13-Year-Old Girl Dies By Suicide After Dad Shares Public Shaming Video
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[QUOTE=EpikEnvy2.0;47893980]So have I, though? Shit, it started in first grade for me and lasted until tenth (where people generally chill out). Somewhere out there on MySpace or wherever, there are at least seven videos of me being half asleep then getting slapped in the face, then getting shared to my peers. I've been pantsed infront of the class, had people actually ram my head facedown into a table and chipped a tooth, and if there's anything else that happened I've forgotten it. I'm not underestimating bullying. It sucks, and I wouldn't wish it to happen to anyone. Hell, I had my head shaved after getting gum stuck in it and it sucked for about a week but everyone shut up and got over it.
It would've blown over. It always does.[/QUOTE]
Your experience does not mean it's like that for everyone. People, children especially, are effected by bullying and public humiliation to the point where it can very easily develop mental disorders, problems at home, effect their grades, etc.
Just because you were able to come back from it doesn't mean everyone can.
[QUOTE=Paramud;47893988]I would like to refer to this post[/QUOTE]
I do not consider the methods my parents used to punish me to have been abusive towards me. That was how you punished your kids in the 80's and 90's
[QUOTE=Snoberry Tea;47893989]I seriously doubt any kid would despise/fear a parent for [i]taking their cell phone charger[/i] as a form of punishment.[/QUOTE]
I can tell you've never met a modern-day teenager.
Also, the despise would come not from the punishment itself, but the parents "gleeful-ness" in it. Think about it, how much would you laugh or shrug off somebody slicing your car-tires?
[QUOTE=Van-man;47893983]That thing called mental trauma must be unheard to you.
The mind is at its most fragile state during the teenage years.[/QUOTE]
If I get a bad haircut and my dickhole sister posts a photo of it on Facebook, I'm not going to commit suicide. She had other shit going on in her life, but to say that all of this is solely the result of the haircut is wrong.
[QUOTE=butre;47893991]"grown child"
hair grows back. Whether you think so or not, and whether she thinks so or not, losing some hair isn't a big deal.[/QUOTE]
You're marginalizing the impact it has, especially considering how fixated teenagers are on their appearance.
Even such a thing that you can't grasp the importance of is literally make-or-break for others.
[QUOTE=Snoberry Tea;47894009]I do not consider the methods my parents used to punish me to have been abusive towards me. That was how you punished your kids in the 80's and 90's[/QUOTE]
You're quite literally saying hitting your children and forcing them to consume chemicals that can be harmful to them (soap) to teach them a lesson is not child abuse.
I'm just going to assume you're trolling at this point, nobody can possibly be this dense.
[QUOTE=butre;47893991]"grown child"
hair grows back. Whether you think so or not, and whether she thinks so or not, losing some hair isn't a big deal.[/QUOTE]
Uh.
It's a big deal to hundreds of thousands of teenagers across the world, I'm sure.
[QUOTE=EpikEnvy2.0;47894014]If I get a bad haircut and my dickhole sister posts a photo of it on Facebook, I'm not going to commit suicide. She had other shit going on in her life, but to say that all of this is solely the result of the haircut is wrong.[/QUOTE]
Cool story tough guy, nice to know you can't relate to others and instead project your own feelings and stance
[QUOTE=Van-man;47894018]You're marginalizing the impact it has, especially considering how fixated teenagers are on their appearance.
Even such a thing that you can't grasp the importance of is literally make-or-break for others.[/QUOTE]
yes thanks that was the social stigma and hormonal imbalances thing I mentioned earlier.
[QUOTE=Coyoteze;47894010]I can tell you've never met a modern-day teenager.
Also, the despise would come not from the punishment itself, but the parents "gleeful-ness" in it. Think about it, how much would you laugh or shrug off somebody slicing your car-tires?[/QUOTE]
You are assuming I'm going to go parading around the house clutching their power cords, laughing maniacally in their faces about the current situation of events.
I would take the cords, tell them exactly why I'm doing it, and give them a list of chores to do to earn the cords back.
[QUOTE=butre;47893991]"grown child"
hair grows back. Whether you think so or not, and whether she thinks so or not, losing some hair isn't a big deal.[/QUOTE]
losing hair isn't the big deal. the big deal is that she's in middle school, and a girl with no hair is going to be relentlessly bullied for [I]years.[/I] I knew a kid in middle school who somehow got a herpes infection on his eye for like 3 days - relentlessly bullied and made fun of until he graduated high school. there are people who shit their pants in elementary school who would get bullied until high school. There's no rationale for bullying - a girl with super short hair is fucked, especially since she was already being bullied.
[QUOTE=s5300;47893841]Have fun when your kids end up dead on the street because you didn't teach them discipline and they get in to drugs and gangs.
This is real life, like goddamn.[/QUOTE]
Welcome to the mind of s5300 where your life options are to be beaten as a child or wind up dead from drugs
[QUOTE=Snoberry Tea;47894030]You are assuming I'm going to go parading around the house clutching their power cords, laughing maniacally in their faces about the current situation of events.
I would take the cords, tell them exactly why I'm doing it, and give them a list of chores to do to earn the cords back.[/QUOTE]
Literally nobody cares about your weird fascination with punishing children.
[QUOTE=EpikEnvy2.0;47894014]If I get a bad haircut and my dickhole sister posts a photo of it on Facebook, I'm not going to commit suicide. She had other shit going on in her life, but to say that all of this is solely the result of the haircut is wrong.[/QUOTE]
Except:
A) You're (likely) a grown adult with the emotional stability of a grown adult
B) Your physique and looks will not affect your social status
C) Your bad haircut would not be the result of a public-shaming punishment intended to teach you a lesson
[QUOTE=Snoberry Tea;47894009]I do not consider the methods my parents used to punish me to have been abusive towards me. That was how you punished your kids in the 80's and 90's[/QUOTE]
I'm fully aware that child abuse was more common then, thank you.
[QUOTE=Pascall;47894038]Literally nobody cares about your weird fascination with punishing children.[/QUOTE]
that's real interesting because you fuckers filled 5 pages with it
[QUOTE=butre;47894027]yes thanks that was the social stigma and hormonal imbalances thing I mentioned earlier.[/QUOTE]
I'm pretty damn sure even some adults who's otherwise perfectly fine would be absolutely devastated if they were forcibly given a haircut.
[QUOTE=Snoberry Tea;47893971]My childhood wasn't abusive, thanks.[/QUOTE]
It's absolutely amazing how one poster can turn an entire thread into a large shitty argument by being so much in denial while literally everybody is against him.
It's like you are immune to reasoning and logic.
[QUOTE=Coyoteze;47894021]You're quite literally saying hitting your children and forcing them to consume chemicals that can be harmful to them (soap) to teach them a lesson is not child abuse.
I'm just going to assume you're trolling at this point, nobody can possibly be this dense.[/QUOTE]
No. I'm saying I don't consider how they raised me to be child abuse TO ME. As in specifically my situation. Not a blanket "all spanking/washing mouths out with soap is 100% ok all the time go for it"
I'm saying [i]I personally[/i] do not feel like I was abused. And I take offense when people tell me my parents abused me or were shit parents for it because I disagree they were my parents and I loved them.
[QUOTE=Van-man;47894046]I'm pretty damn sure even some adults who's otherwise perfectly fine would be absolutely devastated if they were forcibly given a haircut.[/QUOTE]
social stigma still exists for adults
[QUOTE=Snoberry Tea;47894049]No. I'm saying I don't consider how they raised me to be child abuse TO ME. As in specifically my situation. Not a blanket "all spanking/washing mouths out with soap is 100% ok all the time go for it"
I'm saying [i]I personally[/i] do not feel like I was abused. And I take offense when people tell me my parents abused me or were shit parents for it because I disagree they were my parents and I loved them.[/QUOTE]
You don't feel like it's abuse because you're in denial.
[QUOTE=Pascall;47894038]Literally nobody cares about your weird fascination with punishing children.[/QUOTE]
Wait shit I just noticed your screen name. When did you get unmodded, Pascall?
[QUOTE=.Isak.;47894033]losing hair isn't the big deal. the big deal is that she's in middle school, and a girl with no hair is going to be relentlessly bullied for [I]years.[/I] I knew a kid in middle school who somehow got a herpes infection on his eye for like 3 days - relentlessly bullied and made fun of until he graduated high school. there are people who shit their pants in elementary school who would get bullied until high school. There's no rationale for bullying - a girl with super short hair is fucked, especially since she was already being bullied.[/QUOTE]
The fact that her father did it and publicised video of it makes it a perfect kind of ammo for bullies, from 'jokes' about his skills as a barber all the way to the 'your parents don't love you' zone.
Bullying can be true hell on Earth.
[QUOTE=Pascall;47893852]Discipline is not abuse.[/QUOTE]
Cutting hair isn't abuse. Idiot.
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[QUOTE=butre;47894055]social stigma still exists for adults[/QUOTE]
Social stigma is not under the control of one teenager, though??
Yes it exists, this is why people are not okay with not being in control of their own appearance. Yes it exists, which is why bullying happens. Yes, it exists which is why this was such a bad idea.
[QUOTE=Paramud;47894057]You don't feel like it's abuse because you're in denial.[/QUOTE]
Whatever you say dude.
[QUOTE=butre;47894055]social stigma still exists for adults[/QUOTE]
That doesn't change that fact that it's a no-go thing to do.
Instead it seems like you're trying to derail the discussion.
[QUOTE=s5300;47894062]Cutting hair isn't abuse. Idiot.[/QUOTE]
could very well be to a female 13 year old just-barely teenager, where how you look and the status at school is one of the most important things in your life most likely
[url]http://www.education.com/reference/article/Ref_Adolescents_Body/[/url]
This is a good reference for information on teenagers and body image.
[editline]6th June 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=s5300;47894062]Cutting hair isn't abuse. Idiot.
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Except it really is under these circumstances.
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