[QUOTE=Covalent;51765698]I trust a website just as much as I trust teachers teaching sexual education, which is basically null.
Parents should be the teachers.[/QUOTE]
At the very least, American parents should not be trusted to deliver sexual education
[QUOTE=Covalent;51765698]
Porn isn't good for anyone. It's actually bad for the mind.[/QUOTE]
How exactly, and can you provide legitimate sources? :v:
[QUOTE=gk99;51766634]Mom and dad don't always know best, you know.
My school's sex ed was optional and went over the pure science of what happens and didn't force any opinions or propaganda down my throat. What would having my Christian you-should-practice-abstinence and swearing-is-the-devil parents be better at teaching me? Sex ed, or how to follow Christian morals?[/QUOTE]
Too bloody right. Just because someone's part of a certain field, doesn't mean they're any good at what they're doing in it. Do unwilling fathers and accidental mothers automatically become experts at taking care of their young, just because the child exists? Nope, universe don't work that way. There are a few changes here and there, perhaps, but it's not nearly enough to bump them up from novice to expert.
[QUOTE="Pornhub page on consent"]A person who is drunk or on drugs cannot give their consent to sex since their ability to make decisions is impaired.[/QUOTE]
TIL I've been raped a few times. Thanks Pornhub!
[QUOTE=meek;51770068]TIL I've been raped a few times. Thanks Pornhub![/QUOTE]
Pretty much
[QUOTE=Pornhub page on consent]Most of us of course want our sexual partner to be happy and comfortable. So the only way to know for sure is if they tell you, since it may be hard to tell just by looking at them. Many times we might look like we are ok, but inside it may not feel great. This is why it’s important to ask the right questions. You can try the following:
[B][I]Are you ok with this? Do you want me to continue? Are you comfortable? Do you want me to stop?[/I][/B][/QUOTE]
Ahh the most intimate questions you can ask during intercourse.
[QUOTE=Npc_Hydra3;51770204]Ahh the most intimate questions you can ask during intercourse.[/QUOTE]
While it might be alien to you, due to lack of experience, being able to identify that your partner's reaction during sex is damn important. That's what elevates you from shit-tier sex partner to someone whom is legit great to have sex with: Not technique, not physique, but ability to observe your partner and communicate with them what you and most importantly, THEY, want.
[QUOTE=gufu;51770243]While it might be alien to you, due to lack of experience, being able to identify that your partner's reaction during sex is damn important. That's what elevates you from shit-tier sex partner to someone whom is legit great to have sex with: Not technique, not physique, but ability to observe your partner and communicate with them what you and most importantly, THEY, want.[/QUOTE]
Yeah but as you said that's done through observation and communication that's not bluntly asking if they are okay with what you are doing every five minutes. If you actually have to ask that question you're not doing a very good job at observating and it's more likely to irritate your partner after a while rather than turn them on.
[QUOTE=_Axel;51770266]Yeah but as you said that's done through observation and communication that's not bluntly asking if they are okay with what you are doing every five minutes. If you actually have to ask that question you're not doing a very good job at observating and it's more likely to irritate your partner after a while rather than turn them on.[/QUOTE]
I mean, it doesn't say anywhere "REPEAT EVERY FIVE MINUTES". And besides, observation is a skill. If you have a constant partner, it's something you have to learn, and is best learned through direct communications with them. Like what, you can't hold your boner if you need to check in with how they're doing?
[QUOTE=gufu;51770287]I mean, it doesn't say anywhere "REPEAT EVERY FIVE MINUTES". And besides, observation is a skill. If you have a constant partner, it's something you have to learn, and is best learned through direct communications with them. Like what, you can't hold your boner if you need to check in with how they're doing?[/QUOTE]
Nah but I used to be a bit nagging with that sort of questions before and my GF seemed to prefer I be more confident in what I am doing.
[QUOTE=_Axel;51770301]Nah but I used to be a bit nagging with that sort of questions before and my GF seemed to prefer I be more confident in what I am doing.[/QUOTE]
Can't be confident if you aren't familiar with your partner/know much about what your doing. Hey, everyone starts as a virgin, can't expect anyone to start confident without proper knowledge and practice.
[QUOTE=Covalent;51765715]Arguable. Porn can be pretty infectious, and I'm sure it doesn't help. Body types can be a personal development, but I'm sure it doesn't help when most of the women in porn are slim, slender, and usually gone through surgery in some shape or form.
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Fucking bullshit. Entire life loved to look at slim bodies of girls both porn and in real life, yet all my girlfriends who I find absolutely smashing are a bit on the chubby side.
[QUOTE=CruelAddict;51770323]Fucking bullshit. Entire life loved to look at slim bodies of girls both porn and in real life, yet all my girlfriends who I find absolutely smashing are a bit on the chubby side.[/QUOTE]
[URL="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19628142"]damn[/URL] [URL="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-lies-trauma/201107/effects-porn-adolescent-boys"]dude[/URL] [URL="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18569538"]you[/URL] [URL="http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1559-1816.1988.tb00027.x/full"]busted[/URL] [URL="http://research.ku.dk/search/?pure=en/publications/pornography-consumption--a-study-of-prevalence-rates-consumption-patterns-and-effects(5625f78a-e6ed-4223-822e-2e002fe9ac95)/export.html"]it[/URL]
[QUOTE=TheDuck;51766213]I don't like the way they tell about [url=http://www.pornhub.com/sex/the-withdrawal-method/]pulling out method[/url]. Nobody should ever trust pulling out as the only form of protection, but their stance about it seemed like "it's okay to only pull out if you're good enough".[/QUOTE]It actually works surprisingly well although whether it's a method they should be teaching kids is I think something else entirely. I wouldn't trust children and young teens with the ability and skill to properly pull out and honestly I think it's something that should be just kept off the education area.
[QUOTE=Revelificent;51773796]It actually works surprisingly well although whether it's a method they should be teaching kids is I think something else entirely. I wouldn't trust children and young teens with the ability and skill to properly pull out and honestly I think it's something that should be just kept off the education area.[/QUOTE]
I disagree. It should be included, because it's a method that's going to be mentioned around people, anyway. What's important, is to mention that it is not a very effective method of contraception.
[QUOTE=Crumpet;51770350][URL="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19628142"]damn[/URL] [URL="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-lies-trauma/201107/effects-porn-adolescent-boys"]dude[/URL] [URL="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18569538"]you[/URL] [URL="http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1559-1816.1988.tb00027.x/full"]busted[/URL] [URL="http://research.ku.dk/search/?pure=en/publications/pornography-consumption--a-study-of-prevalence-rates-consumption-patterns-and-effects(5625f78a-e6ed-4223-822e-2e002fe9ac95)/export.html"]it[/URL][/QUOTE]
First two links talk about expectations, not preferences.
You can expect to like slim bodies but you will end up not liking them in real life, because porn is, first and foremost, a fantasy.
[QUOTE=Revelificent;51773796]It actually works surprisingly well although whether it's a method they should be teaching kids is I think something else entirely. I wouldn't trust children and young teens with the ability and skill to properly pull out and honestly I think it's something that should be just kept off the education area.[/QUOTE]
No it doesn't and you're bullshitting yourself if you think it does
Everyone who pulls out thinks they're "good at it" until guess what, they have a baby now
my existence is testament to this fact
[QUOTE=gufu;51770243]While it might be alien to you, due to lack of experience, being able to identify that your partner's reaction during sex is damn important. That's what elevates you from shit-tier sex partner to someone whom is legit great to have sex with: Not technique, not physique, but ability to observe your partner and communicate with them what you and most importantly, THEY, want.[/QUOTE]
I wasn't saying it isn't however but blatant ass question such as those are just stupid and in no way important if you already communicate with them. The way the article put is that you have to ask every couple of minutes if they still consent or if it has been revoked like a drivers license. I'm not saying it's not important to have communication and be on the same level as your partner but I mean the way they worded it is halfway through you need to reassure that they are still consenting and you haven't started the [I]rape[/I] sesh
[QUOTE=TheDuck;51766213]I don't like the way they tell about [url=http://www.pornhub.com/sex/the-withdrawal-method/]pulling out method[/url]. Nobody should ever trust pulling out as the only form of protection, but their stance about it seemed like "it's okay to only pull out if you're good enough".[/QUOTE]
While it's true that the pull out method is actually "fairly effective" and really not [I]that[/I] far off plain old condoms in average use, it's really bad advice to say it's okay. Condoms are still better at preventing pregnancy, and you really need to stress the point that they also prevent STIs - teaching a teenager that pulling out is an okay way to prevent pregnancy in a casual encounter is a really bad idea. If you're not with a long term partner, use a condom, and if you are with a long term partner, get some more reliable birth control (pills are basically a 100%, and you get to go in without using a rubber). Basically, pulling out is not a suitable alternative to condoms when you're having causal sex, and if you're in a relationship you'd be stupid not to use a way safer alternative.
[QUOTE=Npc_Hydra3;51770204]Ahh the most intimate questions you can ask during intercourse.[/QUOTE]
Uhh, intimacy isn't as important as one's comfort/well being in this instance. Being able to notice someone's not 100% involved and asking is the difference between you being charged with rape or not. Take it from someone who's been date raped before, waking up and feeling absolutely disgusted with one's self, feeling used and just filthy. It's a unique feeling, and not in a good way.
As to the pull-out thing. I'd wager they should probably combine pull-out with using a condom because that's the only way I'd ever say telling kids that pulling out is an okay form of birth control. Young people generally aren't as capable of controlling themselves in bed due to the lack of experience and accidentally going one thrust too many is the difference between potentially getting a baby and not.
[QUOTE=TheDuck;51766213]I don't like the way they tell about [url=http://www.pornhub.com/sex/the-withdrawal-method/]pulling out method[/url]. Nobody should ever trust pulling out as the only form of protection, but their stance about it seemed like "it's okay to only pull out if you're good enough".[/QUOTE]
I can sorta understand saying "you can do it if you're good enough". The problem I have is that a large amount of teens are probably overconfident and think "I know I'm good enough" when they're absolutely not. I don't really like that it's written this way because of that. Honestly I would like it if it just wasn't on there at all because it's not very safe, but I guess noting its existence is maybe important?
[QUOTE=Covalent;51765715]Arguable. Porn can be pretty infectious, and I'm sure it doesn't help. Body types can be a personal development, but I'm sure it doesn't help when most of the women in porn are slim, slender, and usually gone through surgery in some shape or form.
I'm glad that the website is just information, but I'm just voicing my opinion on the subject. It can be wrong, but it's a different viewpoint on pornography.[/QUOTE]
There's no shortage of bbw videos on Pornhub. Trust me.
another reason to wear my pornhub t shirt
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