The get stuff off of your chest thread. - General

[QUOTE=spaghettiarms;25941652] I'm the same with women. But i figured that you'll stop being an asshole to them when you find one better than the one you loved before. It might not seem possible but everyone changes. Also, you sound like a nice bloke, so just tell this person to stop taking liberties.[/QUOTE] I guess the problem is that I'm too picky. I have a lot of girls that I'm "more than friends" with, but I don't feel like entering a relationship with either of them. I have too high standards, and I think that's because I care too much what people think about me and the people I see. Which might seem weird to some of you since I'm usually don't care what people think about me. But when it comes to a partner I want someone perfect, otherwise I'm just going to go around regretting my "choice", and eventually maybe cheat on her, and I don't want that either. Fucking girls. And yeah. He promised to clean my apartment tomorrow. I'm going to let him do that, then tell him that he can crash somewhere else.

[QUOTE=junker|154;25925390]Your passive behaviour is the issue, do something rather then being afraid of the consquences. For instance join a sports club and talk to everyone and try to be good at it. Eventually you will learn new people and you will improve yourself on everything.[/QUOTE] You know, after reading this, I finally got myself to try out joining a karate club. Haven't made any new friends their yet, but I'm sure I will eventually. Thanks. :unsmith:

wow this thread is pretty pathetic, 75% of these problems can be solved by not being such a pussy trust me it's good advice

Wow that reply is pretty pathetic, 75% of it it complete bullcrap, but you wouldn't know since you don't have the same problems as the people in this thread and you should just get out of this thread and don't come back. Trust me it's good advice.

[QUOTE=Gurant;25941948]I guess the problem is that I'm too picky. I have a lot of girls that I'm "more than friends" with, but I don't feel like entering a relationship with either of them. I have too high standards, and I think that's because I care too much what people think about me and the people I see. Which might seem weird to some of you since I'm usually don't care what people think about me. But when it comes to a partner I want someone perfect, otherwise I'm just going to go around regretting my "choice", and eventually maybe cheat on her, and I don't want that either. Fucking girls. And yeah. He promised to clean my apartment tomorrow. I'm going to let him do that, then tell him that he can crash somewhere else.[/QUOTE] It sounds like your describing me. Im still in love with this girl that moved to America when i was 14, even though she's a complete bitch now. I guess we can just wait, watching Jeremy Kyle (or Jerry Springer for US) always makes me feel that there's someone for everyone. Nice one, he sounded like a prick.

[QUOTE=MasterQuief;25942053]wow this thread is pretty pathetic, 75% of these problems can be solved by not being such a pussy[/QUOTE] :frog: This thread was created because of assholes like you.

sorry that i have friends that i can talk to and have a social life, but posting your awkward personal experiences on the internet isn't going to do shit. [editline]8th November 2010[/editline] get out and do something about it

I saw some fit ass bird bend down, and I decided to slap her ass. She turned around and it appeared to be a ugly-as-fuck 40 year old woman, FML

[QUOTE=MasterQuief;25942269]sorry that i have friends that i can talk to and have a social life, but posting your awkward personal experiences on the internet isn't going to do shit. [editline]8th November 2010[/editline] get out and do something about it[/QUOTE] Did it occur to you that maybe people on this thread have/had similar problems to each other, ones your friends may think is weird?

I just bought Black Ops :saddowns:

[QUOTE=Oversoul;25942308]Did it occur to you that maybe people on this thread have/had similar problems to each other, ones your friends may think is weird?[/QUOTE] so what if your problems are "weird" real friends don't give a shit, they should help you out regardless for those of you without real friends, stop complaining about it and go fix it

[QUOTE=MasterQuief;25942844]so what if your problems are "weird" real friends don't give a shit, they should help you out regardless for those of you without real friends, stop complaining about it and go fix it[/QUOTE] Whatever, there's no point in arguing with you. Some of these problems (Like the ones I posted) were BECAUSE of my friends.

I'm starting to get a little annoyed at how people who are in minorities or certain intrest groups (gay, furry etc) can often be closed minded to similar ideas. Like an airsoft team screaming at you for playing paintball. I'm saying this as a general statement so it may be more relatable to, but i'm not entirely sure if anyone else is annoyed by this.

[QUOTE=Gurant;25941579]I'm so tired of my friends taking my kindness for granted. I always put up for people. I have a good job and a pretty decent income, and I let people stay in my apartment as much as they want. But lately some, especially one of them, has started to eat my food without asking, borrowing stuff from me without asking, and stuff has been starting to disappear. It's making me fucking mad, since I put up for these people. They're unemployed and don't really have a place to hang out, and just because I rarely get mad at my friends, some people think it's okay to do whatever they want.[/QUOTE] You need to lay down some rules, it's only going to get worse. Just say "If you want to eat my food that I bought, or borrow things from me, I'd appreciate it if you helped me out a bit by cleaning up, or running some errands for me." Just an idea :v:

[QUOTE=kitthehacker;25933846]Don't know why I'm saying it here because you're all about as likely to understand as my friends are. School and I don't agree with each other. I've been fed this bullshit about having to do maths and physics to get anywhere in life and partly because of this theology, I've decided that I just don't want it. It's not for me, I see it as a boring mundane existence. I know it's a cliche, but believe me when I say this, music is my life. It's been a part of my life since I was about 3, when I started playing piano, but in the last 3 or so years it's become the one thing I'm desperately passionate about, and I want to be a musician, I don't care what type, I just want to do that. I understand that it's a tough life, and that I'm not going to make enough money to live a solid, definitely secure lifestyle, but in the end I don't care, it's the one thing in my life that makes me feel. Now whenever I'm asked what I want to do and I tell people, all I'm given is a snigger, or the whole "you should aspire to a real job" speech. I don't envision myself to be successful, but that's not stopping me. Now here's where I suppose I start sounding a bit crazy. I have a calling. Not one of those bullshit "I need to do this" callings but a literal one. My mind won't stop telling me to do this. No matter what I do, it's always there, somewhere in the back, or right on the forefront. It won't stop. I'm ok with it, because I know that it's what I want, and in a way it's driving me towards what I truly want. But no-one understands. I've told one person about this and they looked at me as if I was completely fucked up. And then proceeded to make fun of me for it again. I just want to punch my friends in the face because they just don't fucking get it. To tell the truth neither do I. But I know it's real, and I know it's what I want. Not sure what that accomplished, but it's good type it out actually. So what do you think? Am I like this because it's what I'm supposed to do? Or am I straight up crazy?[/QUOTE] Finding or starting a band is probably one of the best things you could do for yourself; musical talent can be expressed in solo form (such as Satriani's brilliant solo guitar work), or can be enhanced and develop in a band (Jordan Rudess, for example; an absolute brilliant keyboardist and pianist). The reason a band would be better is because if you find the right people with similar musical direction, you'll have a support group for your musical talent. And if you do get into a band then there's a good chance you can "make it", if you have good songwriting and work well together. It doesn't have to be the next supergroup or anything, but it can bring a decent income which will shut up all those people who said "stay in school, toil over maths". I'm about to finish my final year of high school and play keys in a band, so don't fault me for being optimistic :)

Ahh, nothing more refreshing than a massive argument with your ex. Felt good getting everything I dislike about the person she's changed into out. All because she started getting angry at me for no reason. And now I feel like I can move on.

Jesus christ I came into this thread to bitch about how shitty my life is right now but instead I read through it and it made me feel better knowing that I could be in a much worse situation than i'm in now Thanks for cheering me up guys

I guess I'll just ask here: Whenever I hear someone ask the question "how to I get the confidence to approach someone/ask someone out/generally go outside and talk to people?" they seem to get the response "just do it, it's not that hard" or something to that effect. The thing is, if it were that easy, [del]I would[/del] they would have done it already. How have people here who have been in similar situations gotten over their nervousness or lack of confidence?

you're stupid for playing games from activision. [editline]8th November 2010[/editline] My name has a hidden meaning and it makes me feel bad when i hide things from people :( [editline]8th November 2010[/editline] also, learn to lose emotion, then go ask out that ugly whore you've been drooling over for the last 10 years

[QUOTE=Rasrap Smurf;25943637]I guess I'll just ask here: Whenever I hear someone ask the question "how to I get the confidence to approach someone/ask someone out/generally go outside and talk to people?" they seem to get the response "just do it, it's not that hard" or something to that effect. The thing is, if it were that easy, [del]I would[/del] they would have done it already. How have people here who have been in similar situations gotten over their nervousness or lack of confidence?[/QUOTE] You need to push yourself out of your comfort zone. Once you do, you'll find it easy.

In my Trigonometry class, there's this girl I've recently started to develop a crush on. We never really talked to each other because we're both fairly shy. So a few days ago I messaged her on Facebook, and we talked for about an hour. Not about anything too personal, just school related stuff mainly. The next day I start talking to her again and we end up talking about myself and what I like and all that. And we talk to each other every day for the next several days. When we pass each other in the hall, we both give a friendly smile and say hi, and all that, but there's one thing I've noticed over the past month or so that I can't quite figure out. I'll turn around in class to check the clock and notice her staring at me. She's not just staring out the window, because there are several times where she's noticed I turned around and quickly goes back to her work. I overall want to learn more about her and her interests and get to know her better, but I also want to find out why she stares at me, but without seeming too invasive or prying. tl;dr version: I like a girl, but don't know much about her, she stares at me, I want to become better friends with her and also find out why she stares at me.

then you'll become desensitized and your life spirals away and, unlike the handi-dandi-notebook, you can't keep writing in it. [editline]8th November 2010[/editline] [QUOTE=BlueFlash;25943758]In my Trigonometry class, there's this girl I've recently started to develop a crush on. We never really talked to each other because we're both fairly shy. So a few days ago I messaged her on Facebook, and we talked for about an hour. Not about anything too personal, just school related stuff mainly. The next day I start talking to her again and we end up talking about myself and what I like and all that. And we talk to each other every day for the next several days. When we pass each other in the hall, we both give a friendly smile and say hi, and all that, but there's one thing I've noticed over the past month or so that I can't quite figure out. I'll turn around in class to check the clock and notice her staring at me. She's not just staring out the window, because there are several times where she's noticed I turned around and quickly goes back to her work. I overall want to learn more about her and her interests and get to know her better, but I also want to find out why she stares at me, but without seeming too invasive or prying. tl;dr version: I like a girl, but don't know much about her, she stares at me, I want to become better friends with her and also find out why she stares at me.[/QUOTE] well if your face looks like your avatar, then your face is highly intoxicating. Otherwise, she's just looking at your manly jawline.

[QUOTE=cdh473;25943764]then you'll become desensitized and your life spirals away and, unlike the handi-dandi-notebook, you can't keep writing in it. [editline]8th November 2010[/editline] well if your face looks like your avatar, then your face is highly intoxicating. Otherwise, she's just looking at your manly jawline.[/QUOTE] The guy in my avatar's ShayCarl, but I do have a full beard, although I doubt she's staring at that since I had a friend glance over at her once and she was staring for like, 5 full minutes.

[QUOTE=BlueFlash;25943758]In my Trigonometry class, there's this girl I've recently started to develop a crush on. We never really talked to each other because we're both fairly shy. So a few days ago I messaged her on Facebook, and we talked for about an hour. Not about anything too personal, just school related stuff mainly. The next day I start talking to her again and we end up talking about myself and what I like and all that. And we talk to each other every day for the next several days. When we pass each other in the hall, we both give a friendly smile and say hi, and all that, but there's one thing I've noticed over the past month or so that I can't quite figure out. I'll turn around in class to check the clock and notice her staring at me. She's not just staring out the window, because there are several times where she's noticed I turned around and quickly goes back to her work. I overall want to learn more about her and her interests and get to know her better, but I also want to find out why she stares at me, but without seeming too invasive or prying. tl;dr version: I like a girl, but don't know much about her, she stares at me, I want to become better friends with her and also find out why she stares at me.[/QUOTE] Try to start a conversation with her. Be sure to be careful with your hygiene near her.

[QUOTE=Oversoul;25944026]Try to start a conversation with her. Be sure to be careful with your hygiene near her.[/QUOTE] I don't have any time to talk to her in school so I can only really talk to her online which is what I've been doing.

[QUOTE=BlueFlash;25944079]I don't have any time to talk to her in school so I can only really talk to her online which is what I've been doing.[/QUOTE] Ask her if she wants to hang out after school. Not a date or anything, just as friends.

[QUOTE=Oversoul;25944142]Ask her if she wants to hang out after school. Not a date or anything, just as friends.[/QUOTE] We don't really know each other very well though. Since our school's football team's going to a championship game and the school band's playing at it, I might see if she wants to sit together on the bus ride over there. Hopefully we aren't arranged by section, because Tubas are a bit away from Flutes.

[QUOTE=BlueFlash;25944339]We don't really know each other very well though. Since our school's football team's going to a championship game and the school band's playing at it, I might see if she wants to sit together on the bus ride over there. Hopefully we aren't arranged by section, because Tubas are a bit away from Flutes.[/QUOTE] Well Im sure they'll mix you up as I dont think (if you have more than one) they would sit two tuba players together.

I lost my virginity to a dog named Josephine. :(

[QUOTE=Shadow Angel;25944586]I love my virginity to a dog named Josephine. :([/QUOTE] Josephine?! thats so weird, how could you lose your virginity to a josephine!