• Goldsmiths Students' Union diversity officer explains she cannot be racist or sexist because she is
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[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;47758681]It's surprising how much animosity some of the LGBT community has, especially towards one another.[/QUOTE] I also can't be the only one that thinks people using CIS as an insult is incredible offensive and flat-out stupid. Like, why do we even need to have that term when we already have Male and Female? Oh man, he/she is happy with how he/she was born, better treat him/her like they're scum. Just my opinion though.
[QUOTE=Ziron;47739124]It's not just feminism; social acitivsim in general seems to want to relive the 60s. The problems is that there's no moderate groups, like MLK Jr, to sway the public and they're godawful at picking martyrs for their causes, which delegitimizes their complaints.[/QUOTE] In the end the vast majority of these people probably just want to feel like they're doing something with their lives. The more recent generations were brought up thinking they'll take over the world and everyone can become an actor sports star astronaut president, and when those dreams are dashed they look for other ways to feel like their lives have meaning.
[QUOTE=Ardosos;47726469]I think the best acronym is GBLT, because then you can make jokes about GBLT sandwiches.[/QUOTE] You actually triggered the hunger part of my brain. You son of a bitch.
[QUOTE=ossumsauce;47735245][b]WORD WALL AHEAD[/b] Honestly i feel like these exclusionary tactics are only turning that very same populace against them. Perhaps these white and/or men were interested in what the deal was but now that they have been intentionally excluded for reasons entirely beyond their control, they probably are just force-feeding the same cycle that they're so pissed off about, aka "the angry white man". They treat diversity as not a passive adjective of a community but an activity to be accomplished, and have subsequently diluted it to mean "everyone but white men". The "diversity" ends up exactly the opposite: typically just a bunch of white women. Diversity lives and dies on the fact that no one group dominates the group in numbers. As was mentioned on the last page, there IS a difference between racism and institutionalized racism. Racism as a blanket term is pretty damn simple; the internalized prejudice against a certain race. Institutionalized racism is just a step up, turning that prejudice into social, economic, and political disadvantages for that particular race. It is still totally possible to be racist and not inhibit those social factors against that race. Ironically, by internalizing this belief that all white men are evil, racist, sexist rapists and pushing them away and mocking them for the sole act of existing in the first place, new age feminism is doing the exact opposite of what we'll call "positive feminism" set out to do. It's separating men and women and pushing them apart, eliminating any kind of rapport, which was critical in how original feminism succeeded in the old days. It's setting a precedent for extremism, in short. Feminism is extremely important to me, but at this point i can only sit and watch as positive progress is halted, then reversed. The tumblr model of feminism and social """"advancement"""" became the norm. It's just depressing to watch. These people are full of bile and hatred, just because they can. It's come down to petty snubs and the twisting of the original ideals that i and many others hold so dearly. I totally understand that there exist in this world a number of sexist/racist pigs. But you know what? How are you supposed to know which individual you meet fits that description until you talk to them? In the end that's not really what they care about though. What they say is that they want a "safe space" for women and minorities, and i'm like yeah.... ok...i can sort of get on board with that? Kinda? But what that implies is that ALL women and ALL minorities NEED that "safe space". Which immediately sets a precedence: If ALL women and ALL minorities need a safe space, who ever else DOESNT need a safe space MUST be the reason why this safe space exists at all. In this case, it's white men. And from the get go, white men have become the enemy. They bring up the slave history and european imperialism and shit like that, right? All of which has been undone over a century ago, mind you. And they set this ideal that white people should be shameful just for existing because of all these bad things that this collective idea of "white people" as a whole did over a hundred years ago, then berate them for feeling "white guilt". Slavery and Imperialism was fucked, yes. But if you really want to turn the tables on them, the truth is that the white man didn't invent slavery, nor imperialism, and was definitely not the only one to perpetrate them. The only reason europeans got african slaves in the first place was because violent tribes near the western cost of africa sold off the conquered men, women, and children of rival tribes to the european traders for weapons. They didn't sweep in and conquer and kill tribes themselves. The true perpetrator of African Slavery, ironically, was Africans. Not to mention the most recent country to hold an empire was Japan, and behind that, the Ottoman Empire. Neither or which are European. PLUS, the idea that POC(which on it's own is a troublesome term, to collectively group every single non-white minority into a single, easy-to-term group is pretty racist on it's own) being dominated by white people in general is ameri-centric, completely ignoring any kind of social structuring in other countries. To wrap this up because it's 6:15 and i should have gone to bed like 3 hours ago, everything about tumblr feminism and social justice is ignorant and even racist in it's own right. Ironic and hilarious all at once. [b]TL;DR all the attempts to be politically correct just resulted in it's own brand of racism, ignorance, and extremism.[/b][/QUOTE] This pretty much sums up why I'm against mainstream feminism/most "progressive" groups. I love the idea of REAL feminism, but that's not what it's become
People should realize just how many people believe in this definition of racism. It's a huge academic powerhouse. I always find it funny that these people will say "that's not racism, that's just discrimination." Discrimination on ethnic or racial lines. Totally not racism. And they have no explanation for minorities who hold racist views of other minorities. It must be a complete mystery to them.
Diversity and equality! Oh. Except for white men of course. God dammit people this isn't that hard. Diversity and equality mean something and you're values are against it.
[QUOTE=DeVotchKa;47758923]I also can't be the only one that thinks people using CIS as an insult is incredible offensive and flat-out stupid. Like, why do we even need to have that term when we already have Male and Female? Oh man, he/she is happy with how he/she was born, better treat him/her like they're scum. Just my opinion though.[/QUOTE] I'm fine with them calling me cis, but only if I get to call them fag in return. But we all know that won't fly.
[QUOTE=Explosions;47760524]People should realize just how many people believe in this definition of racism. It's a huge academic powerhouse. I always find it funny that these people will say "that's not racism, that's just discrimination." Discrimination on ethnic or racial lines. Totally not racism. And they have no explanation for minorities who hold racist views of other minorities. It must be a complete mystery to them.[/QUOTE] since their definition is "prejudice plus power", if a white guy goes to china and starts calling everyone chinks, he is not being racist i guess
[QUOTE=DuCT;47760558]I'm fine with them calling me cis, but only if I get to call them fag in return. But we all know that won't fly.[/QUOTE] "cis" is short for "cisgender" and is meant to mean people whose gender and sex match up relatively well. It is contrasted by things like "transgender" and "transsexual". "Cis" is not an insult, it's a descriptive word.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;47769280]"cis" is short for "cisgender" and is meant to mean people whose gender and sex match up relatively well. It is contrasted by things like "transgender" and "transsexual". "Cis" is not an insult, it's a descriptive word.[/QUOTE] Maybe they should stop hurling it like a fucking insult then, cause technically faggot is also a descriptive term.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;47769280]"cis" is short for "cisgender" and is meant to mean people whose gender and sex match up relatively well. It is contrasted by things like "transgender" and "transsexual". "Cis" is not an insult, it's a descriptive word.[/QUOTE] Why do I see tumblr posting stuff about "cis scum" all the time?
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;47769280]"cis" is short for "cisgender" and is meant to mean people whose gender and sex match up relatively well. It is contrasted by things like "transgender" and "transsexual". "Cis" is not an insult, it's a descriptive word.[/QUOTE] Question: Why was that needed, and why is it being used as an insult?
It's tumblr, a few of the people on there are bloody crazy. If you veiw on a subject or a word comes purely from the actions of people on tumblr you need to take a break from reddits TiA. Cis is a discriptive and scientific term which is used not just for gender but science too, e.g. trans fat and cis fat. Faggot is not a descriptive term it is a slur.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;47769280]"cis" is short for "cisgender" and is meant to mean people whose gender and sex match up relatively well. It is contrasted by things like "transgender" and "transsexual". "Cis" is not an insult, it's a descriptive word.[/QUOTE] "Nip" is short for "Nippon" and is meant to mean people from the island of Japan. It is contrasted by things like "Brit" and "Aussie." "Nip" is not an insult, it's a descriptive word.
[QUOTE=Canuhearme?;47769995]"Nip" is short for "Nippon" and is meant to mean people from the island of Japan. It is contrasted by things like "Brit" and "Aussie." "Nip" is not an insult, it's a descriptive word.[/QUOTE] don't get angry at the english language. consult a dictionary on what 'cis' means instead of posting forced crap like this
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;47769280]"cis" is short for "cisgender" and is meant to mean people whose gender and sex match up relatively well.[/QUOTE] It seems strange to use it for sex when "cis" means "the same/same side". That implies they are attracted to the same sex.
[QUOTE=Ownederd;47770007]don't get angry at the english language. consult a dictionary on what 'cis' means instead of posting forced crap like this[/QUOTE] I don't need to read a dictionary to see that the context in which people use the word cis is often insulting.
[QUOTE=ossumsauce;47735245][b]WORD WALL[/b][/QUOTE] This is a really good post. I'm going to re-post it over in the [url=http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1461299]Identity Politics[/url] thread, if that's okay.
[QUOTE=Melkor;47770059]I don't need to read a dictionary to see that the context in which people use the word cis is usually insulting.[/QUOTE] it's unbelievably boring and lazy to get upset over a minority using a word in a salty manner. don't focus on it. nothing ill is going to come to you
[QUOTE=Ownederd;47770067]it's unbelievably boring and lazy to get upset over a minority using a word in a salty manner. don't focus on it. nothing ill is going to come to you[/QUOTE] Did I come across as angry or upset? I'm just letting you know that the word is often used in a way that has negative connotations.
[QUOTE=Melkor;47770095]Did I come across as angry or upset? I'm just letting you know that the word often has negative connotations.[/QUOTE] no, it doesn't. if you're cis, if you're cis if you're trans, you're trans it's that easy. who cares about what a bunch of people being passive aggressive about the word think?
[QUOTE=Ownederd;47770101]no, it doesn't. if you're cis, if you're cis if you're trans, you're trans it's that easy. who cares about what a bunch of people being passive aggressive about the word think?[/QUOTE] You literally just contradicted yourself in this post. You just said that a bunch of people are being passive aggressive about the word after denying that the word is often used as an insult. Now what do I care what these people think? I don't care in the slightest. My first post wasn't about whether I cared about what some SJW's on Tumblr think. It was about whether a word can have connotations beyond just its dictionary definition. But seriously, do you really want to play this rhetorical game with me? I can go all day. [editline]21st May 2015[/editline] To be fair though, I'd say you're half right. It's often used to be insulting, but it's also often not used to be insulting. So Canuhearme's comparison to what I assume is a racial slur is a little extreme.
[QUOTE=Melkor;47770157][B]You literally just contradicted yourself in this post. You just said that a bunch of people are being passive aggressive about the word after denying that the word is often used as an insult. [/B] Now what do I care what these people think? I don't care in the slightest. My first post wasn't about whether I cared about what some SJW's on Tumblr think. It was about whether a word can have connotations beyond just its dictionary definition. But seriously, do you really want to play this rhetorical game with me? I can go all day. [editline]21st May 2015[/editline] To be fair I'd say you're half right. It's often used to be insulting, but it's also often not used to be insulting. So Canuhearme's comparison to what I assume is a racial slur is a little extreme.[/QUOTE] my argument is that it's lazy and inane to care about people using the word 'cis' in a hurtful manner. anyone who seriously does this has no real bearing on what's going to happen - that's a simple fact of life because of how things are
[QUOTE=Ownederd;47770007]don't get angry at the english language. consult a dictionary on what 'cis' means instead of posting forced crap like this[/QUOTE] Asshat, we're aware the cis has it's actual uses. We're talking about the shitheads who specifically use it as an insult. [editline]21st May 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=Ownederd;47770190]my argument is that it's lazy and inane to care about people using the word 'cis' in a hurtful manner. anyone who seriously does this has no real bearing on what's going to happen - that's a simple fact of life because of how things are[/QUOTE] Except for the part where these people are becoming diversity officers and having an impact on how universities are ran at the very least? I've already addressed this falacious fucking point, these people are having an impact, they do need to be addressed so why the fuck should anyone stand for them using a term as an insult. Better yet why the fuck do you think you have the right to tell people to effectively get over it? [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Flaming / Rude / Don't break the rules so often, thanks." - Swebonny))[/highlight]
[QUOTE=Rapscallion92;47770297]Asshat, we're aware the cis has it's actual uses. We're talking about the shitheads who specifically use it as an insult. [editline]21st May 2015[/editline] Except for the part where these people are becoming diversity officers and having an impact on how universities are ran at the very least? I've already addressed this falacious fucking point, these people are having an impact, they do need to be addressed so why the fuck should anyone stand for them using a term as an insult. Better yet why the fuck do you think you have the right to tell people to effectively get over it?[/QUOTE] i would take your argument more seriously if you had a bit more restraint, fyi. i see no honest reason to argue with you if you're gonna keep mouthing off stuff like "FUCK!" or "ASSHAT"
I've literally never seen the word 'cis' used as an insult. Where is this all coming from?
[QUOTE=Ownederd;47770317]i would take your argument more seriously if you had a bit more restraint, fyi. i see no honest reason to argue with you if you're gonna keep mouthing off stuff like "FUCK!" or "ASSHAT"[/QUOTE] I'd take you more seriously if you could accept the simple fact that people hurl cis like an insult and that these people do have the opportunity to gain power. But instead you focus on me being a tool instead of the content of my argument each and every time. Well done, gold star for you.
[QUOTE=Gas/spg;47770327]I've literally never seen the word 'cis' used as an insult. Where is this all coming from?[/QUOTE] Not on its own, but in "cis scum".
[QUOTE=Rapscallion92;47770406]I'd take you more seriously if you could accept the simple fact that people hurl cis like an insult and that these people do have the opportunity to gain power. But instead you focus on me being a tool instead of the content of my argument each and every time. Well done, gold star for you.[/QUOTE] gain power for what? try to make life easier for disfranchised people? yeah. make life tougher for people who are a majority? no.
[QUOTE=Gas/spg;47770327]I've literally never seen the word 'cis' used as an insult. Where is this all coming from?[/QUOTE] Radicals. Unless you frequent those circles, you're very unlikely to see it in an insulting manner, if at all.
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