• One of my close friends was murdered
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[QUOTE=tarpier;47219250]ok dude lol [/QUOTE] wow really you had to go there and post my pictures on this forum for what fucking reason?
[QUOTE=Dermock;47219260]So he gets a free pass to call me a neckbeard because he has +5 protection from some guy dying and i should respect that by just letting him insult me?[/QUOTE] Just get over it, your comment wasn't needed. If you want to be a whiny baby about the title, go bug the mods about it.
[QUOTE=Dermock;47219260]So he gets a free pass to call me a neckbeard because he has +5 protection from some guy dying and i should respect that by just letting him insult me?[/QUOTE] Nope, you should've respected him by never posting in the thread. And it's not "some guy" - perhaps you don't know the guy but if you read this was someone close to him. The world doesn't revolve around you dude.
SH really is the best subforum eh
[QUOTE=confinedUser;47219218]you obviously give no fucks to anyone in your life do you? because really fact of the matter is yes i'm fucked in the head, i've been beaten, starved, and humiliated all through school but i stand my ground for those that are closest to me because they took care of me and i will be damned if someone comes up and takes away the one person i loved. Sending them to prison doesn't fucking work like you all seem to think the fuck that did this is probably going to get released all over again and do the same shit so why not end it there. All i am saying is if you don't stand up for your closest friends especially in a scenario like this then really your a pussy.[/QUOTE] If a close friend of mine was murdered, I would be unbelievably livid. It's completely natural to want justice for someone you know was murdered. However, killing the person who murdered a friend is no better than what the person did. Murder doesn't solve anything, and killing someone to get revenge is just the same. It's best to let law enforcement bring them to justice rather than taking the law into your own hands.
[QUOTE=CM Punk;47219266]Just get over it, your comment wasn't needed. If you want to be a whiny baby about the title, go bug the mods about it.[/QUOTE] I'm not being a whiny baby - you're the one slinging insults mate. I simple said the title is shit because it is. It looks like a buzzfeed or reddit post. You put the center of the story in both the title and post on yourself rather than the victim to get attention and it's quite simply trashy.
close thread pls
[QUOTE=Dermock;47219234]My issue is that the title is less "wow this guy died and that's bad" and more "OH WOE IS ME MY FRIEND DIEDDDDD LOOK AT MEEEE"[/QUOTE] That's funny, because I and I'm sure many others read the title as "wow this guy died and that's bad, oh no op knew him that's also bad." I really don't know how you got your impression. Sorry about your friend, OP. Edit: On second thought, let's just go with this: [QUOTE=Bathtub;47219287]close thread pls[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Dermock;47219185]Titles like this really should be bannable.[/QUOTE] There's a big difference between titles such as "A friend I knew well was murdered" and the old, shit "this happened in my town!"
[QUOTE=Dermock;47219286]I'm not being a whiny baby - you're the one slinging insults mate. I simple said the title is shit because it is. It looks like a buzzfeed or reddit post. You put the center of the story in both the title and post on yourself rather than the victim to get attention and it's quite simply trashy.[/QUOTE] "Remember to refer to your friend's death with the proper terminology in the title of your post on a gaming forum." Who cares?
[QUOTE=confinedUser;47219043]if they dont find them before you do i hope you blast them the fuck up, i know i would.[/QUOTE] I F YOU WERE KILLED TOMORROW, I WOULDN'T GO 2 YOUR FUNERAL CAUSE ID BE IN JAIL 4 KILLING THE SUCKA THAT KILLED YOU. WE TRUE HOMIES. WE RIDE TOGETHER. WE DIE TOGETHER. send A GUN to everyone you care about, including me if you care. See how many times this GUN is sent to you, if you get 13 your A TRUE HOMIE …|..____________________, , / `—___________—-_____|] = • = ]]]]]]]]]]. / /_=;;;;;;;;_______./ ), —.(_(__) / // (..) ), —-” //____// //____// //____// Bang.. ???
[QUOTE=confinedUser;47219261]wow really you had to go there and post my pictures on this forum for what fucking reason?[/QUOTE] bruh your facebook is in your profile, you posted it lmfao
Holy fuck, this thread went to shit fast
Out of respect for my friend, could we keep the replies on topic from now on, please? I'd appreciate it, thanks guys.
[QUOTE=wauterboi;47219253]Or I'm accepting. Life is not a video game of Knights and Castles, no one has to "avenge" anything. But I'm content with being called a pussy instead of a "brave, caring soul" within your own standards.[/QUOTE] true, my apologies i've not taken a lexapro in the last few weeks mainly because they aren't mine they are my sister's but i cant keep taken them because she needs them i'm looking to get help for myself. It's just when i see or hear shit like this i can't help but feel the pain of losing loved ones because i've lost one too many :/ [editline]26th February 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=CM Punk;47219318]Out of respect for my friend, could we keep the replies on topic from now on, please? I'd appreciate it, thanks guys.[/QUOTE] i send my deepest condolences i wanted to send you a pm but i guess your not accepting them
[QUOTE=CM Punk;47219318]Out of respect for my friend, could we keep the replies on topic from now on, please? I'd appreciate it, thanks guys.[/QUOTE] When my friend was killed, the suspect for the murder was never dealt with. He wasn't captured. The only thing that came out of her death was her funeral. I implore you to focus your life on acceptance. My friend was one of the nicest people I had ever met, and completely undeserving the horrible death she got. It put a rip in my heart, but I focused on carrying on my life with the appreciation of who she was and with an attempt to emulate what I thought was so great about her. She cared about everybody and made everyone around her so happy, so I try my best to be kind to people. Do the same with your friend. I would assume he would want you to carry on with your life and appreciate the time you had together. Be inspired by who he was. Don't focus on the other things. Focus and accept.
[QUOTE=confinedUser;47219345]true, my apologies i've not taken a lexapro in the last few weeks mainly because they aren't mine they are my sister's but i cant keep taken them because she needs them i'm looking to get help for myself. It's just when i see or hear shit like this i can't help but feel the pain of losing loved ones because i've lost one too many :/ [editline]26th February 2015[/editline] i send my deepest condolences i wanted to send you a pm but i guess your not accepting them[/QUOTE] Thank you. Not sure why you can't send me a PM :S [editline]26th February 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=wauterboi;47219368]When my friend was killed, the suspect for the murder was never dealt with. He wasn't captured. The only thing that came out of her death was her funeral. I implore you to focus your life on acceptance. My friend was one of the nicest people I had ever met, and completely undeserving the horrible death she got. It put a rip in my heart, but I focused on carrying on my life with the appreciation of who she was and with an attempt to emulate what I thought was so great about her. She cared about everybody and made everyone around her so happy, so I try my best to be kind to people. Do the same with your friend. I would assume he would want you to carry on with your life and appreciate the time you had together. Be inspired by who he was. Don't focus on the other things. Focus and accept.[/QUOTE] Beautifully put my friend, thank you for that. Sorry about your loss as well.
[QUOTE=confinedUser;47219345]true, my apologies i've not taken a lexapro in the last few weeks mainly because they aren't mine they are my sister's but i cant keep taken them because she needs them i'm looking to get help for myself. It's just when i see or hear shit like this i can't help but feel the pain of losing loved ones because i've lost one too many :/ [editline]26th February 2015[/editline] i send my deepest condolences i wanted to send you a pm but i guess your not accepting them[/QUOTE] I'm going to be dead honest, if you're messed up at the moment you should take a break from Facepunch or at least work your way into the Depression thread. I totally get being messed up because of problems with medication, so I understand some of the strange lashing out and I'll forgive you, but you gotta focus on getting that help. [editline]26th February 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=CM Punk;47219369]Beautifully put my friend, thank you for that. Sorry about your loss as well.[/QUOTE] What makes me happy is I told her about a week before her death exactly how I felt about her. It wasn't romantic or anything, it was just an appreciation. Anyone is capable of being destroyed in an instant, and I think it's up to everyone to do what they can beforehand. Tell people how you feel, don't spend energy on the people that don't matter, etc. I'm sure your friend had that strong bond with you for a reason, and even if you didn't explain how you felt in a verbose matter, you've had that strong bond to explain everything. I'm sure he felt the same way about you.
[QUOTE=wauterboi;47219377]I'm going to be dead honest, if you're messed up at the moment you should take a break from Facepunch or at least work your way into the Depression thread. I totally get being messed up because of problems with medication, so I understand some of the strange lashing out and I'll forgive you, but you gotta focus on getting that help. [editline]26th February 2015[/editline] What makes me happy is I told her about a week before her death exactly how I felt about her. It wasn't romantic or anything, it was just an appreciation. Anyone is capable of being destroyed in an instant, and I think it's up to everyone to do what they can beforehand. Tell people how you feel, don't spend energy on the people that don't matter, etc. I'm sure your friend had that strong bond with you for a reason, and even if you didn't explain how you felt in a verbose matter, you've had that strong bond to explain everything. I'm sure he felt the same way about you.[/QUOTE] Gonna make me cry :( Still hasn't really hit me. I know once I see him at the funeral it will for sure.
The funeral is where I broke down into tears. I'm not necessarily one for funerals.
I'm sorry for your loss OP, hope the killer is found so you can have some closure.
[QUOTE=wauterboi;47219468]The funeral is where I broke down into tears. I'm not necessarily one for funerals.[/QUOTE] I already lost my aunt a month ago, watched her pass away.. That was really tough. Now I lose my friend and my other aunt is dying from breast cancer. 2015 kicking me in the balls. [QUOTE=nomad1;47219477]I'm sorry for your loss OP, hope the killer is found so you can have some closure.[/QUOTE] Thank you nomad.
Snipping the sarcastic comment. Sorry for your loss, OP. Seek out help if you need to. Try not to be alone too long.
I think it'd be better to have this thread in GD.
Sorry for your loss CM Punk, can't imagine what you're going through right now
sorry about your friend.
Surrey's pretty fucked these days, like a week before christmas a guy I knew and went to school with was stabbed 17 times after he left school. He was able to run to someones house for help but ended up dying in the hospital. Guy was only 17 too, just about to graduate highschool. Stay strong op.
I don't have a ton of experience with death but I'll be here if you need to talk, we all are. This goes for anyone about anything, really.
[QUOTE=confinedUser;47219103]at that point i would not give two fucks, if someone murdered my closest friend who i consider like a brother to me, we grew up together and been through shit i would most definitely kill someone i've been through a lot of shit through my life and chilling with him and smoking a blunt is one of the only ways i can calm down when i have a meltdown. So with that being said i'm not some crazy ass dude that goes around wanting to kill people but this scenario calls for it indefinitely. You want me to be real about it i'd rather see that bitch bleed out on the street rather than get locked up and be released years later to do it to someone else.[/QUOTE] So if one of your friends was killed, he would want you to avenge him and then spend possibly life in prison? Sounds like a true friend man.
Shit like this makes me realize how mortal I am. It's hard to imagine ever finding oneself in a life or death situation like that. My condolences OP, I'm sorry to hear your friend's promising life was cut short. The person or people involved will be brought to stand trial for their crime.
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