• Happy guys finish last, says new study on sexual attractiveness
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Yeah i don't really care. I'm a happy, non ugly guy and i rarely get any action but i'd always rather be happy than anything else.
inb4 self proclaimed "nice guys" get pissed off after reading this article
[QUOTE=thispieiscold;30044234]inb4 self proclaimed "nice guys" get pissed off after reading this article[/QUOTE] we already had a few "nice guys" in here your a lil late
[QUOTE=yawmwen;30039960]not really no, femininity isnt a weakness for one, so your perception of my perception is completely wrong being wimpy and feminine often is a symptom of low confidence, depression and such this is coming from a wimpy more feminine guy um duh, femininity has a place in the male psyche, there needs to be a balance, but there is never too much masculinity because over masculinity is a sign of someone covering up for over femininity im not talking about that im talking about losing the masculinity, control, and dominance over oneself that is looked down upon now men who are in control of themselves and take care of their family, friends, and love interests are looked at as chauvinistic, controlling, macho, stereotypical people im not talking about either, im talking about what is expected of a man in the culture, compared to what is beneficial and sexually attractive[/QUOTE] [img]http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/files/2010/07/Power-Synonyms-Power-Antonyms-_-Thesaurus.com_-500x396.jpg[/img] [img]http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/files/2010/07/Weakness-Synonyms-Weakness-Antonyms-_-Thesaurus.com_.jpg[/img]
that doesnt prove anything except that those words can be used synonymously according to a dictionary that doesnt say what my own perception is
I swing between fucking pissed off at everything to the most jolly man on earth.
I like how gingerbread and radiolucent are related to weakness.
trashy is also apparently weakness as well
I'll go get my leather jacket and aviator sunglasses!
[QUOTE=thisispain;30034841]explains how i ever got laid and remember guys, nothing is sexier than a self-doubting self-deprecating guy so learn to hate yourself[/QUOTE] Already there :v: But I'm happy about beating myself up...wait I'm confused! [editline]25th May 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=yawmwen;30037844]well it looks like a fish you should change it [editline]25th May 2011[/editline] i mean seriously it has no other countries around it so how am i supposed to remember nigers shape better avatar [img]http://i.infoplease.com/images/mniger.gif[/img][/QUOTE] It looks like a fucked up fish now.
I'm going to have to call bullshit on this
[QUOTE=SomTervo;30047894]I'm going to have to call bullshit on this[/QUOTE] You have to realize that the study doesn't take many other factors into consideration, but rather it gives an understanding of how people respond to first impressions.
The way that the title is cut off, I thought i meant we last the longest in bed :smug: Then I find out we're the least attractive and its like, "Well...there goes my little bit of ego."
you can be happy... but that trait often goes with the ass-kissing sucker-up kinda guys who do anything for a woman and are over-friendly (basically that's called being manipulative (which is also a weak thing to do)). you can be happy... without all that crap, yet be attractive. It's not as simple as looks for attracting women, which is why women are either hot/beautiful/good-looking/whatever, or ugly and might as well give up (have a bit of empathy here and look at it from their perspective). Don't be weak, don't be manipulative, don't doubt yourself, don't display a poor social status, don't show desperation, or clinginess, and by god, do not be overly friendly and creepy IF your intent is to attract her. You can't change how attraction works! It's just how it is!
Women, make up your damn mind :colbert:
[QUOTE=Anteep2;30050097]you can be happy... but that trait often goes with the ass-kissing sucker-up kinda guys who do anything for a woman and are over-friendly (basically that's called being manipulative (which is also a weak thing to do)). you can be happy... without all that crap, yet be attractive. It's not as simple as looks for attracting women, which is why women are either hot/beautiful/good-looking/whatever, or ugly and might as well give up (have a bit of empathy here and look at it from their perspective). Don't be weak, don't be manipulative, don't doubt yourself, don't display a poor social status, don't show desperation, or clinginess, and by god, do not be overly friendly and creepy IF your intent is to attract her. You can't change how attraction works! It's just how it is![/QUOTE] p much what this guy said
Whether you're happy, sad, brooding, proud, or whatever; keep in mind that you probably have to be somewhat attractive. But, I kind of agree with Anteep. Happier guys can often be associated as suck-ups. And while women DO like to be taken care of, it's hideously annoying when a guy is constantly trying to gain your approval. Clinginess is a huge turn-off. Being aloof is more attractive because it shows that a guy can take care of himself without you having to baby him like you're his mother. Speaking from personal experience here. I played the "mother" role to a guy for 3 years before wising up and realizing that it was a load of bullshit. I don't get into a relationship to be someone's mom. At least not at this age. But a combination of happiness, self-dependency, attractiveness, good hygiene, good social habits and practices, and determination is a good thing. You just really have to know what to do and what not to do and kind of mesh it with your personality type.
[QUOTE=Pascall;30051811] Being aloof is more attractive because it shows that a guy can take care of himself without you having to baby him like you're his mother. Speaking from personal experience here. I played the "mother" role to a guy for 3 years before wising up and realizing that it was a load of bullshit. I don't get into a relationship to be someone's mom. At least not at this age.[/QUOTE] yeah i don't understand those guys it took me 18 years to escape from my mum why would i want another one?
[QUOTE=thisispain;30054472]yeah i don't understand those guys it took me 18 years to escape from my mum why would i want another one?[/QUOTE] some people havent been raised around enough other women so their relationship with their mother is their only frame of reference thats my semi educated guess
[QUOTE=yawmwen;30055222]some people havent been raised around enough other women so their relationship with their mother is their only frame of reference thats my semi educated guess[/QUOTE] Penis envy? YES I Know Freud was wrong.
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