• Guy's girlfriend cheated on him, wants to get back together, he replies with memes.
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[QUOTE=IceWarrior98;45029634]I thought the same thing at first. But now this guy is just being a huge douche bag.[/QUOTE] He wouldn't have to be if she got it through her thick skull that he wants nothing to do with her anymore :v:
[QUOTE=IceWarrior98;45029634]I thought the same thing at first. But now this guy is just being a huge douche bag.[/QUOTE] I think he's a douchebag because he is. But I also think that cheating is one of the most cruel things you can do to a person (you know what I mean, exclude the obvious shit like murder or whatever) and it's even worse because you're doing it to the person you're supposed to care about more than anyone else. He's a fucking douche, but she's right there with him and I'm personally not too keen on taking her side.
It's like getting mad at someone for salting Gail the snail.
[QUOTE=l337k1ll4;45029660]I think he's a douchebag because he is. But I also think that cheating is one of the most cruel things you can do to a person (you know what I mean, exclude the obvious shit like murder or whatever) and it's even worse because you're doing it to the person you're supposed to care about more than anyone else. He's a fucking douche, but she's right there with him and I'm personally not too keen on taking her side.[/QUOTE] She's not right there with him, she's a hundred levels lower.
[QUOTE=l337k1ll4;45029660]I think he's a douchebag because he is. But I also think that cheating is one of the most cruel things you can do to a person (you know what I mean, exclude the obvious shit like murder or whatever) and it's even worse because you're doing it to the person you're supposed to care about more than anyone else. He's a fucking douche, but she's right there with him and I'm personally not too keen on taking her side.[/QUOTE] I'm probably going to get a lot of boxes, along with responses like "oh yeah because you've never had a girlfriend," but I don't care. I don't get why cheating is as big of a deal as it is. I don't get this obsession people seem to have with sex. Sex is not the only reason you have a relationship (and if it is, you should get a real relationship). You have a relationship because you love someone, and having sex with someone else does not mean you don't love someone. And yes, cheating on someone can be a mistake, especially with teenagers. Teenagers aren't known for their "thinking through their actions" skills, so when they have sex with someone else, they're not thinking "I'm betraying their trust." And sure, mistake or not, it's not a very nice thing to do, but saying it's the worst thing you can do to someone is overstating it a ton. It's a relationship. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Cheating on someone doesn't make the cheater scum. Being cheated on does not give you a license to be an asshole to them. Just because someone cheats on you does not mean they don't love you.
Only Facepunch could fill up five pages talking about something this dumb.
[QUOTE=supersnail11;45029739]I'm probably going to get a lot of boxes, along with responses like "oh yeah because you've never had a girlfriend," but I don't care. I don't get why cheating is as big of a deal as it is. I don't get this obsession people seem to have with sex. Sex is not the only reason you have a relationship (and if it is, you should get a real relationship). You have a relationship because you love someone, and having sex with someone else does not mean you don't love someone. And yes, cheating on someone can be a mistake, especially with teenagers. Teenagers aren't known for their "thinking through their actions" skills, so when they have sex with someone else, they're not thinking "I'm betraying their trust." And sure, mistake or not, it's not a very nice thing to do, but saying it's the worst thing you can do to someone is overstating it a ton. It's a relationship. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Cheating on someone doesn't make the cheater scum. Being cheated on does not give you a license to be an asshole to them. Just because someone cheats on you does not mean they don't love you.[/QUOTE] cheating is looked down upon because of the potential for psychological harm as well as the increase in disease transmission. just because it was a mistake does not mean people won't be hurt physically and psychologically. imagine the girl you have been dating for a year cheats on you and you end up with AIDS or herpes or hep C.
[QUOTE=omggrass;45029850]cheating is looked down upon because of the potential for psychological harm as well as the increase in disease transmission. just because it was a mistake does not mean people won't be hurt physically and psychologically. imagine the girl you have been dating for a year cheats on you and you end up with AIDS or herpes or hep C.[/QUOTE] How does being in a relationship make it more likely to spread STDs if you cheat? Shouldn't the same apply to people who aren't in relationships who just have sex with tons of people? Shouldn't we be looking down on people who have sex with tons of people if that were the case (which we shouldn't)? Also, it only causes psychological harm if we maintain this idea that cheating is the worst thing you can do to a person. Being cheated on isn't inherently psychologically damaging; it only becomes so if you focus on it.
[QUOTE=supersnail11;45029739]I'm probably going to get a lot of boxes, along with responses like "oh yeah because you've never had a girlfriend," but I don't care. I don't get why cheating is as big of a deal as it is. I don't get this obsession people seem to have with sex. Sex is not the only reason you have a relationship (and if it is, you should get a real relationship). You have a relationship because you love someone, and having sex with someone else does not mean you don't love someone. And yes, cheating on someone can be a mistake, especially with teenagers. Teenagers aren't known for their "thinking through their actions" skills, so when they have sex with someone else, they're not thinking "I'm betraying their trust." And sure, mistake or not, it's not a very nice thing to do, but saying it's the worst thing you can do to someone is overstating it a ton. It's a relationship. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Cheating on someone doesn't make the cheater scum. Being cheated on does not give you a license to be an asshole to them. Just because someone cheats on you does not mean they don't love you.[/QUOTE] Yeah, you're right sex=/=love, but that doesn't make it any less hurtful. That was the reasoning why I didn't break up with my girlfriend at the time, but it didn't make it less shitty to experience. Rationalizing stuff is great and all, but as you said yourself that's not how people act and feel.
For the record, people, this is not how healthy couples are supposed to talk to each other. This is bad communication.
ITT people who have never been in relationships talk about how cheating isn't that bad
[QUOTE=C0linSSX;45030048]ITT people who have never been in relationships talk about how cheating isn't that bad[/QUOTE] who you callin never been in a relationship [editline]7th June 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=GoDong-DK;45030028]Yeah, you're right sex=/=love, but that doesn't make it any less hurtful. That was the reasoning why I didn't break up with my girlfriend at the time, but it didn't make it less shitty to experience. Rationalizing stuff is great and all, but as you said yourself that's not how people act and feel.[/QUOTE] But we're not the ones being cheated on, so we should be able to act and judge rationally.
People cheat for various reasons, whatever they are this type of stuff should stay between the related parties. Yes I know the pain involved and how it can be hard to bottle it up. But what this guy is doing is fucking shameful. Two wrongs don't make a right. Also fuck all these news outlets giving this guy attention and pretty much making bullying okay to do.
[QUOTE=supersnail11;45029980]How does being in a relationship make it more likely to spread STDs if you cheat? Shouldn't the same apply to people who aren't in relationships who just have sex with tons of people? Shouldn't we be looking down on people who have sex with tons of people if that were the case (which we shouldn't)? Also, it only causes psychological harm if we maintain this idea that cheating is the worst thing you can do to a person. Being cheated on isn't inherently psychologically damaging; it only becomes so if you focus on it.[/QUOTE] The whole idea behind monogamy is you're with one person. That's the defining principle. If she doesn't want that relationship and can't trust herself to stick to that principle, maybe it logically follows she shouldnt keep trying to pursue that relationship. You might be one of those people that thinks polygamy is the greatest thing for the human race or whatever, but a lot of people don't. You dont get to play both sides of the fence, you can't have all the sex with random strangers and then expect your monogamous boyfriend to catch your silly ass when the people who you're cheating on him with don't want anything more to do with you than sex. She broke his trust, and he can't trust her anymore, nor is he under any obligation to do so. Even if he did get back together with her, its always going to be in the back of his mind that she might cheat again, only this time conceal her activities a bit better. Its very simple and you don't seem to get it: if you don't like monogamy, then stop trying to be in relationships with monogamous people. You can't have it both ways and then say some silly shit like "omg but its about love not sex!!".
[QUOTE=supersnail11;45029739]I'm probably going to get a lot of boxes, along with responses like "oh yeah because you've never had a girlfriend," but I don't care. I don't get why cheating is as big of a deal as it is. I don't get this obsession people seem to have with sex. Sex is not the only reason you have a relationship (and if it is, you should get a real relationship). You have a relationship because you love someone, and having sex with someone else does not mean you don't love someone. And yes, cheating on someone can be a mistake, especially with teenagers. Teenagers aren't known for their "thinking through their actions" skills, so when they have sex with someone else, they're not thinking "I'm betraying their trust." And sure, mistake or not, it's not a very nice thing to do, but saying it's the worst thing you can do to someone is overstating it a ton. It's a relationship. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Cheating on someone doesn't make the cheater scum. Being cheated on does not give you a license to be an asshole to them. Just because someone cheats on you does not mean they don't love you.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE]Just because someone cheats on you does not mean they don't love you.[/QUOTE] Because someone cheats you, and we're not talking about 15 year old teenagers, it means he or she doesn't love you -IE doesn't trust you/feel you are what he or she needs-. You don't cheat someone who you love. Period. It's easy as that. Love or a PROPER relantionship is a mutual assurance of trust and devotion. If you are telling someone he or she is the one and then you are going out with someone else without the significat other knowing, you are being a backstabbing son of a bitch. And yes, it hurts, it hurts like a fucking bitch, and I've seen it on my friends, so yes, cheating makes you a motherfucker.
[QUOTE=supersnail11;45029739]Teenagers aren't known for their "thinking through their actions" skills, so when they have sex with someone else, they're not thinking "I'm betraying their trust."[/QUOTE] If someone doesn't understand that cheating is bad, they aren't mature enough to be in a relationship.
Cheating is bad but you can certainly understand why she did it. This guy has proven to be a huge egotistical, attention seeking, immature jackass. They deserve each other.
[QUOTE=Raptors!;45030386]If someone doesn't understand that cheating is bad, they aren't mature enough to be in a relationship.[/QUOTE] 90% of relationships in high school involve one or more immature parties. But I meant that they haven't thought what they're doing through, not that they don't know in principle that it's bad.
[QUOTE=supersnail11;45029739]I'm probably going to get a lot of boxes, along with responses like "oh yeah because you've never had a girlfriend," but I don't care. I don't get why cheating is as big of a deal as it is. I don't get this obsession people seem to have with sex. Sex is not the only reason you have a relationship (and if it is, you should get a real relationship). You have a relationship because you love someone, and having sex with someone else does not mean you don't love someone. And yes, cheating on someone can be a mistake, especially with teenagers. Teenagers aren't known for their "thinking through their actions" skills, so when they have sex with someone else, they're not thinking "I'm betraying their trust." And sure, mistake or not, it's not a very nice thing to do, but saying it's the worst thing you can do to someone is overstating it a ton. It's a relationship. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Cheating on someone doesn't make the cheater scum. Being cheated on does not give you a license to be an asshole to them. Just because someone cheats on you does not mean they don't love you.[/QUOTE] What the fuck does teenagers have to do with this? Its literally irrelevant other than you trying to push your views onto others by injecting ridiculous comparisons. Secondly, teenagers aren't "known for their thinking through their actions" skills because when you say shit like this, you persist an environment where teeangers are constantly infantilized to the point where they never have to be or learn to be responsible for their actions. This is a problem in modern western society, where we have an increasing populace of "adult children", because of THAT mindset. It wasn't all that long ago that people were leaving home by 16-18, and having careers and families by their early to mid 20s. Hardly the kind of people who don't understand basic cause and effect, or the idea of trust. For fucks sake, teeangers have fought in every war you care to name.
[QUOTE=Wii60;45026772][video=youtube;CnHpCFpLxTg]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnHpCFpLxTg[/video][/QUOTE] [I]What in the actual fuck[/I]
This made it on CNN? Then again, CNN is horrible. The guy may be a dick, but honestly I'd be the same way somewhat. I would keep it private, but hell, I'd let her fucking have it. Cheating is one of the worst things someone can do to you in a relationship, it makes you feel like shit, makes you feel unworthy, etc.
As someone that's been cheating on I find this hilarious. Maybe it's blown up a bit too much but the texts themselves are hilarious to me. [editline]7th June 2014[/editline] "It was just one guy" Fuck off.
So...they just allow this girl to be humiliated and berated for the world to see, and this is ok? What the fuck kind of world do I live in? I'm not saying the girl is in the right for cheating, but neither is this guy for being the cock munching douche he is. There are better ways to handle a break up i'm sure, this isn't one of them. The fact that he's gotten famous and shit for it fucking pisses me off.
One is a cheating bastard The other manages to be bottom tier of annoying cunt with "lol look at me i'm like the very internet sensation haha!"
[QUOTE=Richardroth;45031662]So...they just allow this girl to be humiliated and berated for the world to see, and this is ok? What the fuck kind of world do I live in? I'm not saying the girl is in the right for cheating, but neither is this guy for being the cock munching douche he is. There are better ways to handle a break up i'm sure, this isn't one of them. The fact that he's gotten famous and shit for it fucking pisses me off.[/QUOTE] We as a society allow for her to be humiliated because of what she did, and we do not like to have people like that around us because we feel as though they can't be trusted. And the fact that she continued to try crawling back into his lap just to be kicked a crossed the room was pretty pathetic of her
[QUOTE=AJ10017;45031711]We as a society allow for her to be humiliated because of what she did, and we do not like to have people like that around us because we feel as though they can't be trusted. And the fact that she continued to try crawling back into his lap just to be kicked a crossed the room was pretty pathetic of her[/QUOTE] And? Why make it public? Just tell her to fuck off and be done with it. The way he handled it was just stupid and immature.
Guys. [I]Who cares.[/I]
[QUOTE=Blockhead;45024945]Well if this is actually legit, saying "I want to murder your family" isn't exactly the smartest thing to do.[/QUOTE] You should never say this without an insanity wolf meme behind it.
I was laughing my ass off and saying "good on him" until he said "murder your family." That shit's too far, man. I know finding out some bitch cheated on you can leave you in a messed-up state, but really?
'No guy has ever treated me as good, you're the sweetest' So why'd ya cheat, bitch
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