Germany's 'Mr Flirt' teaches refugees how to pick up women
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[QUOTE=Blizzerd;51449672]what is with this hate on the pick up artist community... every community has douche bags but come on.[/QUOTE]
Are there communities not deserving of hate? All I've seen from such is teaching misogynism and manipulation.
[QUOTE=!LORD M!;51449678]Yeah it seems like a personal preference. I mean I find white, oriental and black women attractive but something about middle eastern women I do not. They're just so tanned! It is not racism it is just preference.[/QUOTE]
Im not sure if you were trying to be ironic or not, but what you said here is just fine. If your sexual preference / "type" is a black/white woman, while you dont have much of a thing for middle eastern women, its fine.
Racism/discrimination is treating people less that human due to their origin or some arbitrary attribute. Its a different topic from what you are "attracted to"
What if when saying "they're so white" it's referring to how German men are masters of their language, pragmatic about word choice and use more common words. What if it's also about how they know everything about their country and stick to well-defined social norms.
Seeing someone fumble a phrase or translate an expression can be cute, different and appealing.
I myself am glad that English is my second language as I use uncommon words and expressions at times which can be surprising and fun.
Also there is nothing intrinsically wrong with preferring a skin colour for sex and love, that's why there's an ebony category on pornhub.
[QUOTE=Chaitin;51450468]Ahh reverse racism. Is that even a thing?[/QUOTE]
What do you mean?
[QUOTE=Blizzerd;51450664]What do you mean?[/QUOTE]
Nvm, i misused the term. Moving on.
[quote]It's hard to meet a girl when you don't speak the language well and can't really talk to them," he said. "There are a lot of differences, not only the culture and religion — [B]we just don't have this total freedom at home[/B]."[/quote]
That only makes the lack of understanding on social etiquette not unexpected. For all the idiots ruining the opportunity and reputation for the rest of them I can't be surprised that the legitimately good few eager to learn the customs just struggle to comprehend the freedom they have now.
I'm more surprised that there are pick up artists who actually respect women and are the most equipped to helping these guys understand western social life. :v:
[QUOTE=LtKyle2;51450690]That only makes the lack of understanding on social etiquette not unexpected. For all the idiots ruining the opportunity and reputation for the rest of them I can't be surprised that the legitimately good few eager to learn the customs just struggle to comprehend the freedom they have now.
I'm more surprised that there are pick up artists who actually respect women and are the most equipped to helping these guys understand western social life. :v:[/QUOTE] I don't really know if I'd slot them in with pickup artists though. The way they're going about things are pretty different
[QUOTE=thelurker1234;51449433]A lot of them turn out to be really creepy and crazy when you look into them. but from the article he seems alrite
wtf deport her[/QUOTE]
Now you see why the german birthrate is so low.
[QUOTE=CarnolfMeatla;51451043]Now you see why the german birthrate is so low.[/QUOTE]
I really don't see it as a problem, tho.
If anything, those kind of statements help me out when deciding on a partner.
Would you rather be with that kind of person only to find out much later that she holds some batshit insane, auto-chauvinist views?
It's basically the same as when some woman hears guy making stereotypical misogynistic statements, she knows in advance to avoid him.
Weird how we've gone from telling refugees "don't rape people" to "how to get laid"
Well, between touching a girls hair and saying "hi sweety" and this, I prefer this. A 100% progress.
Its better to put them with pick up artists. Nobody else has the balls to say "No. Dont do that becauae girls here arent girls like you came from".
I rather have refugee men using embarrassing pick up lines than a desperate one needing to rape because of a "sexual emergency."
Like seriously, I am critical on the refugee situation, but this can actually help the situation if the teacher is not* some normal douche who turns men into predator type crazies.
[QUOTE=Tudd;51451710]I rather have refugee men using embarrassing pick up lines then a desperate one needing to rape because of a "sexual emergency."
Like seriously, I am critical on the refugee situation, but this can actually help the situation if the teacher is some normal douche who turns men into predator type crazies.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, this is better than the "iraq" line we have in one of the cheap bars. Though I still don't endorse fucking drunk girls
[QUOTE=gukki;51452532]Yeah, this is better than the "iraq" line we have in one of the cheap bars. Though I still don't endorse fucking drunk girls[/QUOTE]
Oh no completely, I also just realized how badly I typed that message out on my phone.
He's just a con man out to exploit the ignorance of refugees for cash. €1,400 for one day of what essentially amounts to bullshit advice, that's fucking hilarious.
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;51452685]He's just a con man out to exploit the ignorance of refugees for cash[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't say con man; mostly because he is volunteering his services (probably cleverly for the publicity). The guy who is teaching doesn't appear to be the stereotypical douche pick up artist type either.
Either way, as long as it is better than borderline rape lessons from Mr. Jersey Shore-style PUAs, then who cares?
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;51452685]He's just a con man out to exploit the ignorance of refugees for cash. €1,400 for one day of what essentially amounts to bullshit advice, that's fucking hilarious.[/QUOTE]
You didn't eveN read the whole article. He is volunteering.
[QUOTE=ghghop;51452718]You didn't eveN read the whole article. He is volunteering.[/QUOTE]
Yeah in hope of getting customers.
[QUOTE=Tudd;51452652]Oh no completely, I also just realized how badly I typed that message out on my phone.[/QUOTE]
oh, no it's not about how you typed it. We're a kind of a small city, and we have 1 refugee center on the outskirts of the city. It just annoys me to go to the bar when theres a line of iraq guys next to the dancefloor they look at the girls like some prey
[QUOTE=gukki;51453070]oh, no it's not about how you typed it. We're a kind of a small city, and we have 1 refugee center on the outskirts of the city. It just annoys me to go to the bar when theres a line of iraq guys next to the dancefloor they look at the girls like some prey[/QUOTE]
When I was in Rome for an AP Art History group and our Teacher took us to a youth nightclub (it was odd), it was very similar. Everyone wanted to leave after like 30 minutes lol.
Luckily, in Germany recently it didn't seem that obvious of "line"/glaring, but ofcourse Berlin is far north and already well-adept multiculturally.
[QUOTE=da space core;51450576]Im not sure if you were trying to be ironic or not, but what you said here is just fine. If your sexual preference / "type" is a black/white woman, while you dont have much of a thing for middle eastern women, its fine.
Racism/discrimination is treating people less that human due to their origin or some arbitrary attribute. Its a different topic from what you are "attracted to"[/QUOTE]
Of course I know what I said is fine.
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;51452722]Yeah in hope of getting customers.[/QUOTE]
Wow, what an asshole, providing a free service that leaves the refugees with zero financial obligation. Why isn't he in prison yet?
How dare that guy be clever businessman!
HE IS TRYING TO GET MORE CUSTOMERS! AT THE EXPENSE AT TEACHING REFUGEES HOW TO ACT NORMAL AROUND GIRLS!
Truly conning people.
well dating coaches are largely former PUAs who rebranded after PUA stopped being edgy and titillating, and dating "coaching" is very much a scam industry in that you are paying some jerkoff thousands of dollars to teach you stuff that is either very obvious or contingent on factors that are completely outside of your control.
and wouldnt you know it, the customer base for both is largely the same: men of middle eastern or Indian origin, obsessed with trying to fuck white european women. No one ever seems to ask why they dont pursue women from their own background, which they would almost assuredly have more success with, instead the advice being given to these men is to put them in the two hardest possible routes to get a mate: interracial and cold approach.
Combining two of the lowest success rates on top of a stunted grasp of the language is going to result in a lot of resentment and frustration at their near constant rejection.
yeah sure its a nice gesture I guess
[QUOTE=jaegerisacunt;51455013]well dating coaches are largely former PUAs who rebranded after PUA stopped being edgy and titillating, and dating "coaching" is very much a scam industry in that you are paying some jerkoff thousands of dollars to teach you stuff that is either very obvious or contingent on factors that are completely outside of your control.
and wouldnt you know it, the customer base for both is largely the same: men of middle eastern or Indian origin, obsessed with trying to fuck white european women. No one ever seems to ask why they dont pursue women from their own background, which they would almost assuredly have more success with, instead the advice being given to these men is to put them in the two hardest possible routes to get a mate: interracial and cold approach.
Combining two of the lowest success rates on top of a stunted grasp of the language is going to result in a lot of resentment and frustration at their near constant rejection.
yeah sure its a nice gesture I guess[/QUOTE]
Hopefully though it will help them get to know german people, maybe they'll hang out with german guys or become friends with german girls. they'll go to german clubs and get to know german culture. I only hope the inevitable rejection won't shatter that fragile identity they're fostering.
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