• Porn Site xHamster Is Shaming Users For “Rape” Searches
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[QUOTE=Take_Opal;50495413]Rape fetish porn is still [B]fantasizing[/B] about rape... I can't see how anyone can try to argue that appealing to rape fetishes doesn't perpetrate rape as something to romanticize or fantasize about.[/QUOTE] That's what it is, a fantasy and nothing more. There are people on the internet that jerk off to being swallowed whole by monsters, most of them don't actually want to be eaten alive in real life.
If you search "dad and daughter" or "mom and son" all the results have the title "NOT dad and NOT daughter." or "Mom and NOT son." xHamster is absolutely fucking pathetic. On one hand liberal enough to have a, ya know, fucking porn site. On the other hand, too liberal to have anything that people might find fucked up. Fetishes are fetishes. Just because a girl screams daddy while taking dick doesn't mean she wants her dad to fuck her. Just because a guy watches hardcore porn doesn't mean he wants to go raping. What the fuck agenda is xHamster even trying to push here?
I guess I need professional psychological help for running around in GTA beating people to death with a hammer. If xHamster doesn't want to perpetrate rape culture as they claim, why do they still continue to host those videos on their site?
Then when that stupid message pops up the person who received it will go to another site??? They'll read and immediately just go to another site that doesn't bullshit them. I really don't know what they expected to accomplish here. Do they really think this will stop someone and make them go "gee wilikers my sexual deviance sure is socially frowned upon, I better find mental help!" ? As far as I'm aware most if not all fetishes are socially frowned upon due to their very nature of being sexual feteshes. What about the other countless feteshes that has someone dominating somone? Why would you go out of your way to target one specific fetish (if its done legally and is between 2 consenting adults of course)? Its like a sub-genre of domination.
[QUOTE=WoodenSpoon;50495462]I guess I need professional psychological help for running around in GTA beating people to death with a hammer. If xHamster doesn't want to perpetrate rape culture as they claim, why do they still continue to host those videos on their site?[/QUOTE] Because they don't actually give a shit about that and all they want is media attention?
most of these porn sites profit off of stolen content anyway so fuck them [editline]11th June 2016[/editline] I agree that overexposure to hardcore fetish shit can effect you irl but this isn't the way to go about preventing that [editline]11th June 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=AaronM202;50495028]Ew, did they use the term "rape culture" unironically.[/QUOTE] well its a real thing?
[QUOTE=ThatCrazyGmanV2;50495565] I agree that overexposure to hardcore fetish shit can effect you irl but this isn't the way to go about preventing that [/QUOTE] How is it going to affect people any more than watching films will affect people?
[QUOTE=Chernobyl426;50495437]If you search "dad and daughter" or "mom and son" all the results have the title "NOT dad and NOT daughter." or "Mom and NOT son." xHamster is absolutely fucking pathetic. On one hand liberal enough to have a, ya know, fucking porn site. On the other hand, too liberal to have anything that people might find fucked up. Fetishes are fetishes. Just because a girl screams daddy while taking dick doesn't mean she wants her dad to fuck her. Just because a guy watches hardcore porn doesn't mean he wants to go raping. What the fuck agenda is xHamster even trying to push here?[/QUOTE] Hate to be pedantic since the whole comparison and contrast between parties can be distracting and polarizing, but I don't think it's very liberal to limit what people can enjoy. At some point, you and I might realize the people who claim to be the most progressive and liberal are actually very conservative. It all loops around. I want to make that distinction because a lot of liberal causes end up lost because people are conflating it with the most extreme feminists and social justice warriors. It really stagnates progress for the people who do legitimately want to defeat rape culture in their own way. I totally believe that rape culture is a thing and that we contribute it, but it's not fictional rape that is creating that idea. It's the idea of being owed a woman, and that is something you'll find infecting many types of fiction and as a byproduct of people who don't know boundaries with women, and I think that this is at most raising awareness and at worst distracting people from the legitimate attempts to combat rape culture.
Fair enough. The biggest issue with the new age of liberalism is that it is pushing censorship and restriction of speech. Authoritarian left just as bad as authoritarian right. Xhamster quickly moving in the wrong direction.
[QUOTE=wauterboi;50495095]How is it ironic? Did a quick Google search and it seems like the concept makes sense - there's legitimately people who think they are owed sex, for instance, or think that the woman wants it, and all kinds of stuff. For people who don't like feminists blacklisting words, some people maintain their own blacklists too. Rape culture seems to be on yours.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=ThatCrazyGmanV2;50495565] well its a real thing?[/QUOTE] Maybe its just me, or maybe im misinformed, might be, i live under a rock, but i just keep hearing these terms and words thrown around so often with so little regard that it all becomes white noise and i cant help but get grossed out just by reading it cause they probably only mentioned it to look hip and trendy and get brownie points.
[QUOTE=AaronM202;50495667]Maybe its just me, or maybe im misinformed, might be, i live under a rock, but i just keep hearing these terms and words thrown around so often with so little regard that it all becomes white noise and i cant help but get grossed out just by reading it cause they probably only mentioned it to look hip and trendy and get brownie points.[/QUOTE] oh most definitely, like most social justice terms it gets thrown around quite a bit but the core concept of it is a legitimate issue which wauterboi mentions. [QUOTE=carcarcargo;50495589]How is it going to affect people any more than watching films will affect people?[/QUOTE] because there's a difference between physical violence or plain sex (the kinda shit you see in movies) compared to what happens in porn. Porn is like a drug where exposure to it makes you want to go to more extreme levels and "teaches" younger, more impressionable people when it comes to what's "normal" in the bedroom. This is more of an issue for younger people which is what I should've clarified in my initial post but it is an issue. What happens in films isn't normally grounded in reality or something that can be referenced in real life decisions (at least in the films people call out for influencing children) while porn is representative of sex, a real tangible thing that occurs to people that can be used as a reference on how to "act" in that situation
[QUOTE=Take_Opal;50495413]Rape fetish porn is still fantasizing about rape... I can't see how anyone can try to argue that appealing to rape fetishes doesn't perpetrate rape as something to romanticize or fantasize about.[/QUOTE] What do you think of furries? Or watersports? Or people with gore fetishes (top tier disgusting imo, but still), pretty much any fetish is kind of fucked up unless it's super tame stuff like stockings. Contrary to popular belief, most people are sane and can actually not succumb to their base instincts. This is why there aren't rapists roaming the streets or people fucking dogs on the sidewalk. Well, at least in first world countries.
Seems like a decision driven by a single individual or some external heat the site got. It should be pretty obvious that rape fetish porn has about as much to do with actual rape as Hollywood action movies with real life violence. Watching a documentary doesn't make you a scientist, playing DnD doesn't make you a Satanist, and watching rape fetish porn doesn't make you a rapist. If those things line up, they lined up for different reasons.
I have a rape fetish, but I would never ever rape someone irl. TBH, even the thought of doing it disgusts me.
[QUOTE=ThatCrazyGmanV2;50495700]oh most definitely, like most social justice terms it gets thrown around quite a bit but the core concept of it is a legitimate issue which wauterboi mentions. because there's a difference between physical violence or plain sex (the kinda shit you see in movies) compared to what happens in porn. Porn is like a drug where exposure to it makes you want to go to more extreme levels and "teaches" younger, more impressionable people when it comes to what's "normal" in the bedroom. This is more of an issue for younger people which is what I should've clarified in my initial post but it is an issue. What happens in films isn't normally grounded in reality or something that can be referenced in real life decisions (at least in the films people call out for influencing children) while porn is representative of sex, a real tangible thing that occurs to people that can be used as a reference on how to "act" in that situation[/QUOTE] Problem is with terms like rape culture is that everyone uses them in such different ways that eventually the word itself becomes borderline meaningless. It doesn't help that every time I hear solutions to "rape culture" they are nearly always terrible and often more dangerous then the problem they are trying to solve.
looks like xhamster is giving all their viewers away to sites like motherless now
[QUOTE=fruxodaily;50496057]looks like xhamster is giving all their viewers away to sites like motherless now[/QUOTE] Or pretty much any site, really. There's [B]so[/B] much porn on the internet and XHamster is nothing special at all.
[QUOTE=fruxodaily;50496057]looks like xhamster is giving all their viewers away to sites like motherless now[/QUOTE] That site is the crème de la crème for fetish porn.
[QUOTE=fruxodaily;50496057]looks like xhamster is giving all their viewers away to sites like motherless now[/QUOTE] The site that is infamous for beastiality, gore, real rape, child porn and much more.
[QUOTE=fruxodaily;50496057]looks like xhamster is giving all their viewers away to sites like motherless now[/QUOTE] What if I get off to being shamed for searching for rape vids? They're just cornering a market that nobody realised exists yet
[QUOTE=FunnyStarRunner;50495182]If I wanted to feel shameful looking at porn, then I want to feel ashamed myself without a website's help.[/QUOTE] If Facepunch hasn't been adequately shaming you over your porn preferences, then please report to your nearest GMF to have your dosage increased.
[QUOTE=ilikecorn;50496132]"The friend zone" is also an excellent example of rape culture. There are legitimately people who think that a woman (or man) is some sort of sex vending machine, that accepts friendly acts as payment.[/QUOTE] I don't quite see the connection between friendzones and rape culture. But nice try pal.
Welp, there goes a good chunk of their female userbase. You'd be surprised at the amount of women with rape fantasies out there. Even those who consider themselves feminists can get pretty freaky in bed.
[QUOTE=ManFlakes;50495889]I have a rape fetish, but I would never ever rape someone irl. TBH, even the thought of doing it disgusts me.[/QUOTE] I feel like that fetish appears on someone because of a lack of control on life/relationships etc. You just want to force things through and seeing someone else do it relieves the person
[QUOTE=Keyblockor1;50494991]It's a fetish. 99.9% of the people looking up weird shit on the internet to jack off to never have the urge to copy it in real life i'd say. It's extremely fucking stupid for them to shame their viewership like this and will only fuck them over in both the short-term and long-term.[/QUOTE] The way you phrase this, you could apply the same thing to beastiality or child pornography.
[QUOTE=LaTrefle;50496172]I feel like that fetish appears on someone because of a lack of control on life/relationships etc. You just want to force things through and seeing someone else do it relieves the person[/QUOTE] it can also be a power fantasy brought on by sadistic tendencies. I mean ive always had some fucked up fetishes and fantasies but outside of online im just another normal person. im perfectly happy with my life most of the time, and ive never really had problems with control, yet in terms of sexual fantasies theres always that power trip that I need. and rape is one of those ways. some people want to be 'raped' and some people actually really want to be raped. of course, in a relationship, so its not really rape, but whatever. however, I find actual rape fucking disgusting. same with...pretty much everything im into outside of a pure fantasy either online or in an extremely controlled environment. and xhamster doing that means that im going to just not go on there anymore, not that I went on there much to begin with.
[QUOTE=jjjohan;50496187]The way you phrase this, you could apply the same thing to beastiality or child pornography.[/QUOTE] Primary difference being that in an acted rape scene, there is no actual rape occurring. It is consenting adults acting in a pornographic video. Thus, no victims. Same can't be said for child porn or bestiality. Children and animals cannot consent to sex. It is ACTUAL rape, with actual victims. Your argument only applies to illustrated porn depicting children or animals, in which case it loses a lot of its weight anyway.
[QUOTE=jjjohan;50496187]The way you phrase this, you could apply the same thing to beastiality or child pornography.[/QUOTE] id say its more like 100%, and its also 2 different ballparks. with bestiality and child pornography, there are truly unwilling participants in the matter. they arent developed enough or old enough to even say no. but rape videos are completely different. they're always made with completely consenting partners in a very safe environment with "professional" actors. its made to represent, to act like rape. but you cant use older women and make them act like children for the case of child pornography, or use furries and act like its bestiality. all in all, its a fetish, and needs to be treated like it. not like a mental disorder. the same thing applies with lolicon. but people are bunched into their holes and refuse to think anything else when those types of fetishes come up.
Used to be a member of ravishu because for ages I've always wanted to experience the situation of either using force or being forced, which I know is far out and against society's norms - but it's still one of my most wanted things to try. I feel shameful for being generalized as someone who'd walk out at night and hurt innocent people for my own pleasure, as it'd never be an intention of mine. Luckily I have the world's best girl, and hoping one day to find the inner strength needed to tell her my fantasies, but listening in on xHamsters SJW'ing sure as hell isn't helping anyone.
[QUOTE=Tools;50496258]Used to be a member of ravishu because for ages I've always wanted to experience the situation of either using force or being forced, which I know is far out and against society's norms - but it's still one of my most wanted things to try. I feel shameful for being generalized as someone who'd walk out at night and hurt innocent people for my own pleasure, as it'd never be an intention of mine. Luckily I have the world's best girl, and hoping one day to find the inner strength needed to tell her my fantasies, but listening in on xHamsters SJW'ing sure as hell isn't helping anyone.[/QUOTE] Just talk to her about it, man. Rape fantasy is incredibly common. I think that most people would be willing to try it with a partner they're comfortable with and the proper safety net in place.
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