[QUOTE=trey_awsome;25885804]Oh, and I would never actually cheat on my girlfriend with said blowjob girl, but we always talk about it. I think it's because before the last couple years, I was extremely shy and anti-social and never had much girl-interaction. sigh, idk :frown:[/QUOTE]
In my eyes, it's the same thing, but it's not irreversible.
If you truly love your girlfriend, here's what you'll do.
1) Stop flirting with other girls. If I found out my girlfriend was doing that behind my back, I'd outright cry. Imagine what your girlfriend would be like (hint: similar to me).
2) Take Celine somewhere nice. To dinner, if she likes that. Not some movie date (unless she REALLY wants to), a real date.
I'm on the border about military or finishing college, and it is driving my up the wall every night.
On one hand, my parents have little money left. The economy here has been too poor, so I haven't been able to get a job. Dad's been out of a job for two years, and since he was raking in a six-digit figure, we're really hurting. Going through college when I'm still not sure what I want to major in; it just seems like a waste of what money they have left. To give you a clue, we got about a year or two left before we're flat broke.
On the other hand, going in the military means leaving my boyfriend behind (I'm bisexual, big whoop, wanna fight about it). Communication will be incredibly sparse for the first year, and may continue if I aim to be a gunner or do EOD. He really relies on me, I've helped keep him sane for the past two years because, at heart, he's a very sweet guy. Only once have I ever met a woman who I thought to be as near compatable with me, and our age difference made it far too awkward -somewhere around fifteen years. The military, though, will help shape up my lazy, procrastinating ass and pay me in the mean time. Money I can then use for college, once I get out. The real downside is the whole four years it takes, which is a quite a bit of time. I'd also have to juggle a job, with college, to help pay for rent and other needs.
I'm stuck on the back and forth with this, and no matter how I weigh it, I always come back to the question. The very same that increases with gravity each passing day, simply because it might mean the time I'm spending in college now is a waste. I'm not seeking advice, I've already bothered friends with it enough and come right back to where I was; just felt like I needed to vent.
[QUOTE=Doom14;25885853]I'm on the border about military or finishing college, and it is driving my up the wall every night.
On one hand, my parents have little money left. The economy here has been too poor, so I haven't been able to get a job. Dad's been out of a job for two years, and since he was raking in a six-digit figure, we're really hurting. Going through college when I'm still not sure what I want to major in; it just seems like a waste of what money they have left. To give you a clue, we got about a year or two left before we're flat broke.
On the other hand, going in the military means leaving my boyfriend behind (I'm bisexual, big whoop, wanna fight about it). Communication will be incredibly sparse for the first year, and may continue if I aim to be a gunner or do EOD. He really relies on me, I've helped keep him sane for the past two years because, at heart, he's a very sweet guy. Only once have I ever met a woman who I thought to be as near compatable with me, and our age difference made it far too awkward -somewhere around fifteen years. The military, though, will help shape up my lazy, procrastinating ass and pay me in the mean time. Money I can then use for college, once I get out. The real downside is the whole four years it takes, which is a quite a bit of time. I'd also have to juggle a job, with college, to help pay for rent and other needs.
I'm stuck on the back and forth with this, and no matter how I weigh it, I always come back to the question. The very same that increases with gravity each passing day, simply because it might mean the time I'm spending in college now is a waste. I'm not seeking advice, I've already bothered friends with it enough and come right back to where I was; just felt like I needed to vent.[/QUOTE]
If you're not 100% sure, stay home. If you decide one day that the military is right for you, then you should go, but not until it's 100% sure.
I kind of like transsexual porn and I once quit a match in Halo: Reach. Hate quitters, but there was no way in hell I was going to play invasion hemorrhage three times in a row.
I hate it when people argue about something they know nothing about.
Although I may be a hypocrite on this.
[QUOTE=Ac!dL3ak;25886166]I hate it when people argue about something they know nothing about.
Although I may be a hypocrite on this.[/QUOTE]
completely fucking agree.
my boyfriend always makes ridiculous assumptions about things he doesn't know shit about. he refuses to try any movies, games, or books i recommend to him, in spite of the fact that i've taken up many of the same hobbies as him and try everything he recommends me. then he throws a fucking bitch fit because i say i'm having second thoughts about getting a game he plays, because i'd rather get something else. :\
/more ranting
This thread was a really good idea
[editline]6th November 2010[/editline]
stupid automerge >:(
[editline]6th November 2010[/editline]
I have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend in my life. :smithicide:
[QUOTE=Ac!dL3ak;25886235]I have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend in my life. :smithicide:[/QUOTE]
Go meet people.
I'm a Huge shitposter.
That felt good.
[QUOTE=Agoat;25886328]Go meet people.[/QUOTE]
I do
[QUOTE=Ac!dL3ak;25886448]I do[/QUOTE]
Then keep an eye out for potential partners, and don't lose them.
[QUOTE=Agoat;25886474]Then keep an eye out for potential partners, and don't lose them.[/QUOTE]
:unsmith:
That, for some reason, made me feel good.
I don't have many friends, but I do treasure my current friends. I have high standards.
Probably something to do with realizing that people are retarded and popularity is an illusion, from the internet.
[QUOTE=Saza;25886714]I don't have many friends, but I do treasure my current friends. I have high standards.
Probably something to do with realizing that people are retarded and popularity is an illusion, from the internet.[/QUOTE]
Same, sort of - I have plenty of friends who i know online, but only have two friends IRL who i see/talk to regularly, and am extremely close with both.
Sometimes I wanna buy a couple shotguns/rifles and just go on a rampage where I work.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;25886825]Same, sort of - I have plenty of friends who i know online, but only have two friends IRL who i see/talk to regularly, and am extremely close with both.[/QUOTE]
Same. I've got more friends on my Steam than I can actually talk to without getting really angry at in real life. It's just that most people drive me nuts. I don't know why, probably because they're so fucking stupid. Not literally stupid, but annoying. I'm pretty sure what most of you guys know what I mean.
I just can't stand most kids. Either they're just annoying with how they make themselves seem important or "durr I'm MLG pr000000)!11!!11!1!".
I want to punch kick, and hurt every one of them.
[QUOTE=Saza;25886714]I don't have many friends, but I do treasure my current friends. I have high standards.
Probably something to do with realizing that people are retarded and popularity is an illusion, from the internet.[/QUOTE]
I try to be friends with everyone.
Of course, that doesn't work out most of the time.
what do you mean that people are retarded?
[editline]6th November 2010[/editline]
[QUOTE=Saza;25886877]Same. I've got more friends on my Steam than I can actually talk to without getting really angry at in real life. It's just that most people drive me nuts. I don't know why, probably because they're so fucking stupid. Not literally stupid, but annoying. I'm pretty sure what most of you guys know what I mean.
I just can't stand most kids. Either they're just annoying with how they make themselves seem important or "durr I'm MLG pr000000)!11!!11!1!".
I want to punch kick, and hurt every one of them.[/QUOTE]
oh
ok
would you like a hug
My girlfriends a bum who's living off of me and has no plans to help herself. I've wanted too break up with her a lot here recently but I care about her too much to just toss her out in the street, which is what I'll pretty much be doing if I do break up with her.
So, my best friend (we'll refer to him as George), basically known him for about 10 years. Me and him always hung out as often as possible, being bros and shit. So about 3 years ago, he started dating this one chick (we'll call her Fiona) we both met in 8th grade. The first year of the relationship was fine, me and him still hung out when we could and sometimes we all went out and hung out (no, no 3somes). The second year of the relationship was when I started seeing him change. He started hanging out with her more and whenever I knew he had free time, he say he was too busy that day or w/e. One day, while hanging out at the boardwalk with me, George, his gf, a friend of his (female) and a mutual friend between us all, I noticed a few things.
He had gone with his friend to the end of a pier and started talking to each, and at one point, held hands and Fiona had started 'coming on' to the mutual friend. Both of them started talking and soon were next to each other.
So, there I am, alone, sitting on the beach, waiting for them to come back so we could head back to the main area. A few weeks later, I learned a few more things:
1) George had sex with a friend with benefits that was an ex of his. His gf, to this day I think, still doesn't know about it.
2) George, Fiona and his female friend went to Spencers' to shop for dildos. (No purchases were made)
3) A few weeks after that, the 3 of them had sex at his house.
George and Fiona broke up for a month during that Winter after they argued.
After they broke up, one of Fiona's exes had asked her to perform a reading of a play he wrote. I'm still fuzzy on the details, but apparently the ex "raped" her. Whether or not that's true, only those 2 know. George and Fiona got back together after that fiasco died. However, something changed in Fiona. Me and her got in fights over stupid things that she overreacted over. For instance, I had accidentally spilled some water all over her messenger bag one time. I said my apologizes but she flipped shit on me saying that bag was bought from a store for a decent amount of money (I later checked for the bag and found it was bought from an Army Surplus store for around $25). I offered to buy her a new one, but said that one had "sentimental value". Later, right before Christmas, she had apologized to me and said that I didn't need to buy her the bag.
Currently, they're still dating and still seeing each other. They even live within 30 minutes of each other despite going to different colleges. However, she's taking medication for depression and some other psych needs (she was taking them as well towards Spring of their 2nd year together). George was not seeing her even more often than usual, sometimes sleeping over her house during the week. I rarely hung out with him, and when I did, Fiona was usually with him. At this point, I started thinking that maybe George is a little too submissive. He started catering heavily to her needs (I had once given him a ride over to her house just so he could 'comfort' her and calm her down).
I have told this same exact story to another mutual friend between me and George, although I talked to him a little more. We both agreed on the fact that maybe George was pussywhipped. She was basically controlling him through the promise of sex. I had told my friend that maybe I should tell George how I felt about his relationship and that maybe he was really pussywhipped. However, I never really had a lot of friends, and to lose someone you've known for a long time hurts a lot. I've always tried to get him alone, without Fiona, to tell him how I felt, but never did say anything about it.
TL;DR: I feel like my friend is pussywhipped but I don't want to lose a very good friend by telling him he is.
[QUOTE=Ac!dL3ak;25886889]
oh
ok
would you like a hug[/QUOTE]
I would love a hug.
[QUOTE=Saza;25886965]I would love a hug.[/QUOTE]
:glomp:
[editline]6th November 2010[/editline]
[QUOTE=Justice;25887004]Talking to people and helping people solve issues they may have are some of the many things in life that make me one of the happiest persons alive. Even minor things like someone telling me my website is great or getting a thanks for helping someone fix a simple computer issue brings a smile to my face. I run my server and my websites on what the people want and like and I try to be the fairest person possible on any issues. [b] I encourage criticism because knowing what you're doing wrong is a good way to help correct those wrongdoings in the first place.[/b] Making people happy makes me happy.
[/QUOTE]
and some people just don't get that.
[QUOTE=Justice;25887004]Talking to people and helping people solve issues they may have are some of the many things in life that make me one of the happiest persons alive. Even minor things like someone telling me my website is great or getting a thanks for helping someone fix a simple computer issue brings a smile to my face. I run my server and my websites on what the people want and like and I try to be the fairest person possible on any issues. I encourage criticism because knowing what you're doing wrong is a good way to help correct those wrongdoings in the first place. Making people happy makes me happy.
You gents need to stop being so negative. :colbert:[/QUOTE]
i'm usually a lot more positive, just i said some things in a previous post (edited out) that i literally can't talk to anyone i know about. we're just here to vent so we can feel better
Bryan, you lift my spirits and make me feel loved. I only hope I can return some of that feeling.
Ashley, you don't know what you're missing. I pity you, but you had to go and be a bitch.
Albert, you're a shallow piece of shit. Nobody's going to give a fuck in 5 years how much of an internet hardass you are.
Jesse, piss off.
God fucking damn this feels good.
I am fat.
One of my best friends that I was friends with from when I was 7, I don't like as much as I should. He isn't a dick or anything, just hyper-active, thinks people don't mind some of the stuff he does (Grabs shirts throws things, kicks shins etc.) but we do mind. The group I hang out with don't like him as much and I bet they don't kick him out only because I brought him in (He just came back from another school he was bullied at) I almost don't want him there, but kicking him out would just be sad.
:smith:
I've got REALLY low self esteem, and I'm not sure why. It's preventing me from asking out the girl I like, because I feel like she deserves someone better then some fucking loser like me. I can't even look at myself in the fucking mirror. It doesn't help that every adult in my school hates my ass (one even went as far to tell me that I will never get out of high school, give up, ect.)
OP was right. It did feel good.
this kid who sits next to me keeps on bothering me on everything and jabbing me with a pencil like it's a normal thing. I don't want to tell him i'm annoyed so i just laugh and pretend like it's funny, but in actuality i'm pissed off and i can't fuckin' concentrate in class because he keeps talking to me during lectures or what ever the fuck they're teaching. I don't want to tell him I don't like him because he's been bullied too much but I see now why people don't like him, I don't approve of bullying him but he's gotta get his shit straight too. Infact that's the problem of most awkwardly social people i know in this school.
last semester, i used to be a pretty nice guy, i never got mad or disappointed in anyone. but things have really changed this year. i'm pretty much turning into a gigantic douchebag, even though i don't want to. i don't want to have to be a douche around my friends, but so many things are changing in my life these days.
I ran away from home and slept on a train once. I packed all of my airsoft guns with me for self defense hurr. It was cold as hell and I only brought one blanket. I ended up having to walk 3 miles to my aunt's house after trying to sleep for two hours and being unable to. I didn't want to wake her up at 4AM so I sat in her yard and tried to pet these two cats but they wouldn't let me get near them without running away. That went on for like 2 hours. Eventually her dog started barking at me and when she came outside to tell him to be quiet I was all "Hey, I ran away from home".
Running away was the result of my parents reading my texts and discovering I was in (the shittiest most pointless retarded one-week) a relationship with a guy (was an asshole). He sucked my penis (rainbows errywhur).
Oh high school, you so crazy.
I have a fantastic relationship with a girl who I love dearly. We just get each other, we think very alike. I'm bisexual and she knows it, it doesn't get in the way of anything. We've been dating for 9 moths on the 11th.
I dated her best friend in 9th grade for like one month, but that never made things awkward when we all hung out together. Last time we hung out at a restaurant, as soon as we got there, ex says "Hey Andrew, we ate here once! I was so mean to you." Is that really necessary to say?
That girl now dates a clinically schizophrenic bearded man who deals LSD on campus. GJ.
My girlfriend has touched my penis. She says "penis" when she does. I'm like "yep." It's p funny.
I adore corny jokes, and slap my knee when I make them.
My girlfriend is large. And beautiful. I find it sad that society has such a low tolerance for people that don't fit into the fantasy human mold that the media has created.
My girlfriend and I play Halo: Reach together. She's pretty okay, but I'm so much better. I show no mercy in versus, she gets really pissed off lol.
[QUOTE=MrAfroShark70;25882822][b]It's called a punch to a face, use it some time, I know you might be weaker, but anger can lead to extreme amounts of adrenaline and could cause you to land a vicious blow.[/b]
Or you could be smart and tell your friend that you don't want to be friends with him if he continues this shit.[/QUOTE]
finally you say something right.
[editline]5th November 2010[/editline]
[QUOTE=MrAfroShark70;25883234]Damn, and I thought I had social problems.
I'm cynical, chronically depressed, always resentful, never had a girlfriend, and I'm a psychological train wreck.
Even then, I'm probably one of the most popular kids in my school and no one, that I know of, hates me.[/QUOTE]
wait afro, if you are one of the most popular kids in school why dont you have a girlfriend
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