• Texas judge William Adams under investigation after video aparently shows him beating disabled daugh
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[QUOTE=Sift;33115133] Also I want you to direct quote me where I said it's fine to beat your kid? Most I said is a /single/ spank and removal of the computer or whatever. Stop putting words in my mouth, please.[/QUOTE] The answer to the question is the sentence immediately after the question
[QUOTE=Sift;33115133]Also I want you to direct quote me where I said it's fine to beat your kid? Most I said is a /single/ spank and removal of the computer or whatever. Stop putting words in my mouth, please.[/QUOTE] You do seem to be trying to justifying his actions.
[QUOTE=Sift;33115133]I wish I had that gif of someone slamming their head into a wall. Telling your kid not to download shit onto your computer because truth be told maybe he was one of those dudes that think everything is a virus, is not the same as telling them to sleep on the floor. Also I want you to direct quote me where I said it's fine to beat your kid? Most I said is a /single/ spank and removal of the computer or whatever. Stop putting words in my mouth, please.[/QUOTE] so fucking what i don't care if she murdered a prostitute, turned her into chilli, and then fucking fed it to him nothing deserves the kind of reaction he had and no, it wasn't deserved when you got it either just to head off your next post
[QUOTE=Sift;33115039]Back in my first grade, I lost a book my teacher owned and she gave me a sadface sticker till I could find it and bring it back. I couldn't find it and my dad decided to drag me to the basement crying and swat me every day I had that sticker. I probably screamed and cried louder then she did so uh, yeah I don't really see it on the same grounds as you bro.[/QUOTE] uhm i don't even
[QUOTE=Sift;33115089]. Jesus I fear for when you all have kids, they'll disobey you and all's you'll say is "Gosh sorry, guess my rules were to strict please have your way with what's in my house." [/QUOTE] I'll savagely beat my children so they don't break the rules and be brainwashed to think my beatings were justified and right, thanks dude for the advice.
[QUOTE=thisispain;33115158]uhm i don't even[/QUOTE] i wish my movie player could project as strongly as him [editline]4th November 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Sift;33115133]^^^ No it's a legit worry, I've asked how you think this could of been avoided or whatever, what would a better punishment could of been and all's I get is "MAN SO YOU THINK IT'S OKAY TO BEAT THE KID YOU NEED TO LOVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT" answers, I haven't seen a single repsonse from any of you on what kind of punishments would work better. So after pages of no responses I figured you know what, guess they wouldn't punish their kids. [/QUOTE] because this isn't a fucking punishment strategizing thread this is a thread about a judge who is a fucking asshole
Holy shit facepunch stop being retarded. If you think a single swat is beating your kid then you're fucked in the head retarded. I'm sorry but it's the case. You keep pretending like I think what he did is alright when I've said now thousands of times that I think the guys a disgusting monster and went way to hard on her and I think he's batshit crazy but for some reason you're obsessed with thinking that I'm alright with it. Stop white knighting the girl holy shit, I keep saying she did bring it on herself and "NO SHE DIDN'T!!!" when yes, she fucking did. The punishment was over the top and unneeded and he's a lunatic for it but goddamn, she broke his rules she deserved some form of punishment. You disobey your parent you don't walk away without getting scolded or something no matter if the rules stupid or not. Seriously, I'll bow out of this as you've got some strange fetish for ignoring everything I say and at this point it's frustrating as you'll quote me and go "Oh so you think it's okay to beat your kid????" but whatever, it's not worth arguing about when you're being bullheaded about it. The girl fucked up, the dad overreacted and is a monster, the mom had a part in it abusive cycle or not, yeah I admit I kinda am jealous that people give a shit about her when growing up I had literally no one but despite my tales of my past I don't care and it doesn't really effect my points on this.
[QUOTE=Sift;33115215] Stop white knighting the girl holy shit, I keep saying she did bring it on herself and "NO SHE DIDN'T!!!" when yes, she fucking did. The punishment was over the top and unneeded and he's a lunatic for it but goddamn, she broke his rules she deserved some form of punishment. You disobey your parent you don't walk away without getting scolded or something no matter if the rules stupid or not. [/QUOTE] Yes beat her ass because of her love for technology that maybe just maybe be a result of her having a disease. A single swat can be abuse you act like 1 swat is nothing but it depends on the person swatting and in this video the man doesn't swat once he completely beats her ass.
No one deserves anything for breaking an arbitrary or unjust rule. And those who enforce unjust and arbitrary rules are not to be respected with compliance. Your disciplining as a child didn't make you a good person, it made you weak. I was an asshole when I was a kid. And my parents never hit me, not one time. I lied, I cheated, I hit people, I insulted people. But you know what? I realized that was wrong [I]on my own.[/I] Because I'm a human being, and I'm capable of learning, understanding, and changing. That's what people do. [editline]4th November 2011[/editline] It doesn't matter what really works or not, that's not what Sift is talking about in the slightest. All I have to say is, get over yourself.
[QUOTE=Sift;33115215]Holy shit facepunch stop being retarded. If you think a single swat is beating your kid then you're fucked in the head retarded. I'm sorry but it's the case. You keep pretending like I think what he did is alright when I've said now thousands of times that I think the guys a disgusting monster and went way to hard on her and I think he's batshit crazy but for some reason you're obsessed with thinking that I'm alright with it. Stop white knighting the girl holy shit, I keep saying she did bring it on herself and "NO SHE DIDN'T!!!" when yes, she fucking did. The punishment was over the top and unneeded and he's a lunatic for it but goddamn, she broke his rules she deserved some form of punishment. You disobey your parent you don't walk away without getting scolded or something no matter if the rules stupid or not. Seriously, I'll bow out of this as you've got some strange fetish for ignoring everything I say and at this point it's frustrating as you'll quote me and go "Oh so you think it's okay to beat your kid????" but whatever, it's not worth arguing about when you're being bullheaded about it. The girl fucked up, the dad overreacted and is a monster, the mom had a part in it abusive cycle or not, yeah I admit I kinda am jealous that people give a shit about her when growing up I had literally no one but despite my tales of my past I don't care and it doesn't really effect my points on this.[/QUOTE] I'm very sorry to hear you were abused as a child, but it's never okay to beat a kid, you should know that yourself. Evidence has shown that is messes up children.
[QUOTE=Sift;33115215]Holy shit facepunch stop being retarded. If you think a single swat is beating your kid then you're fucked in the head retarded. I'm sorry but it's the case. You keep pretending like I think what he did is alright when I've said now thousands of times that I think the guys a disgusting monster and went way to hard on her and I think he's batshit crazy but for some reason you're obsessed with thinking that I'm alright with it. Stop white knighting the girl holy shit, I keep saying she did bring it on herself and "NO SHE DIDN'T!!!" when yes, she fucking did. The punishment was over the top and unneeded and he's a lunatic for it but goddamn, she broke his rules she deserved some form of punishment. You disobey your parent you don't walk away without getting scolded or something no matter if the rules stupid or not. Seriously, I'll bow out of this as you've got some strange fetish for ignoring everything I say and at this point it's frustrating as you'll quote me and go "Oh so you think it's okay to beat your kid????" but whatever, it's not worth arguing about when you're being bullheaded about it. The girl fucked up, the dad overreacted and is a monster, the mom had a part in it abusive cycle or not, yeah I admit I kinda am jealous that people give a shit about her when growing up I had literally no one but despite my tales of my past I don't care and it doesn't really effect my points on this.[/QUOTE] I don't know about you, but I want my children to know right from wrong. When they do the right thing, I want them to do it because they [i]know[/i] to do the right thing. Not because they're afraid I am going to hurt them if they do otherwise. I don't want my children to grow up seeing that hitting is a good way to instill a sense of respect in someone. We tell our children that hitting is wrong, and then we go on to hit them when they misbehave. What sense does that make? Do you think they're too stupid to notice the double standard?
[QUOTE=Sift;33115215]Holy shit facepunch stop being retarded. If you think a single swat is beating your kid then you're fucked in the head retarded. I'm sorry but it's the case. You keep pretending like I think what he did is alright when I've said now thousands of times that I think the guys a disgusting monster and went way to hard on her and I think he's batshit crazy but for some reason you're obsessed with thinking that I'm alright with it. Stop white knighting the girl holy shit, I keep saying she did bring it on herself and "NO SHE DIDN'T!!!" when yes, she fucking did. The punishment was over the top and unneeded and he's a lunatic for it but goddamn, she broke his rules she deserved some form of punishment. You disobey your parent you don't walk away without getting scolded or something no matter if the rules stupid or not. Seriously, I'll bow out of this as you've got some strange fetish for ignoring everything I say and at this point it's frustrating as you'll quote me and go "Oh so you think it's okay to beat your kid????" but whatever, it's not worth arguing about when you're being bullheaded about it. The girl fucked up, the dad overreacted and is a monster, the mom had a part in it abusive cycle or not, yeah I admit I kinda am jealous that people give a shit about her when growing up I had literally no one but despite my tales of my past I don't care and it doesn't really effect my points on this.[/QUOTE] Did you just do a large scale ad hominem? I'm sorry that everything mummy and daddy told you was wrong and your personal experience does not quite cut it.
Has it been said already? Didn't flip on through 5 pages, but alas: [i]Texas.[/i] This is seriously fucked. The weirdest part is that it was recorded. Did they say who set up the camera or anything? As-in, did the daughter set it up to get the evidence or something?
[QUOTE=Sift;33115215]You keep pretending like I think what he did is alright when I've said now thousands of times that I think the guys a disgusting monster and went way to hard on her and I think he's batshit crazy but for some reason you're obsessed with thinking that I'm alright with it. [/QUOTE] uhuhuhhuhu hey like, if your dad saw you do those run-on sentences, he'd like totally get pissed that would be cool, huhuhuhhh
itt any touching = child abuse There is most definitely a difference in a spanking and child abuse. I have a very loving, supportive, functional family (which is kind of rare these days) and I got spankings; It was not abuse. When I got spanked I knew why, I knew I had done something wrong, and I learned to take responsibility for my actions. My parents are the greatest people I know and I hope to one day have a child who loves me as much as I love them, that said if my child needs a spanking they will get one.
[QUOTE=imptastick;33118046]I have a very loving, supportive, functional family (which is kind of rare these days) and I got spankings[/QUOTE] Contradictions. Lovely.
[QUOTE=Van-man;33118071]Contradictions. Lovely.[/QUOTE] Not really. Just because someone gave their child a little smack on the bod for being naughty, it doesnt mean they arent loving, supportive or functional. My dad used to hit me with his belt, but never more than once in one go, and only a few times ever. Do I hate him? No...The only times he did it was when I was winding my parents up on purpose in the car or whatever, and after lots of warnings I didnt stop. Positive reinforcement is still infinitely better than negative reinforcement, though. Being punished by not being rewarded has a much stronger effect than just being hit all the time.
[QUOTE=Van-man;33118071]Contradictions. Lovely.[/QUOTE] Just because My parents spanked me does not mean they were not loving and supportive. My father would give his life for mine without second thought. When my parents spanked me it was not out of rage, they never hit me repeatedly, and I was never hit hard enough to hurt me for more than a few seconds. With their parenting all three of their sons have become functional responsible adults; We are all Eagle scouts, all have or are currently getting our degrees, and work hard to earn what we want. My oldest brother is now an EMT, my other has a good job and is working for his degree, and I am going to a private college on a full academic scholarship. Say what you want about me or my views but don't try to put down my parents, I know that without their help I would never have made it this far.
[QUOTE=imptastick;33118879]Just because My parents spanked me does not mean they were not loving and supportive. My father would give his life for mine without second thought. When my parents spanked me it was not out of rage, they never hit me repeatedly, and I was never hit hard enough to hurt me for more than a few seconds. With their parenting all three of their sons have become functional responsible adults; We are all Eagle scouts, all have or are currently getting our degrees, and work hard to earn what we want. My oldest brother is now an EMT, my other has a good job and is working for his degree, and I am going to a private college on a full academic scholarship. Say what you want about me or my views but don't try to put down my parents, I know that without their help I would never have made it this far.[/QUOTE] How does that prove spanking is effective parenting? There are a number of ways you can discipline children without physical abuse. Why would you want to teach your kids that getting physical should be the primary answer to solving their problems? By choosing to just physically abuse your kids to solve a certain problem, you are basically teaching them that aggressive behavior is the answer. There are studies that have linked physical discipline on children with aggressive behavior developing later in their lives.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;33114512]Did you never stop to think that there may be a reason for that beyond it simply occurring?[/QUOTE] depends i know for sure that the reason isn't not beating the shit our of your kids
Just look at this fine judge, beating a girl over installing a potentially harmless video game on a computer. He looks like a very good judge. [sp]Not[/sp]
Well, let me be the first to say I'm fucking ashamed to live in Texas right now.
[QUOTE=imptastick;33118046] My parents are the greatest people I know and I hope to one day have a child who loves me as much as I love them, that said if my child needs a spanking they will get one.[/QUOTE] you see i'm great and i was spanked so i don't really see why spanking isn't okay.
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