• Granny facing battery charges for slapping her granddaughter, who had been swearing at her
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[quote]"She grabbed my wrists and I couldn't get out of it and she let one go and she punched me in the cheek here."[/quote] What the hell? You would actually punch your own grandmother? What?! Don't tell me how she's 18, she acts like an 8 year old.
[QUOTE=sp00ks;21715745]So what would you have to say to warrant a kick in the balls? What if you say fuck you, twice? Does that mean you can slap them twice or give them a real fist to the face?[/QUOTE] I can tell you're going to be a real role model parent.
A beating of your child straightens them out. Look at the change in people from back then to now.
All of the stupid shit parents that don't bother punishing kids are going to have their children all growing up to be like this. Oh wait, it's already happened.
bitch girl
[QUOTE=David29;21718984]I can tell you're going to be a real role model parent.[/QUOTE] Are you implying that not hitting my kids would be bad?
Now, she shouldn't be put in jail. Just "retired" into the seven rings of hell. :v:
[QUOTE=sp00ks;21719175]Are you implying that not hitting my kids would be bad?[/QUOTE] More or less. I'm not saying children should be beaten up for no reason - I'm saying that if they are so naughty that they get to the stage that telling them to stop just isn't working then it really is the only alternative. Personally, as cruel as this sounds, I think it is people who can't recognise this that are the cause of disrespect and trouble in today's children.
[QUOTE=David29;21719431]More or less. I'm not saying children should be beaten up for no reason - I'm saying that if they are so naughty that they get to the stage that telling them to stop just isn't working then it really is the only alternative. Personally, as cruel as this sounds, I think it is people who can't recognise this that are the cause of disrespect and trouble in today's children.[/QUOTE] Cool story bro. Thing is, that pretty much all research in this field has shown that hitting, even slapping, children often has negative effects on a child. So instead of hitting kids maybe parents should try, I don't know, parenting.
[QUOTE=Panda X;21718995]A beating of your child straightens them out. [b][highlight]Look at the change in people from back then to now.[/b][/highlight][/QUOTE] Yeah, less kids are being beaten today.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;21721764]Yeah, less kids are being beaten today.[/QUOTE] the number of beatings given out is inversely proportionate to the number of beatings deserved.
[QUOTE=Panda X;21718995]A beating of your child straightens them out. Look at the change in people from back then to now.[/QUOTE] what does that even mean [editline]04:54PM[/editline] [QUOTE=noobcake;21724043]the number of beatings given out is inversely proportionate to the number of beatings deserved.[/QUOTE] if as a parent you have to beat your child, you've failed as a parent
Man, that 18 year old's life is pretty much screwed now.
She doesn't have any respect at all. I used to get spanked when I was doing bad things and that actually was a positive thing.
[QUOTE=wanksta11;21724231]She doesn't have any respect at all. I used to get spanked when I was doing bad things and that actually was a positive thing.[/QUOTE] no it just meant your parents were terrible and only knew fear of pain as a method of parenting
The problem here is that the granddaughter is an adult and you can't go around slapping adults even if she was swearing at her.
If the parent can't control their child through words alone, then they aren't very good at being parents
sp00ks knows where its at. With him here. You guys beat up your kids when you can't control them, that'll help to create more psychos in the future, and thats, as everyone knows, very needed.
[QUOTE=thisispain;21724241]no it just meant your parents were terrible and only knew fear of pain as a method of parenting[/QUOTE] I disagree, kids have a very underdeveloped mind so a slap if you do something truly wrong is all right (not spanking the shit out of the kid), it's an effective way of teaching. You can argue that are other ways of teaching and I agree, doesn't mean a slap or so is out of the question, some kids could use it, not everyone acts the same you know..
ITT: Kids acting as if they know shit about parenting. Who here has successfully raised a child?
What a spoiled little brat. I feel sorry for that poor old woman
[QUOTE=bunguer;21724411]I disagree, kids have a very underdeveloped mind so a slap if you do something truly wrong is all right (not spanking the shit out of the kid), it's an effective way of teaching. You can argue that are other ways of teaching and I agree, doesn't mean a slap or so is out of the question, some kids could use it, not everyone acts the same you know..[/QUOTE] studies show kids who've been taught with frankly outdated Pavlovian methods are often more aggressive, lack self-esteem, and have issues with approval. [editline]05:57PM[/editline] [QUOTE=Johnnsen;21724434]ITT: Kids acting as if they know shit about parenting. Who here has successfully raised a child?[/QUOTE] i think behavior psychologists know a bit more than FP
[QUOTE=Johnnsen;21724434]ITT: Kids acting as if they know shit about parenting. Who here has successfully raised a child?[/QUOTE] Have you? If not, you also know jack shit.
Should've slapped the hell out of the daughter [I]before [/I]she turned 18.
Reminds me of that episode of george lopez where the kid told the grandma to take her tired ass home and she slapped him and george saw and he got pissed and told his mom that he hated her or something like that.
[QUOTE=SnakeHead;21725243]Have you? If not, you also know jack shit.[/QUOTE] So? I don't pretend to know better than psychologists.
I would've destroyed her before she got a chance to call the police.
The thing is though, so many people here are saying that smacking your child doesn't work and that telling them off alone is good enough. However, this news article is clearly evidence to the contrary. [QUOTE=Johnnsen;21724434]ITT: Kids acting as if they know shit about parenting. Who here has successfully raised a child?[/QUOTE] I'm not a kid. I'm 21. Don't go attempting to take the high ground based on assumptions. Of course, I have no kids of my own. However, my parents have always maintained that a firm hand should be used if necessary, and that is how they brought me up. The result? A normal, law abiding and respectful citizen who isn't a psycho. I also have cousins who are a lot younger than me and I have seen them grow up and how then have changed through childhood. So, everything I am saying isn't just made up - it's what I know from discussing with parents, from my own childhood experience and from observing other children.
[QUOTE=David29;21725631]The thing is though, so many people here are saying that smacking your child doesn't work and that telling them off alone is good enough. However, this news article is clearly evidence to the contrary.[/QUOTE] And as we see, it helped a lot. And who says she wasn't hit before? Thats just an assumption. Maybe the parents or grand parents used to hit her all the time when she was a kid and she finally was fed up with it. Nobody knows.
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