• Girl halp!
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Few things that you should know if they aren't already obvious to you: -women are people too. Don't think you have to talk or be different around women. Just act like you're talking to a friend. Use common sense though, talking about fart jokes won't do. If you're still nervous and don't feel comfortable with your own speaking abilities, just talk to yourself in a mirror. Trust me, it sounds really cliche, but that's because it works. Most people don't feel comfortable with themselves because they think they look/sound like an idiot. Talking to a mirror solves both at once. -if you don't feel brave enough to ask her out up front, ask her to go do something small with you. Something small, like just go grab a drink from Starbucks or something. That'll give her the opportunity to decline your offer without having to say no to your face. Sometimes she'll really have something else planned. If she denies a reschedule or your asking her another time, back off, she basically said no. -Just be cool. People can sense nervousness very easily. That being said, I haven't found myself a girlfriend yet. A year ago I came pretty close, friendzoned + she kinda turned out to be a total bitch. I'm getting to know a girl who's a LOT nicer + a tad bit nerdier. She had a boyfriend for a few months, they broke up about a week ago. I want to ask her to just go somewhere after school, but I'm still trying to gauge the situation, I'm not sure if I'm quite in the friendzone yet or if enough time has passed since they broke up. Mainly the second one, but she seems happier now. Also, this thread belongs in the Love Advice forum, scroll all the way down to see it.
Don't post on her wall too much, message her too much or tell too much about your life right away.
[QUOTE=Sonicfan574;27723078]Kindergarteners (5-6 years old) dated at my old elementary school. No joke.[/QUOTE] Playerrrrssssss And it also seems like its half/half when it comes to the issue of talking more online or in the class, in class though I honestly don't have an opportunity to talk. My teacher is old fashion and OLD. We also sit pretty far away =/ She (teacher) sits us in alphabetical order. Meh, I may just sit by her on monday... I have the weekend to think though. I really want a relationship and I have been "scared" I guess and now that I think about it I have no reason to be. I think I just have to go for it and what happens happens?
[QUOTE=iusehax;27722530]14-15 is not 'almost' able to drive. 10 year olds dating is kinda weired though.[/QUOTE]Well I see kids so young as 5th grade with fucking SMARTPHONES so I don't find them dating weird either. It's just that the u=younger generation is becoming more mature in terms of social interaction (Now if only they could be more mature in terms of morals)
And remember, if she isn't interested in you, she most likely will NOT just come out and say it. She'll make excuses for not dating you, and possibly even lead you on.
if she has a phone and texts, try to get her number. just ask her whats up and start a simple conversation. or ask her for her number
[QUOTE=MutantBadger;27723170]Well I see kids so young as 5th grade with fucking SMARTPHONES so I don't find them dating weird either. It's just that the u=younger generation is becoming more mature in terms of social interaction (Now if only they could be more mature in terms of morals)[/QUOTE] Technology does not make up for maturity. Look at the 12 (and younger) year olds on Xbox Live.
[QUOTE=RebeccaChambers;27723202]Technology does not make up for maturity. Look at the 12 (and younger) year olds on Xbox Live.[/QUOTE]Read my post VEEERY carefully. You will notice that I separated social confrontations and xbox live (morals).
I still say dating is strictly for anyone 13+. Teens and adults only. [editline]28th January 2011[/editline] But hey, what do I know? I'm just another "old person" to the 12 and under crowd. [editline]28th January 2011[/editline] We should really get back on topic.
[QUOTE=NickL;27721367]Ok, so I know that this may not be the place to come for advice most of the time but I feel like maybe some of you could relate to my situation. So there is this girl who just came into my 9th grade English class and the other day I constantly noticed her looking over at me. Now, i think she is really pretty but I am a really shy guy and I don't think I could muster up enough courage/confidence to walk over to her, and even if I was able to what would I say? Basically I am asking for advice on how to handle this, I am not sure if she really even is into me but we both have in common that we transferred from out-of-district schools in the past 6 months so I think I could use this to my advantage. I also have never been in a relationship before, I COULD have been in about 3 or 4 but it seems like whenever I find out a girl likes me I act differentiable, I seem to like it when a girl has interest in me but I am afraid of a relationship? I really want to get over this and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions.[/QUOTE] You won't have any reproduction with that girl because you're piece of shit. Enjoy your hand.
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