The get stuff off of your chest thread. - General

i haven't talked or seen to my ex ever since we broke up that's gotten her really depressed, she's been crying about it

[QUOTE=zombiefreak;27138065]I'm talking with her to get her out of it. It seemed to work, but she's still going to hurt herself. Ugh, I'm the worst ex-boyfriend ever. I wish I could just die.[/QUOTE] Calm down buddy. You sound like you're a better ex than Archy. Shit happens and we say stuff we regret. Maybe you should go see her and talk to her

[QUOTE=Binsky;27138137]Calm down buddy. You sound like you're a better ex than Archy. Shit happens and we say stuff we regret. Maybe you should go see her and talk to her[/QUOTE] She's on a trip and lives 60 minutes away.

Well keep talking to her and apologizing. Don't lose contact with her. Be nice and apologetic and urge her not to do anything to hurt herself or anything of that sort. Do you know anyone on that trip?

[QUOTE=Binsky;27138191]Well keep talking to her and apologizing. Don't lose contact with her. Be nice and apologetic and urge her not to do anything to hurt herself or anything of that sort. Do you know anyone on that trip?[/QUOTE] She's just with her mom, and I haven't lost contact with her, although i did get one of her friends to start talking to her. Fucking shit why did I have to say "I hate you".

you're not perfect. Stop beating yourself. You regret it and you're trying to make it better. Keep talking to her and if things get bad don't be afraid to get her mom involved

[QUOTE=zombiefreak;27138210]She's just with her mom, and I haven't lost contact with her, although i did get one of her friends to start talking to her. Fucking shit why did I have to say "I hate you".[/QUOTE] christ man, just say you're sorry. do what i did, tell her you have something to say, then ask her to meet up with you at some place - preferably a park, then say you're sorry. hug if you need to. that's all you really need to do. if she needs some kind of elaborate and grand apology, she's not worth your time

[QUOTE=Archy;27138298]christ man, just say you're sorry. do what i did, ask your ex to meet up with you at some place (preferably a park), (tell her you have something to say) then say you're sorry. hug if you need to.[/QUOTE] it doesn't seem like he can do that right now

[QUOTE=Binsky;27138307]it doesn't seem like he can do that right now[/QUOTE] these things take time, call her, text her, whatever.

[QUOTE=Archy;27138339]these things take time, call her, text her, whatever.[/QUOTE] i assume that's what he's doing now since that's what he said he was doing

[QUOTE=Binsky;27138254]you're not perfect. Stop beating yourself. You regret it and you're trying to make it better. Keep talking to her and if things get bad don't be afraid to get her mom involved[/QUOTE] Her mom is fucking oblivious. She refused giving her anti-depressants for 2 years despite being depressed, and still isn't giving her anything. I know I'm not perfect, but most people don't do this kind of shit.

[QUOTE=zombiefreak;27138383]Her mom is fucking oblivious. She refused giving her anti-depressants for 2 years despite being depressed, and still isn't giving her anything. I know I'm not perfect, but most people don't do this kind of shit.[/QUOTE] Well i'm sure talking to her would still be worth a shot if need be. And a lot of people do that kind of shit. I cheated on my ex girlfriend like 20 times when i was with her and she found out. I did all i could to make it up to her but she broke up with me after about five months We all have low moments. We need them to learn

[QUOTE=Binsky;27138421]Well i'm sure talking to her would still be worth a shot if need be. And a lot of people do that kind of shit. I cheated on my ex girlfriend like 20 times when i was with her and she found out. I did all i could to make it up to her but she broke up with me after about five months We all have low moments. We need them to learn[/QUOTE] Death > Cheating

How do you think finding out all that made her feel? She wanted to kill herself too. Life goes on, though and caring can help the pain go away

[QUOTE=zombiefreak;27138210]She's just with her mom, and I haven't lost contact with her, although i did get one of her friends to start talking to her. Fucking shit why did I have to say "I hate you".[/QUOTE] Just reach out to her I guess, and try to be her friend. What happened happened and you can't beat yourself up for that, but I know that's a lot easier said than done.

I'm the only one of my friends that's never had a girlfriend and I'm extremely jealous :saddowns:

[QUOTE=orbitrek;27138916]I'm the only one of my friends that's never had a girlfriend and I'm extremely jealous :saddowns:[/QUOTE] you'll find the right girl. Atleast you haven't dated some crazy psycho bitch that you immensely regret

Spent the week in Tampa Florida for Christmas break. Hooked up with my ex, (we are something, I don't know) but I took her to Florida Fun land drive in, if any of you heard of it. It's a pretty cool place, drive your vehicle up and watch movies. We climbed in the back and made love. Honestly....it was hard, since I'm 6 ft 1, the only thing that helped was it was a big ol' bronco,(truck) but I still had to twist and turn in hard ways, but...I wouldn't have traded it for the world, best night of my life.

[QUOTE=Activeellis;25881054]Y'all need to wank.[/QUOTE] This, dear god, this! [editline]1st January 2011[/editline] My god, this thread is like a huge bee-hive of angsty teenagers.

I'm not going to get to finish Splinter Cell: Conviction before my brother leaves tomorrow at 13:00 hours.

I wonder if anybody else on facepunch goes to reddit. It's been bothering me for a long time.

[QUOTE=orbitrek;27138916]I'm the only one of my friends that's never had a girlfriend and I'm extremely jealous :saddowns:[/QUOTE] One of my friends keeps calling me gay because all of our friends have had girlfriends and apparently I'm the only person he has ever known without some sort of disorder to have never been in a relationship. Hes joking around of course but he does it so much that it starts to anger me deeply. It isn't because I don't want one its just that I have never found a woman to show interest or the ones that I thought were showing interest were actually into someone else or taken.

[QUOTE=MirageKnight;27117912]Sometimes I really hate the people in my school. I have a taken a knife before, intent on threating the people who mess with me on occasion, but I never do. I hate some of my teachers, the anxiety attacks I get during lectures. I can't focus so I fill my head with music and the stuff I want to do when I get home. I doodle out my next design for a map in hammer. I just want the anxiety and depression to go away.[/QUOTE]

What a huge bitchfest this thread is.

[QUOTE=Sergeant Lulz;27141485]What a huge bitchfest this thread is.[/QUOTE] Why the fuck you care? Looks like Mr. Motherfucking White Knight is going to make the world a better place!

[QUOTE=Dottedline;27140879]I wonder if anybody else on facepunch goes to reddit. It's been bothering me for a long time.[/QUOTE] i go to reddit [editline]2nd January 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Sergeant Lulz;27141485]What a huge bitchfest this thread is.[/QUOTE] If you have nothing to get off your chest then get out.

[QUOTE=Sergeant Lulz;27141485]What a huge bitchfest this thread is.[/QUOTE] it's a "get stuff off of your chest" thread [b]NO SHIT PEOPLE WILL BE BITCHING YOU IDIOT[/b]

[QUOTE=Sergeant Lulz;27141485]What a huge bitchfest this thread is.[/QUOTE] Funny because this thread was made for bitching and you're bitching right now. Take it easy with Sergeant Lulz, he's just trying to get some stuff of his chest. [editline]2nd January 2011[/editline] I just took a walk, feel like shit.

My mind confuses me. My morals tells me I like people, that I wish them well, and that I should feel happy for them. Yet I often feel a hatred towards other people, I wish pain upon others, and seeing other people happy only makes me feel all the more miserable. I don't understand how other people manage to do it, feeling happy for other people's happiness. Seeing someone else live a fulfilling life only reminds me of what I'm missing out on, I don't feel happy for them, I feel jealous and hateful.

Simski, that's completely normal. If you're not happy for yourself, how can you be happy for others? There is nothing selfish about that, it's just the way we work.