Transgender teen leaves note on tumblr blaming Christian parents for suicide
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[QUOTE=Bruhmis;46849775]of all the criticisms you could make of me this is the weakest. if I ''danced around things'' I probably wouldn't have the ban history I have because I often pick apart every little thing I don't agree with and address it thoroughly which leads to confusion from others, which leads to me being banned for "trolling". if I continued to try to make the argument I originally made, I'd have like 6 people responding to me at a time and a mod would ban me to clean the thread up.[/QUOTE]
Oh wow you really don't get it do you?
When you "pock apart everything you don't agree with and address it thoroughly" you do so shoddily with whatever infomration YOU decided was the most relevant, and most important regardless of the reality of the situation.
How about this, instead of feigning some "Oh I refuse to continue this argument in fear of getting banned" you just post your fucking argument? You said you had medical information, why not post that and cite that and argue from that? You can't really be so afraid that you won't argue based on so called "Medical fact", unless, maybe, those "medical facts" are what YOU consider to be factual, not what modern medicine does?
Your persecution complex here is nothing but a method of avoiding arguing when you know you're wrong.
[editline]3rd January 2015[/editline]
I mean this very post of yours is "dancing around" an argument. I mean the fucking irony.
[QUOTE=HumanAbyss;46849788]Oh wow you really don't get it do you?
When you "pock apart everything you don't agree with and address it thoroughly" you do so shoddily with whatever infomration YOU decided was the most relevant, and most important regardless of the reality of the situation.
How about this, instead of feigning some "Oh I refuse to continue this argument in fear of getting banned" you just post your fucking argument? You said you had medical information, why not post that and cite that and argue from that? You can't really be so afraid that you won't argue based on so called "Medical fact", unless, maybe, those "medical facts" are what YOU consider to be factual, not what modern medicine does?
Your persecution complex here is nothing but a method of avoiding arguing when you know you're wrong.
[editline]3rd January 2015[/editline]
I mean this very post of yours is "dancing around" an argument. I mean the fucking irony.[/QUOTE]
as much as I'd love to defend myself against some objectively wrong accusations, this is extremely off topic which is a legitimate reason for a ban. you could always PM me if actual discussion was your motive (it's not).
[QUOTE=Bruhmis;46849845]as much as I'd love to defend myself against some objectively wrong accusations, this is extremely off topic which is a legitimate reason for a ban. you could always PM me if actual discussion was your motive (it's not).[/QUOTE]
I just want you to argue based on the so called medical facts you spoke of and I don't think there's any argument you can offer as to why you can't argue off medical facts.
If they're medical facts, how can you get banned unless you attempt to offend people?
[QUOTE=Deng;46845874]It depends on the condition. I think it would be moral for people to refuse to have a child with certain mental and physical disabilities, if they had the ability to predict it before birth.
I mean, somebody could have a trans child, but why on earth would they want to create a person who is inherently distressed by virtue of the fact their physical body feels wrong? If I could predict whenever an unborn fetus was trans or not, and a medical treatment existed for this during development in the womb, I would choose it.
You could bring the child up without choosing the treatment, but then you would have to live with the fact that when they ask about why they don't feel like they have the right body, become depressed, struggle to cope, etc, that you are partly responsible because you had the power to stop this pain and suffering in the first place.[/QUOTE]
because if we had the technology to fix the brain it'd be easier and more morally acceptable in my opinion to just change the body to a female one than change the brain itself
[QUOTE=HumanAbyss;46849856]I just want you to argue based on the so called medical facts you spoke of and I don't think there's any argument you can offer as to why you can't argue off medical facts.
If they're medical facts, how can you get banned unless you attempt to offend people?[/QUOTE]
this will be my last post in this thread.
I'd be happy to answer that question and any others in the form of a PM and I welcome you to post the results in this thread afterwards but from my perspective, continuing to post in this thread would basically be a ''banme''.
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;46849299]And replies like this just ask for a rule of putting out sources for such claims. How can you claim that this isnt a mental condition, like depression or schizophrenia? And if you think it is, why dont we heal it with medication then. Serious question.[/QUOTE]
do you get the fucking point of medical treatments for mental conditions
the primary goal of medical treatment is to relieve symptoms. Almost never is attacking the root cause the best way to do that with mental conditions. An example of where it is necessary is dieting and exercise and not smoking, but there is NO corollary to the brain. There is very little you can do to fucking fix the brain structures. And even if you could, there's many convincing arguments it'd be flat out wrong to fix the brain when you could just adjust the body to fit. Read my posts on the previous page. Fixing the brain without the person's consent when it has a minor problem is a slippery slope that I do not think we should tread down.
[QUOTE=Bruhmis;46849928]this will be my last post in this thread.
I'd be happy to answer that question and any others in the form of a PM and I welcome you to post the results in this thread afterwards but from my perspective, continuing to post in this thread would basically be a ''banme''.[/QUOTE]
you know, if you hadn't wasted time arguing with me about literally nothing, you could have replied to the post Last and First made, that is excellent and thoroughly debunks you.
If you cared about the issue, besides just being the most correct bigot of the bigots, you'd argue that based on the medical facts you were so confident about.
You're a manchild.
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The thing that makes me the most frustrated and depressed in this whole situation is that their parents almost certainly don't feel any kind of guilt at all.
They were probably glad to be rid of her.
I just wish I could have talked to her.
[QUOTE=Nebukadnezzer;46849877]because if we had the technology to fix the brain it'd be easier and more morally acceptable in my opinion to just change the body to a female one than change the brain itself[/QUOTE]
Well, usually it's better to have a preventative than a cure.
For instance, it's good to have hormonal therapy, transitioning, etc to help people with body dysphoria cope and lead a healthy and happy life.
However, it's even better to have a preventative in the first place, because then people wouldn't have to spend years suffering through a medical condition that we can control. It's better to have a vaccine for smallpox than a cure, because you can prevent the ailment in the first place.
[QUOTE=SpaceGhost;46849701]Because being born with a female brain and male body parts is physical? God damn I hate when people spout bullshit without even doing just a little research.[/QUOTE]
Then enlighten me, or else your words are just as bullshit as mine.
This thread provides another great example of how retarded any discussion is on the Internet. We have one group, who may be inherently wrong, but are right because they think so, and every time you suggest another, vastly different opinion, you get branded a moron who does no research, albeit not supporting your own claims at all.
[editline]3rd January 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=HumanAbyss;46850033]you know, if you hadn't wasted time arguing with me about literally nothing, you could have replied to the post Last and First made, that is excellent and thoroughly debunks you.
If you cared about the issue, besides just being the most correct bigot of the bigots, you'd argue that based on the medical facts you were so confident about.
You're a manchild.[/QUOTE]
yeah, what is ad hominem anyway
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;46850238]Then enlighten me, or else your words are just as bullshit as mine.
This thread provides another great example of how retarded any discussion is on the Internet. We have one group, who may be inherently wrong, but are right because they think so, and every time you suggest another, vastly different opinion, you get branded a moron who does no research, albeit not supporting your own claims at all.[/QUOTE]
You are posting like a braindead moron who does no research however. As you normally do.
There is quite a bit of academic literature available on the topic, as there is for [B]every other known problem with the human body[/B]. You aren't some victim here, you are consciously coming into a thread to post things that people have been arguing against for pages, without actually reading those pages. As you normally do. You aren't actually arguing, you just keep stating your view as the one correct view and asking others for evidence without showing any yourself. As you normally do.
Just stop.
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;46850238]
yeah, what is ad hominem anyway[/QUOTE]
something along the lines of:
[QUOTE=hexpunK;46850285]You are posting like a braindead moron who does no research[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;46850238]Then enlighten me, or else your words are just as bullshit as mine.
This thread provides another great example of how retarded any discussion is on the Internet. We have one group, who may be inherently wrong, but are right because they think so, and every time you suggest another, vastly different opinion, you get branded a moron who does no research, albeit not supporting your own claims at all.[/QUOTE]
you need to provide for your own argument and provide sources. academic sources on trans people has been around for for a long time. invading trans people's spaces with stuff like "IT'S A RETARDED DISCUSSION" does nothing
Her tombstone is probably going to say Joshua on it :(
In all honesty I don't think I would be able to feel the same way for my child if they were transgender, I can handle gay/lesbian but I dunno, transgender is just too much for me.
Not to say I would disown them or anything, I would be accepting but... I don't know, it wouldn't be the same.
But what they did to he/she was fucked up, I could never do that to my child.
[QUOTE=Bruhmis;46849928]this will be my last post in this thread.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bruhmis;46850354]something along the lines of:[/QUOTE]
Holy shit, either find a way to genuinely contribute to the thread without posting like a sulky kid, or stop posting like you said you would.
What I hate most of all is that any conversation about this type of event degrades to silly arguments about religion
[QUOTE=Mini Shot;46850441]Her tombstone is probably going to say Joshua on it :([/QUOTE]
most likely it's because she's still officially registered as joshua
[QUOTE=fulgrim;46850465]Holy shit, either find a way to genuinely contribute to the thread without posting like a sulky kid, or stop posting like you said you would.[/QUOTE]
calling people names is contributing right
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;46850238]Then enlighten me, or else your words are just as bullshit as mine.
This thread provides another great example of how retarded any discussion is on the Internet. We have one group, who may be inherently wrong, but are right because they think so, and every time you suggest another, vastly different opinion, you get branded a moron who does no research, albeit not supporting your own claims at all.
[editline]3rd January 2015[/editline]
yeah, what is ad hominem anyway[/QUOTE]
When confronted with the option to argue about the issue, or the character of the people you're arguing about, as much as people like myself have endeavored to make the entire conversation about the issue, people like you and bruhmis keep making this about our conduct, when you could EASILY AND READILY OFFER ARGUMENTS TO THE ISSUE.
But no, you focus on our conduct.
yeah, if you actually cared about the issue, you'd argue differently than you do.
[editline]3rd January 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=Bruhmis;46850486]calling people names is contributing right[/QUOTE]
how many times will you reply to this thread, and NEVER reply to the post that deals most with the medical facts at hand that most disagrees with your point of argumentation.
[QUOTE=Bruhmis;46850486]calling people names is contributing right[/QUOTE]
Calling people out who do nothing but attempt to create shitstorms, espouse bigoted beliefs despite being shown numerous times in the past that they are incorrect, and who just in general are pretty awful posters is calling people names now?
No, it's telling someone who wont listen to reasoned discussion to fuck off because they aren't doing anything.
But wicked sick "last post" Bruhmis :~)
bruhmis, you keep replying long after you said you wouldn't, yet you still don't reply to the issue at hand, instead wasting your breath attacking us when we keep telling you "hey, you still have that post that ripped your post to shreds based on medical fact to deal with, why are you ignoring that" and you continue this line of thought that you're too god damn persecuted to take that line of conversation, yet you're happy to attack us in response?
Do you have any idea of your own conduct?
[QUOTE=YourStalker;46850463]In all honesty I don't think I would be able to feel the same way for my child if they were transgender, I can handle gay/lesbian but I dunno, transgender is just too much for me.
Not to say I would disown them or anything, I would be accepting but... I don't know, it wouldn't be the same.
But what they did to he/she was fucked up, I could never do that to my child.[/QUOTE]
why are u just flat out admitting that you are basically a terrible potential parent
[QUOTE=hexpunK;46850285]You are posting like a braindead moron who does no research however. As you normally do.
There is quite a bit of academic literature available on the topic, as there is for [B]every other known problem with the human body[/B]. You aren't some victim here, you are consciously coming into a thread to post things that people have been arguing against for pages, without actually reading those pages. As you normally do.
Just stop.[/QUOTE]
[quote]You are posting like a braindead moron who does no research however. As you normally do.
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We barely even interact together, yet you think it is alright to purposely attack me with childish names? Pathetic.
[quote]You aren't actually arguing, you just keep stating your view as the one correct view and asking others for evidence without showing any yourself. As you normally do.
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Strawman, I never said my view is the correct one, I'm merely implying to prove me wrong.
The thread went from "Discussion about gender dysphoria" to "Dark RaveN and bruhmis the poor victims of the offensive FPs"
[QUOTE=hexpunK;46850500]Calling people out who do nothing but attempt to create shitstorms, espouse bigoted beliefs despite being shown numerous times in the past that they are incorrect, and who just in general are pretty awful posters is calling people names now?
No, it's telling someone who wont listen to reasoned discussion to fuck off because they aren't doing anything.
But wicked sick "last post" Bruhmis :~)[/QUOTE]
Its actually frightening that people like you actually garner support in the eyes of others. Just wow. You remind me a lot of those moronic SJWs anti-gamergaters who just spew bullshit and project their personalities on others in order to close them up, bravo hexpunK, what else are you capable of?
EDIT: You know what, I just noticed that I am losing my temper from such ignorance, so I will refrain from replying further, but all in all if you cannot explain something to a person who flat out states that he would like some clarification on the topic and attack him instead you should really fuck off.
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[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;46850527]We barely even interact together, yet you think it is alright to purposely attack me with childish names? Pathetic.
Strawman, I never said my view is the correct one, I'm merely implying to prove me wrong.[/QUOTE]
You have been proven wrong.
It's been demonstrated in this thread with citations, that you skip over, don't read, ignore, or otherwise just disregard, that you are wrong.
When confronted with this you attack us rather than deal with the issue.
If you are insisting something, the burden of proof is on you to show that. You are insisting you are right and not backing that up. If you are not clever enough to understand that what you are doing is a form of flawed argumentation then what are we to do with you from here? We've argued with you, and you'd rather insult us and our character and act the victim than explain WHY you're right as any good argument would do.
[QUOTE=Bruhmis;46850486]calling people names is contributing right[/QUOTE]
Jesus christ you're just going in fucking circles without saying anything interesting.
[editline]3rd January 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;46850551]You remind me a lot of those moronic SJWs anti-gamergaters who just spew bullshit and project their personalities on others in order to close them up, bravo hexpunK, what else are you capable of?[/QUOTE]
What relevance does a internet non-movement that consists of people shouting at each other over twitter about "games journalism" have to do with this? Gamergate is a bunch of boring shit hacks with an overinflated ego nobody cares about.
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;46850551]Its actually frightening that people like you actually garner support in the eyes of others. Just wow. You remind me a lot of those moronic SJWs anti-gamergaters who just spew bullshit and project their personalities on others in order to close them up, bravo hexpunK, what else are you capable of?[/QUOTE]
his tone does nothing to change the fact that you need to provide more for your own argument and why are you even bringing gamergate into this lmao. that thing has nothing to do with this
[QUOTE=SIRIUS;46850467]What I hate most of all is that any conversation about this type of event degrades to silly arguments about religion[/QUOTE]
Not in this case it hasn't.
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