Shit You'd Like To Confess On An Online Forum V2: We're all sinners!
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[QUOTE=Melnek;49379909]also anecdotal stories aren't really interesting to me because i'm not that impressionable anymore.
the problem with the truck driver in your story was the fact that he decided it'd be a good idea to drink and drive, on a truck of all things. i won't lie and i'll say that i've driven under the influence before, and not just after a couple of beers, but after an entire night out drinking where i got smashed on an empty stomach. i had a savana passenger back then, and 6 other people riding with me. they all said i drove even better while intoxicated to shit - this is because some people who drink and drive take far extra care on the road because they are aware of the fact that they are drunk, and that makes them ten times as focused, simply out of fear and anxiety. it's a documented phenomena. it's why cops also pull over drivers who drive suspiciously slow.
on the other hand you have drivers who drink and crash head on with cars and kill entire families. it's, again, up to the individual. and anecdotal stories don't prove or disprove anything.[/QUOTE]
So not only do you try to justify the fact that you drive incredibly dangerously while sober, but argue that you're actually a better driver when drunk and that there's nothing inherently wrong with drunk driving? Get the fuck off the road, dude.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;49379348]If he's very, very lucky, the only person he kills will be himself.[/QUOTE]
I think you should change a key word in this:
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;49379348]If [B]we're[/B] very, very lucky, the only person he kills will be himself.[/QUOTE]
I don't have sympathy for people like this guy, and I can honestly say that I'd like for him to either knock it off or die as soon as possible. It's a bold statement, but it's my default for a reason: this guy obviously doesn't care for others. He doesn't think there's a world outside of his car - oh, sure, he'll say otherwise but his actions sing a different tune. He doesn't care enough to actually care for others, and if he's not willing to change, I'm going to have to look at things from the point of view of caring for others. And since he's unchangeable, he needs to go away. I don't care for selfish people.
[quote]but i just cant help it[/quote]
See? [I]He just can't help it.[/I] There's no way for him to change his ways. He's not going to. I'd prefer if he just stop, but he said it himself - he can't. People who say "they can't" have convinced themselves they "can't" when in reality they "won't", and it's a venomous mindset that inhibits progress. He'll never progress past it until it comes at the expense of others. He's not worth that. He's not worth your brother or your friend. The world shouldn't cater to people like this, and the world shouldn't focus on being sympathetic to a person who has no sympathy for his surroundings. I can only hope that sooner or later he crashes into a wall and dies instead of a killing someone's kid who is by far more precious than him. He refuses to change now so I want him to permanently stop putting other people in danger.
I also refuse to believe that his mentality is reserved for only behind the wheel.
[editline]23rd December 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;49380264]Get the fuck off the road, dude.[/QUOTE]
My confession is that I don't have a problem with the death penalty and I don't have a problem with wishing for people to die. It's seen as "fucked up" but I've lived my life watching people destroy the lives of others, and I'm quite glad specific people in my life are dead. There are some people who have a net effect of destroying everything and some of those people have been in my not-immediate family, resulting in her own death with drugs, the raping of one of her children, bullets in her house's wall, the alienation and depression of her children, and the brief placement of one of her kids in a drug dealer's car. I can say 100% that she was a lost cause and deserved to die. I have no sympathy for her.
So then I see someone like Melnek and I see exactly that: "It's all about me. I want to drive wreckless. Chances are I will kill someone. I don't care." He doesn't deserve to drive, but since we can't really interfere with that and his mindset is already tainted with selfishness and disregard for other people's lives, he doesn't deserve to live.
I'm not willing to do anything about that nor do I think others should, but yeah. I don't think that life has an intrinsic value that can't be removed.
[QUOTE=Melnek;49378706]i am literally the biggest cunt on the road
you ever driven casually along and suddenly some fuckwad goes whooshing past you going 80 above the limit? that's me
i have a certain philosophy to street driving and cars in general, i think that people who are too afraid to test their capabilities and vehicle because they're too scared to wreck it are cowards and should just take a cab to their destinations instead of clogging up the road
i frequently push the throttle as much as i can especially in tight residential areas where my side mirrors and the side mirrors of the parked cars on the side of the road are literally inches apart, i needlessly overtake just for the sake of the thrill, and instead of braking before a curve i just slam on the gas
people say that one of these days a kid or something will jump unto the road and i won't notice him and i'll finally learn not to drive like an idiot jacked up on coke, but i just cant help it. i also do this when i'm driving with friends or girlfriend so by extension i risk their lives every single day.
i have been involved in several high speed accidents (none of which were my fault, surprisingly) but that never bothered me, because i judge road accidents on a case by case basis, instead of like a statistic. so i never get that 'psychological trauma' some people get after accidents.
what's funny is that people thought this habit of mine would go away as i get older but it just gotten worse and worse. i take even more risks now on the road than before simply because i'm more experienced in erratic driving than i had been and know better to calculate risks. or perhaps i'm just a cunt, i dont know
i'd post pictures of my banged up mazda 323s, but it's freezing out[/QUOTE]
Safe drivers don't clog up the road, it's wrecks from people like you that do.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;49380264]So not only do you try to justify the fact that you drive incredibly dangerously while sober, but argue that you're actually a better driver when drunk and that there's nothing inherently wrong with drunk driving? Get the fuck off the road, dude.[/QUOTE]
I'm going to take another route with this conversation and treat his compulsiveness to drive maniacally as a mental illness. It especially sounds like that when he talks about how he drives especially crazy when others are in the car, and how he drives drunk.
My confession is that people who have no remorse for others are people I don't care to rehabilitate. When I can see that people have empathy for others, that's when I'm like, "Okay, let's try and do stuff to see if we can help out, because he recognize that he's hurting others and he has an empathetic response despite his compulsiveness." But when even that empathy is gone, I'm jumping ship.
I don't place the same value on human life as a lot of people do on this forum. And I've gone through changes that have changed how I view "preserving life" - should all life be preserved? I don't think so. I think we should advance in mental health the best we can and apply it to save a select few of the people that have a hard time adapting to society, but I don't think we should bother with the people who literally cannot see the harm they do to others and choose apathy over any attempt.
[QUOTE=wauterboi;49380266]I think you should change a key word in this:
I don't have sympathy for people like this guy, and I can honestly say that I'd like for him to either knock it off or die as soon as possible. It's a bold statement, but it's my default for a reason: this guy obviously doesn't care for others. He doesn't think there's a world outside of his car - oh, sure, he'll say otherwise but his actions sing a different tune. He doesn't care enough to actually care for others, and if he's not willing to change, I'm going to have to look at things from the point of view of caring for others. And since he's unchangeable, he needs to go away. I don't care for selfish people.
See? [I]He just can't help it.[/I] There's no way for him to change his ways. He's not going to. I'd prefer if he just stop, but he said it himself - he can't. People who say "they can't" have convinced themselves they "can't" when in reality they "won't", and it's a venomous mindset that inhibits progress. He'll never progress past it until it comes at the expense of others. He's not worth that. He's not worth your brother or your friend. The world shouldn't cater to people like this, and the world shouldn't focus on being sympathetic to a person who has no sympathy for his surroundings. I can only hope that sooner or later he crashes into a wall and dies instead of a killing someone's kid who is by far more precious than him. He refuses to change now so I want him to permanently stop putting other people in danger.
I also refuse to believe that his mentality is reserved for only behind the wheel.
[editline]23rd December 2015[/editline]
My confession is that I don't have a problem with the death penalty and I don't have a problem with wishing for people to die. It's seen as "fucked up" but I've lived my life watching people destroy the lives of others, and I'm quite glad specific people in my life are dead. There are some people who have a net effect of destroying everything and some of those people have been in my not-immediate family, resulting in her own death with drugs, the raping of one of her children, bullets in her house's wall, the alienation and depression of her children, and the brief placement of one of her kids in a drug dealer's car. I can say 100% that she was a lost cause and deserved to die. I have no sympathy for her.
So then I see someone like Melnek and I see exactly that: "It's all about me. I want to drive wreckless. Chances are I will kill someone. I don't care." He doesn't deserve to drive, but since we can't really interfere with that and his mindset is already tainted with selfishness and disregard for other people's lives, he doesn't deserve to live.
I'm not willing to do anything about that nor do I think others should, but yeah. I don't think that life has an intrinsic value that can't be removed.[/QUOTE]
well alright then talk about blowing shit out of proportion
i don't sell guns to african kids my man, i just drive fast, but it's good to know that your moral compass reflects the two as being almost interchangeable
i sincerely think most people here took overdramatic PSA videos way too seriously
[editline]24th December 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=RedBaronFlyer;49380222]People like you are why my friend's dad died five days before Christmas this year[/QUOTE]
well i didn't kill your friends dad
When I was in middle or elementary school I would wake up in the morning, get in the shower, and lay down in the tub with the shower running, and just use one of those jumbo shampoo bottles as a pillow and sleep some more
[QUOTE=Skwee;49380502]When I was in middle or elementary school I would wake up in the morning, get in the shower, and lay down in the tub with the shower running, and just use one of those jumbo shampoo bottles as a pillow and sleep some more[/QUOTE]
But then wouldn't you run out of warm water to wash with?
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well i didn't kill your friends dad[/quote]
But someone with the same exact logic as you did. They probably thought they were in control too. And that they were going to be just fine.
[QUOTE=Skwee;49380502]When I was in middle or elementary school I would wake up in the morning, get in the shower, and lay down in the tub with the shower running, and just use one of those jumbo shampoo bottles as a pillow and sleep some more[/QUOTE]
I've always wanted to take a nap in a hot shower. I like the sound and feel of the water coming out of the shower head, and lying down in the bath tub feels good too.
I've just never done it because I'm afraid I'll wake up freezing cold because I've run all the hot water out V:v:V
I swear, if I could live in hot water all day I would.
[QUOTE=Melnek;49380472]i don't sell guns to african kids my man, i just drive fast, but it's good to know that your moral compass reflects the two as being almost interchangeable [/QUOTE]
Might as well. What's the difference between an African kid shooting another kid and the front of your car impaling him? The end result is still unwarranted death. Don't pretend you're not going to hit someone because that's all it is - a pretend world where you're perfect and will never make mistakes. You've already failed at driving when you enter your car with that mindset. Get off the road and re-evaluate your life. Possibly check in with a therapist while you're at it. I'm being serious.
But let's be brutally honest with reality - you're not going to do anything. You like driving fast because it gives you the false superiority towards everyone else and some power over life. [I]"I'm in control. At any moment I could end my life or others but I won't because I'm just that damn good."[/I] Like I said, I'm hoping you roll off the side of a cliff instead of hitting another kid because it's the best of two possibilities. The third option is the best one - the possibility that you'll stop driving like an insane person - but you're not willing to let that happen. You won't take that option and therefore it's not a possibility. It's you dying or someone else dying that's going to stop you, and I'd rather you die than an innocent person.
You can blow it off like [I]we're[/I] all the crazy ones and I'm the craziest, but we all know what's going to happen. Any day now, you'll kill someone or some people, and it will be your fault, and no one feel bad for you or think you're a "badass" for driving too fast. You'll die with the recognition of being an asshole, or, worse for you, you'll live with that recognition. You're not that great, so stop pretending that you are. Stop going on this ridiculous power trip like you are powerful. You, as well as your vehicle, have limits, and you're pushing them to fuel your ego with the risk of hurting others, and as a result I can absolutely not care for you - you're a detriment.
Being locked up isn't a solution because I don't buy into the fact that you stop dangerously stroking your ego when you're out of the car. At least the African kid doesn't have a choice and is indoctrinated into being irrational - I'd rather try and save him instead of a lost cause with a stubborn outer wall.
melnek after the first post you should've stopped, you just keep digging yourself deeper and deeper
im just hoping that if somebody actually does die as a result of your actions you actually come to regret it instead of seeing it as a minor problem
[QUOTE=Melnek;49380472]i don't sell guns to african kids my man, i just drive fast, but it's good to know that your moral compass reflects the two as being almost interchangeable [/QUOTE]
"I'm not doing something totally abhorrent, so my reckless behaviour is fine"
Funny you should bring up guns. In almost every country in the world, you're more likely to die from a vehicle than be shot and killed.
I'm not 100% against death penalty but I see rotting in jail as a better solution because I don't believe there is something after life, so their suffering for what they did will be "over"
I'm only against the death penalty as far as not trusting our justice system. That stuff is broken. It's not an enforcer of justice, its and enforcement of law persuaded by emotions that can be easily persuaded by things as mundane as whether or not the judge has eaten lunch.
[QUOTE=Melnek;49378706]i am literally the biggest cunt on the road
you ever driven casually along and suddenly some fuckwad goes whooshing past you going 80 above the limit? that's me
i have a certain philosophy to street driving and cars in general, i think that people who are too afraid to test their capabilities and vehicle because they're too scared to wreck it are cowards and should just take a cab to their destinations instead of clogging up the road
i frequently push the throttle as much as i can especially in tight residential areas where my side mirrors and the side mirrors of the parked cars on the side of the road are literally inches apart, i needlessly overtake just for the sake of the thrill, and instead of braking before a curve i just slam on the gas
people say that one of these days a kid or something will jump unto the road and i won't notice him and i'll finally learn not to drive like an idiot jacked up on coke, but i just cant help it. i also do this when i'm driving with friends or girlfriend so by extension i risk their lives every single day.
i have been involved in several high speed accidents (none of which were my fault, surprisingly) but that never bothered me, because i judge road accidents on a case by case basis, instead of like a statistic. so i never get that 'psychological trauma' some people get after accidents.
what's funny is that people thought this habit of mine would go away as i get older but it just gotten worse and worse. i take even more risks now on the road than before simply because i'm more experienced in erratic driving than i had been and know better to calculate risks. or perhaps i'm just a cunt, i dont know
i'd post pictures of my banged up mazda 323s, but it's freezing out[/QUOTE]
People say I'm a judgemental person, but I find it totally justifiable to say that I hate you.
You think I want to learn how to drive when there's speed freaks like you breaking the sound barrier in a 20 MPH lane? I've already come close to death once because some bitch zoomed past me when I was trying to drive across the street.
[QUOTE=Melnek;49379909]also anecdotal stories aren't really interesting to me because i'm not that impressionable anymore.
the problem with the truck driver in your story was the fact that he decided it'd be a good idea to drink and drive, on a truck of all things. i won't lie and i'll say that i've driven under the influence before, and not just after a couple of beers, but after an entire night out drinking where i got smashed on an empty stomach. i had a savana passenger back then, and 6 other people riding with me. they all said i drove even better while intoxicated to shit - this is because some people who drink and drive take far extra care on the road because they are aware of the fact that they are drunk, and that makes them ten times as focused, simply out of fear and anxiety. it's a documented phenomena. it's why cops also pull over drivers who drive suspiciously slow.
on the other hand you have drivers who drink and crash head on with cars and kill entire families. it's, again, up to the individual. and anecdotal stories don't prove or disprove anything.[/QUOTE]
You belong in a mental institution, and nowhere else.
You're the kind of fuckface that's going to break a family and ruin a lotta people's life just because you GOTTA REV UP DAT ENGINE
Fuck you.
I live on this nice straight piece of quarter-mile long road between two stop lights
Hear people flooring it all the time.
also some fuckhead in the neighboring complex revving his engine for 10 minutes straight. idk wtf he is doing, maybe his defogger sucks balls.
[QUOTE=Skwee;49381517]I live on this nice straight piece of quarter-mile long road between two stop lights
Hear people flooring it all the time.
also some fuckhead in the neighboring complex revving his engine for 10 minutes straight. idk wtf he is doing, maybe his defogger sucks balls.[/QUOTE]
I love how you people complain about people revving cars, yet I lived on the coast for so long that I legitimately have more complaints about neighbours revving their [I]boats[/I] :v:.
[QUOTE=Skwee;49381517]I live on this nice straight piece of quarter-mile long road between two stop lights
Hear people flooring it all the time.
also some fuckhead in the neighboring complex revving his engine for 10 minutes straight. idk wtf he is doing, maybe his defogger sucks balls.[/QUOTE]
People break their muffler in order to attract attention to their MEGA MODIFIED HONDA CIVIC ARE YOU JEALOUS SON
Now I'm afraid to confess anything.
My poor ass can't stand againts this circle of judgement
Unless you are as asinine and repugnant as that last bloke your confession won't kick the hornets nest that hard
[QUOTE=hakimhakim;49382435]Now I'm afraid to confess anything.
My poor ass can't stand againts this circle of judgement[/QUOTE]
Don't worry about getting judged, I wasn't and I had some pretty weird confessions.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;49382565]same
like how do you confess you're into dudes and chicks when your dad catches you making out with a dude :v:[/QUOTE]
For some reason I find that to be cute as fuck.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;49382565]same
like how do you confess you're into dudes and chicks when your dad catches you making out with a dude :v:[/QUOTE]
I mean it seems kind of assumed at that point. I don't think a confession is necessary, although it is cute
Melnek, never drive a car ever fucking again. Drivers like you are why my mother has permanent back problems (slipping disks), because someone hit her fro behind. She was at a complete stop, and this asshole hit her going 60 in a 45 zone.
Everytime I drive, there's always at least one asshole who decides its a good idea to pass in a no pass zone, even though I'm already slightly above the limit (about 5 mph tops), yet they still do. There's no good reason to, and it'll get someone else killed.
i don't want to drive
i'll stick to bike lanes
but then I'd be taken out by a mad man spiraling out of control because he couldn't stop in time
I didn't know we had a sociopath on this forum huh
i dont wish death on people, but when melnek dies, ill be happier than i am right now.
[editline]24th December 2015[/editline]
and nobody here will ever know when it happens, but it will, and we'll all be safer when he finally eats pavement
[QUOTE=Anti Christ;49383278]i dont wish death on people, but when melnek dies, ill be happier than i am right now.
[editline]24th December 2015[/editline]
and nobody here will ever know when it happens, but it will, and we'll all be safer when he finally eats pavement[/QUOTE]
Maybe he will star in a live leak video.
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