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Why cant they all be trying to have passionate and caring lovemaking with the main purpose of procreation?

[QUOTE=krazipanda;37532845]"what do you do for a living" "ooh, I'm a dungeon master" "hot"[/QUOTE] [URL="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/4/48/Dungeon_Keeper_2_-_cover_art.jpg"]Nice[/URL]

[QUOTE=Carnage2323;37533486]Why cant they all be trying to have passionate and caring lovemaking with the main purpose of procreation?[/QUOTE] Why do they have to? "Why cant they all be trying to have bland, flavorless ice-cream with the main purpose of getting enough food to survive?" 'Cause it's boring. Some people just enjoy different things.

[QUOTE=Carnage2323;37533486]Why cant they all be trying to have passionate and caring lovemaking with the main purpose of procreation?[/QUOTE] You can't fakepost on FP because nobody gets the joke.

this is the bdsm equivalent of eternal september [editline]4th September 2012[/editline] fetlife exists for christ sake, why do you need paid escorts

[QUOTE=sirdownloadsalot;37533879]Why do they have to? "Why cant they all be trying to have bland, flavorless ice-cream with the main purpose of getting enough food to survive?" 'Cause it's boring. Some people just enjoy different things.[/QUOTE] it seems you have trouble realizing something is clearly a joke

[QUOTE=Carnage2323;37535806]it seems you have trouble realizing something is clearly a joke[/QUOTE] When sarcasm is written in text it's often hard to decipher if it is sarcasm or not.

And now we will have people arguing BDSM is a lifestyle.

[QUOTE=sirdownloadsalot;37535894]When sarcasm is written in text it's often hard to decipher if it is sarcasm or not.[/QUOTE] You could have just looked at his avatar to realize he [I]probably doesn't[/I] follow the traditional (AKA boring) form of sex. [editline]4th September 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Swilly;37535919]And now we will have people arguing BDSM is a lifestyle.[/QUOTE] What, did you miss the fact that there've been conventions for it for decades?

[QUOTE=Swilly;37535919]And now we will have people arguing BDSM is a lifestyle.[/QUOTE] How can it be a lifestyle. Do they go out in public and get themselves arrested because they get a hard-on for it?

[QUOTE=Garik;37535935]How can it be a lifestyle. Do they go out in public and get themselves arrested because they get a hard-on for it?[/QUOTE] Some people like to be collared out in public, not sure how extreme some people would go beyond that.

[QUOTE=Garik;37535935]How can it be a lifestyle. Do they go out in public and get themselves arrested because they get a hard-on for it?[/QUOTE] I've seen bondage couple stuff around Melbourne. Though it is Melbourne, so stuff like that is pretty common-place.

[QUOTE=sirdownloadsalot;37536028]I've seen bondage couple stuff around Melbourne. Though it is Melbourne, so stuff like that is pretty common-place.[/QUOTE] Yeah, after all, Australia is the place where they dumped all the prisoners in anyway.

[QUOTE=Garik;37535935]How can it be a lifestyle. Do they go out in public and get themselves arrested because they get a hard-on for it?[/QUOTE] That would explain the United States rate of incarceration much better. /terriblejoke

If you go to one of these dungeons, ask for CBT.

[QUOTE=Elecbullet;37532245]BDSM ain't my thing.[/QUOTE] Tell me that the first time you come home and find that your girlfriend's tied herself to your bed.

there's a spectrum of extremity I'd say. There are the casuals, and there are the hardcores.

[QUOTE=Swilly;37535919]And now we will have people arguing BDSM is a lifestyle.[/QUOTE] but it is a lifestyle

[QUOTE=Garik;37535935]How can it be a lifestyle. Do they go out in public and get themselves arrested because they get a hard-on for it?[/QUOTE] For some people, that domination extends to more than just sex, it extends to every aspect of their life. Some women wear a collar to show that they are 'owned' by their partner. A few even take it so far as to have an actual master/sex slave sort of relationship. (Which can be goddamn hot, by the way.) Naturally, it's an expression of ultimate trust between partners when one is willing to give themselves so completely into the other's hands. And there can be much fun to be had with it. Imagine a night on the town with your slave/pet/significant other, she's wearing a butt plug and remote control vibrator under her skirt - And you've got the remote. Power trip, man.

I don't understand bondage. Most of it makes me cringe

[QUOTE=archangel125;37536167]For some people, that domination extends to more than just sex, it extends to every aspect of their life. Some women wear a collar to show that they are 'owned' by their partner. A few even take it so far as to have an actual master/sex slave sort of relationship. (Which can be goddamn hot, by the way.) Naturally, it's an expression of ultimate trust between partners when one is willing to give themselves so completely into the other's hands. And there can be much fun to be had with it. Imagine a night on the town with your slave/pet/significant other, she's wearing a butt plug and remote control vibrator under her skirt - And you've got the remote. Power trip, man.[/QUOTE] Yeah, that'd be pretty cool man.

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;37536184]I don't understand bondage. Most of it makes me cringe[/QUOTE] it's not for everyone

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;37536184]I don't understand bondage. Most of it makes me cringe[/QUOTE] it's an acquired taste

[QUOTE=jakedog;37533272]Try blindfolding yourself or your partner during sex. It'll highten your other senses making for some great orgasms[/QUOTE] What partner?

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;37536184]I don't understand bondage. Most of it makes me cringe[/QUOTE] It's a control thing.

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;37536184]I don't understand bondage. Most of it makes me cringe[/QUOTE] It's one of those kinks you normally have to get in to very slowly. For most people, it stems from childhood experiences.

[QUOTE=sirdownloadsalot;37536345]It's one of those kinks you normally have to get in to very slowly. For most people, it stems from childhood experiences.[/QUOTE] what sort of experiences? :zoid:

[QUOTE=archangel125;37536103]Tell me that the first time you come home and find that your girlfriend's tied herself to your bed.[/QUOTE] I'd probably be more amazed about how she managed to do that all alone.

[QUOTE=person11;37532638]Oh god. From the few parts of the book that I have seen, 50 Shades of Grey is the least well written series of books ever. The last thing I want to see spur BDSM acceptance and sex-positivity (the act of not giving a shit what people are into) is a dumb book series based on a fan fiction.[/QUOTE] Guys complaining about a poorly written erotic novel is like a chick complaining about bad porn actors

[QUOTE=trotskygrad;37536412]what sort of experiences? :zoid:[/QUOTE] Remaining the straight man here. Childhood tying games, scenes in movies the depict bondage or really any sort of stuff like that. At the most extreme, some form of trauma involving being tied down. The night the babysitter got interesting...