Transgender student suspended for using wrong bathroom
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[QUOTE=Ninja Duck;33368775]Did he get surgery or is she acting and pretending to be a girl?
If he got surgery his documents would say 'MTF'.[/QUOTE]
Oh, it's one of [i]you people[/i] again.
Despite the fact that everyone who has had similar opinions before you has been completely blown out of the water, you still continue to come in here and try to use the same uneducated shit as a counter-argument?
Transgenders:they should dissapear.
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[QUOTE=AntiNazi;33370258]Transgenders:they should dissapear.[/QUOTE]
"dissapear" is not a word so I assume it was a typo and you meant "Diss a pear"
This statement is bizarre why would they insult a seed bearing fruit?
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;33367994]So you'd send someone who'd been on hormones for years and dresses in feminine clothes into the male bathrooms just because they hadn't had a sex-change operation?[/QUOTE]
Either you retain sex segregated bathrooms or abandon them entirely.
There are no shades of grey here because legally it is virtually unenforceable once you let folks with the incorrect plumbing enter a bathroom. You create a serious issue.
Personally I think sex segregated bathrooms are preferable, but if a significant portion of the population is honestly offended by them, then abandon them entirely. Can't have something in between though, as that is just fucking ridiculous.
[QUOTE=GunFox;33370353]Either you retain sex segregated bathrooms or abandon them entirely.
There are no shades of grey here because legally it is virtually unenforceable once you let folks with the incorrect plumbing enter a bathroom. You create a serious issue.
Personally I think sex segregated bathrooms are preferable, but if a significant portion of the population is honestly offended by them, then abandon them entirely. Can't have something in between though, as that is just fucking ridiculous.[/QUOTE]
Except there are shades of grey because humans aren't neat little boxes to be categorized.
Intersexed people throw a spanner into that.
Wait, how is it a serious issue?
What is the issue?
Why do you think sex segregation is preferable?
Simple solution: What parts are down there? If it's a dick, then yes [b][i]HE[/i][/b] was in the wrong washroom, if it's a vagina then [b][i]SHE[/b][/i] was in the right.
I can put a crown on and be the King of Canada, doesn't make it true.
[QUOTE=Gundevil;33370436]Simple solution: What parts are down there? If it's a dick, then yes [b][i]HE[/i][/b] was in the wrong washroom, if it's a vagina then [b][i]SHE[/b][/i] was in the right.
I can put a crown on and be the King of Canada, doesn't make it true.[/QUOTE]
There is a difference in sex and gender
He and she are gender specific; male and female are sex specific
The question is is should bathrooms separate gender, sex, or neither
[QUOTE=imptastick;33370481]There is a difference in sex and gender
He and she are gender specific; male and female are sex specific
The question is is should bathrooms separate gender, sex, or neither[/QUOTE]
Yes. Men are horny, The average male mind thinks about sex every 10 seconds or so. You want to already overly horny males in a room with women exposing their genitalia? Think about those fetishes some people have like shit and piss, then stick them in a club with drunk women. Will it really end well?
Keep bathrooms seperate and based on your sex. The genetalia you possess at the time of entry.
And gender is your sex, thats the definition. What ever happened to transsexual, that actually made sense.
[QUOTE=Gundevil;33370528]The average male mind thinks about sex every 10 seconds or so.[/QUOTE]
This was proven false ages ago.
[QUOTE=Gundevil;33370528]Yes. Men are horny, The average male mind thinks about sex every 10 seconds or so. You want to already overly horny males in a room with women exposing their genitalia? Think about those fetishes some people have like shit and piss, then stick them in a club with drunk women. Will it really end well?
Keep bathrooms seperate and based on your sex. The genetalia you possess at the time of entry.
And gender is your sex, thats the definition. What ever happened to transsexual, that actually made sense.[/QUOTE]
At my college I see females in the mens bathroom all the time, (because every floor only has one bathroom) and nobody tries to rape them or has any problem with it.
Your argument also would hold true for people with transgender fetishes would it not?
[quote]Sex refers to biological differences; chromosomes, hormonal profiles, internal and external sex organs.
Gender describes the characteristics that a society or culture delineates as masculine or feminine.[/quote]
Source: [url]http://www.med.monash.edu.au/gendermed/sexandgender.html[/url]
[QUOTE=Contag;33370418]Except there are shades of grey because humans aren't neat little boxes to be categorized.
Intersexed people throw a spanner into that.[/quote]
Of course there are shades of grey in reality. There are always shades of grey. The problem comes from trying to legally specify them and then enforce them.
Making rules or regulations that are nearly impossible to properly enforce isn't a good plan.
[quote]Why do you think sex segregation is preferable?[/QUOTE]
Men cycle through bathrooms at a significantly faster pace than women do, which is nice.
Different social dynamics appear in bathrooms. Women are often social in their bathroom visits whereas men are precisely the opposite and even if holding a conversation prior to entering the bathroom, will temporarily stop talking in order to use the restroom. Ever noticed how quiet men's bathrooms are? It is eerie.
Think about using a urinal in a bathroom filled with women. This one is personal, and as I said it was a personal preference overall, but I'd prefer not to use the urinal with women around. Taking my dick out and basically peeing on a wall is weird and disgusting enough without the fairer sex around.
We all feel varying degrees of discomfort at using public restrooms. Separating the bathrooms by personal plumbing seems to mitigate this problem to a degree for a significant portion of the population, even with the presence of homosexuality and transgendered individuals, people still seem to be more comfortable around people with the same chromosomal sex.
So basically we come down to this:
-Retain the current segregation based on sex. The vast majority of individuals likely feel okay with this. People appreciate having a place to temporarily escape from the mask they wear in front of the opposite sex in order to reapply makeup or take a dump.
-Allow something in-between. Undoubtedly the best option, buuuuut only if people are honest. The first guy who hangs out in the wrong bathroom under the umbrella protection of being transgendered, or even simply homosexual, will be a nightmare case in terms of legality. What happens with bisexual people? What happens with bisexual people with a specific lean? How do you prove sexual preference? You create a legal nightmare.
-Remove segregation entirely. The fairest option, but ultimately the least socially pleasant. Who knows what the consequences here are.
It's a simple matter of what they are physically. One can identify as whatever gender as they want, but if they have a dick they use the men's room and if they don't they use the women's room. Simple. No need to make a fuss over it.
[QUOTE=GunFox;33370597]
-Remove segregation entirely. The fairest option, but ultimately the least socially pleasant. Who knows what the consequences here are.[/QUOTE]
Actually we do know the consequences. The bathrooms tend to be cleaner, and most people tend to be more 'respectful' due the shame factor. There's generally no urinals. Assaults tend to be lower due to the increased risk that another man will intervene.
Most of the objections seem to be based on culturally contingent factors that are a result of growing up in a kyriarchal society that has segregated bathrooms. I think that people shouldn't wear 'masks' in front of the other sex, and a more holistic understanding of people of the other sex as humans with the same need to piss and shit would tend to be more conducive to social relations on an equal level.
[QUOTE=Gundevil;33370528]Yes. Men are horny, The average male mind thinks about sex every 10 seconds or so. You want to already overly horny males in a room with women exposing their genitalia? Think about those fetishes some people have like shit and piss, then stick them in a club with drunk women. Will it really end well?
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Maybe you do.
Do you [i]really[/i] think a guy is going to be thinking about banging at the birth of his son?
How about at his mom's funeral? On a rollercoaster? In a car crash? During a job interview? When he loses his car keys and is looking for them? When he's making a fucking sandwich? This is a stupid, illogical idea that only people who want to hate men use without thinking about it, and it's pretty much been [url=http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/PollVault/story?id=156921&page=1#.TspzTlYrf90]proven[/url] [url=http://abcnews.go.com/images/Politics/959a1AmericanSexSurvey.pdf]untrue.[/url]
Men are not the apes that people like you try to make them out to be.
[QUOTE=Mister Sandman;33371143]Maybe you do.
Do you [i]really[/i] think a guy is going to be thinking about banging at the birth of his son?
How about at his mom's funeral? On a rollercoaster? In a car crash? During a job interview? When he loses his car keys and is looking for them? When he's making a fucking sandwich? This is a stupid, illogical idea that only people who ant to hate men use without thinking about it, and it's pretty much been [url=http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/PollVault/story?id=156921&page=1#.TspzTlYrf90]proven[/url] [url=http://abcnews.go.com/images/Politics/959a1AmericanSexSurvey.pdf]untrue.[/url]
Men are not the apes that people like you try to make them out to be.[/QUOTE]
I was just about to respond to this but then I started thinking about sex!
oh lawd someone help me, my male instincts demand I find a fertile woman
[QUOTE=Contag;33371234]I was just about to respond to this but then I started thinking about sex!
oh lawd someone help me, my male instincts demand I find a fertile woman[/QUOTE]
oh
MY
[B]GOD[/B]
MAYBE JUST MAYBE WOMEN AREN'T THE ONLY VICTIMS TO THE GIANT PENIS MONSTER AS I SAID EARLIER, BUT MEN ARE IT'S SLAVES!
OH LORD IT KNOWS I KNOW HEL
give in to the power of the penis god! [b]OBEY![/b]
[QUOTE=Gundevil;33370528]Yes. Men are horny, The average male mind thinks about sex every 10 seconds or so. You want to already overly horny males in a room with women exposing their genitalia? Think about those fetishes some people have like shit and piss, then stick them in a club with drunk women. Will it really end well?[/quote]
I don't know about you individually, but the vast majority of men are actually able to control themselves.
Also, I don't know what bathrooms you go to, but bathroom stalls are private. It's not like people are walking around naked.
[quote]Keep bathrooms seperate and based on your sex. The genetalia you possess at the time of entry.[/quote] "At the time of entry"?
What if your genitalia switch after you go through the door, but before you make it to a stall?
What if your genitalia's determined by a quantum state, and is unknowable until you already open the door?
What if you're mind-controlling someone of the opposite sex? Do you have to move them into the bathroom of your own sex? Because you possess genitalia different than the person you're mind controlling?
Hell, let's switch it around: what if you're mind controlling them, and you have to go to the bathroom? Do you get to go into the bathroom of the opposite gender? You [I]are[/I] possessing someone who possesses the required genitalia.
What if the bathrooms are unsigned, and are identical in every way?
What if you're holding the dismembered genitalia of the opposite sex? You would technically be possessing them.
What if you're kidnapped and held captive in the bathroom of the opposite sex? Should you be legally liable for being in the wrong bathroom?
What if the only bathrooms belong to alien, eldritch genders, but the toilets are perfectly usable by humans?
What if your bathroom is full and the other one is empty?
What if they're homosexual?
What if they're intersexed?
What if they're transgender?
What if you just don't fucking care?
Why does it matter so much?
[quote]And gender is your sex, thats the definition.[/quote]
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McAeQiLmEYU[/media]
[editline]21st November 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Mister Sandman;33371258]oh
MY
[B]GOD[/B]
MAYBE JUST MAYBE WOMEN AREN'T THE ONLY VICTIMS TO THE GIANT PENIS MONSTER AS I SAID EARLIER, BUT MEN ARE IT'S SLAVES!
OH LORD IT KNOWS I KNOW HEL[/QUOTE]
Relevant:
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YOROvO2fxTc[/media]
[QUOTE=Gundevil;33370528]
And gender is your sex, thats the definition. What ever happened to transsexual, that actually made sense.[/QUOTE]
well gee maybe it's just me but last time I checked there was a defined difference between sex and gender
Why don't we just have Unisex bathrooms everywhere?
If I were a girl, I wouldn't like that a guy come in the female bathroom just because he pretends he feels like being a girl.
And if he can't stand to go in the male bathroom, then unisex bathroom wouldn't be better for him.
[QUOTE=Kljunas;33372914]because he pretends he feels like being a girl[/QUOTE]
Yet another blatant misunderstanding of what being transgender means.
[QUOTE=GunFox;33370597]
Different social dynamics appear in bathrooms. Women are often social in their bathroom visits whereas men are precisely the opposite and even if holding a conversation prior to entering the bathroom, will temporarily stop talking in order to use the restroom. Ever noticed how quiet men's bathrooms are? It is eerie.
[/QUOTE]
I walked into a Target restroom and some guy had been taking a massive shit, you could hear it from the door outside. As soon as I walked in you could almost hear his nether regions clamping up and the torrential rain of shit stop. I sat down in the only other stall, did my business, washing my hands about 5 minutes later and as soon as I leave I hear some of the loudest most grotesque farts I've ever heard erupt from the bowels of the bathroom.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;33373021]Yet another blatant misunderstanding of what being transgender means.[/QUOTE]
Yes, he's basically a guy who pretends he feels like being a girl, since I can't see in his mind if he truly feels like a female.
[QUOTE=Kljunas;33373088]Yes, he's basically a guy who pretends he feels like being a girl, since I can't see in his mind if he truly feels like a female.[/QUOTE]
At this point it isn't blatant misunderstanding, Kljunas is infected with [I]ignorance[/I].
[QUOTE=Kljunas;33373088]Yes, he's basically a guy who pretends he feels like being a girl, since I can't see in his mind if he truly feels like a female.[/QUOTE]
In spite of the wide recognition that these people feel they [I]should be[/I] women (or men in the case of people born female), you still say this person is 'pretending'?
[QUOTE=Kljunas;33373088]Yes, he's basically a guy who pretends he feels like being a girl, since I can't see in his mind if he truly feels like a female.[/QUOTE]
Do you even know what transgender is?
It's not pretending, it's [b]being[/b]
[QUOTE=Thy Reaper;33373127]In spite of the wide recognition that these people feel they [I]should be[/I] women (or men in the case of people born female), you still say this person is 'pretending'?[/QUOTE]
No. I mean that if I were a girl I wouldn't want a random guy to come in the bathroom even if he pretends to be a transgender. Of course this can be true but how should I know?
[QUOTE=Kljunas;33373166]No. I mean that if I were a girl I wouldn't want a random guy to come in the bathroom even if he [B]pretends to be a transgender[/B]. Of course this can be true but how should I know?[/QUOTE]
Please sew your fingers together, you have forfeited the right to defend your ignorant position due to pure ignorance. Please don't let the door hit you on the ignorance on your way out.
It's not pretending, it's a mental [I]thing[/I] (I don't want to use the words issue or illness, it's not a negative thing to be transgender) where the person believes with every fiber of their being that they are female. It's not pretending, it's a psychological need for this person to be the other gender to feel comfortable.
[QUOTE=Kljunas;33373166]No. I mean that if I were a girl I wouldn't want a random guy to come in the bathroom even if he pretends to be a transgender. Of course this can be true but how should I know?[/QUOTE]
This person is a legitimate transgender person, and identifies as female
That means you accept them as female, because that's what they [I]are[/I]
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