Couple wrongly accused of abuse ‘unlikely to see their child again’.
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[QUOTE=itisjuly;48858431]Ah yes, instead lets traumatize the child. That's so much better. Genius.[/QUOTE]
The toddler knows who his real parents are. He calls them Mummy and Daddy and he obviously wants to be with them. It sucks that the adopting family will not be able to take care of the kid as they wanted to but the kid has a loving family that wants to care for him. Someone should probably arrange to get the adopting family a new child with all their expenses paid.
Wow what a load of horseshit those doctors should lose their license for life.
[QUOTE=proch;48857217]There's no telling how much the revelation of adoption can damage the childs mental health in the future, which makes that a moot point.[/QUOTE]
Why would revelation of adoption damage someone's mental health?
Like, seems to be "common knowledge" to be somehow horrifying to hear to be adopted, but I cannot relate. If the adoptive parents are good parents, what difference does it make to know that they're not biological parents?
[QUOTE=proch;48857217]There's no telling how much the revelation of adoption can damage the childs mental health in the future, which makes that a moot point.[/QUOTE]
If you're adopted, you know you're adopted. My parents told me when I was about 3-4 I was adopted from birth and that was basically the end of it, it had no bearing on my feelings towards them, and I still view them as my parents. At this point, he was born and living with his real family, only to be ripped away because they cared about his health and sought help at a hospital. You'd have to be a real monster to believe it's better to let the adopted parents keep the child from his real parents who love him and can take care of him.
In short two decades later this kid will track down his real parents and ask them why? and this is assuming they stay toghter given that their life has been totally destroyed by the government.
[QUOTE=Svinnik;48858479]The toddler knows who his real parents are. He calls them Mummy and Daddy and he obviously wants to be with them. It sucks that the adopting family will not be able to take care of the kid as they wanted to but the kid has a loving family that wants to care for him. Someone should probably arrange to get the adopting family a new child with all their expenses paid.[/QUOTE]
Best case scenario, this can be the start of a friendship between the families, perhaps the Adopters could get a honorary Uncle and Aunt status?
That's very idealistic though, to the point of naivety.
[QUOTE=itisjuly;48858431]Ah yes, instead lets traumatize the child. That's so much better. Genius.
Just ask the kid and let him decide.
Also yes, many parents who lose their first child due to death later choose to have another one. It's that "easy".[/QUOTE]
Traumatize the child? How? The only people that would be affected are the adopting parents and that's lesser so than the alternatives
[QUOTE=itisjuly;48858431]Ah yes, instead lets traumatize the child. That's so much better. Genius.
Just ask the kid and let him decide.
Also yes, many parents who lose their first child due to death later choose to have another one. It's that "easy".[/QUOTE]
I hardly believe the 3 year old is going to experience trauma after he's put with his birth parents considering he already knows they're his birth parents.
[QUOTE=Kyle902;48870616]I hardly believe the 3 year old is going to experience trauma after he's put with his birth parents considering he already knows they're his birth parents.[/QUOTE]
At that age children have some idea who their mother and father are, so naturally they will ask why are my mother and father going away? what have i done wrong, etc.
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