Missouri school says girl, 13, should get a breast reduction
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[QUOTE=NeonpieDFTBA;39306690]Nope. Friend of mine had to get his mum to threaten legal action to make the school deal with it. The punishment: a one day suspension, which is pretty much a day off (afaik he probably did no work or anything).[/QUOTE]
Not even a slap on the hand...
Lukily I never had a problem with bullies. I mean I was picked on, but it only got physical once.
In kindergarten. I didn't even know it was coming. Some kid ran up and punched me dead center on my spine. I just kinda fell forward a step and looked back as the kid was clutching his hand and wincing. Kiiiinda took care of itself.
I knew a girl that had to get breast reduction but that was when she was around 15 or 16... but 13 is a shocker
[QUOTE=The golden;39303828]Typical school. Passing the blame of bullying off onto the student rather than growing a pair of balls and actually dealing with it themselves.
This situation is textbook.[/QUOTE]
This is the norm in Missouri, most kids get in trouble for defending themselves against other kids harassing or attacking them. Gotta love the Midwest.
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[QUOTE=GustavTrapp;39306068]This. When I was in middle school, teachers just turned a blind eye when they saw bullying because they didn't want to get involved. I wonder if things have changed since then despite the rhetoric.[/QUOTE]
Nothing's really changed.
I remember growing up and every school I went to had the same problem, and it was that the schools didn't ever wanna do shit about bullies. No one ever wanted to fucking handle shit with the kids. They loved teaching, but as soon as the kids themselves had a problem with another they turned a blind eye.
Seriously, school authorities can go fuck themselves because it's obvious nothing has changed in the past 10 years or so. I remember middle school clear as day, and this old fucking piece of shit gym teacher literally did nothing when I complained to him about people bothering me. The 100% truth was they were girls but nevertheless this guy didn't give a fuck.
oh fuck now i put myself in a bad mood
[editline]21st January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=GustavTrapp;39306068]This. When I was in middle school, teachers just turned a blind eye when they saw bullying because they didn't want to get involved. I wonder if things have changed since then despite the rhetoric.[/QUOTE]
jesus christ it is scary how we used the same words
[editline]21st January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Persecution;39304069]When I was in high school, I got suspended for a week for breaking this fat fucks face that had been bullying me since I was in the third goddamned grade.
Every year, I went to the councilors, the teachers, and even the fucking principal on a fairly regular basis asking them to do something about this chickenshit, only to have them tell me "HOOOKAY BUDDY WE'LL GET RIGHT ON THAT."
Nope.
Fifth grade, he punched me in the balls so hard I puked, sixth grade, the bell rang and our class was on the upper floors, he shoved me when I was on the last three stairs and shouted "MOVE ALREADY GAWDD" and I went face first into the wall. Couldn't prove he pushed me, so he got away scott free.
In the end of the sixth grade, his dad went to prison or some shit so he moved, and I masturbated heavily to the thought of him being gone; An era of peace and prosperity had arisen.
Six years passed. He appeared in my home room on the first day of junior year. I nearly shit blood.
Three weeks into the semester and the fuck was at it again, except this time being more physically violent and shit: Knocking books out of my hand, "dead legging" me (that crap where they punch your thigh), and at one point nearly running me the fuck over with his goddamned beat up car. My balls were filled to the rim with 5,000 years of pent up rage.
That october, I was sitting with my girlfriend in the lunch room eating breakfast and whatnot, and here comes chickenshit. After a 5 second back-and-forth of "Fuck off." "WHY DONTCHEE MAKE ME, TWIG BWAH," My girlfriend actually got up and told him to fuck off too, to which he shoved her back so hard it knocked her down.. and I honestly don't remember what happened after that, but I was in the school resource officer's room in handcuffs with blood all over me, and I mean all fucking over me, with my hands shaking and hurting worse than anything I had ever experienced.
Fat fuck had a broken zygomatic bone, a bruised larynx, broken nose, two black eyes, and a chipped tooth. and I had actually broken every finger on my left hand and my thumb and index finger on the right.
I was supposed to be expelled for it, because of a "Herp derp 0 tol-rance policy hyuck hyuck," but managed to escape with a week of suspension because I had proven that this chicken shit had been torturing me my entire life and that I had had enough.
And on a lighter note, he never said a single thing to me ever again, Throughout junior and senior year; His nose also looks hilarious now.[/QUOTE]
where is your medal of honor sir
I fucking hate shit like this.
Because GOD FORBID they try to say its the bully's fault.
For how badly school's claim to oppose bullying it sure doesn't seem like it.
One time after getting sexually harassed, my friend nearly got expelled for punching the perpetrator for the reason of sexual harassment.
Also this is bullshit asking a student to get breast reduction surgery.
Actually it's pretty common for girls in young grades to get teased if they have big boobs since most girls are still flat chested at that time.
[QUOTE=DeEz;39306213]Mad props to you. Sadly the only effective way of stopping bullies nowadays is to punch their face in.[/QUOTE]
That's ALWAYS been the only effective way to deal with bullies.
[QUOTE=Persecution;39304069]When I was in high school, I got suspended for a week for breaking this fat fucks face that had been bullying me since I was in the third goddamned grade.
Every year, I went to the councilors, the teachers, and even the fucking principal on a fairly regular basis asking them to do something about this chickenshit, only to have them tell me "HOOOKAY BUDDY WE'LL GET RIGHT ON THAT."[/QUOTE]
I imagine it is obvious to you now, but you are not alone. Neither what happened to you, nor your response to it, are unique.
Considering the damage you did to that kid, I would be surprised if you don't have a black mark on your school file. I suggest you get it checked out before you try to go to university (if that's what you're doing) as I had trouble with that after what I did.
I like how the mother blames god.
When I was in high school I had somebody bring a home made knife to school and threaten to cut my throat, we went to the principal and all they decided to do was tell the kid that I had made a complaint (that went down well with him) Luckily he came from a broken home and ended up being transferred to boarding school.
The school was pretty meh in general, I got suspended once because somebody else broke their computers (and I alerted them about it).
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Good read, good for you.
[QUOTE=Stopper;39306060]Everyone's rating him dumb, but other than the fact that his post had nothing to do with the issue at hand, he is correct.[/QUOTE]
I'm inclined to disagree, I don't have massive boobs and I'm certainly not jealous of girls who do. They sag out of shape before they're even 30, not to mention the back problems they cause.
[QUOTE=Persecution;39304069]-tales of a hero-[/QUOTE]
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I also got bullied immensely throughout my childhood. I contemplated suicide even because of it.
I remember this one time in secondary school, this idiot wouldn't stop shoving leaves into my mouth. One day, I had enough.
Ended up in me assaulting the fucker and punched him severely. Blood everywhere. I got out with nothing, not even a teacher's rant. He was expelled (he had a history of bullying others), and his family despises me. To this day. :v:
ITT: Post your tales of being bullied and retaliation.
[QUOTE=Midas22;39303672]I'll be the judge of that. Lets see 'em.
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people are having a go at him for this but you can't run a story like this without a full body shot (obviously with her clothes on)
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
then again it's not like they'll be horribly out of proportion (the size of her head), just big for her age - nothing to leer in disgust at otherwise the website would have posted one
god, you really can't talk about this without sounding horribly perverse. basically what I'm saying is I'm surprised (and proud) the site only ran face shots considering shitpiles like the mail online push the boundaries of acceptable taste every single day with this kind of thing
[QUOTE=Generic.Monk;39316812]people are having a go at him for this but you can't run a story like this without a full body shot (obviously with her clothes on)
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
then again it's not like they'll be horribly out of proportion (the size of her head), just big for her age - nothing to leer in disgust at otherwise the website would have posted one
god, you really can't talk about this without sounding horribly perverse. basically what I'm saying is I'm surprised (and proud) the site only ran face shots considering shitpiles like the mail online push the boundaries of acceptable taste every single day with this kind of thing[/QUOTE]
She's 13
They're her natural breasts
Whether or not they're actually large is completely irrelevant to the story
Reading all of these posts about teachers turning a blind eye, I suddenly appreciate being born in Great Canadia that much more. Teachers never take shit from anyone, the only "form" of bullying that really happens is exclusion, but that's everywhere.
they say she should get a breast reduction surgery, but those kinds of procedures involve spending money that should not be spent as a requirement, only as a want. They're pretty much saying "you gotta get your daughter a $10 000 procedure in order for her to attend school." What kind of bullshit is that?
she should pull her daughter out of there just because of the amount of idiocy that is going on there.
[QUOTE=ducklingqt;39304121]Actually yeah, you are supposed to be, you're supposed to be 17 (in a perfect world) in 12th grade, 11th is 16, 10=15, 9=14, 8=13, 7=12, 6=11, 5=10, 4=9, 3=8, 2=7, 1=6, K=5
I think that's right, that isn't how it worked for me (I was perpetually a year older than that list), but she's 2 years older, either she's actually just a year older and her birthday is where in the year she'd become a year older, then she's only really a year older, not indicative of anything, but if she's 2 years older then she probably got held back at least once, but that doesn't really mean anything, everyone goes through shit, and some people just can't do school. Regardless it's very unfortunate that she gets bullied, but it's good that something can be done.[/QUOTE]
or maybe she re-did a year because she did badly in the tests because she is dumb?
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Zeke129;39318454]She's 13
They're her natural breasts
Whether or not they're actually large is completely irrelevant to the story[/QUOTE]
the school can't exactly control the teenagers mocking her though, although it's pretty extreme to reach for the knife straight away
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