl, right?[/QUOTE]
No, they're not, unfortunately. While I don't have a car of my own, I have access to a car I can use whenever I need too. And I do have a job.
[QUOTE=slayer20;27804408]No, they're not, unfortunately. While I don't have a car of my own, I have access to a car I can use whenever I need too. And I do have a job.[/QUOTE]
Well, firstly, I feel like you just need to make friends. Yes, I realize how hollow that advice sounds. I know that saying "make friends" is a lot easier said than done, but you can do it.
Try 'putting yourself out there' when you're interacting with people. If people see something in you that they like, then you win, if they don't, then you haven't lost anything because you don't have any sort of social status right now anyway. When I say that, I mean, talk. Don't just get stuck in the whole generic "the weather is nice" conversation, attempt to add something to it.
Though, as it's pretty widely said, 'in order for you to get other people to like you, you have to like yourself".
Try working on your self-image.
Good thing I had a snow day today, probably would have fallen asleep at school. The 2-hour sleep schedule is normal for me though. I was glad I finished my project last night at 4 in the morning, I was able to play GMod all day. That last game of TTT was a lot of fun.
Sometimes I wish I had instrumental talent. I would have gotten into a band a long time ago if I had been able to.
but even then, there's my horrid stage fright that after six years I still haven't gotten over so it's a permanent thing I suppose.
I guess I'm just gonna have to stick to singing out loud wherever I am for fun.
[QUOTE=Pascall;27805030]Sometimes I wish I had instrumental talent. I would have gotten into a band a long time ago if I had been able to.
but even then, there's my horrid stage fright that after six years I still haven't gotten over so it's a permanent thing I suppose.
I guess I'm just gonna have to stick to singing out loud wherever I am for fun.[/QUOTE]
I'm embarrassed to sing, I only sing when I'm alone, but my brother says I'm good at singing. And I would like to make music for a living, even if it's singing.
I'm not too shy about my ability to sing. I'm not amazing, but I'm decent enough to where I'll really just sing wherever I am. I don't go full out for anyone unless I'm at a concert or something singing along, but yeah.
I don't get embarrassed too often. If I know someone really well, they'll end up hearing me sing all the time.
[QUOTE=hammerheadshark;27805124]I'm embarrassed to sing, I only sing when I'm alone, but my brother says I'm good at singing. And I would like to make music for a living, even if it's singing.[/QUOTE]
I'm in my school choir, but that's the only place I like to sing (Other than when I'm alone).
[QUOTE=Pascall;27805150]I'm not too shy about my ability to sing. I'm not amazing, but I'm decent enough to where I'll really just sing wherever I am. I don't go full out for anyone unless I'm at a concert or something singing along, but yeah.
I don't get embarrassed too often. If I know someone really well, they'll end up hearing me sing all the time.[/QUOTE]
You were singing when you fell asleep on Skype once.
[QUOTE=hammerheadshark;27805124]I'm embarrassed to sing, I only sing when I'm alone, but my brother says I'm good at singing. And I would like to make music for a living, even if it's singing.[/QUOTE]
I'm the exact opposite of this; I sing just about everywhere I am, and I am horrible at singing.
God, I wish I could sing.
[QUOTE=Makol;27805179]You were singing when you fell asleep on Skype once.[/QUOTE]
wat
[QUOTE=Pascall;27805189]wat[/QUOTE]
Last weekend you fell asleep when we were on Skype. You sing when you sleep apparently.
welp
I didn't know that lol.
I hope I sound better singing when awake.
[QUOTE=Pascall;27805208]welp
I didn't know that lol.
I hope I sound better singing when awake.[/QUOTE]
You were singing before you fell asleep, you stopped, I realized you fell asleep, and then you started singing again.
I see.
Interesting.
I just don't know if my brother was right though. When I hear myself talk, I sound very mature, but when I hear a recording of myself I sound like a kid...
And I've asked people on my TTT server if I sound annoying, but everyone says no. But when someone using *gulp* [i]speakers[/i] holds down the talk button and my voice plays, I think I sound annoying.
I hate the way my voice sounds, even when I'm just talking.
I feel like it sounds like I have a lisp or something.
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;27805289]I hate the way my voice sounds, even when I'm just talking.
I feel like it sounds like I have a lisp or something.[/QUOTE]
At leatht you dun't typthe with a lithp.
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;27805289]I hate the way my voice sounds, even when I'm just talking.
I feel like it sounds like I have a lisp or something.[/QUOTE]
My voice still cracks and I'm 19.
my voice is pretty deep for the small chick I am
pretty annoying.
[QUOTE=Makol;27805334]My voice still cracks and I'm 19.[/QUOTE]
Well what I mean is like, I feel like my voice doesn't sound as "clear" as everyone else.
It's hard to explain.
My voice is just a little higher than I'd like it to be, and I tend to stutter...A lot...
[QUOTE=Pascall;27805350]my voice is pretty deep for the small chick I am
pretty annoying.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;27805368]Well what I mean is like, I feel like my voice doesn't sound as "clear" as everyone else.
It's hard to explain.[/QUOTE]
You guys sound fine as far as I can tell.
My voice seems way too low, which is especially bad when I try to hit very high notes when I sing.
And then there's that stuttering problem...
I can always think of a conversation that will go on for hours, switching from topic to topic, but I never talk. I talk at an average rate of 3 words per hour.
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[QUOTE=Fhenexx;27805404]My voice seems way too low, which is especially bad when I try to hit very high notes when I sing.[/QUOTE]
Even with my higher voice, I don't like hitting the really high notes. Normal high notes are fine though.
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