Bobby Montoya, 7-Year-Old Transgender Child, Turned Away From Girl Scouts, Later Accepted (VIDEO)
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[QUOTE=SPESSMEHREN;32985827]Are you referring to a specific case of a 7-year-old who has committed suicide over these issues? I believe I already stated that any time after the onset of puberty is enough time.[/QUOTE]
I'm referring to the fact that the suicide rate amongst LGBT youth is higher than non-LGBT youth
[QUOTE=TropicalV2;32985859]if i could make a small addendum here
one of the most overt reasons that lgbt youth are harassed, assaulted, and sometimes even murdered is that society fosters the idea that something is wrong with them and that they are lesser beings, so obviously they must be a little bit more expendable. spreading the idea that somehow it's "wrong" for them to act the way they do breeds indignation and hatred, and when there's hate it only takes one person to act upon it. see: laramie, wyoming[/QUOTE]
I see nothing wrong with young adults who are diagnosed with gender identity disorder. But I guess you guys are so caught up in your own little unique interpretation of reality that anything anyone says to even remotely challenge your own assertions will be ignored because "oh they're just conservetive trans-hating suicide-causing religious right-wingers, they're automatically wrong. :downs: "
[QUOTE=Zeke129;32985007]NO YOU'RE WRONG IM A CONSERVATIVE AND I BELIEVE IN THE GENDER BINARY AND BOYS ARE BOYS AND GIRLS ARE GIRLS AND THAT'S THAT
THIS CHIld needs to be REHABILItateD with JESUS[/QUOTE]
now you're talking sense!
[QUOTE=SPESSMEHREN;32985627]ANd you're suggesting to proceed with radical therapies and clinical treatments with little to no research on how they could benifit or harm a child's developmental process?
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considering the fact that it takes months and months of counseling with licensed therapists before anyone begins seriously transitioning - therapists who are trained to identify people with legitimate cases of gender dysphoria: yes
if this kid can't be his gender now then what is the alternative? forcing a gender identity on him so he grows up confused? that's not fair however you put it.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_T1NE4Q2BI[/media]
thanks Moz
Why is everyone so worked up over this? He wants in the girl scouts because that's where he feels he belongs?
Sure, he could be transgender, or it could possibly be a phase in his life, where's the slightest harm in letting him do this?
He's not having any drastic life-changing surgery or something at the age of 7.
This threads been a shitstorm for even less of a reason than your average news thread.
we need more parents like hers. ones that actually support their child, instead of treating them like some sort of diseased fuck-up.
[QUOTE=Tacosheller;32984815]Your brain isn't even developed until 25, this is dumb and there's a high chance he'll regret it later
Hell, if he wants to be a girl when he's an adult, I don't care, let him do what he wants, but until he's old enough to know who he is it's sort of a bad idea.[/QUOTE]
I think you just said that you don't know your sexual identity and sexual preference until 25
lol
I know the perfect solution to Gender Identity Disorder!
Simply modify the temperature of the incubator to ideal levels and you won't produce any more gender-confused geckos.
The question is though.
Does he like boys or girls?
Yes, that is what seven year old boys who desire to be girls look like, thank you for contributing
Thanks for getting that penis all over my screen
Nonetheless kids recognize their gender at early age.
I am happy for bobby
A.Why the fuck do I see a dick in this thread?
B.Good for her :v:
[QUOTE=Elecbullet;32986391]I know the perfect solution to Gender Identity Disorder!
Simply modify the temperature of the incubator to ideal levels and you won't produce any more gender-confused geckos.[/QUOTE]
the problem clearly develops after birth, maybe if we increased the humidity in the terrarium
Five years ago facepunch was ignorant about homosexuality and said shit like "gay people are okay as long as they dont hit on me"
now I guess this place is ignorant about transgenders and says shit like "he'll grow out of it."
[QUOTE=SgtCr4zyGunz;32986859]Five years ago facepunch was ignorant about homosexuality and said shit like "gay people are okay as long as they dont hit on me"
now I guess this place is ignorant about transgenders and says shit like "he'll grow out of it."[/QUOTE]
people still say that
[QUOTE=Zeke129;32986863]people still say that[/QUOTE]
at least a decent portion doesn't, is what I'm saying.
Dang it, Bobby.
Cut penis.
With a rusty chainsaw without anesthethics.
How many precedents of early gender development do we need before people stop saying "He couldn't know what gender he is at that age, he's going to regret it later"
That's simply not true. For example, David Reimer was born a man but shortly after birth he had a circumcision that was botched. It was botched so badly that they had to remove his penis, and they reassigned him as a female, complete with hormone treatment. Despite having been told he was female and never knowing anything different I'm sure, he never accepted the role, even as a very young child.
If this was a homosexual, you transphobic idiots would preach love and tolerance, which is good. But since it's a transgender, you're suddenly "Ooooh they're too immature and ignorant for their age".
I don't think they're the ones who are immature and ignorant, finding out who you really are at 7 takes more maturity than some of you have.
[QUOTE=Djentleman;32985268]but I don't see the kid being treated kindly by an organization that denies membership to Atheists.[/QUOTE]
That's the boy scouts. More specifically, gays and athiests.
squeee I love transgender threads. they always [I]always[/I] bring out the ignorance and bigotry hidden in people that otherwise appear passive regarding less controversial controversial topics
i'd like to see some of the peoples' from the first page's opinions on things like homos, poverty, minorities etc.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;32984899]We understand what gender we are at a very young age
[editline]26th October 2011[/editline]
when you were 7 did you know what gender you were?
I betcha did
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No I didn't, I only knew that because someone told me that's what's i'm supposed to be, and that's how the world works, even if they didn't say it explicitly.
[QUOTE=Glorbo;32990184]No I didn't, I only knew that because someone told me that's what's i'm supposed to be, and that's how the world works, even if they didn't say it explicitly.[/QUOTE]
stupid world then
[QUOTE=Lambeth;32990441]stupid world then[/QUOTE]
Well what the fuck can you do. Right now, until there's change, you have to cope with it.
Wait so is bobby gay?
Im really confused here
[QUOTE=Tacosheller;32984815]Your brain isn't even developed until 25, this is dumb and there's a high chance he'll regret it later
Hell, if he wants to be a girl when he's an adult, I don't care, let him do what he wants, but until he's old enough to know who he is it's sort of a bad idea.[/QUOTE]
Yeah kids that young tend to think all kinds of wacky things so you can't know for sure until they're older
When this happens to kids though, it's usually because it's pushed by the parents
[QUOTE=Meller Yeller;32991135]Yeah kids that young tend to think all kinds of wacky things so you can't know for sure until they're older[/QUOTE]
"i am a boy/girl" [I]not[/I] being one among them
[QUOTE=Meller Yeller;32991135]When this happens to kids though, it's usually because it's pushed by the parents[/QUOTE]
no it's not - you have no proof of this
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