[QUOTE=Flapadar;26542825]I wish I had a girlfriend that clingy. I mean, it could get annoying but at least you feel wanted.[/QUOTE]
I said the same thing, then after a few fights she started after being clingy. I didn't like it AS much anymore.
[QUOTE=Shustriy;26540186]I don't do anything except smoke pot and drink
And the fact that I'm a massive dick to my 11-year old mentally retarded brother makes it worse... :frown:
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I have been very sympathetic to a lot of people in this thread, but to be honest you brought it on yourself.
Drinking and smoking are personal choices and are VERY easy to change if you truly wanted to chance.
As for your brother, if you treat someone you are meant to look after who has far more problems than you ever will like that you obviously have no idea about how to look after people and therefore I really doubt you will be any good at having a girlfriend.
Sort out your own problems first before anything else, if you stopped smoking, stopped drinking (at 16 for fucks sake, you shouldn't even be able to buy that much alcohol!) and actually became a nice and humane person everything else will fall into place more easily.
my cousin drove his mom's car into their house when he was 14
I self medicate depression with copious amounts of ganga.
[QUOTE=Flapadar;26542825]I wish I had a girlfriend that clingy. I mean, it could get annoying but at least you feel wanted.[/QUOTE]
Once in a blue moon I'm just not in the mood, yaknow, but it is nice.
Finally got this girl i've been trying to get with for like 1 1/2 years on and off and we had the old in and out last saturday
was a very rewarding night
[QUOTE=Random112358;26546687]I have been very sympathetic to a lot of people in this thread, but to be honest you brought it on yourself.
Drinking and smoking are personal choices and are VERY easy to change if you truly wanted to chance.
As for your brother, if you treat someone you are meant to look after who has far more problems than you ever will like that you obviously have no idea about how to look after people and therefore I really doubt you will be any good at having a girlfriend.
Sort out your own problems first before anything else, if you stopped smoking, stopped drinking (at 16 for fucks sake, you shouldn't even be able to buy that much alcohol!) and actually became a nice and humane person everything else will fall into place more easily.[/QUOTE]I wasn't looking for sympathy, it was something I wanted to get off my chest. I am a nice person, just not to my brother. I guess the reason for me being mean to him is because of him I was fucked over socially. The time I could've spent going out and making friends and being social, was spent looking after him and taking care of him
[QUOTE=nubscaper;26551002]Once in a blue moon I'm just not in the mood, yaknow, but it is nice.[/QUOTE]
Comparing it to my ex, who it was once in a blue moon that she was clingy, I'd much rather that.
My ex whom I dated for 7 months left me for a guy who ruined her life because he is an 'all new' person. He has been friends with her on and off multiple times during our relationship. I knew she liked him the whole time we were dating, so I dumped her. Anyways I kept telling her that he hasn't changed and that I'm not going to be there for her when shit goes wrong. Last night she texted me saying, "You were right, he cheated on me"
Best fucking feeling ever in my life.
Well I was going to say [i]"I'm just like you!"[/i] to that guy that told us that he's 16, very skinny, and has never kissed a girl, but then it turned into him talking about how he smokes pot, drinks, and beats his retarded little brother...
So, I'm 16, never kissed a girl, and am very skinny, but I [b]do not[/b] beat autistic kids...
I get lonely and want a hug, but I don't ever feel like I'll never meet someone... I feel like I have so little control over things that saying "never" about anything is empty, since it could still happen.
I used to try to hard to stay in control of things, but I've developed a huge well of apathy, and don't care so much anyone...
Apparently, when you don't care as much, you aren't very nice to people all the time, and when you aren't nice to people people like you...
People like you when you're mean... I don't get it, so I told them all that I was disappointed in them.
More people liked that... It's like, anything negative I say about people gets me liked more, and I don't want to be mean. I won't turn into some sort of monster, but I just felt like I could safely ramble here.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;26555593]Well I was going to say [i]"I'm just like you!"[/i] to that guy that told us that he's 16, very skinny, and has never kissed a girl, but then it turned into him talking about how he smokes pot, drinks, and beats his retarded little brother...
So, I'm 16, never kissed a girl, and am very skinny, but I [b]do not[/b] beat autistic kids...
I get lonely and want a hug, but I don't ever feel like I'll never meet someone... I feel like I have so little control over things that saying "never" about anything is empty, since it could still happen.
I used to try to hard to stay in control of things, but I've developed a huge well of apathy, and don't care so much anyone...
Apparently, when you don't care as much, you aren't very nice to people all the time, and when you aren't nice to people people like you...
People like you when you're mean... I don't get it, so I told them all that I was disappointed in them.
More people liked that... It's like, anything negative I say about people gets me liked more, and I don't want to be mean. I won't turn into some sort of monster, but I just felt like I could safely ramble here.[/QUOTE]You mis-understood what I said. I don't beat my brother, I just do things that are mean and annoying to him. I smoke pot and drink occasionally, not all the time
[QUOTE=Shustriy;26555742]You mis-understood what I said. I don't beat my brother, I just do things that are mean and annoying to him. I smoke pot and drink occasionally, not all the time[/QUOTE]
I still don't compare.
I'm one of those awful people who don't do "bad" things.
I don't really think negatively towards such activities so much as I think they're not 'my thing', since I value my ability to think clearly, even if it just means I get to mope about my petty problems.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;26555869]I still don't compare.
I'm one of those awful people who don't do "bad" things.
I don't really think negatively towards such activities so much as I think they're not 'my thing', since I value my ability to think clearly, even if it just means I get to mope about my petty problems.[/QUOTE]I see. We still have similar problems that have to do with girls, though
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;26555593]Well I was going to say [i]"I'm just like you!"[/i] to that guy that told us that he's 16, very skinny, and has never kissed a girl, but then it turned into him talking about how he smokes pot, drinks, and beats his retarded little brother...
So, I'm 16, never kissed a girl, and am very skinny, but I [b]do not[/b] beat autistic kids...
I get lonely and want a hug, but I don't ever feel like I'll never meet someone... I feel like I have so little control over things that saying "never" about anything is empty, since it could still happen.
I used to try to hard to stay in control of things, but I've developed a huge well of apathy, and don't care so much anyone...
Apparently, when you don't care as much, you aren't very nice to people all the time, and when you aren't nice to people people like you...
People like you when you're mean... I don't get it, so I told them all that I was disappointed in them.
More people liked that... It's like, anything negative I say about people gets me liked more, and I don't want to be mean. I won't turn into some sort of monster, but I just felt like I could safely ramble here.[/QUOTE]
Don't give up. Seriously, I was in your boat last year. One year later, I'm happily spending my seventh month with my first and only girlfriend.
Oh, and even though some people like the mean-spirited, the best girls like the good guys.
Just sayin'.
My toenail was breaking off and I discovered that theres another layer under it. I'm sort of afraid the top layer wont grow back though.
[QUOTE=WastedJamacan;26556645]Don't give up. Seriously, I was in your boat last year. One year later, I'm happily spending my seventh month with my first and only girlfriend.
Oh, and even though some people like the mean-spirited, the best girls like the good guys.
Just sayin'.[/QUOTE]
I would like to say "Ah, I didn't really mean any of that, but thank you", but I was oddly comforted by your post, so perhaps I [i]did[/i] need it a little...
I guess I was keeping my insecurities a secret, even from myself.
[QUOTE=Shustriy;26540186]Well, there's also the fact that at least 3 people have tried to get me to talk to her/ ask her out, and their efforts were in vain. And it seemed like she used to like me when I first met her, she was the one that started the conversations. I'm pretty sure I blew my chance... :sigh:
And I've been depressed the past 2 1/2- 3 years, it made my self-esteem and confidence drop. It started as a result of my parents divorcing, but now its worsening cause of other things. I'm 16, I've never had a girlfriend, I've never kissed a girl, I'm skinny, I don't do anything except smoke pot and drink occasionally, and I have shitty social skills because of my speech impediment.
And the fact that I'm a dick to my 11-year old mentally retarded brother makes it worse... :frown:
Once I really think about it, there's much shit on my mind right now[/QUOTE]
thats me minus being mean to autistic/ill fortunate people.
I'm like you, but i try to help people in any way possible..
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;26557261]I would like to say "Ah, I didn't really mean any of that, but thank you", but I was oddly comforted by your post, so perhaps I [i]did[/i] need it a little...
I guess I was keeping my insecurities a secret, even from myself.[/QUOTE]
No worries. It's always great to help others feel better.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;26557719]thats me minus being mean to autistic/ill fortunate people.
I'm like you, but i try to help people in any way possible..[/QUOTE]I used to be helpful to everybody, but eventually it came to the point where I was being used. I stopped being so nice after being used, which resulted in many people starting to ignore me. I got over it, and now I'm more careful in being nice
I had my junior paper due today, I turned in a blank piece of paper.
This has probably been the worst week I have ever had this school year. I have been putting up with more flack than usual, I haven't been able to sleep. I can't stop thinking about what I am going to do later in life, if it is really what I want, and lots of other issues, I feel lonely because I have no friends I can really share my true feelings, my father ignores me so much. I have probably been depressed ever since mid-way through Junior Highschool. I had a biology project and forgot to print of the powerpoint because my teacher prefers a huge stack of paper versus 100+ powerpoint files in his documents. So that is a 70, I have failed my second algebra 2 test in a row, I am finally getting my grades up in world history but that went fubar because my asshole teacher pulled a triple quiz binder check. Ive met a few new people but one is a bit of a douche and the other one tends to run off on strange things. I am getting made fun of for my lack of religion, and in English class I have to put up with the asshole that sits behind me and constantly touches me, I asked him multiple times to stop. I just feel like taking a gun to school and killing him, or myself. I feel like shit, my mom uses "your showing signs of sever depression" as an insult practically, killing the conversation, leading to me just sitting in my room getting nothing done. I can't focus on my homework unless I am sitting in a room with literally nothing else to do, I have study hall but once my father finds out he is going to flip shits. I have an English project due tomorrow, but I think I would present Thursday or later this week because my last name starts with an "s". The same teacher flipped out on me because I didn't know how to cite a book properly.
I'm sorry for the wall of text, its been a long week and its only been Tuesday. I am going to hate tomorrow.
just want to move to ohio but im stuck in school here
[QUOTE=Gurant;25941579]I'm so tired of my friends taking my kindness for granted. I always put up for people.
I have a good job and a pretty decent income, and I let people stay in my apartment as much as they want.
But lately some, especially one of them, has started to eat my food without asking, borrowing stuff from me without asking, and stuff has been starting to disappear. It's making me fucking mad, since I put up for these people. They're unemployed and don't really have a place to hang out, and just because I rarely get mad at my friends, some people think it's okay to do whatever they want.
And I really don't want to get mad at them (and that 'suspect'), since he sometimes gets groceries for me (when I pay), clean my apartment and shit like that. Even though it's rare.
I just hate being so cool about everything when people are asking. I got so much anger inside me, I want to punch them in the stomach and shout at them.
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I feel your pain.
I can't help but be nice to people and apparently to most people it's an open invitation to shit all over your generosity and take advantage of you because you're too nice to tell them off.
I try to be charitable a lot because a lot of times I end up ripping someone else off
[sp]tf2 related[/sp]
I helped her self-confidence issues, I managed to stop her from cutting herself, I managed to get her over her fear of getting sexually involved with other people, and she dumped me because I was too clingy.
I feel so fucking used.
I like to punch the living shit out of things when I'm aggrovated then I see pulses of white light.
When someone on a game acts like a lazy prat, even more so in real life.
GRRRAAH, I want the snow in Scotland to go away, it's fucking annoying it is, and the government saying they've done their part is bang well out of order.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;26555593]Well I was going to say [i]"I'm just like you!"[/i] to that guy that told us that he's 16, very skinny, and has never kissed a girl, but then it turned into him talking about how he smokes pot, drinks, and beats his retarded little brother...
So, I'm 16, never kissed a girl, and am very skinny, but I [b]do not[/b] beat autistic kids...
I get lonely and want a hug, but I don't ever feel like I'll never meet someone... I feel like I have so little control over things that saying "never" about anything is empty, since it could still happen.
I used to try to hard to stay in control of things, but I've developed a huge well of apathy, and don't care so much anyone...
Apparently, when you don't care as much, you aren't very nice to people all the time, and when you aren't nice to people people like you...
People like you when you're mean... I don't get it, so I told them all that I was disappointed in them.
More people liked that... It's like, anything negative I say about people gets me liked more, and I don't want to be mean. I won't turn into some sort of monster, but I just felt like I could safely ramble here.[/QUOTE]
This is how I feel except for the, "people like you when you aren't nice to them", part. I've always felt that even if every single person on this planet hates you and wants you dead, it's better to show kindness and compassion than contempt and anger. As a result people have said to me that I'm "too nice" and maybe thats why I'm in this depressive state I have been in for the last 2 years. If that's true, then so be it.
I've been working at MacDonald's for the past three years. Thank you.
I'm afraid people won't like me. Can't tell whether they like me or not because asking someone feels awkward.
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