• Shit You'd Like To Confess On An Online Forum V2: We're all sinners!
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[QUOTE=EuSKalduna;49435568]I honestly don't get what people fear from relationships. Just literally consider it a new level on the friend roster. All the basic dynamics are the same[/QUOTE] I don't really know what friends do at this age either, last time I had friends was when I was 13
[QUOTE=Zezibesh;49436042]I don't really know what friends do at this age either, last time I had friends was when I was 13[/QUOTE] Don't kids these days watch the you tubes on their eye pads? Do that with friends idk
I've been unemployed since I graduated HS (6 months ago), fucking sucks.
[QUOTE=Zezibesh;49436042]I don't really know what friends do at this age either, last time I had friends was when I was 13[/QUOTE] They just do stuff they do when alone in groups Except for sexual stuff, that's what partners are for
My grandparents got me a Frozen Build an Olaf waffle maker as a gag gift. I played along. I plan to use it a lot.
I legitimately believe that a robot/AI uprising is a distinct possibility, although not in our lifetime.
Sometimes when I press the power level button on the microwave I say "it's over 9000" out loud
I'm kinda getting super worried about my mother now. For the past few days, she's been coughing all day and night, and when she stops for a long period of time (like now) I am somewhat always assuming the worst. I really don't think it's a common cold, because she hasn't been sneezing at all. Just long and rough coughing fits. I really hope it isn't anything [I]too[/I] serious.
yes, I am definitely in love with my best friend and I have absolutely no idea what to do about it, it's kind of eating away at me inside and I don't think it's healthy
[QUOTE=NightmareX91;49437411]I'm kinda getting super worried about my mother now. For the past few days, she's been coughing all day and night, and when she stops for a long period of time (like now) I am somewhat always assuming the worst. I really don't think it's a common cold, because she hasn't been sneezing at all. Just long and rough coughing fits. I really hope it isn't anything [I]too[/I] serious.[/QUOTE] Could be Pneumonia, my mother gets it about once a year. While it can be serious as long as she isn't in bad health, a trip to the doctor can still be required.
[QUOTE=AtomicSans;49437499]yes, I am definitely in love with my best friend and I have absolutely no idea what to do about it, it's kind of eating away at me inside and I don't think it's healthy[/QUOTE] Why do you think it isn't healthy?
[QUOTE=FLIPPY;49437508]Why do you think it isn't healthy?[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=AtomicSans;49437499]yes, I am definitely in love with my best friend and I have absolutely no idea what to do about it,[B] it's kind of eating away at me inside[/B] and I don't think it's healthy[/QUOTE] [editline]2nd January 2016[/editline] But then again how does AtomicSans define that.
[QUOTE=Combine 177;49437546][editline]2nd January 2016[/editline] But then again how does AtomicSans define that.[/QUOTE] Just cause you are experiencing emotions doesn't make it unhealthy.
[QUOTE=NightmareX91;49437411]I'm kinda getting super worried about my mother now. For the past few days, she's been coughing all day and night, and when she stops for a long period of time (like now) I am somewhat always assuming the worst. I really don't think it's a common cold, because she hasn't been sneezing at all. Just long and rough coughing fits. I really hope it isn't anything [I]too[/I] serious.[/QUOTE] ye i was worried about my mum today too. her alarm woke me up through the wall, (i am a light sleeper, someone can open my door, and i will instantly wake up and look over at them, always makes me feel awkawrd, like they would think i was laying there fapping in bed or something cuz i am awake and look over at them) and as i lay there for about 5 minutes of listening to this loud song play through the wall and hearing the phone vibrating on the bedside table I figured I should probably go check if she was actually alive.
[QUOTE=FLIPPY;49437508]Why do you think it isn't healthy?[/QUOTE]I don't think wanting something that I can't/shouldn't have is healthy. It bothers me a lot and doesn't interact well with my other emotional issues. I think I've mentioned this before, but we end interactions and such by saying "I love you" "I love you too" and I think it's understandable why that hurts. I don't know, we're basically both rather affection-starved people so our friendship takes on a lot of the qualities of a relationship, like being extremely emotionally codependent, without actually [I]being[/I] a relationship in any way. Basically I don't want to risk losing the best friend I've ever had. sorry for not being too coherent [editline]1st January 2016[/editline] this sounds a lot more pathetic than I anticipated but hey, that's what this thread is for I suppose
[QUOTE=AtomicSans;49437582]I don't think wanting something that I can't/shouldn't have is healthy. It bothers me a lot and doesn't interact well with my other emotional issues. I think I've mentioned this before, but we end interactions and such by saying "I love you" "I love you too" and I think it's understandable why that hurts. I don't know, we're basically both rather affection-starved people so our friendship takes on a lot of the qualities of a relationship, like being extremely emotionally codependent, without actually [I]being[/I] a relationship in any way. Basically I don't want to risk losing the best friend I've ever had. sorry for not being too coherent [editline]1st January 2016[/editline] this sounds a lot more pathetic than I anticipated but hey, that's what this thread is for I suppose[/QUOTE] doesn't sound pathetic at all to me. its a tough situation, I've been there and worried about losing friends due to [I]that[/I] question too much. I have the nasty habit of falling for nearly everyone I become even remotely close to, and those feelings never really go away. So I retreat and avoid that person to try and move on or avoid those feelings. Its why I tend to be more introverted, tbh.
I can't retreat and avoid them, though. I hate to admit it but I really depend on them to get through the day sometimes, and I'd feel terrible leaving them alone in the awful situation they're in.
[QUOTE=AtomicSans;49437582]I don't think wanting something that I can't/shouldn't have is healthy. It bothers me a lot and doesn't interact well with my other emotional issues. I think I've mentioned this before, but we end interactions and such by saying "I love you" "I love you too" and I think it's understandable why that hurts. I don't know, we're basically both rather affection-starved people so our friendship takes on a lot of the qualities of a relationship, like being extremely emotionally codependent, without actually [I]being[/I] a relationship in any way. Basically I don't want to risk losing the best friend I've ever had. sorry for not being too coherent [editline]1st January 2016[/editline] this sounds a lot more pathetic than I anticipated but hey, that's what this thread is for I suppose[/QUOTE] my personal advice is to just go for it. from the sounds of it, you're already mostly at the ideal stage, so why not try to take it one step further? i highly doubt you would immediately lose her just because you love her, as from what i can tell you both already mean a lot to one another. hell, making a relationship official wouldnt even change your current routine much.
[QUOTE=NightmareX91;49437646]making a relationship official wouldnt even change your current routine much.[/QUOTE]Yeah, that's the thing, it really wouldn't. When we're in the same city (which admittedly isn't all the time) we more or less exclusively hang out with each other. I guess I have some thinking to do.
As nice as I hear sex is, I don't really want a relationship for that. I want a relationship for all the other great stuff in it, like being really close with another person, cuddles, that sort of thing.
[QUOTE=bdd458;49438000]As nice as I hear sex is, I don't really want a relationship for that. I want a relationship for all the other great stuff in it, like being really close with another person, cuddles, that sort of thing.[/QUOTE] Relationships are a lot of work, so as I see it sex is one of the 'fruits' of all the effort. I mean emotional support is great too, not having to be single is also great, but a relationship just for 'cuddles 'n such' would be hard to obtain past middleschool.
[QUOTE=glitchvid;49438032]Relationships are a lot of work, so as I see it sex is one of the 'fruits' of all the effort. I mean emotional support is great too, not having to be single is also great, but a relationship just for 'cuddles 'n such' would be hard to obtain past middleschool.[/QUOTE] Not really, you have asexuals, and those who don't care about sex.
i turned 18 a few months ago and have been single for my whole life. im happy with it, but im not gonna try and be single forever. i am just wondering what this year has in store for me. ive gotten kinda close with this girl, but idk ill see what happens
[QUOTE=FLIPPY;49438047]Not really, you have asexuals, and those who don't care about sex.[/QUOTE] Yeah, I know one personally. Not impossible, just hard. Also, people can change in life, an asexual can change and become sexually active.
[QUOTE=glitchvid;49438032]Relationships are a lot of work, so as I see it sex is one of the 'fruits' of all the effort. I mean emotional support is great too, not having to be single is also great, but a relationship just for 'cuddles 'n such' would be hard to obtain past middleschool.[/QUOTE] i guess i just dont really see sex as a centerpiece to a relationship, id just rather have emotional intimacy.
Best part about sex is the cuddling after.
I never forgive myself for my mistakes, and constantly remind myself of them. This happens more often when I have little to do, so I always busy myself to prevent thinking about it. Going to bed is what I would consider the worst time of the day, because even most of my dreams are plagued with mistakes. If there's at least one positive thing I can confess about this, it's that these dreams gave me a reason to practice lucidity- it works most of the time.
i genuinely get a little mad when someone says anime is trash
anime is and always will be a mistake
you know what you call trash talking an anime? Truth talking.
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