The get stuff off of your chest thread. - General

Why do you feel this desire if you don't even know her name? Wouldn't you want to know a little about her before you ask her out on a date?

[QUOTE=huggybear_13;25921274]My girlfriend of nearly two years just left me because i'm pretty sure I logically reasoned her into doing so. Now I feel like I want to kill myself, immature, w/e[/QUOTE] You're bigger than her. You're awesome. Nothing she said can bring you down, because the world is your fucking oyster. I'm pretty sure how I acted was a factor in how my 13 month relationship with my ex went, but in the end, she's the one that treated me like shit. I'm better without her, and I dumped her yesterday. Grab an irn bru / beer / etc and sit back, knowing that you rule the world.

I really just want my boyfriend to show me he loves me like he used to. :P

Has everyone lost interest in my girl? [editline]7th November 2010[/editline] Her name is Lizzie Gillet. There I said it. Needed to get that out.

[QUOTE=MindMuncher;25921357]Why do you feel this desire if you don't even know her name? Wouldn't you want to know a little about her before you ask her out on a date?[/QUOTE] I saw her once during school and I watched her for a while, she looked beautiful and had that smile. I feel attracted to her and I want to know her better.

[QUOTE=|FlapJack|;25921418]You're bigger than her. You're awesome. Nothing she said can bring you down, because the world is your fucking oyster. I'm pretty sure how I acted was a factor in how my 13 month relationship with my ex went, but in the end, she's the one that treated me like shit. I'm better without her, and I dumped her yesterday. Grab an irn bru / beer / etc and sit back, knowing that you rule the world.[/QUOTE] aha legend.

[QUOTE=ConvolutedLogic;25921431]I really just want my boyfriend to show me he loves me like he used to. :P[/QUOTE] Do you have anywhere memorable for both of you? If you do, take him there. For example, the local river was a place for me and my ex. Mainly because on a dark, cold night last year, we had our first kisses there. Despite the first kiss not being that memorable an occasion, the entire atmosphere made it one of the happiest moments of my life.

[QUOTE=|FlapJack|;25921717]Do you have anywhere memorable for both of you? If you do, take him there. For example, the local river was a place for me and my ex. Mainly because on a dark, cold night last year, we had our first kisses there.[/QUOTE] I barely see him every week and a half or two weeks, even then, it's just for a few hours. This seems impossible.

Not really sure if I should post or not, but oh well. Oh man, where do I even begin. I'm a nobody. I'm not good at anything I do. Whenever I try to learn something, it always ends up with me thinking, "man, I suck... I don't want to do this anymore." This goes for playing guitar, keyboards, archery, drawing, animating, 3D modeling, and contrary to what I believed, gaming. I do realize that I need to put my heart to it and keep on doing it to get better, but I honestly can't get myself to do that. All I think is "I suck at this" and have no more motivation to continue. I am also socially awkward (surprise, surprise) to the point of disgusting myself. Now, I have friends. But I move around a lot. I had many great friends when I lived in Singapore, and many others when I lived in Saudi Arabia. But then I moved to Switzerland (the french part), and things just went downhill from there. I couldn't fucking communicate with people. I didn't know french, and the people there were assholes to you if you didn't. Even if you tried, you could get mocked. I lost count to how many times I got laughed at for trying to order a fucking coffee. I was in an international school, sure, but I couldn't make any friends for some reason, save for a Pakistani asshole who I ended up punching in the face. I was unknown. People knew me as "that guy with long hair" and it stopped me from being able to talk to people. I tried, but I just couldn't. French classes were a nightmare, too. I passed French 1, but never could do French 2. I couldn't take it. I kept failing the class over and over, and the school wouldn't help no matter how many times I tried to do something. All they ever said to me was "try and do better". This went on for 4 horrible years, and every day I hated french more and more. To the point where I actually cringe when I hear it today. A few months ago, I moved to the US. I moved out of my parent's (who also moved to the US, but are no where close), and am now living with my sister. I honestly though I'd have more privacy, but no. I actually have less. I go to univeristy here, and yet, after all this time, I'm still friendless. I honestly try to talk to people, but I just can't, unless they speak to me first. I don't know why. I think I'm a littler better than when I was in Switzerland, though; I was able to hold a conversation with someone. Thank fuck. This is not even half of what I need to get off my chest, either. I'm also gay. Now, I've accepted this, but I honestly can't do anything about it. My family is extremely Muslim. They're the kind of people who think all homosexuals are disgusting and should be killed. I've talked to my dad once about what he thought of homosexuality, and it it only made me want to cry after. I honestly don't know what they'd do if they found out about me. I'm 20, I'm not a virgin, but yet, I've never even kissed anyone. Me being gay isn't the only thing my parents wouldn't approve of. EVERYTHING I want to do with my life is something they don't want me to do. Animation? No. Music? No. Making video games? No. I should get a "real" job that has something to do with business or politics. [B]Fuck. That.[/B] For those of you who can't be assed to read all that: I'm a failure, a nobody, and an extremely useless person. [editline]7th November 2010[/editline] Phew.

[QUOTE=ConvolutedLogic;25921747]I barely see him every week and a half or two weeks, even then, it's just for a few hours. This seems impossible.[/QUOTE] That sounds bad, honestly. Have a heart.

I saw a fucking sweet car accident this morning. I was driving to the store and the car in front of me lost control, swerved into a rock face on the side of the road, and just started flipping. Even sweeter part? As I was running up to the car to see if the guy was okay he [b]walked out of the car.[/b] Ambulance was called, paramedics and cops were there in under two minutes, everything ended up fine. From what I hear, his worst injury was a mild concussion. Except his car.

[QUOTE=Zeldy;25922275]Not really sure if I should post or not, but oh well. Oh man, where do I even begin. I'm a nobody. I'm not good at anything I do. Whenever I try to learn something, it always ends up with me thinking, "man, I suck... I don't want to do this anymore." This goes for playing guitar, keyboards, archery, drawing, animating, 3D modeling, and contrary to what I believed, gaming. I do realize that I need to put my heart to it and keep on doing it to get better, but I honestly can't get myself to do that. All I think is "I suck at this" and have no more motivation to continue. I am also socially awkward (surprise, surprise) to the point of disgusting myself. Now, I have friends. But I move around a lot. I had many great friends when I lived in Singapore, and many others when I lived in Saudi Arabia. But then I moved to Switzerland (the french part), and things just went downhill from there. I couldn't fucking communicate with people. I didn't know french, and the people there were assholes to you if you didn't. Even if you tried, you could get mocked. I lost count to how many times I got laughed at for trying to order a fucking coffee. I was in an international school, sure, but I couldn't make any friends for some reason, save for a Pakistani asshole who I ended up punching in the face. I was unknown. People knew me as "that guy with long hair" and it stopped me from being able to talk to people. I tried, but I just couldn't. French classes were a nightmare, too. I passed French 1, but never could do French 2. I couldn't take it. I kept failing the class over and over, and the school wouldn't help no matter how many times I tried to do something. All they ever said to me was "try and do better". This went on for 4 horrible years, and every day I hated french more and more. To the point where I actually cringe when I hear it today. A few months ago, I moved to the US. I moved out of my parent's (who also moved to the US, but are no where close), and am now living with my sister. I honestly though I'd have more privacy, but no. I actually have less. I go to univeristy here, and yet, after all this time, I'm still friendless. I honestly try to talk to people, but I just can't, unless they speak to me first. I don't know why. I think I'm a littler better than when I was in Switzerland, though; I was able to hold a conversation with someone. Thank fuck. This is not even half of what I need to get off my chest, either. I'm also gay. Now, I've accepted this, but I honestly can't do anything about it. My family is extremely Muslim. They're the kind of people who think all homosexuals are disgusting and should be killed. I've talked to my dad once about what he thought of homosexuality, and it it only made me want to cry after. I honestly don't know what they'd do if they found out about me. I'm 20, I'm not a virgin, but yet, I've never even kissed anyone. Me being gay isn't the only thing my parents wouldn't approve of. EVERYTHING I want to do with my life is something they don't want me to do. Animation? No. Music? No. Making video games? No. I should get a "real" job that has something to do with business or politics. [B]Fuck. That.[/B] For those of you who can't be assed to read all that: I'm a failure, a nobody, and an extremely useless person. [editline]7th November 2010[/editline] Phew.[/QUOTE] It's your life to live. Your parents should except you for who you are and whatever you want to be. If not then it's their loss.

[QUOTE=z156;25923147]It's your life to live. Your parents should except you for who you are and whatever you want to be. If not then it's their loss.[/QUOTE] I realize that. I've stopped caring what they think. I'm doing the things [I]I[/I] want to do, not the things they want me to.

My greatest aspiration is to be a professional SF writer, but I don't have the motivation to work on long projects. I'm really creative and I love inventing settings and stories, but I can never write very much about them before getting bored with that idea and moving on to another. Plus many people have told me I'm an excellent writer.

I may have a crush on my best friend's girlfriend. :/

I am really insecure about everything. I don't do good in school(even thou I'm told to be highly intelligent by my psychiatrist). I'm always kinda sad, even when there is no real reason. I have no real social life. You my think "Hey, be less on your PC then, and go outside!" No, not that easy. Being on my PC alone is a consequence of my nonexistent social life, not the other way around. Everybody in my class is a fucking idiot. They drink (they are fucking 15) hate me for no reason, don't know shit about anything, listen to Kesha, shit like that. Even thou I try to ignore them, and don't say shit to them like "You should stop drinking" or something, they still hate me. The only girl I ever liked, (wich I was to shy to ask out in real-life) shoot me down, and is now together with one of those retards. I hate myself. When I was a little kid, I always heard my parents fighting (verbally). They divorced, and we moved house. I was alone a lot, wich surly wasn't good for my psyche. Coming home into and empty house after school, cooking your own food, and hearing your mother cry at the age of 6-8 shurly wasn't good for my mental health. You know, I kind of feel relived after typing this. Thanks Facepunch

[QUOTE=BobIsAwesome;25923838]I may have a crush on my best friend's girlfriend. :/[/QUOTE] I know how that feels. It's so awkward because you know you don't want to do anything to harm your friend's relationship but you feel that you could be a better boyfriend.

[QUOTE=Elizer;25924738]I know how that feels. It's so awkward because you know you don't want to do anything to harm your friend's relationship but you feel that you could be a better boyfriend.[/QUOTE] Out of curiosity, if your friend and his girlfriend break up... is it ethical to go out with his ex? I was so bored I decided to google this, and I got "NO ITS NEVER OKAY TO DATE YOUR FRIENDS EX". Fuck that. If a girl's single, she's single. Doesn't matter who she used to be dating, and if your friend gets all fucking pissy just because you're dating a girl who's no longer in a relationship with him, then he's one bitchy friend. Am I a dick for thinking this, or does it totally make sense?

[QUOTE=BobIsAwesome;25923838]I may have a crush on my best friend's girlfriend. :/[/QUOTE] I have a crush on one of my straight friends I need to avoid making it apparent so he can stay my friend

[QUOTE=Scar;25923839]I am really insecure about everything. I don't do good in school(even thou I'm told to be highly intelligent by my psychiatrist). I'm always kinda sad, even when there is no real reason. I have no real social life. You my think "Hey, be less on your PC then, and go outside!" No, not that easy. Being on my PC alone is a consequence of my nonexistent social life, not the other way around. Everybody in my class is a fucking idiot. They drink (they are fucking 15) hate me for no reason, don't know shit about anything, listen to Kesha, shit like that. Even thou I try to ignore them, and don't say shit to them like "You should stop drinking" or something, they still hate me. The only girl I ever liked, (wich I was to shy to ask out in real-life) shoot me down, and is now together with one of those retards. I hate myself. When I was a little kid, I always heard my parents fighting (verbally). They divorced, and we moved house. I was alone a lot, wich surly wasn't good for my psyche. Coming home into and empty house after school, cooking your own food, and hearing your mother cry at the age of 6-8 shurly wasn't good for my mental health. You know, I kind of feel relived after typing this. Thanks Facepunch[/QUOTE] Your passive behaviour is the issue, do something rather then being afraid of the consquences. For instance join a sports club and talk to everyone and try to be good at it. Eventually you will learn new people and you will improve yourself on everything.

[QUOTE=BobIsAwesome;25925286]Out of curiosity, if your friend and your girlfriend break up... is it ethical to go out with his ex? I was so bored I decided to google this, and I got "NO ITS NEVER OKAY TO DATE YOUR FRIENDS EX". Fuck that. If a girl's single, she's single. Doesn't matter who she used to be dating, and if your friend gets all fucking pissy just because you're dating a girl who's no longer in a relationship with him, then he's one bitchy friend. Am I a dick for thinking this, or does it totally make sense?[/QUOTE] Wait until he's over her or 2 months, whichever is first.

[QUOTE=BobIsAwesome;25925286]Out of curiosity, if your friend and your girlfriend break up... is it ethical to go out with his ex? I was so bored I decided to google this, and I got "NO ITS NEVER OKAY TO DATE YOUR FRIENDS EX". Fuck that. If a girl's single, she's single. Doesn't matter who she used to be dating, and if your friend gets all fucking pissy just because you're dating a girl who's no longer in a relationship with him, then he's one bitchy friend. Am I a dick for thinking this, or does it totally make sense?[/QUOTE] I'd probably check with your friend. If he has no problem with it, go for it. However, if it got to the point where you and her are "more than friends", like you feel more like siblings. Don't do it, you'll set yourself up for a miserable relationship that will just feel weird. EDIT: Or yeah, wait a few months. Don't charge straight into it.

Ok I need to rant again. Where I live there are some really unintelligent people. But there is this one group of black kids(No im not being racist its just what the group is composed of) that really sticks out. Like they are the type who thinks their gangster and all ghetto when they live in a quiet neighborhood. I mean nothing ever happens there. and so today I was getting food in McDonalds when 3 of them were already there. I walked in there blasting my death metal holding noting but my energy drinks. As soon as I walked up to the counter to make my decision all three of them just start circling me sizing me up and Im like the fuck. what do you think im going to do? Kill all three of you with my headphones? and so as I was paying one of the kids just stood there watching my hand as I was paying seeing how much money was on me. And so I politely get out of his way so that he can order. He orders 2 things that came out to be $2.36. He only paid her $2 and played dumb and deaf when she kept telling him he still owed her 36 cents. God that made me rage. I hate people like that who think they can just get away with it. Again im not racist.

lately im feeling depressed/sad and lonely like fuck, one of my friends got put into a drug addiction institute and one of my other friends got banished pretty much to morroco because he punched his stepmom. and more stuff happened that i dont trust posting on the internet. now im all alone rate me hearts you faggots im drunk

Don't you hate it when some fucking girl comes along and promise she won't hurt you, and then breaks your heart?

[QUOTE=killa101;25925815]Don't you hate it when some fucking girl comes along and promise she won't hurt you, and then breaks your heart?[/QUOTE] Don't trust what a girl says. Trust what a girl does. Actions really do say 1000 words.

[QUOTE=killa101;25925815]Don't you hate it when some fucking girl comes along and promise she won't hurt you, and then breaks your heart?[/QUOTE] It happens man... it happens.

[QUOTE=Fuhrer;25918434]I can't stop trolling facepunch sometimes.[/QUOTE] And you troll pretty badly.

[QUOTE=Thedashingrogue;25879285]Do you have a problem in your life and you don't want to risk the social embarassment of shouting it from the rooftops? Then post it here. As well as bitching like little girls, advice/help is welcome too. I put this thread in GD because I see a lot of "my life sucks please help me" threads around here. I could just leave the OP here and sound like a manly guy with no problems in my life, but I need to get some stuff off of my chest too. So a little while ago, this girl in my year started getting this huge crush on me. She's decent looking, and really not my type. She slowly started listening into my convorsations and trying to figure out what I liked. Then it started. For the past 8 months, I have heard nothing but constant meme shit from her. I guess it would be funny if she put it in the right context, but she doesn't. Whilst asking her facebook friends whether a tingly neck is normal or not, she says, and I quote: "It started when I was drinking coke. Then I drank some more. FBF." a friend then asks: "FBF?" she replies: "foul bachelor frog, duh. Look it up on google image of funny junk." I raged. She also tried to get TF2 after she heard me talking about it. She changed her profile picture to a picture of The Heavy, reading: I lol'd, but then I serious'd. She hadn't even played it before. There was literally smoke pouring out of my ears I was so mad. She also has been coppying all of the music I like (and liked). For instance, I used to be a huge emofag and I listened to MCR all the time and as soon as I mention them, she turns up next week with a MCR t-shirt. Felt good to get that off of my chest, bros.[/QUOTE] we're not your bros you miserable fuck i have sex with old people

I was going to commit suicide yesterday. I was saved by my girlfriend of 2 years talking me out of it. 2 Hours later, I went to her house to suprise her and thank her for saving me life. I bought the cliche chocolate and roses and everything. When I walked into her room, I found her making out with a guy from my school, who she had dated three years ago. I went home and considered suicide again. But realized what a stupid and useless thing it is. Today, I woke up feeling better then I have in two years.