"Hey I heard you're smart, help me do this homework please."
"Sorry, I don't know how to do that."
"I thought you were supposed to be smart."
[QUOTE=Zeke129;27383308]What I have to get off my chest is this: everyone in this thread saying suicide is selfish is a fucking moron.
Which is more selfish, wanting to get away from a life of suffering or expecting someone to suffer just so you don't have to feel bad for a few months/years?
I don't know if your beliefs stem from some kind of irrational hatred of suicidal people or just ignorance, but knock it off.[/QUOTE]
I agree with what you're saying, to an extent. I think that most people on here aren't being completely rational when they are talking about suicide. Unless they really have some debilitating condition that makes life not worth living they shouldn't be so hasty to just quit
[editline]13th January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Makol;27383366]I dunno if I want to explain or not lol.[/QUOTE]
That's understandable. You definitely don't have to. I'm prob going to have to go to sleep soon because i have classes early in the morning.
busy busy busy
On the first date with my new girlfriend, she sucked my dick. I felt terrible because I wanted to take it slow and I think she only did it for me.
Then I didn't cum because I have too much endurance
[QUOTE=Teracotta;27383083]I am a Christian, a conservative, and a female on the internet...shit sucks. I don't try to start arguments, I'm not an ass to people for no reason and yet, people are still assholes to me. Someone asks for my picture, I post one...I get labeled a cam whore. Someone trolls me, I tell them to fuck off and I ignore them..I get labeled a drama whore.
All in all, people generally dislike me because of my gender, religion, and political views. It doesn't matter if I'm nice or not, I just get branded and labeled.[/QUOTE]
The internet is pretty stupid like that sometimes. Just try to ignore the stupid people. It really is ridiculous that people act so crazy when it comes to women on the internet. I'm sorry it's like that.
[editline]13th January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Jiyoon;27383449]On the first date with my new girlfriend, she sucked my dick. I felt terrible because I wanted to take it slow and I think she only did it for me.
Then I didn't cum because I have too much endurance[/QUOTE]
Tell her you want to take it slower then
[QUOTE=Binsky;27383398]I agree with what you're saying, to an extent. I think that most people on here aren't being completely rational when they are talking about suicide. Unless they really have some debilitating condition that makes life not worth living they shouldn't be so hasty to just quit[/QUOTE]
Yeah, but nobody here has the right to decide whether or not someone else has "suffered enough"
We even had assholes in that thread about the programmer who killed himself, and he lived with that pain for over twenty years.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;27383522]Yeah, but nobody here has the right to decide whether or not someone else has "suffered enough"
We even had assholes in that thread about the programmer who killed himself, and he lived with that pain for over twenty years.[/QUOTE]
It's really trivial to decide what is enough pain to justify suicide. I agree there is a line but I think it has to be something pretty drastic. I've felt suicidal in the past and looking back on it I regret ever feeling that way. I think it's ultimately up to the individual to decide but I think that people drastically devalue their lives.
[QUOTE=Binsky;27383608]It's really trivial to decide what is enough pain to justify suicide. I agree there is a line but I think it has to be something pretty drastic. I've felt suicidal in the past and looking back on it I regret ever feeling that way. I think it's ultimately up to the individual to decide but I think that people drastically devalue their lives.[/QUOTE]
You realize that it's more than just the amount of suffering they're experiencing, but a legitimate mental condition right
I should care right? All good, respectable men should care. . . . right? I used to be extremely apathetic. To the point where I was numb to everything. I didnt really do much, or make friends, or anything really. I just kind of floated through my days not caring. Seems to be common with young people these days. I believe it is usually a forced apathy. In any case, I decided that was not a proper way to live. So I created this persona of a good man. And I try every day to fill this persona. This person cares about everyone. Not a sucker, but cares about their struggles. Cares about the poor, the sick and hungry. The sad and unfortunate. this person faces every challenge with courage and never backs down. This person always stands up for what he believes in no matter what. this person has never failing morals and standards. And many more specifics. Now most of these I comfortably fill. I want to be remembered as the guy that nobody had a problem with, and always made people smile around him. there is one problem with this though: I just dont actually care. About certain things that is. I care about the unfortunate, and the sick, and the unlucky. I care about people who cannot control their misfortune. But I do have complete, and utter, apathy for people who drown in their own self pity and cry about problems they could fix with a simple sentence or a bust of courage. yet they dont. I dont understand it. I may appear rude to some people, but that is because I am very straight forward and direct. Because of this I dont have any trivial problems. I am not friends with people who dont like me. I never pretend to be otherwise. I have a few, but very good friends. This is why i just dont understand people who sit around and complain about things they could fix, but dont want to because they dont want to hurt someones feelings, or dont want to be considered rude by people they dont even care about. They pretend to be friends with people they cant stand. It confuses me. Now I dont believe I am completely innocent of this myself. But at least I try right? people will sit there and talk to me about things that are so trivial it almost hurts my head to talk about them. Someone is having trouble in a relationship with somebody they "love".......... and met one moth ago. Yet the short relationship that just ended, was also with somebody they "loved". People complain about how somebody talking about them bugs them. Then why not walk up to that persons face and fix it? People expect me to care. But I just dont. Should I?
(also excuse the self righteous tone to this wall. I am in a rambling mood and listening to epic music. So I naturally produced that block of complaining)
I know exactly how you feel, my friend. I've seen people who just stand by and watch their lives collapse because they think they're too useless to fix it and it makes me hate them.
How can I respect someone who doesn't respect themselves?
[QUOTE=Zeke129;27383678]You realize that it's more than just the amount of suffering they're experiencing, but a legitimate mental condition right[/QUOTE]
Yes, I do recognize that there are people who may have extensive mental issues that also can make life unbearable. That kind of thing is hard to pin, though and i don't think it's too common. A lot of people feel like they want to kill themselves at some point in their life. It's hard to know who has a legitimate condition and who is just experiencing a hard moment in their life.
I completely agree with what you're saying but it's difficult to pin that sort of thing
[QUOTE=Teracotta;27383083]I am a Christian, a conservative, and a female on the internet...shit sucks. I don't try to start arguments, I'm not an ass to people for no reason and yet, people are still assholes to me. Someone asks for my picture, I post one...I get labeled a cam whore. Someone trolls me, I tell them to fuck off and I ignore them..I get labeled a drama whore.
All in all, people generally dislike me because of my gender, religion, and political views. It doesn't matter if I'm nice or not, I just get branded and labeled.[/QUOTE]
Same boat here, sister. Christian too, although I'm politically neutral.
I agree with that other guy when he says "just don't give a fuck".
[QUOTE=haloguy234;27383731]I know exactly how you feel, my friend. I've seen people who just stand by and watch their lives collapse because they think they're too useless to fix it and it makes me hate them.
How can I respect someone who doesn't respect themselves?[/QUOTE]
Yup. It just boggles my mind. People have the power to fix something, almost all of the time. Yet they lack the will to actually do so.
[editline]12th January 2011[/editline]
Woah, I just realized how close to gold I am. Hm, cool.
I have no work ethic and my GPA has been taken from like a 3.8 to a 2.8 in two years... I don't know what to do anymore and no matter how hard I try, I cannot make myself give a fuck.
I really like this girl. She's black. We are in fact dating. A lot of my friends say I should dump the "n**ger bitch" but I wont, she's simply amazing. I don't wanna be one of those guys who stops having friends because they don't agree with the relationship, but I don't want all of this backseat criticism going on. Damn them for being racist.
[QUOTE=Binsky;27383750]Yes, I do recognize that there are people who may have extensive mental issues that also can make life unbearable. That kind of thing is hard to pin, though and i don't think it's too common.[/QUOTE]
Aren't something like 1 in 5 people clinically depressed
[QUOTE=Binsky;]Tell her you want to take it slower then[/QUOTE]
I did, but its still embarrasing that i didnt cum.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;27383522]Yeah, but nobody here has the right to decide whether or not someone else has "suffered enough"
We even had assholes in that thread about the programmer who killed himself, and he lived with that pain for over twenty years.[/QUOTE]
i would have to say that the people who come on here and post that they are going to kill themselves because of a silly thing like a break up or something are being way too dramatic. Im talking short term problems that are easy to get over, but when it comes to mental disorders that make life unbareable then its understandable. I remember reading something about two different mentalities of suicide. There was one for people who are just thinking about it (those people go and tell people they are going to do it and what not, when they really just want someone to talk to) and the other which is people who have set their mind to it (they begin to give their stuff away in preparation for their suicide, these people are ready to die). Which is why i believe most people (most not all) that post in this thread about it are just being babies, excuse me for being blunt with it but im speaking to kids whining about little problems.
[QUOTE=Jiyoon;27383977]I did, but its still embarrasing that i didnt cum.[/QUOTE]
She was just bad at it.
[QUOTE=Makol;27382027]I met my best friend online. Dunno if that is weird or not, but I don't care.[/QUOTE]
I'm going to expand on this a bit. Back in May I met someone who was pretty cool online. I also met two other cool people and we kind of formed a circle of friends, just the 4 of us. since then we all have pretty much spoken to eachother every day on Skype. Later we were all friend on Facebook, that was probably when we all saw photos pf eachother for the first time lol. But one caught my attention, I'll get into that a bit later. So we kept of having our "Skype Parties" every night. We sould play games, stream movies, or just talk about whatever we had on out minds.
Few months went by of this so I'll fast forward to October. One memeber of the group and I exchanged numbers and have been texting pretty much everyday since then. I kinda grew an attraction to this person, I was mostly confused since being attracted to someone you only know online isn't, uh, normal or at least to me it isn't. I never said anything to my friend since by then we pretty much extablished that the two of us were going to be BFFs. They even helped me when I was in a tough time, a time where I was pretty determined to take my own life so I'm going to thank them again for stopping me, thanks.
Now move to the end of Decemeber and earlier this month. I learn that the person I consider my best friend did and still has a slight attraction to me so about two, maybe three, days later I admit I did too. But before all of that was out in the air my friends had a long lasting relationship they ended just two weeks or so before we shared what we had to say to each other.
Now niether of us are in any condition for something to happen between us. They're just getting over it all and enjoying being independent, and I'm here being single for about 3 years and kind of looking for someone. Me being a realist I can't see anything happening even though I want to keep the same mentality as my friend and be optimistic by saying "maybe, wait and see". But if nothing does happen I'd be ok with that since, I hope, I'll still have someone to call my best friend.
Ok, I'm being yelled at to finish this and post it so sorry if this makes no sense lol. I just wanted say this.
ugh, i feel like this whole weed thing isn't going to blow over...
I've never had sex or done any drugs. I dont really want to but all my friends talk about both constantly.
[QUOTE=Nohj;27384341]I've never had sex or done any drugs. I dont really want to but all my friends talk about both constantly.[/QUOTE]
do both at the same time with a horse thanks for being on the show NEXT CALLER
[QUOTE=kevn150;27384368]do both at the same time with a horse thanks for being on the show NEXT CALLER[/QUOTE]
Hi. Me again. I love your show and I just wanted to say that I hate children.
[QUOTE=Nohj;27384341]I've never had sex or done any drugs. I dont really want to but all my friends talk about both constantly.[/QUOTE]Drugs is something that I think everybody needs to try at least once in their lifetime. I'm not talking about stuff like cocaine or heroin or meth, that shit is horrible. I mean stuff like weed, shrooms, maybe even lsd; theses can change your outlook on life and your perspective on things
[QUOTE=Teracotta;27383083]I am a Christian, a conservative, and a female on the internet...shit sucks. I don't try to start arguments, I'm not an ass to people for no reason and yet, people are still assholes to me. Someone asks for my picture, I post one...I get labeled a cam whore. Someone trolls me, I tell them to fuck off and I ignore them..I get labeled a drama whore.
All in all, people generally dislike me because of my gender, religion, and political views. It doesn't matter if I'm nice or not, I just get branded and labeled.[/QUOTE]
Anyone will attack you for any reason they can find. Just the rules of the internet. And sometimes life I suppose.
Some of the people that i am supposedly 'friends' with really piss me off and i would punch them in the face in a heartbeat.
[QUOTE=Nohj;27384341]I've never had sex or done any drugs. I dont really want to but all my friends talk about both constantly.[/QUOTE]
i never thought i would ever advertise drugs in my life, but do weed. Like right now, go to that kid in school and ask for a dime, get some friends to do it with you and enjoy. Its fucking great... just dont over do it
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So you're a guy now?
EDIT: Dammit Pascall.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;27383973]Aren't something like 1 in 5 people clinically depressed[/QUOTE]
95 million Americans are on anti-depressants. Though that was the estimate two years ago when it was brought up in my Psych class. I imagine it's way higher than that now.
[QUOTE=Identity;27384446][b]95 million Americans are anti-depressants.[/b] Though that was the estimate two years ago when it was brought up in my Psych class. I imagine it's way higher than that now.[/QUOTE]wat
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