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Reading through the thread, sgman didn't say anything even remotely related to what you guys are accusing him of. At the same time, both sides here are intimating things and seeing whatever they want to see. This is the quote that triggered so many people in this thread: [QUOTE=sgman91;48233169] half the stuff called vicitim blaming is just people trying to give advice to people for the future. For example, you can both say, "Hey, women probably shouldn't go down dark alleys alone in bad areas of a big city," [b]while also not blaming women who do and get mugged/raped.[/b][/QUOTE] Notice how he's not posthumously wishing rape and death on people for not following his patriarchal instructions? Also how he literally says people who do get mugged/raped should not be blamed for it? If you really, actually read the above sentence and only see "women who get mugged/raped probably deserve it because they were probably dressing like a slut" then you need to turn off your internet and take a break for a few days to calm down. I don't know why I bother with this, none of you guys ever stick around for longer than the third page. You just get pissy at people and say "the fact that anyone anywhere disagrees with me proves my point" (nice circular logic, btw) then leave before anyone can respond and only come back if you can make some schway zinger. [QUOTE=Conscript;48233599] but in doing so you prove the feminist's point about society, sex, and 'rape culture'. You admit what they criticize is real, you're just trying to 'help' them by telling them to adjust to it, when no individual should accept such a thing.[/QUOTE] This is circular logic. The fact that someone disagrees with your point proves your point. It means even if you are wrong you can't really be 'wrong' wrong.
[QUOTE=gufu;48235200]This isn't the first time this happened and I am not the only with whom you had this problem. This is also not the first time you felt back to this strategy of "Oh, I didn't mean that/I didn't say that". I pointed out what you said and you are apparently offended that your words have been "Misunderstood". We're not lawyers, fighting over the exact wording does not change the general message of your, well, message. And if you don't want people to misunderstand you, explain yourself properly and clearly.[/QUOTE] I'll leave it up to the readers to decide. In my opinion it's preeminently obvious that you didn't respond to what I said, and obviously you think the opposite.
Bad Reading really needs to make a comeback, but it's not like it would matter, cause ratings are disabled in SH. People really like to read into what sgman writes, and they always pull this bullshit when they get called out. I have no trouble knowing what sgman intends with what he writes. It's insane the sort of mental gymnastics that can happen to get to this point.
[QUOTE=sgman91;48233169][B]That's an incredibly massive claim[/B] that I'm certain you don't have support for. Also, [B]half the stuff called vicitim blaming is just[/B] people trying to give advice to people for the future.[/QUOTE] Ridiculous.
Man this shit makes me scared to ever have sex in college. I know that the actual likelyhood of this sort of thing happening to me is low, but still...
[QUOTE=TornadoAP;48239407]Man this shit makes me scared to ever have sex in college. I know that the actual likelyhood of this sort of thing happening to me is low, but still...[/QUOTE] Very low likelihood. I'll just spit out the chances of you being falsely accused of rape are FAR lower than the risk of a woman being raped in college. I'm on my phone so it's frustrating to paste links, but if you still want the percentage of rape cases that turn out to be false accusations, I'll get it for you later. You can prevent it by educating yourself on consent if you're not too familiar with it already. I wouldn't say avoid one night stands with almost complete strangers, but I'd recommend seeking out people that you know very well, or simply just pursue longer term monogamous relationships.
[QUOTE=djshox;48239513]Very low likelihood. I'll just spit out the chances of you being falsely accused of rape are FAR lower than the risk of a woman being raped in college.[/QUOTE] What's the definition of rape here? Because this case would've been a legit rape case if he didn't have the proof that states otherwise.
[QUOTE=SgtCr4zyGunz;48239021]Ridiculous.[/QUOTE] You're right, If I were able to go back in time, I would change it to "much of the stuff." Using a definite term like "half" is unsupportable. You're passive aggressive attitude isn't helping anyone. Just point out my mistake and I'll happily admit it.
[QUOTE=SgtCr4zyGunz;48239021]Ridiculous.[/QUOTE] Encouraging women to not take proactive measures to defend themselves, their loved ones, and their property ultimately dispowers them.
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