I'm extremely passive, and I don't really worry about much of anything, whether it be school, friends, or anything. It's not that bad really, I'm at an okay level for everything, school and friends, but I see active people having more of a life.
Basically, I don't give a shit about anything, and people say it's a cool trait, but I feel I could do better.
A better term is probably easy going or "chill."
[QUOTE=8BitLord;25882947]I raped my ginger cousin... OH GOD I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER!
[editline]5th November 2010[/editline]
Shit...[/QUOTE]
Wow, what.
[QUOTE=NuclearAnnhilation;25880409]The fact that I have no self esteem and no self confidence, and everyone thinks I'm the happiest person on earth.
The fact that I've been shot down every single time I try with a girl. No, I don't ask every girl out after a day of talking to them. I only actually like a girl who isn't some blonde bimbo stuck up bitch once a year pretty much it seems and I put so much effort and hard work into it, talking to them all the time, trying to hang out and all that. It isn't some business deal, I end up really liking them if I bother to put this much effort into it and it all goes to waste, every time. Thats a great confidence crusher that has affected me in all other fields too. Bad grades don't help either even though I try and all my parents do is yell, wishing I'd do better when I try.
I just typed all this to the internet.
:smith:
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It's the same with me
And on top of that I have to be everyone's goddamn therapist
I'm constantly depressed and feel like none of my friends care about me. All the girls I like, like douche bags, and I'm stuck in the friend zone listening to them complain about their douchey boyfriends. Story of pretty much everybody on Facepunch, and I'm just another voice in the mix.
[QUOTE=Mooe94;25881640]I just wish I could be "one of those" students who study every other day and actually finishes work gradually rather than instantly over one day, like I do. I start doing my homework the day before I need to turn it in[/QUOTE]
I have come to the conclusion that we are the same person
[QUOTE=MegaChalupa;25881321]High school girl troubles, I want to ask her out but I'm a socially awkward shy bastard, hopeless romantic blah blah blah, I love everything about her, but I think so little of myself that it just feels like I'm setting myself up for failure, that no matter what I do, what I say, how I say it, I'll just crash and burn, get rejected, and I won't move on, because I'll see her every day for the next two years. I want to try something, I convince myself that I will, but I never do, I never find the right moment or the courage to come out of my shell and just go for it.
Also, I'm highly gifted but I lack motivation, I'm screwing myself over in school not because I can't do the work, but because I never do it.[/QUOTE]
You described my situation perfectly, I shit you not.
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;25883029]I'm constantly depressed and feel like none of my friends care about me. All the girls I like, like douche bags, and I'm stuck in the friend zone listening to them complain about their douchey boyfriends. Story of pretty much everybody on Facepunch, and I'm just another voice in the mix.[/QUOTE]
Used to be like that for me, I'm guessing you're still in school? Don't bother about idiot guys/girls in highschool.
It's a common thing, you're more mature than your peers, just wait till you've left and then go out and meet some true friends.
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;25883029]I'm constantly depressed and feel like none of my friends care about me. All the girls I like, like douche bags, and I'm stuck in the friend zone listening to them complain about their douchey boyfriends. Story of pretty much everybody on Facepunch, and I'm just another voice in the mix.[/QUOTE]
seems like you have a superiority complex
[QUOTE=chugmuffin;25883058]You described my situation perfectly, I shit you not.[/QUOTE]
Described mine too, till I left school to go to tafe/uni.
I seem to be one of those people who are really mature when talking to people online, but when it comes to real life (skype too), I'm literally not mature at all. I say stupid shit and am not funny.
I fucking hate that quality of me :|
[QUOTE=Optimistic;25882764]I'm 16 and I've never had any friends that invited me anywhere (house/movies etc.)
I try to stay optimistic and hope someday I will be one of the cool kids.[/QUOTE]
This. The ones that do invite me places are annoying as fuck to hang out with so I don't go.
[QUOTE=mr apple;25883070]Used to be like that for me, I'm guessing you're still in school? Don't bother about idiot guys/girls in highschool.
It's a common thing, you're more mature than your peers, just wait till you've left and then go out and meet some true friends.[/QUOTE]
This man deserves hearts for actually helping.
Damn, and I thought I had social problems.
I'm cynical, chronically depressed, always resentful, never had a girlfriend, and I'm a psychological train wreck.
Even then, I'm probably one of the most popular kids in my school and no one, that I know of, hates me.
[QUOTE=BagMinge104;25883083]seems like you have a superiority complex[/QUOTE]
I had a feeling that'd sound sorta brash. I don't think I'm superior to anyone, but these guys are inferior to everyone.
[editline]5th November 2010[/editline]
And fucking hell, now I'm stuck trying to talk my friend out of attempting suicide. Again.
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;25883247]I had a feeling that'd sound sorta brash. I don't think I'm superior to anyone, but these guys are inferior to everyone.
[editline]5th November 2010[/editline]
And fucking hell, now I'm stuck trying to talk my friend out of attempting suicide. Again.[/QUOTE]
I used to try and console my friends who were like that, if they're contemplating suicide, then all they give a rats ass about is themselves, he/she isn't your friend, how many times has he/she listened to your problems and tried to actually help instead of say ":(" "aww" "shit.."
Try and take a semi-harsh attempt and call her an idiot if she even attempts it.
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;25883247]I had a feeling that'd sound sorta brash. I don't think I'm superior to anyone, but these guys are inferior to everyone.
[editline]5th November 2010[/editline]
And fucking hell, now I'm stuck trying to talk my friend out of attempting suicide. Again.[/QUOTE]
Holy shit, how serious is she?
Someone in my school refused to attend a Memorial Service/Assembly where 2 minute silence took place and war veterans attended. All because he thinks people who served are dickheads for not refusing to be part of the war. Me and many other people in my year are sickened by it, especially since some people know relatives that have died from serving in the war.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;25881687]I hate when a girls gives the wrong answer and then says "Oh just kidding..."
No. You weren't kidding, you were wrong. It's ok to be wrong, but just accept it.
Also when they say "Awkward!!!!!111" when it's just not awkward at all.[/QUOTE]
That "Just Kidding" bullshit always gets to me. I just say something along the lines of "Whoops", not fucking "Just Kidding".
[QUOTE=YWNJack;25883310]Someone in my school refused to attend a Memorial Service/Assembly where 2 minute silence took place and war veterans attended. All because he thinks people who served are dickheads for not refusing to be part of the war. Me and many other people in my year are sickened by it, especially since some people know relatives that have died from serving in the war.[/QUOTE]
If I were you I'd call him out on it in front of everyone.
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;25883247]I had a feeling that'd sound sorta brash. I don't think I'm superior to anyone, but these guys are inferior to everyone.
[editline]5th November 2010[/editline]
And fucking hell, now I'm stuck trying to talk my friend out of attempting suicide. Again.[/QUOTE]
Pretty much this. Most of the people around me are complete morons who I can never actually talk about my interests to except one or two friends. I'm not saying I'm the SUPERIOR BEING ALL ARE NOT WORTHY but I'm at least better than these fucking asshat wannabes who go around talking about "NIGGA IM SO FUCKIN MONEEYYYY".
I have apathy, but I try to be happy around everyone... And it kills me inside.
I feel a bit better now, though.
[QUOTE=BagMinge104;25883298]Holy shit, how serious is she?[/QUOTE]
She's attempted twice in the past four months. She was on psych hold over at the local hospital for a few days, but released. She's getting worked up over all this stupid shit, like boys. I'm trying to tell her that she's 16, it's not gonna make any difference in the future, but she's just really depressed. More so than I. I think I've managed to keep her away from the brink of death, but I'm worried for her.
[QUOTE=KingKombat;25883336]Pretty much this. Most of the people around me are complete morons who I can never actually talk about my interests to except one or two friends. I'm not saying I'm the SUPERIOR BEING ALL ARE NOT WORTHY but I'm at least better than these fucking asshat wannabes who go around talking about "NIGGA IM SO FUCKIN MONEEYYYY".[/QUOTE]
You've got the wrong type of friends.
It's better to find friends who you can actually talk to, doesn't really matter what people think of you in highschool.
You'll either be remembered as:
1. The guy who did stuff in class and got good grades
or
2. The guy who cracked jokes constantly.
I left school because I was always depressed and never did the work.
I'm much happier doing Cert III and IV at uni for screen media and games programming, I'm doing things I love.
[editline]6th November 2010[/editline]
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;25883405]She's attempted twice in the past four months. She was on psych hold over at the local hospital for a few days, but released. She's getting worked up over all this stupid shit, like boys. I'm trying to tell her that she's 16, it's not gonna make any difference in the future, but she's just really depressed. More so than I. I think I've managed to keep her away from the brink of death, but I'm worried for her.[/QUOTE]
I've talked to so many people out of it and know heaps of people who talk others out of it.
They won't actually do it, they want attention.
[QUOTE=mr apple;25883297]I used to try and console my friends who were like that, if they're contemplating suicide, then all they give a rats ass about is themselves, he/she isn't your friend, how many times has he/she listened to your problems and tried to actually help instead of say ":(" "aww" "shit.."
Try and take a semi-harsh attempt and call her an idiot if she even attempts it.[/QUOTE]
The only time I respond like that is if I seriously can't think of a single thing to reply with that would help. I usually try to think far ahead about all my responses so I usually end up saying nothing to help because I think it'll be pointless seeing as how it won't change a thing and end up replying with "shit" or "wow that's fucked up", even though I really do wanna help.
[QUOTE=mr apple;25883409]I've talked to so many people out of it and know heaps of people who talk others out of it.
They won't actually do it, they want attention.[/QUOTE]
Sounds about right. At least that gives me peace of mind...thanks, mate. I think she's doing better anyway. Besides, cries for attention best go attended. I think we all can say that being ignored is worse than being hated.
I killed two men in detroit and hid their bodies under a broken bridge
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;25883457]Sounds about right. At least that gives me peace of mind...thanks, mate. I think she's doing better anyway. Besides, cries for attention best go attended. I think we all can say that being ignored is worse than being hated.[/QUOTE]
Yep, but they go about it and make others feel like shit.
Protip for Everyone in High school:
:siren:[b][highlight]DO NOT BECOME FRIENDS OR TRY TO GO OUT WITH ANY OF THE GIRLS THAT LOOK REMOTELY POPULAR OR HAPPY WITH THEIR LIVES, THEY WILL JUST FREINDZONE YOU AND TALK TO YOU ABOUT THEIR PROBLEMS THAT AREN'T REALLY PROBLEMS AT ALL.[/b][/highlight]
Ah, Much better
Also pretty much everything said in this thread about themselves being Stupid with no friends or life and probably have absolutely no future, Thanks for saving me the time from having to describe myself
[QUOTE=mr apple;25883518]Yep, but they go about it and make others feel like shit.[/QUOTE]
So it would seem. I'm not really sure how to handle it. Attention is something people don't give enough credit, our minds thrive on the idea that we're useful to the species, so depriving someone of that attention may result in true depression. On the other hand, they're attention whores.
The night before my dog died, I was really angry at him. I was 6 at the time, and I said "I hope the dog dies tomorrow, because <forgotten reason here>." The next morning, our family was grieving over our ran-over dog. He got out of the house and was run over by a drunk driver, which we later sued, but lost. I don't think anyone remembers except me. It's nice to get it off.
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