OP, use this [img]http://02d9656.netsoljsp.com/SarcMark/images/graphics/rk.png[/img]
A guy who can do gay stuff and look like a homosexual whilst being confident about his heterosexuality (READ: Not homophobic) = the ultimate form of manliness/heterosexuality.
Aspergers is just a way for people to give up responsibility for a social life. And it's a great excuse if something isn't going well in your life. In short: Socialize, communicate, GO OUTSIDE.