[QUOTE=Monty Pie-thon;27274772]I'm always too scared to post anything i get really paranoid. :ohdear:[/QUOTE]
I've posted things here where the person I'm talking about can see what I'm saying.
[QUOTE=McBurgerKong;27119218]I am in love with a girl in one of my classes. We dated but she's not interested.
Also one of my best friends is screwing someone with a boyfriend. I am considering shunning both of them.[/QUOTE]
If you cock block your best friend you deserve to be beaten by said friend.
[QUOTE=IceTea;27274933]If you cock block your best friend you deserve to be beaten by said friend.[/QUOTE]
I somewhat disagree. You should at least let your friend know that he is potentially going to cause that girl, her boyfriend, and himself a lot of problems for some cheap pleasure.
[QUOTE=Makol;27274840]I've posted things here where the person I'm talking about can see what I'm saying.[/QUOTE]
I wish i was as confident as you. :smith:
And Binsky should be a Guru!
[QUOTE=Monty Pie-thon;27275094]I wish i was as confident as you. :smith:
And Binsky should be a Guru![/QUOTE]
I'm not confident at all, I just post what I feel like I have to say and then instantly regret it. Eventually they see it, we talk, and things end up being fine. Luckily they said I'm just worrying over something I should be at the moment, and they're right about that.
And yes Binsky is a god.
There's really nothing to be afraid of. You're completely anonymous. If people end up hating you on here than it doesn't directly affect you at all. Just try to have fun. Connect with people because they're fucking interesting.
[editline]8th January 2011[/editline]
Haha thanks for the kind words. I just really enjoy talking to people and doing what i can to help
62 pages of spineless whining
grow up jesus christ
[editline]8th January 2011[/editline]
buhuhu i'm such a loser
[QUOTE=Binsky;27274760]That's really great to hear. I'm glad you're both doing well :)
Didn't you say you have a girlfriend, though?[/QUOTE]
Naw, she has a boyfriend but their rules are no kissing and no under the clothes, which I followed.
[QUOTE=MonkeyMan44;27275161]62 pages of spineless whining
grow up jesus christ
[editline]8th January 2011[/editline]
buhuhu i'm such a loser[/QUOTE]
1 post of spineless whining
grow up jesus christ
[QUOTE=zombiefreak;27275168]Naw, she has a boyfriend but their rules are no kissing and no under the clothes, which I followed.[/QUOTE]
Alright sorry for being nosy. I'm glad everything's great.
Binsky is just about the nicest person here. Kudos, pal.
Also, I'm sorta freaking out about this upcoming Sunday afternoon. This girl I've met asked a few times to hang out, but told me to choose what we're doing. Because I'm a load of boring, I settled on just going and getting coffee, so then we can talk and really get to know each other and stuff. But, I'm confused because she seems so interested in me and really, really friendly, but I know she doesn't like me as more than a friend. See, I was really sick once, very sleep-deprived, and i had taken too much Nyquil. I had sent her a text outlining how I had this sorta schoolboy crush on her. Didn't remember doing that in the morning. But I suppose she just sorta disregarded that after telling me that despite me being the sweetest and nicest boy she's ever known, that she has to develop a liking for someone over time. Which, of course, makes perfect sense.
So, yeah, I'm just getting constant mixed messages from this girl and we're getting coffee on Sunday. And I'm just sorta worried that I'm interpreting something wrong or something. I dunno.
[QUOTE=JohnnyNapalm007;27275248]Binsky is just about the nicest person here. Kudos, pal.
Also, I'm sorta freaking out about this upcoming Sunday afternoon. This girl I've met asked a few times to hang out, but told me to choose what we're doing. Because I'm a load of boring, I settled on just going and getting coffee, so then we can talk and really get to know each other and stuff. But, I'm confused because she seems so interested in me and really, really friendly, but I know she doesn't like me as more than a friend. See, I was really sick once, very sleep-deprived, and i had taken too much Nyquil. I had sent her a text outlining how I had this sorta schoolboy crush on her. Didn't remember doing that in the morning. But I suppose she just sorta disregarded that after telling me that despite me being the sweetest and nicest boy she's ever known, that she has to develop a liking for someone over time. Which, of course, makes perfect sense.
So, yeah, I'm just getting constant mixed messages from this girl and we're getting coffee on Sunday. What do I do?[/QUOTE]
Act a little flirty, but just be fun about it. At the very worst, if you aren't doing it in a creepy way, is that she would have had fun. Girls love being flirty when you're close to them, at least in my experience.
[QUOTE=zombiefreak;27275279]Act a little flirty, but just be fun about it. At the very worst, if you aren't doing it in a creepy way, is that she would have had fun. Girls love being flirty when you're close to them, at least in my experience.[/QUOTE]
Fair enough.
[QUOTE=JohnnyNapalm007;27275248]Binsky is just about the nicest person here. Kudos, pal.
Also, I'm sorta freaking out about this upcoming Sunday afternoon. This girl I've met asked a few times to hang out, but told me to choose what we're doing. Because I'm a load of boring, I settled on just going and getting coffee, so then we can talk and really get to know each other and stuff. But, I'm confused because she seems so interested in me and really, really friendly, but I know she doesn't like me as more than a friend. See, I was really sick once, very sleep-deprived, and i had taken too much Nyquil. I had sent her a text outlining how I had this sorta schoolboy crush on her. Didn't remember doing that in the morning. But I suppose she just sorta disregarded that after telling me that despite me being the sweetest and nicest boy she's ever known, that she has to develop a liking for someone over time. Which, of course, makes perfect sense.
So, yeah, I'm just getting constant mixed messages from this girl and we're getting coffee on Sunday. And I'm just sorta worried that I'm interpreting something wrong or something. I dunno.[/QUOTE]
I understand and relate perfectly with this. In my meager experience, I've found the best course of action is to not be too forward, but just spend time with her enough to try and get a better grasp of her feelings. If that doesn't work, merely ask up front how she feels, because if she's sending mixed messages, you have the right to say something.
As long as you aren't being overly optimistic about something maybe being there, what harm could be done? I did that with my "friend" and we've been getting more romantically involved ever since.
Ah god damnit I've slept 4-5 hours tonight and it's been like this for a while and on monday school starts so I have to get alot of sleep because I'm that kind of person. I feel shit when I haven't slept for 8 hours or more.
I asked out this one girl, she gave me a weird answer which both said no and yes, I then got this really hot other girl to give me sexual favours :v: but now I feel like i'm cheating even though i'm not lol
I once fucked my pillow
My dad and my mom divorced years ago, I can barely remember when (probably for the best). I wasen't sad about it, as I still met both of them regularly.
After around 8 months apart, my dad got together with a woman named Pia. She had a daughter named Clara, which I befriended quickly. We became like siblings; we talked alot and we had pretty similar interests (We both like video games, the same music and so on).
But then the day came when my dad couldn't pay to travel between the cities (They lived 3 hours away) as the gas prices went upwards. I got kinda sad, seeing as I really liked both Pia and Clara. Go forward 2 years, my dad and mom are together again. I start talking with Clara again and we catch up on things that have happended during that time.
I still miss seeing her, but talking to her atleast brings some joy back from the old days. :unsmith:
I haven't talked to anyone about this.
Anyone.
Kinda good to let this go after all these years.
It's been around 1 year since my parents got together again, so it's been a long time.
So are interested in her solely as a friend or maybe romantically? I really enjoyed reading that, though. It was really sweet and I'm kind of happy your parents got back together and (hopefully) sorted everything out. And if you do decide you like Clara romantically that would make it substantially less awkward since she won't be a sister-in-law. I know you said she was like a sister but still
[editline]8th January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Revanold;27276498]I asked out this one girl, she gave me a weird answer which both said no and yes, I then got this really hot other girl to give me sexual favours :v: but now I feel like i'm cheating even though i'm not lol[/QUOTE]
That's really confusing. You should maybe try to get a straight answer from girl number one if you do want be with her. It probably isn't good to be fooling around if you're trying to start a new relationship.
[editline]8th January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27276080]Ah god damnit I've slept 4-5 hours tonight and it's been like this for a while and on monday school starts so I have to get alot of sleep because I'm that kind of person. I feel shit when I haven't slept for 8 hours or more.[/QUOTE]
[url]http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080224070346AAmpWn4[/url]
I hope this helps. I'm having issues sleeping at normal hours (I've been going to bed at like 3 am and waking up at like 12 or 1 pm) so I kind of feel your pain. School starts the twelfth for me.
[editline]8th January 2011[/editline]
Also, thank you everyone for the kind words. It means a lot to me and I'm just glad I can help.
Thanks for the help but after I've read it through it doesn't really seem to help me that much. The problem I have is that no matter when I go to bed, if it's 9 PM or if it's 1 AM or anything I don't fall asleep untill after several hours, usually around 2 or 3 AM. I also have troubles because I wake up in the middle of the night and can't fall back asleep. This sucks since I have to get up at around 6.30 - 7 AM before school. So at alot of times I wake up one or two hours before I actually have to get up and end up lying awake untill then.
[editline]8th January 2011[/editline]
And yeah you're an awesome guy, the kinda guy I'd love to be in real life!
You may want to see a doctor because it could be insomnia. Are you stressed about sleeping or anything. I looked up on how to stay asleep and a lot of them emphasize being relaxed before going to bed. Are you stressed or anything? Some of the stuff I read recommended stretching or taking a warm shower before you go to bed to loosen up tight muscles. Also, if you don't already listening to music and/or reading really helps me sleep. It's almost better if you don't think about sleeping.
I wrote this a few pages back:
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27256163]I live my life in nervosity, stress and fear. I don't know what it is I'm feeling so nervous about either. I feel it constantly, all the time, every minute of my life. It's so horrible because I can never feel that ease, that relief you feel when you've done something that you were so nervous about untill you did it. I can't feel achieved. I can't sit down and just be happy for what I've done, what I am and what I have. I can't be happy. I can't even just lay down and feel tired and sad because I'm always nervous. This has gone on for years, and eventually it's just made me ignore everything I feel... But I still feel it. I thought that it would go away after a while if I ignored it, I thought it was just a phase, a period, but I still feel it.
Meh, had to get that off my chest.[/QUOTE]
Perhaps it's related to the problem?
Yeah I'd say that could possibly contribute. Are you seeing a psychologist or anything like that? I don't necessarily know what I can do to help you with that. Try to relax more and when you feel nervous just stop what you're doing and take a deep breath and slowly exhale. This breathing helps wake up the brain and can allow you to think with a little more clarity. And when you get anxious just try to relax, most things are going to be out of your control and that's ok. Things will work out how they do and life will continue
Yes I am seing a psychologist, though so far there has been no real success. But yeah hopefully it'll all work out, I'm sure it will though I'm not sure if I truly believe it.
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27280843]Yes I am seing a psychologist, though so far there has been no real success. But yeah hopefully it'll all work out, I'm sure it will though I'm not sure if I truly believe it.[/QUOTE]
You can't let those things bring you down. There is more to life than worrying what a measly psychologist can say about you.
I can see how you let the wrong thoughts into your head when good things you know are happening. It is something you need to accept and learn to be confused. I can get confused why I feel something I shouldn't, I shouldn't get angry at pointless things.
It isn't a problem within what you are, you just need to think that it isn't so bad.
I basically feel like I'm alone. None of my friends have the same interests as me, I only hang out with them because I don't want to be alone. I only feel like I belong when I'm on facepunch, I've met a couple of people who feel the same way I do, but they live in different countries so I'll never get the chance to meet them.
Seriously, if one person at school knew about Valve/Steam/Facepunch/Minecraft/the internet, I'd be way happier than I am now. I feel like my life is going nowhere.
[QUOTE=ElectronicG19;27280987]I basically feel like I'm alone. None of my friends have the same interests as me, I only hang out with them because I don't want to be alone. I only feel like I belong when I'm on facepunch, I've met a couple of people who feel the same way I do, but they live in different countries so I'll never get the chance to meet them.
Seriously, if one person at school knew about Valve/Steam/Facepunch/Minecraft/the internet, I'd be way happier than I am now. I feel like my life is going nowhere.[/QUOTE]
In a sense, we are all alone. Nobody else is living what we are. Just be with what you enjoy, worrying won't get you to a better place.
[QUOTE=AK'z;27280950]You can't let those things bring you down. There is more to life than worrying what a measly psychologist can say about you.
I can see how you let the wrong thoughts into your head when good things you know are happening. It is something you need to accept and learn to be confused. I can get confused why I feel something I shouldn't, I shouldn't get angry at pointless things.
It isn't a problem within what you are, you just need to think that it isn't so bad.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, but it's a little strange for me. I'm always optimistic about everything, I always think positively but I don't feel it. I know my life isn't bad, at all, I have some alright friends, a good family and all that... But I don't feel it. And then when I think really hard about it, it's like something is missing. There is something I'm supressing but I don't know what, or perhaps I do? It's so hard to put in a single post but perhaps you get the idea.
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;27281089]Yeah, but it's a little strange for me. I'm always optimistic about everything, I always think positively but I don't feel it. I know my life isn't bad, at all, I have some alright friends, a good family and all that... But I don't feel it. And then when I think really hard about it, it's like something is missing. There is something I'm supressing but I don't know what, or perhaps I do? It's so hard to put in a single post but perhaps you get the idea.[/QUOTE]
I can interpret that in terms of how I personally can relate to.
But in a way it is difficult for anyone to. Your relationship with your family, is it going well?
Yeah, everyone's nice to eachother, supporting and everything. There is no problem with my family at all.
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